Volume 17 Number 61 Produced: Fri Dec 30 1:38:02 1994 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Anonymity in Psak [Ezra Dabbah] Bat Mitzvah [Elad Rosin] Female Offspring [Danny Skaist] Genetic Crossing [Danny Skaist] Hebrew for secular purposes [Stan Tenen] How Moshe Learned [Aryeh Blaut] Is there a mitzva to marry? [Ari Shapiro] Questions on "Daas Torah" [Zvi Weiss] Shawlom Y'all [Michael Lipkin] Sheirut Leumi [Esther R Posen] YU disclaimer [Leah Zakh] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <EDABBAH@...> (Ezra Dabbah) Date: Thu, 29 Dec 1994 21:27:42 -0500 Subject: Anonymity in Psak I read with much consternation Mark Press's submission in mj v17#54 the following: >In this connection I want to cite a tshuva I saw many years ago from a >Rov universally recognized in all circles as one of the gdolei hador in >which he permitted an American Rov to use a microphone under specific >conditions but insisted that his name not be publicly connected with >the heter. What a sad commentary on genuine orthodox research to be veiled in secrecy. I now see what was meant as "stifling" da'at torah. Rabbis are intimidated to follow the herd. At least this forum is open and I enjoy the exchange on both sides of the religious spectrum. But even in this forum I have seen intimidation in certain responses. I really enjoyed the arguments regarding allegory in the Torah between Rabbi Bechhofer and Rabbi Shamah. However it was really unnecessary for Rabbi Bechhofer to repond in one submission "who are you to make such a statement" . To my mind the intimidator loses all intellectual credibility in his argument when he has to resort to intimidation usually out of frustration of a weak argument. I really hope the future of orthodoxy accepts all reasonable considerations when giving a psak and the fear of intimidation stops. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <3QJ5ROSINE@...> (Elad Rosin) Date: Thu, 29 Dec 1994 23:58:34 -0600 (CST) Subject: Bat Mitzvah In response to the posts citing Rav Moshe's opinion that Bat Mitzvah's are not necessary or to be encouraged Aliza Berger writes. "In such a climate, girls who wouldn't have some kind of public commemoration would be faced with a destructive mixed message (e.g. they are telling me to be active publicly, but they don't really mean it.) " In light of Rav Moshe's opposition to Bat Mitzvah celebrations it would seem that if Aliza is worried about mixed messages, perhaps the appropriate response would be to reinforce the concept of "Kol Kevod Bas Melech Penima" and be consistent instead of giving into needs created by false notions of a woman's need to be active in a public manner. As a side point, I happen to think this is a very good example of where regardless of what we may think based on our own decision process we must bend to the opinion of our Gedolim and muster up all our Emunas Chachomim. Shalom, Elad Rosin P.S. As usual any responses are appreciated through either a post or personal reply. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: DANNY%<ILNCRD@...> (Danny Skaist) Date: Thu, 29 Dec 94 14:12 IST Subject: Female Offspring >Elad Rosin >DO NOT STOP HERE!!!!!!! >a Braisa that says (this is not an exact translation, see the gemara for >the full text of the Braisa), "It is impossible for the world to exist >without both males and females, however lucky is the one who has sons >and woe is to the one who has females". "woe is to the one who has females". is a problematic translation. While learning this braisa with the neighborhood rabbi he brought out that the wording is rather wierd. The Braisa says "shebanim n'kayvot". ^^^^^^^^ "Banim" is either "children" when the gender is mixed or "sons" when the gender is not. But if you are talking only of female offspring, as most people learn the braisa, (woe is to the one who has female offspring) you must say "banot". So he taught hat we must learn "woe to him who's sons are female" danny ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: DANNY%<ILNCRD@...> (Danny Skaist) Date: Thu, 29 Dec 94 14:13 IST Subject: Genetic Crossing >Joshua Cappell >Clearly the transfection of a different animal's genes would present a >harder problem as far as kilayim goes (possibly falling either under the >category of cross-breeding or of grafting). However, the first may be >problematic as well. What is the essence of the issur? If it is >understood broadly as any interference in the natural biologic endowment >of living things, ( interfering with the natural divinely established >order in any way), any genetic alteration should be forbidden. > The issur of cross-breeding diverse animals is to PHYSICALLY force them to mate. One is even allowed to pen them together and hope for a crossbreeding. Playing with genes is not physically forcing any animal to do what is "not in the animals nature". danny ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Stan Tenen <meru1@...> Date: Thu, 29 Dec 1994 15:55:08 -0800 Subject: Re: Hebrew for secular purposes In m-j 17,56 Eli Turkel mentioned that "Obviously in Israel in the days of the first Temple at least Hebrew was the spoken language for all purposes." With all due respect, I find this very hard to believe. Are there teachings that specifically confirm this? This is an important issue in my work and any clear and explicit references to Torah Hebrew (or any true Hebrew) as THE spoken language in the period between Moshe and Solomon would be very helpful. Thanks in advance. Good Shabbos, B'Shalom, Stan Tenen Stan Tenen Internet: <meru1@...> P.O. Box 1738 CompuServe: 75015,364 San Anselmo, CA 94979 U.S.A. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <AryehBlaut@...> (Aryeh Blaut) Date: Thu, 29 Dec 1994 22:57:01 -0500 Subject: Re: How Moshe Learned This is in regard to Fivel Smiles question about how Moshe learned about the traditions, etc... It is interesting, I brought the following topic up at our Shabbas table last week: When Hashem told Moshe that he was the Hashem of Avraham, Yitzchak & Ya'akov, I asked how did he know who these people were? My wife remembers learning that Amram was his teacher. If time permits, I'll try to find out a makor (source) for this. Aryeh Blaut <aryehblaut@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <m-as4153@...> (Ari Shapiro) Date: Wed, 28 Dec 94 20:25:57 -0500 Subject: Is there a mitzva to marry? <Recently, a friend told me of a discussion he had had with his chavruta <[learning partner]. They had wondered whether there was any specific <obligation on a Jewish man to marry. There is of course the mitzva of "p'ru <ur'vu" [having children], but could this not theoretically be accomplished <equally well through a concubine? In other words, though such an arrangement <would undoubtedly be frowned on, perhaps especially for an unmarried man, is <there any specific halacha that demands marriage instead? <I found myself at a loss - and not a little disquieted! Any comments? This point is a machlokes(dispute) of rishonim. The Rambam in Hilchos Ishus and in the sefer hamitzvos clearly states there is a mitzvah to get married. However the Rosh in Kesubos says that there is no mitzvah to get married the whole mitzvah is Pru Urvu, marraige is a hechsher mitvah(enables the mitzvah to be performed). This is brought out in the discussion about the brachos that we make under the chupah. The bircas a'yrusin is not a classic bircas hamitzvah and Tosafos and the Rosh explain because marraige is not a mitzvah. Also there is a dispute should you make the bracha before or after which is based on this. R. Shachter has a great article on this topic in the Beis Yitzchak from I think 1987. Ari Shapiro ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Zvi Weiss <weissz@...> Date: Sun, 25 Dec 1994 15:10:49 -0500 Subject: Questions on "Daas Torah" I found Binyomin Segal's comments on Daas Torah (15 Dec 1994) to be a bit unclear. 1. Rav Hirsch was opposed to a school that (according to some) was to be set up by a group that -- in essence -- was opposed to "Orthodoxy". A similar issue came up in Russia when the Maskilim wished to have all Jews go to Secular Schools of some sort in order to be better able to "mix in". I do not know if that can be compared to people who wished to open a frum school and were -- themselves -- quite frum yet were opposed so vigorously -- basically because [it seems] their hashkafa differed from the current "right wing". Hebrew U is not an appropriate example... This was a school targeted for the frum so that they could learn secular knowledge within a Torah-true framework. 2. The "prominent women's seminary" appears to actually be an EXCELLENT case of "stifling". After all, did this school consult its OWN posek for a guideline on what to teach? If the school did (and there is no reason to beleive that they did not), then the school was put into cherem for following its p'sak and not following someone else's p'sak... The issues are indeed halachic BUT nobody should be able to dictate to me or anyone else who I must go to consult when I have a shaila. If you disagree with the p'sak that I receive, fine -- but that is STILL no basis for a cherem. 3. There has been, indeed, a concept raised in the past that in Europe before the war, there were the poskim for communities and there were Roshei Yeshiva. And, the two were different groups. It appears that most *poskim* (e.g., Rav M. Zemba HY"D) were killed in the Sho'ah. While I do not personally subscribe to this view, I have heard it said that the roshei yeshiva who survived were NOT "experts" in p'sak and that this has strongly influenced the development of p'sak since. Any comments on this? --Zvi. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <msl@...> (Michael Lipkin) Date: Wed, 28 Dec 1994 08:40:02 +0500 Subject: Shawlom Y'all >From: <iis@...> (Allen Elias) >There is no pressure on Britishers and Yankees because they can easily >be understood. Oh really! Did you ever try to have a conversation with someone with a thick Southern accent? About 13 years ago I was attending the wedding of one of my wife's old roommates in Dallas, Texas. The mother of the Chasan (or Chatan) was from Memphis, Tennessee, with a Southern accent (obviously from my perspective) so thick she could have been speaking Greek for all I knew. During a conversation I attempted to have with her she asked me, "Where ya gonna park ya slaw?". After I asked her to repeat the phrase several times I assumed, being that I was newly married and just beginning law school, that this was some sort of Southern expression meaning, "Where are you going to settle down?". It wasn't until several years later, while recounting this story, that I suddenly realized what she had actually said. She was asking me, "Where are you going to practice law?"!! Michael ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <eposen@...> (Esther R Posen) Date: Wed, 28 Dec 1994 10:02:05 -0500 Subject: Re: Sheirut Leumi Re Zvi Weiss's post about understanding that "sheltered" frum girls would not be good candidates for Sheirut Leumi... As someone who would consider themselves "chareidi" by American standards, it has been my experience and understanding that "chareidi" Israeli girls live by much "stricter" guidelines. They do not work or mix with men. In fact I believe they don't even take the "bagrut" exams which disqualifies them from teaching in anything but the most "chareidi" of schools. Although there are many chareidi (black hat, yeshivish, call it what you will) who would not allow their daughters to attend college or pursue any type of secular education or employment, there are certainly many that pursue both an education and/or a career. I imagine there are exceptions to the norm in Israel as well but it is my understanding that they are few and far between. Anybody out there with additional information. These are just my impressions and I am not sure they are correct. Esther ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Leah Zakh <zakh@...> Date: Thu, 29 Dec 1994 11:55:10 -0500 (EST) Subject: YU disclaimer Because of a number of posts that I recived re University for yeshiva bochur, i am posting the following disclaimer. 1)I have only possitive things to say about Penn Jewish community. I simply stated the fact that there both men and women living in the dorms. 2)I did not pass ajudgement regarding the quality of education in YU over any other school, nor did I imply YU's supperiority over any other school. 3)It is advisable to read posts on mj without one's preconsived notions and not to look for something that is not there. Leah Zakh ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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