Volume 13 Number 59 Produced: Wed Jun 15 17:21:41 1994 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: `Aguno$h [deserted wives] [Lon Eisenberg] Advice on a bracha at the wedding of a Conservative Convert [Jules Reichel] Alcohol and drugs [Arnie Kuzmack] Broken Noses (2) [Nathan Katz, Shalom Krischer] Halakhic Legitimacy of Academic Research [Jeff Woolf] Lashon Harah [Michael Broyde] request for advice [Winston Weilheimer] Seeking Advice [Jeff Korbman] Sheva Berachot and conservative conversion [Reuven Cohn] What "rov" means [Mitchel Berger] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: eisenbrg%<milcse@...> (Lon Eisenberg) Date: Sun, 12 Jun 1994 01:50:23 -0400 Subject: `Aguno$h [deserted wives] Transliteration used: ' b g d h w z x t y k l m n s ` p c q r sh $ (If any of b,g,d,k,f,$ has no daghesh, it is followd by 'h') To avoid this problem, why has the following not been instituted? When a couple gets married, at the same time that the ketubbah is given, a "get" [writ of divorce] should be given with the following statement: This will be your "get" after I leave and don't return or contact you (by mail or phone) for X months. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <JPREICHEL@...> (Jules Reichel) Date: Fri, 10 Jun 1994 13:24:22 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Advice on a bracha at the wedding of a Conservative Convert Tsiel should remember that he was not asked an halachic inquiry. Don't give a ruling. If you believe that the bracha is valid halacha, and you know in this case that it is, then surely say it. "Hasten to perform the easiest mitzvah". These people are your friends. Jules ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Arnie Kuzmack <kuzmack@...> Date: Sat, 11 Jun 1994 22:07:05 -0400 Subject: Alcohol and drugs Rabbi Freundel wrote: > There is no alcohol culture comparable to the drug culture. No one things > it gives one a new and better perspective on reality to get drunk. Everyone > understands that someone who needs a drink to get comfortable every time he > goes to a party has a problem. Substitute joint for drink and some people > think its cool. There certainly is an alcohol culture. It is quite different from the 1960's "counterculture" associated with marijuana and hallucinogens but is similar to the drug culture of heroin and cocaine users in inner cities in the US. It involves people, mostly men, who spend most of their free time in bars drinking and sharing a social life of sorts with others who do the same. It is frequently depicted in literature and movies. See, for example, Eugene O'Neill's "Long Days Journey Into Night" or the movie "Ironweed" (if I remember the name correctly). Arnie Kuzmack <kuzmack@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Nathan Katz <NKATZ@...> Date: Fri, 10 Jun 1994 15:02:19 -0400 Subject: Broken Noses I think Shmuel Weinberg may be right about noses broken off Roman statues. When Muslims conquered then-Buddhist Afghanistan, they most often cut the faces off statues, often destroyed statues utterly, and sometimes cut off the nose. --Nathan Katz (FIU-Miami/ <KATZN@...> ) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shalom Krischer <PGMSRK@...> Date: Fri, 10 Jun 1994 15:43:17 -0400 Subject: Re: Broken Noses On Thu, 2 Jun 1994 00:41:42 -0400 Shmuel Weidberg said: >As an aside: I was in the Metropolitan Museum of Art (in NY) and noticed >all the statues without noses. The standard explanation given for this >is that noses are delicate and over time they are the most likely part >to break off. It occurred to me that perhaps all these statues were >avodah zorahs and the noses were broken off to nullify them. This would >fit in even better with the Roman statues as it is well known that there >was a period of time when it was very popular for Romans to convert to >Judaism. As a result before they converted they broke all their idols. >What do you think? Interesting thought! Personally, I prefer the standard explanation. If these romans (or anyone else, for that matter) had converted, I would expect them to turn any avodah zara into gravel! We are not permitted to have any Hanahah (sp?) (Pleasure) from avoda zarut, and even breaking off their noses would not "Nullify" that prohibition! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <F12043@...> (Jeff Woolf) Date: Wed, 8 Jun 1994 09:38:37 -0400 Subject: Halakhic Legitimacy of Academic Research I've been following the intense discussion over the Halakhic legitimacy of academic research with much fascination, but needed alot of time to pull my thoughts together. So while the subject may have retired to the background, I'd still like to add my opinion to those already expressed. I take my view on the subject from Maimonides. I firmly believe that not only is the act of bringing the full weight of knowledge to bear on the study of Torah allowed, it is essential. Indeed, without it the act of Talmud Torah is lacking a serious component. Academic study of Judaism, when accompanied by an a priori commitment to Shmirat Mitzvot and Yirat Shamayim (not in that order), only enhances Talmud Torah. Indeed, in many ways true, accurate Talmud Torah is impossible without it (and I speak as a member of a Talmud Department who specializes in the History of Halakha and Halakhic Literature). I am not here trying to throw stones at other visions of Torah, only giving my own. As for Hayyim Hendeles' hysterical comment about 'Publish or Perish'....Well, he only shows how little he knows about academia. As it happens, Israel is far more extreme in is academic demands to publish than universities in the US and Canada. That does not mean academics are sloppy, dishonest or worse. It means they work hard, put out tons of ideas and understand that their ideas will be subject to ongoing development and Peer Review, all in an attempt to reach truth. Can scholarship be misused? Sure. But so can learning (as when a maggid shiur comes in unprepared or publishes an article in an area in which few are knowledgeable). Critical Scholarship undertaken by committed religious people whose observance and traditional learning is a given fact constitutes a terrible threat to those who dismiss academia as heretical or worse (Much as Modern Orthodoxy threatens the Haredi World far more than the secular Jewish World does). Thus, there is special venom in the seemingly innocent (though clearly agenda based) comment which started this thread. At the same time, the de facto alliance between Haredi Research Institutes (such as Machon Yerushalayim) and academia, shows that in responsible Haredi circles the legitimacy of our enterprise is an establi shed fact. Jeffrey R. Woolf Department of Talmud Bar Ilan University ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Broyde <RELMB@...> Date: Sun, 12 Jun 1994 00:06:49 -0400 Subject: Re: Lashon Harah One of the writers concerning the rules of lashon hara implied that it was never permissible to repeat things about a person that others need to know unless the person recounting them knows them to be true. To the best of my knowlegde, there is no requirement of knowledge of truthfullness to repeat information that a person is entitled to know; relaible heresay may be repeated; see Cheftz Chaim Lashon Hara 10:1-17 and REchelut 9:1-18 Indeed, this can be clearly seen from niddah 61a and the incidenct concerning Gedalya. Of course, all the other conditions needed to repeat such information must be presnt (They are, no exageration, sincere motivation, least damaging means, no unneeded repetition, and serious contemplation.) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <TAXRELIEF@...> (Winston Weilheimer) Date: Tue, 7 Jun 1994 19:58:37 -0400 Subject: Re: request for advice I would suggest that you go to your friend and have an open discussion with him stating that you appreciate the honor being bestowed on you but for the following reasons you are unable to accept *but* that you do resprect his future wife for what she has done. It is just that *you* can not perform the bracha without violating your convictions and that you would hope that he would understand and respect your feelings as a friend. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jeff Korbman <KORBMANJ@...> Date: Mon, 6 Jun 1994 14:02:24 -0400 Subject: Re: Seeking Advice Yes sir e Bob, there's nothing like a good wedding to bring out every point of tension and anxiety among friends and family (but as long as they serve those little hot dogs it's all o.k.) Your concern is very real, saying a bracha l'vatolah ain't no joke. I'm not sure if you asked your rabbi or not yet what to do (as this is a classic type of pulpit rabbi question) but here's an option: You really cherish your friendship. You're happy for him (?) and would love to participate in the wedding.......could you give the toast(sp?) during the meal? In other words, can you find a secular role in the wedding that would come across as genuine interest in participating while avoiding the touchy religious stuff that might offend them. I'm assuming that he knows that you know Hebrew, so you can't bluff that; and I also assume that if simply asked to be a witness to the State marriage license he would pick up on your reluctancy about the whole matter. Personally, I've been in similar situaions and have come to belive that personal (religious) integrity is what is most important. After all, you have to be able to sleep with yourself at night and, conversely, if he's a true friend, he should be able to understand and respect that - he may not agree (obviously), but as a friend, you deserve that respect. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Reuven Cohn <ReuvenC@...> Date: Mon, 6 Jun 1994 23:19:02 -0400 Subject: Sheva Berachot and conservative conversion Tsiel Ohayon raises a question about a woman who was converted by a conservative rabbi. He assumes that this conversion has no halachic validity, which leads him to a specific question about reciting 'sheva berachot.' I have not looked into sources that would shed light on the issue of conservative conversions. What I would like to bring to the discussion is a vivid memory that I have from my childhood. It was one of numerous discussions that my late father would have with Rav Soloveitchik as they walked home from shul every shabbos, often with several other people from shul, including our longtime teacher at Maimonides, Rabbi Wohlgemuth, yibadel le'chaim. The Rov was always engaging, witty, relaxed during those walks. The particular phrase that stuck in my mind from one particular conversation was the Rov saying that there was no question in his mind that conversions done by conservative rabbis were valid from a halachik point of view. The reason that this incident stands out in my mind is because of the continuation of the Rov's statement that he said so dramatically that I can still hear his intonation-- "but I will never allow them to be accepted in Israel." I never inquired as to what the Rov meant by this statement. I was after all just a kid tagging along. As I remembered this scene over the years, I have assumed that the Rov meant that if a conservative rabbi follows the requirements of a halachic conversion, it would be a valid conversion, but that the Rov would not allow his own view on this matter to be used in the political battle in Israel to legitimize a conservative rabbinate. I appreciate that a memory of a discussion in which I was merely a kid in awe of his elders cannot be the last word, but I think that it may have some relevence to the issue. Reuven Cohn ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mitchel Berger <aishdas@...> Date: Sun, 12 Jun 1994 21:56:27 -0400 Subject: What "rov" means Dr Moshe Koppel writes: > Perhaps this is what Rav Shimon Shkop means (beginning shaar gimel) when he > says that rik is only a hakhra'a (second-order decision method) since > the other result is regarded as possible, whereas rlk is a birur (means > of ascertaining the facts) since once it becomes an accepted 'law' it is > presumed to always hold. Rl"k is not an accepted law, since that's to be the role of chazakah. Chazakah disvarah, for example ein adam chotei vilo lo a person doesn't sin with nother to gain for it for himself describes a law of human nature. R. Dovid Lifshitz (Chulin, shi'ur 22, part 1) distinguishes between the two types of rov: ... by ruba d'laisa kaman there is no evidence (mitzi'us) that is outside of the majority, it is only reason. It seems that R. Shimon Shkop's student defines a ri"k as one that also has evidence to the contrary, and rl"k doesn't. > As for 'Boolean weight' the definition is as follows: > Let B(p1,p2,...,pn) be a Boolean function in the propositions p1,..,pn. > Suppose that the full disjunctive normal form of B includes exactly m > disjuncts. As I pointed out to Moshe in private e-mail, disjunctive normal form - or any normalization - can only be done if our logic system has an algebra that offers every expression an equivalent normalization. Since, as I wrote earlier, I don't think the system allows for distribution, I don't think we can normalize everything. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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