Volume 16 Number 32 Produced: Wed Nov 2 21:06:27 1994 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Lot & the "Orthodox Rabbi" of a Conservative Shul [Norman Tuttle] Modern Orthodox [Yehuda Harper] Rav Shlomo Carlebach TZ"L [Steven Goldstein] Talmudic Induction ["Dr. Sheldon Z. Meth"] Wifebeating and the Koran [<pviswana@...>] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ntuttle@...> (Norman Tuttle) Date: Tue, 1 Nov 94 17:57:22 -0500 Subject: Lot & the "Orthodox Rabbi" of a Conservative Shul One of the mail-jewish members indicated that a position was open for a Conservative synagogue, and that an Orthodox Rabbi would be welcome to apply for the position. Other posters indicated that there might be Heterim (permissible reasons or rulings) for an Orthodox individual to accept such a position or that doing this was a positive thing. Whether or not such Heterim exist, and I would be loath to follow them had I the erudition/ experience/Smicha to be called "Rabbi", it is my opinion that any individual who wishes to keep the title of "Orthodox Rabbi" cannot consistently preside as spiritual leader of any non-Orthodox congregation and maintain that title. While this opinion is based more on ethical/logical premises than clear Pesukim from the Torah, I believe that a comparison with the Mussar-based narrative section of the Torah will similarly show that an individual following the "Torah way" will come to similar conclusions. In Parashat Vayera, we see Lot settled comfortably in Sodom after having separated from Abraham. Not only that, but the Midrash (echoed by Rashi) tells us that he had just that morning been appointed judge of Sodom, the morning when Sodom was doomed for destruction. Let's take a moment here to see the significance of this appointment: Sodom had reversed the function of the court system so that its purpose was to justify the social and moral depravity of the populace. What did Lot wish to achieve by being a justice, possibly to raise the moral level by judging in an enlightened manner (assuming he was on a higher level than the rest of the populace)? How did he achieve the merit of receiving this appointment (in the minds of the Sodomites who were willing to appoint him)? The ultimate test is how he would deal with a crisis situation in which his ideals are directly in conflict with those of the populace of Sodom which he is supposed to represent, and how they react to his resolution. Lot is faced with the crisis at the beginning of his judicial career, in which he provides hospitality for some strangers (who just happen to be angels) in direct opposition to Sodom's moral system. While Lot remains true to his ideals, protecting the strangers and even offering "replacements" for the men who are under his custody (the act of offering his daughters to the men of Sodom is not correct, and Lot is punished for it later when his daughters commit incest with him), the response of the Sodomites is predictably anti-Lot. They consider his actions as a ruling, and against the prevalent laws of Sodom! With their command to "Move away" they show that they no longer respect Lot's property rights. It is certain that without the Divine intervention of destroying Sodom, they would have fired him from his job as judge (and who knows what else?)! While we cannot brand Conservative Judaism as a complete "Sodom", the analogy of an Orthodox rabbi stepping into hostile territory by becoming a "judge" in a Conservative pulpit still applies, coming into an atmosphere where "dynamic halacha" as interpreted by the Conservative rabbinate is the modus operandi, and the congregation is expecting to see its application to the environment of the Shul. Where, in such an adverse environment, is there room for the idealism of the Orthodox Rabbi to be manifested? If the rabbi gave his opposition to driving on Shabbat in a speech to the congregation (in which he included driving to Shul) or placed a Mechitza in the midst of the congregation, what sooner way to be out of a job! In his personal life, he might be an Orthodox individual, with some exceptions, but I would not consider such a person an Orthodox Rabbi. (Assuming you are Orthodox) Could you imagine asking a Rabbi whether you can attend his Shul? What answer would this "Rabbi" give? As far as a poster who attributes his present Frumkeit to the "Orthodox Rabbi" of his Conservative Shul, I would tend to believe that if not for the existence of such a rabbi, he would have still become Frum some other way. H-Shem always provides a Shaliach (messenger) for those who are interested in being in His Service. Rabbi Samson Rafael Hirsch held that we must not bring the religion down to the level of the people, but bring the people up to the level of the religion. He took steps to create a separate Kehila (congregation/community) rather than compromise on religious issues. How can we compromise on Shabat for which nonobservance is tantamount to idolatry, by paying lip service to a dynamic Halacha which ignores the importance of Sabbath observance over the synagogue (Lev. 19:30 "Et Shabtotai Tishmoru UMikdashi Tira'u...")? How can an Orthodox individual compromise himself on the Mechitza when we feel that separation of the sexes is required at solemn occasions such as communal prayer? Anybody Orthodox looking for a Heter to officiate at a Conservative synagogue must question his motivations, particularly monetary (since Conservative shuls tend to bring in more money for the Rabbi than Orthodox) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yehuda Harper <jrh@...> Date: Wed, 2 Nov 1994 14:45:51 -0600 (CST) Subject: Modern Orthodox I saw Aleeza Berger's post about modern orthodox and agree with her that defining the difference between centerist and modern will help define modern. Here in Houston, there are two ashkenazic shuls (besides Chabad) that seem to me to be very good for comparision. One shul, UOS, considers itself modern. The attitude of the shul to frumkeit is "do we really have to do this? What is the minimum requirement?" The mechitza at the shul is at the minimum height (around 40 inches) and is made of plexiglass. The rabbi actively discourages people from keeping glatt kosher, insists that all hechshers are acceptable, and generally goes by the most liberal opinion possible. If something is acceptable b'd'eved, its usually done all the time. The attitude of the rabbi and, therefore, the shul in general is very cosmopolitan. Congregants who don't go to college are sort of frowned upon. The other shul, Young Israel, is more of the YU centerist type of shul. Most of the people keep glatt kosher, the mechitza is about 4 1/2 feet tall, and the people range from very liberal to black hat in practice. However, everyone is accepted for the path they choose to frumkeit. There's neither encouragement nor discouragement of chumrahs. Some people go to college and some people go on to yeshiva after high school without college. Whatever fulfills them spirtually. And the attitude toward the secular world, while not cosmopolitan, is accepting. I'm not sure what modern was originally intended to be; but it seems to me that centerist attiude that I find at my Young Israel is probably more in line with what modern may have been in the past. Yehuda Harper <jrh@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Steven Goldstein <steven_goldstein@...> Date: Wed, 02 Nov 94 10:11:27 EST Subject: Rav Shlomo Carlebach TZ"L Moshe Koppel is right, everyone should be commenting on their personal encounters with and feelings for Shlomo (it's definitely more uplifting then the wife-beating discourse going on). My feeling always was that Shlomo was one of the hidden Lamed Vav Tzaddikim. He brought so many back to yiddeshkeit, probably more then any baal tshuva movement in our history. I saw Shlomo a week before he was niftar at a shiur in my town. He was a huge anav, but when pressed he discussed some of the work he had done through the years with baalei tshuva. One anecdote he related was that he was very proud of someone he had been mekarev, many years before. This man became such a great lamdan and eventually a Rosh Yeshiva. Shlomo said that the man became so great, he even refused to talk anymore to Shlomo. But it never bothered him, because Shlomo was so secure in his own right that he understood. Steve ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: "Dr. Sheldon Z. Meth" <METH@...> Date: Wed, 2 Nov 1994 10:56:45 -0500 (EST) Subject: Talmudic Induction In m-j 16:27, Dr. Sam Juni responds to Sharon Hollander's request for examples in the Gemara of inductive proofs. His second example is "an ox who gores three times 'graduates' to higher payment ratios." The Gemara in Baba Kama discusses that the three-time chazaka is restricted to the type of incident triplicated, e. g., an ox which gores three oxen in a row is a Mu'ad [three-time loser] only for oxen, while if it gores a goat, a sheep, and an ox, it is a Mu'ad for all animals [I believe it may even be restricted to only domestic animals]. The Gemara then asks an interesting question: Suppose an ox gores the following, in order: a sheep, a goat, an ox, an ox, an ox. If it gores a goat next, is it a Tam [first or second time offender] or a Mu'ad? Do we say that the first three incidents have established it as a Mu'ad for ALL animals: the first ox gored is attached to those first three, and the second and third ox, start a new trend which is not extablished yet? Or, do we look at the last three incidents, which are all oxen, thus establishing the offending ox as a Mu'ad only for oxen, and the owner only pays Chatzi Nezek [half of the damages] to the last goat? The question is unresolved in the Gemara [teiku]. I leave it to the reader to draw conclusions about inductive proofs from this sugya. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Meylekh Viswanath (<pviswana@...>) Date: Tue, 1 Nov 1994 09:37:01 EST5EDT Subject: Wifebeating and the Koran "Ezra Dabbah" <ny001134@...> says: > Allow me to quote the following: > Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior > to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. > Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has > guarded them. As for those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish > them and send them to beds apart and beat them. Then if they obey you, > take no further action against them. God is high, supreme. > > The preceding passage is from the koran chapter women 4:34. > I can only thank Hashem that our Torah approach towards our wives is > light years ahead of everyone else. I think Ezra's posting is unwarranted. I would not have posted Koranic exegesis on mj, because it is irrelevant, but since it has been brought up, I have two comments: 1) I presume that we follow the Torah because God gave it to us; that we think the Torah's commandments to be lofty because they are God's commandments. Or do we perhaps subject the Torah to some other yardstick and decide whether it is good or better than the Koran? One _may_ argue (I know not everyone on mj will accept such an argument) that there are matters not referred to in Torah, where one may/must use one's conscience, i.e. there is an ethical component that is not (explicit) in Torah. However, this is not the same as the implicit yardstick that Ezra uses. 2) We know that the (seeming) literal translation into English of khumash can be misleading. Everybody knows the example of 'an eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth.' If so, why conclude that a literal translation from Arabic into English is correct? Here's another translation of the same verse, by A. Yusuf Ali of Lahore, Pakistan: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because God has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what God would have them guard.(*) As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first),(**) (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance).(***) A. Yusuf Ali provides the following explanations based on traditional Koranic commentaries called tafsirs, and muslim legal works: (*) Or the sentence may be rendered: "and protect (the husband's interests) in his absence, as God has protected them." If we take the rendering as in the text, the meaning is: the good wife is obedient and harmonious in her husband's presence, and in his absence guards his reputation and property and her own virtue, as ordained by God. If we take the rendering as in the note, we reach the same result in a different way: the good wife, in her husband's absence, remembering how God has given her a sheltered position, does everything to justify that position by guarding her own virtue and his reputation and property. (**) In case of family jars (that's what the text says; it's obviously a misprint, but I can't figure out what it should be; my note) four steps are mentioned, to be taken in that order: (1) perhaps verbal advice or admonition may be sufficient; (2) if not, sex relations may be suspended; (3) if this is not sufficient, some slight physical correction may be administeerd, but Imam Shafi'i (he was the head of one of the four major islamic legal schools of thought; my note) considers this inadvisable, though permissible, and all authorities are unanimous in deprecating any sort of cruelty, even of the nagging kind, as mentioned in teh next clasue; (4) if all this fails, a family council is recommended in 4-35 below. (***) Temper, nagging, sarcasm, speaking at each other in other people's presence, reverting to past faults which should be forgiven and forgotten,--all this is forbidden. And the reason given is characteristic of Islam. You must live all your life as in the presence of God, who is high above us, but who watches over us. How petty and contemptible will our little squabbles appear in His presence. It does not seem to me that this viewpoint differs so much from certain viewpoints espoused in the Talmud and in Jewish law (at least according to some people's reading). So, if one wants to denigrate other people and their religion, let them make a proper study of it, especially a religion that was declared by the Rambam to not be avodah zarah. Meylekh Viswanath Graduate School of Management, 92 New St, Newark NJ 07102 Tel: (201) 648-5899 Fax: (201) 648-1233 email: <pviswana@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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