Volume 19 Number 57 Produced: Fri May 12 18:20:16 1995 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Dina D'Malchusah Dina [Mordechai Perlman] Internet & the Frum community - and other media [Norman Tuttle] The Slippery Slope [Hayim Hendeles] Yishuvo Shel Olom [Joseph Steinberg] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mordechai Perlman <aw004@...> Date: Tue, 9 May 1995 20:24:35 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Dina D'Malchusah Dina BS"D There is a concept taught to us in the Gemora by Shmuel of Dina D'Malchusa Dina. This ostensibly means that we must follow the laws of the country in which we live as long as those laws do not contravene the laws of the Torah. Does this apply in Eretz Yisroel as well. I remember hearing that there is the view of the Ran that this is not applicable. The reason he gives is because in all other countries if you disobey the laws they can deport you while in regard to E. Yisroel since everybody has a share in the Land biblically, deportation is not an option. I am aware that the Shulchan Aruch rules that it is applicable and that this view of the Ran is not applied. As well, the Poskim do not follow the view of the Ran but instead follow the view of the majority of the Rishonim that Dina D'Malchusa Dina applies in E. Yisroel like any other country. I understand this if we are talking about a ruling authority which is gentile. However, where the ruling authority is Jewish maybe the Din will be different. Let us say in regard to paying taxes. It is well known that Reb Elchonon Wasserman zt"l hy"d ruled that one may not donate money to an organization which supports activities which are not in accordance with Torah practice, even if this organization supports Torah institutions as well. Therefore, is it permissible to pay taxes to an Israeli Government which uses a percentage (true, some of the expenditures are for permissible things such as building roads, supporting hospitals, security concerns, electrical and plumbing facilities, etc.) of the funds for non-Torah activities or anti-Torah activities. (Such as archaeological digs in cemeteries, roads through cemeteries, building projects on Shabbos, providing for the induction of women in the army (which was ruled by the Chazon Ish and other poskim to be Taharog V'al Ta'avor), etc.). Perhaps then Dina D'Malchusa Dina does not apply as it contravenes Torah Law. Interested in informative responses, Mordechai Perlman Toronto, Canada <aw004@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ntuttle@...> (Norman Tuttle) Date: Mon, 8 May 95 18:03:53 -0400 Subject: Internet & the Frum community - and other media Symptoms: a Frum yid now 26 has been looking for his Zivug for approximately 3 years, and he figures that the Internet should be a valid place to search. With a subscription to SHIDUCH on the JERUSALEM1 server, & an entry on JSML (Jewish Singles Mailing List), he finds that there are only meager pickings among the female Orthodox populace, & many sport a surname of "modern" in front of the general religious specification. Needless to say, the "Yid" is myself, and I have been somewhat involved in the Shidduch scene as the founder and organizer of the Mazel Tov program, which brings Orthodox singles' Shabbatons to Monsey which individuals from all camps of Orthodoxy attend. My connection with right-wing west Spring Valley and the Baalei Teshuva community of Monsey is very strong since these are the communities in which I live, pray, & eat my Sabbath & Yom Tov meals. You will ask why a person in this community who outwardly shows the dress of this community (black-hat Litvish) & carries on many of the same practices is not taken care of by the community for his other needs-i.e. Shiduch in a direct sense, & the answer you will get would probably be a combination of the fact that female Baalot Teshuva are generally older, FFB ("born-Frum") girls are not generally interested in Baalei Teshuva, my college education sets me apart from several of my colleagues, many girls are looking for husbands who are learning full- time, and now add my controversial (but actually nearly unamimously supported by the community) Mazel Tov program. The main point of this article is not actually to mull over my personal situation but to suggest that some segments of the Frum community have closed themselves to some positive avenues for advancement, or possibly even aim to close themselves to the world at large. The timing of this article relates to a telephone conversation I had last Saturday night with a young lady who shares my thoughts on this topic. (I have not yet met her in person, but I am already delighted to know somebody who thinks like myself, thanks to Rabbi Shachtel of Neve Yerushalayim College, who has been a great help in trying to find a Shidduch for me.) Her background is as a Bais Yaakov alumnus, and presently teaching computers in the schools, contends that the answer to my above question regarding why there are very few Frum girls on the net is that it's taking a long time to catch on in the Frum community. Unfortunately, such articles as the one in the Jewish Observer on the Internet (incidentally, I haven't read this one, but this is her contention) merely exacerbate this problem, since most people in the right-wing, when seeing a "reliable" right- wing source confirm that there are potential problems with something, tend to shun it completely. My personal feeling is that the problem lies beyond this: when the problem lies with the CONTENT, these circles tend to blame the MEDIUM instead. This would also explain the ban on television, VCRs, the new ban on the WLIR radio statio ("all Jewish, all the time") in Monsey, and now Yeshivas are going to be slow in upgrading computers & providing Internet access with the excuse that doing so would open a Pandora's box for forbidden activities! When will the Frum community realize they have gone too far in prohibiting the permitted? I only hope this analysis helps. This is still only part of the problem. It is part of a larger problem of indoctrination. If the Yeshivas continue to convince young men that the only proper career is to learn Torah full-time, & have no solution for preparing them to take on another career which can provide Parnasa, and the Beis Yaakovs only want to create teachers who learn in seminary & only want to marry men who learn full-time, the Frum community is not going to have much monetary flow into it, & therefore is going to rely on those who buck the flow & take on careers despite their message (+ possibly some Baalei Teshuva who already have careers) and the more "modern" community. Since the newest trend is for Frum Jews is to vote Republican (I don't include myself in this trend), & the Republicans tend to cut services, less money from the general populace will flow down to the Kollel family, causing others among the Jewish faith to be left to take up the slack. I wonder whether the general population will consider "Kollel study" a gainful employment when "work-fare" is in place. In the Shidduchin scene, a Baalat Teshuva led me to understand that there is pressure in some girl's Yeshivas against single Shabbatons ("the Rebitzen said that only modern guys go to those things"), she also told me that WLIR was controversial (about a year before the ban), she can't have a "monitor" in the house, & that she threw out a science fiction book because she re-read it too many times! In this environment, I'm not surprised that we are always lagging in girls' numbers at the singles events, & hardly ever get Bais Yaakov girls. The fact is that the signs about the Shabbaton cannot stay up even in Yeshiva Kol Yaakov, which was a major sponsor for Mazel Tov programs, the Rosh Yeshiva still supporting them. This indoctrination is harmful, blunts reality and denies the truth. On the contrary, true Divine doctrine is upright, gladdening the heart; clear, enlightening the eyes; pure, enduring forever; true, and altogether righteous (cf. Ps. 19). Nosson Tuttle (<ntuttle@...>, ntuttl01@west.poly.edu) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <hayim@...> (Hayim Hendeles) Date: Tue, 9 May 1995 09:52:09 -0700 Subject: The Slippery Slope In recent posts, we have read about a recent trend to change tradition in favor (sic) of providing support to those women who are ostensibly seeking to pursue a closer relationship with G-d. However, one must realize that tampering with tradition is like pulling a thread off an old sweater. Some threads may even need to be pulled. But you pull the *wrong* thread, and the entire sweater begins to unravel. Innocent as they may sound initially, over the years and decades, one wrong "innovation" may lead to another until it completely degenerates. Alas, we have learned this lesson the hard way, as history will demonstrate. Thus, we must always be on the lookout for early signs of such degeneration. Indeed, I fear, that even within this forum, we may have already begun to witness early signs of this degeneration. I say this for several reasons: 1) In a zealous effort to "prove" the legitimacy of some of the Jewish feminist activites, one reader posted a list of "scholarly sources" -- which, as was later admitted by the poster, was "shoddy scholarship". Undoubtedly, the zeal to promote this poster's feminist viewpoint, clouded their better judgement, and the result was "shoddy halacha". There is no reason to think this zealousness to be an isolated instance. 2) But even ignoring this instance of "shoddy scholarship", this post underscores a worse problem: In their naivete, these feminists believe that a handful of various sources is sufficient justification for their tampering with tradition. This is not unlike a patient taking different medicines. While, each medicine may normally be beneficial; it may be fatal for some patients, or when taken together with other medications. Certainly, there may be certain halachik decisions [favorable to feminists] by the Chofetz Chayim or Rabbi S.Z. Auerbach. And these are wonderful - provided you are willing to live your life as did Rebbetzin Chofetz Chayim or Rebbetzin Auerbach, and provided you are willing to live in their world. For in such a world, there may have been no danger of the "unraveling" of Judaism ch"v. But for better or worse, today's women live in a different world. And in this world, taking a psak halacha here from one Rabbi, and another from another Rabbi, both of which lived in a different world, and moreover, to change tradition based on picking and choosing those facets one wishes to follow - is a surefire path to oblivion. Only a qualified Rabbi, one familiar with the Torah in its entirety, can justify these so-called innovations in their totality. But, we have already seen evidence in these pages, that these feminists have already publically rejected the opinion of any such Rabbi possessing an enycyclopaedic knowledge of the Torah. 3) In a post, which IMHO, was the most alarming, we read about a group who have chosen to break away from their established synagogue and Rabbi, and form their own "minyan" to promote their feminist ideals. This group has publically declared that they do not *want* a learned rabbinical Torah scholar to lead the congregation. Instead, the Rabbi's job is shared equally among the men and women of this "minyan". (Although the post did imply they have a "Rabbi on call" to render "halachik decisions", the post did not specify whose job it was to carry out the most difficult role of a Rabbi - that of rebuking the Congregation.) One need not be a genius to recognize the inherent danger behind a group of people who feel themselves so knowledgeable and capable, and so pious, that they have no need of a Rabbi. In yesteryear, knowledgeable communities went to great lengths to search out a Rabbi, who was a great Torah scholar, and who possessed great erudition --- but this community has already declared themselves sufficently knowledgeable and pious that they have no need of a learned spiritual mentor. How long will it be until they decide amongst themselves that not only are they "qualified" amongst themselves to teach each other words of Torah, but they are also qualified to paskin for one another? Next generation, or perhaps even this generation down the road? In conclusion, I hope I am wrong. But unless the greatest Torah scholars of our generation approve of these changes, let us follow the venerable Torah Sages of our generation, instead of the actions of a younger generation attempting to change the tradition that allowed us to survive a 2000 year exile. In the words of our Talmud: "If the youth tell you to build, and the elderly tell you to destroy, it is preferable to destroy. Because the building of the youth will ultimately cause destruction; whereas the destruction of the elderly will ultimately prove to be a building." Sincerely, Hayim Hendeles ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph Steinberg <steinber@...> Date: Wed, 10 May 1995 23:58:10 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Yishuvo Shel Olom :YISHUVO SHEL OLOM| (loosely translated as useful communal activities) Yishuvo shel Olam does not mean COMMUNAL activities -- but rahter, PRODUCTIVE activities. | | ___ ___ ___ _ __ | |__ Joseph Steinberg _ | |/ _ \/ __|/ _ \ '_ \| '_ \ <steinber@...> | |_| | (_) \__ \ __/ |_) | | | | http://haven.ios.com/~likud/steinber/ \___/ \___/|___/\___| .__/|_| |_| +1-201-833-9674 ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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