Volume 19 Number 62 Produced: Sun May 14 10:26:49 1995 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Al Hamikhya [Lon Eisenberg] Coeducation [Hayim Hendeles] Slippery Slope [Zvi Weiss] The Slippery Slope [Janice Gelb] Torah, et al. [Zvi Weiss] When is a Psak needed? [David Kaufmann] Women's Obligations in Tefillah and Blessings [Naftoli Biber] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Lon Eisenberg <eisenbrg@...> Date: Thu, 11 May 1995 15:16:09 +0000 Subject: Al Hamikhya I believe Shimon Schwarz is mistaken in believing that one should say "borei nephashoth" after eating one small cookie; no after blessing should be made when not eating the "shi`ur". BTW, Rabbi Rubanowitz [Har Nof] (in his Friday morning halakha class) once calculated (with the help of us all eating the cookies his wife baked!) the actual shi`ur of meznonoth needed; it's not as much as you think: Just a little more than one "standard"-sized cookie will do it! Lon Eisenberg Motorola Israel, Ltd. Phone:+972 3 5659578 Fax:+972 3 5658205 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <hayim@...> (Hayim Hendeles) Date: Thu, 11 May 1995 10:44:31 -0700 Subject: Re: Coeducation Quoting from a recent post: I assume that by "the halacha" Zvi Weiss is referring to opinions in responsa that have explicitly been against coeducation (e.g. Rabbi Feinstein).However, such opinions do not constitute "the halakha";rather,they constitute the halakhic opinion of individual decisors. This poster then quotes Tzvi Weiss: > I will repeat my call: Will someone PLEASE cite authoritative > material that atates that "Co-ed" is (a) desireable or (b) at > least considered "LeChatchilla". And responds with the following: Perhaps Zvi Weiss' call stems from the point of view that an opinion other than Rabbi Feinstein's and permitting coeducation, would have to respond to Rabbi Feinstein. But since Rabbi Feinstein represents just a portion of the halakhic community, perhaps other portions don't, and need not, feel the need to respond to him. They are coming from a different world-view which does not include the sociological concerns raised by those who oppose coeducation on "halakhic" grounds. Previous postings quoted Rabbi Feinstein zt"l as saying that according to *ALL* authoriities, co-education is forbidden. Tzvi Weiss repeats a call for a valid halachik source permitting co-ed. To which this poster responds, that Rabbi Feinstein is not the halacha - but just a "halachik opinion" (sic). When pressed for authoritative sources, this poster clearly has none, yet states that there must be - they just don't feel a need to respond to Rabbi Feinstein. Therefore, this poster concludes, that co-ed must be permissible. Am I missing something? Because if I understand this line of reasoning, then why stop here? The entire Shulachan Oruch with its commentaries are also just "halachik opinions". For that matter, so is the entire Torah just the "halachik opinion" of G-d, who is coming from one world-view. Certainly there are others who do not accept this world view ... but they are another religion. Clearly Rabbi Feinstein zt"l was not aware of any opinions permitting co-ed. Unless this poster (or any other poster) is aware of any *valid* halachik opinions disputing Rabbi Feinstein's claim and knows something that Rabbi Feinstein zt"l did not (in which case we would love to hear from you) then Rabbi Feinstein zt"l is not just a "halachik opinion" -- but HE IS THE HALACHA. Hayim Hendeles ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Zvi Weiss <weissz@...> Date: Sat, 13 May 1995 23:38:57 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Slippery Slope While I believe that Haim Hendeles raised very serious points in his posting, I have a minor quibble with one point... He stated (if I understood him correctly) that the decisions of Gedolim such as R. S.Z. Auerbach ZT"L were meant for people willing and able to live like the wives of such gedolim (or in that sort of environment) and were NOT necessarily meant for the situation of the women asking and that, therefore, it may very well be harmful to follow those responses. I do not believe that this is an accurate or fair presentation of how gedolim respond to issues. There is no evidence (or at least non adduced by Hendeles) that R. Auerback was not aware of the general social / environmental milleau. There is no reason to suspect that his response was limited to one "circle" and I feel that this -- in effect -- denigrates the posek AND alienates the person posing the matter. As such, it only diminishes from the cogent points that he DOES raise. --Zvi ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <janiceg@...> (Janice Gelb) Date: Fri, 12 May 1995 17:22:37 -0700 Subject: Re: The Slippery Slope In mail-jewish Vol. 19 #57 Digest, Hayim Hendeles says: > 3) In a post, which IMHO, was the most alarming, we read about a group > who have chosen to break away from their established synagogue and > Rabbi, and form their own "minyan" to promote their feminist ideals. > > This group has publically declared that they do not *want* a learned > rabbinical Torah scholar to lead the congregation. Instead, the Rabbi's > job is shared equally among the men and women of this "minyan". > (Although the post did imply they have a "Rabbi on call" to render > "halachik decisions", the post did not specify whose job it was to carry > out the most difficult role of a Rabbi - that of rebuking the > Congregation.) This is really a side issue to my main point, which is below, but as for "rebuking the congregation," I have friends who for years were members of a synagogue whose rabbi insisted on giving sermons of heavy musar every Shabbat, week in and week out, despite the congregation asking that the musar be leavened with regular drashot of Torah learning. The rabbi most of the time was rebuking the members of the community who *did* show up for services and who *did* send their kids to Hebrew school, and not actually achieving the end of rebuking the members of the community who might have been in need of it. I was shocked one week that I visited them to see over half the congregation walk out after the Torah was returned to the ark, which was the time for the sermon. Lesson 1 from this is not to overdo the musar; Lesson 2 is to rebuke those who deserve it. > One need not be a genius to recognize the inherent danger behind a group > of people who feel themselves so knowledgeable and capable, and so > pious, that they have no need of a Rabbi. In yesteryear, knowledgeable > communities went to great lengths to search out a Rabbi, who was a great > Torah scholar, and who possessed great erudition --- but this community > has already declared themselves sufficently knowledgeable and pious that > they have no need of a learned spiritual mentor. > How long will it be until they decide amongst themselves that not only > are they "qualified" amongst themselves to teach each other words of > Torah, but they are also qualified to paskin for one another? Next > generation, or perhaps even this generation down the road? I find it very interesting that you say that the rabbi's most difficult role is to "rebuke the congregation." I agree that this function is certainly missing from a congregation that chooses to be run through lay leadership rather than hiring a rabbi. However, you jump from that one missing job to saying that the group feels it is so knowledgable and capable that it has no need of a rabbi, and that they consider themselves qualified to teach each other Torah. Although you mention earlier that the congregation says it has a rabbi to render decisions, you later imply that it is just a matter of time before they feel they can do that too. I think there is a very large distinction between a congregation and a community, and that distinction may be causing the difficulty here. For an entire community to decide they can do without a rabbi is one thing, since they would have no source for learning Torah or for a learned person to render halachic decisions. However, for a congregation whose main concern is likely to pray together, and who have access to a rabbi when learned decisions are necessary, to decide to do without hiring one is quite another. Janice Gelb | The only connection Sun has with this <janiceg@...> | message is the return address. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Zvi Weiss <weissz@...> Date: Thu, 11 May 1995 09:31:21 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Torah, et al. I am not quite sure that I understand Ms. Krischer's point. I think that she is saying that it is inconsistent for us to prohibit women from learning Torah and then expect them to respond coherently to the issues raised. If that is what she means, I agree with her. However, I did not state that I beleive that women should be kept ignorant. And, it appears that enough women on this list are well-educated enough certainly to catch me up on any of my mistakes that it does not appear to be beyond belief for me to request the necessary rigor when discussing these matters. In addition, I never objected to the raising of questions -- regardless of one's background. My objection has been when people (men or women) claim to offer solutions and yet do not adhere to a degree of halchic rigor. --Zvi ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <kaufmann@...> (David Kaufmann) Date: Thu, 11 May 1995 10:59:04 -0500 Subject: When is a Psak needed? >I assume that by "the halacha" Zvi Weiss is referring to opinions in >responsa that have explicitly been against coeducation (e.g. Rabbi >Feinstein).However, such opinions do not constitute "the >halakha";rather,they constitute the halakhic opinion of individual >decisors.It would seem that a halakhic opinion is needed to forbid an >action (e.g. coeducation); in the absence of such prohibition, the >action is permitted. Hence the dearth of opinions permitting >coeducation: any rabbi who thinks it is permitted does not need to write >an opinion permitting it. There is need to prove that "the halakha does >not apply", when there is no "the halakha". Without getting into the merits of the particular issue (coeducation) (since I don't know enough about the issue), I find the logic of the above paragraph rather fuzzy. If I understand correctly, the basic argument is that any action not specifically prohibited by halacha is assumed to be permitted. I wonder if in fact such a position is authoritative. It seems it can be so only if either (a) there are sources for it or (b) it can be proved that "silence gives consent" must mean that l'chatchila (we initially assume) silence (of halacha) gives permission rather than silence (of halacha) prohibits until proven otherwise. At the least, I would have thought another rule would apply - "I don't know." That is, an unexamined issue has no pre-determined halachic status. Thus, a ruling would determine, at least temporarily, the status, requiring other poskim to either agree or disagree. (Then there's the famous Chassidic dictum that "that which is forbidden is prohibited, and that which is permitted isn't necessary.") There may indeed be halachic grounds for co-education under all circumstances or specialized conditions. The paragraph quoted just doesn't seem to provide the sources or make the argument. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Naftoli Biber <bibern@...> Date: Thu, 11 May 1995 21:00:41 AEST Subject: Women's Obligations in Tefillah and Blessings For those of you following the ongoing discussions in mj on the topic of Women, the next issue of Prac-Halacha (Issues in Practical Halacha) will be on the topic "Women's Obligations in Tefillah and Blessings". I will post it on Monday (bli neder) to give anyone not on the list time to subscribe. To subscribe to the Prac-Halacha list send the message: SUBSCRIBE PRAC-HALACHA <your first name> <your last name> to: <listproc@...> [The Prac-Halacha list is produced by Kollel Menachem - Lubavitch of Melbourne, Australia and is an in-depth discussion of halachic topics in a clear and concise form.] Naftoli Biber <bibern@...> Melbourne, Australia Voice & Fax: +61-3-9527-5370 ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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