Volume 20 Number 80 Produced: Tue Aug 1 22:41:53 1995 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Jewish Source for Kipa [Mordechai Perlman] Kashrut Symbol [Joseph Mosseri] looking for a few good people... [Chaim Dworkin] Pig Skin (2) [Ari Shapiro, Bill Page] Procreation [Akiva Miller] Reason for Kipah (2) [E. Kleiner & S. Klecki, Mike Marmor] Small Children in the Synagogue [Winston Weilheimer] Summer Vacation [Eliyahu Teitz] The Toddler and the Light Switch on Shabbat [Mike Gerver] Wedding Photos [Janice Gelb] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mordechai Perlman <aw004@...> Date: Tue, 1 Aug 1995 00:41:25 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Jewish Source for Kipa On Fri, 28 Jul 1995, Dave Curwin wrote: > I am familiar with the background in the gemara for a man covering > his head, but there are no clear reasons given. This is unlike > tzitzit, where the reason is fairly clear -- we look at the tzitzit > and we remember the mitzvot. So what answer is good to give to > goyim who ask "Why do you wear that thing on your head?" I don't > like "the shechina is above", because it seems to place a physical > location on God, which is good to avoid in discussions with people > unfamiliar with Judaism. That answer is trifle inaccurate. It is better to say that we wear it to remind us of the fact that G-d is watching us, it promotes fear of G-d. That's why it's really called a Yarmulke, which is composed of the words "Yorey Malka" (Fear of the King). > So what is a good answer? I actually heard last week a wonderful remez (hint) in the Torah for the wearing of a yarmulke from kabbalistic sources. In the s'forim often the head is referred to as a k'li (a vessel). The Torah says in Parshas Chukkas (Bamidbar 19:15) "And any open vessel which has no covering bound on it, is unclean". Mordechai ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <JMOSSERI@...> (Joseph Mosseri) Date: Tue, 01 Aug 1995 20:36:08 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Kashrut Symbol This week in the supermarket I noticed a number of items with a kashrout symbol I've never seen before. I would describe it as a tablet ( as in the ten commandments) with the letter k inside of it. It looked somewhat like this: /\/\ | | |k | |__| Can anybody identify this symbol? Is it a reliable hasgaha? Thanks, Joseph Mosseri ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <chaim@...> (Chaim Dworkin) Date: Tue, 1 Aug 1995 19:55:14 -0400 Subject: looking for a few good people... Shamash is porting several usenet newsgroups to lists for the benefit of anyone who cannot get news. We are looking for some volunteers to be list owners of those lists, specifically the sci, scj, shoah, revisionism newsgroups. If you are interested please let me know. If you don't mind posting a notice on your list, please do so. Perhaps someone would like to be a list owner. The work is not hard since these are unmoderated newsgroups. All you would have to do is monitor for bounces and drop anyone whose e-mail bounces and answer tech support questions if a few come to you. Chaim ---- Chaim Dworkin, Coordinator and Manager, Shamash <chaim@...> <chaim@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <m-as4153@...> (Ari Shapiro) Date: Mon, 31 Jul 95 22:46:02 EDT Subject: Pig Skin < With the exception of a male kohein and proximity <to a corpse, the Torah never prohibits a person from becoming impure. <The Torah places restrictions on what an impure person can do ( not eat <sacrifices ), or where he can go ( the Temple area ), but there is no <specific injunction against beocming impure. Actually, the Gemara learns out from a Pasuk that chayav adam l'taher atzmo b'regel (a person must purify himself before the holidays). The Rambam understands this to be because you have to eat korbanos (sacrifices) on the holidays and consequently it would not apply nowadays. However other Rishonim seem to understand that it has nothing to do with korbanos, they understabd that the holiness of the holidays require us to be tahor (ritually pure) and consequently this applies even now. This one of the reasons why many people go to the mikva before the holidays. Ari Shapiro ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Bill Page <page@...> Date: Tue, 01 Aug 1995 08:55:09 -0500 Subject: Re: Pig Skin Eliyahu Teitz writes that "The Torah states that if one touches a dead pig, one becomes tamey (ritually impure ). With the exception of a male kohein and proximity to a corpse, the Torah never prohibits a person from becoming impure." The passage I was thinking of is Lev. 11:8, which states "You shall not eat of their [pigs'] flesh or touch their carcasses; they are unclean for you." This prohibition seems perfectly general and directly links the touching and the eating. As for "swarming things of the water" that lack fins and scales, "you shall not eat of their flesh and you shall abominate their carcasses." (Lev. 11:11). Later in the chapter, the Torah refers to various objects (including the carcass of a clean animal) that render someone who touches them "unclean until evening." These passages do not prohibit, but merely describe the consequences of becoming unclean in this way. Bill ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Keeves@...> (Akiva Miller) Date: Tue, 1 Aug 1995 07:53:01 -0400 Subject: Procreation In MJ 20:77, Richard Schiffmiller noted that having children >... is an example of a Mitzvah over which we >have no control. For although one may get married and attempt to have >children, one has no control over whether he has children or that he >will have a son and a daughter. He is then "cheated" out of the Mitzvah >through no fault of his own. Since all the major codifiers count Pirya >V'Rivya as a Mitzvah, what does this indicate about the nature of >Mitzvos? Are any other Mitzvos of this type? One of my teachers pointed out the following: "Be fruitful and multiply" was the first command (or blessing, perhaps) which was given to humanity as a whole. The mitzva of declaring and sanctifying the months was the first one given specifically to the Jewish people. Note the contrast: Fulfillment of procreation is really out of our control, no matter how hard we might try. But sanctifying the months is totally IN our control: We can even override G-d in this matter! The court can choose to ignore witnesses who saw the new moon on Tuesday and then declare Wednedsay as the new month. There are many other such examples. I do not remember who taught this to me, nor the point which we are taught by this contrast. Probably something about the nature of Jews compared to other people. Anyone have additional comments? Akiva ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ekleiner@...> (E. Kleiner & S. Klecki) Date: Mon, 31 Jul 1995 00:08:56 Subject: Re: Reason for Kipah In Mail-Jewish Vol 20 #75 David Curwin asked on the reasons for the kipah. Covering men's head at all times is neither a mitzvah nor an halakha. Is an ancient minhag, and "minhag b'Israel din hu". Many reasons were advocated. One is that aggadeta in the Gemara. Another one is that the kipah helps us remember (not reminds, but helps remember) we have limits and that we are _under_ the power and control, but also the aid and the guidance, of the Kadosh Baruch Hu. (So it is not that we give Him (hallila v'has!) a physical location, but it is us who are placed). A more sociological approach teaches that in many cultures of the Middle East, a sign of respect to others is to cover one's head, since it indicates that one "humiliates" before the other. In our tradition it is a sign of our humiliation before the One Who Spoke and the World became ("Mi she'amar v'hayiah ha-'Olam"). Iosef Kleiner Eduardo J. Kleiner & Susana Klecki Internet: <ekleiner@...> Fax: (562) 246 8319 Santiago de Chile CHILE ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <mar@...> (Mike Marmor) Date: Mon, 31 Jul 1995 23:59:19 -0400 Subject: re: Reason for Kipah David Curwin wrote: > ... > So what answer is good to give to goyim who ask "Why do you wear that > thing on your head?" In Otzar Dinim Uminhagim, by Yehuda David Eisenstein, under Galui Rosh, some reasons given in addition to the ones you mentioned from the gemara: (1) Tzniut; (2) To not copy goyish customs, i.e. being bareheaded. (Several sources are given there.) (BTW, The very back page of the Taamei Haminhagim has an explanation, which I don't understand, of why you should also wear a kippa inside a hat.) IMHO, it's easy to understand how wearing a kipah helps one keep check on one's actions in public (I think this is related to Tzniut mentioned above), both to avoid a chilul hashem, and to minimize socializing with goyim. It's also comforting and sometimes very practical to encounter someone wearing a kipah in a place with few Jews. (I think you need to have lived in galut to really know how it feels to always wear a kipah.) Sorry, I don't think any of this could be easily explained to a goy. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <TAXRELIEF@...> (Winston Weilheimer) Date: Mon, 31 Jul 1995 19:50:46 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Small Children in the Synagogue Regarding Alan Cooper's request for sources which discuss the presence of small children in the synagogue, see Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 689:6 ("It is a good custom to bring boys and girls under Bar Mitzva to hear the Megilla"), but see the Biur Halacha there starting "Minhag Tov Lehavi" where he limits this to children who are capable of behaving properly :-) if we do not allow children to come when the are small and learn tefilah when they are impressionable, how can we cry when the leave when they are older and tell us that the religion means nothing to them. there is the story of the shepard who whistled in shul on Yom kippur. When everyone shushed him, the rabbi turned and admonished the congregation saying that the boy's whistle was the true tephelah. We turn enough away, we turn enough off, we need to instill the love of tefilah from the youngest days. (having said that, there is a point when youngsters need a break and should be allowed to leave so as not to interrupt the kavanah of others. a small amount of good sense along with the wisdom of a sensative parent goes a long way!} Winston Weilheimer aka taxrelief ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <EDTeitz@...> (Eliyahu Teitz) Date: Tue, 1 Aug 1995 12:11:14 -0400 Subject: Summer Vacation Carl Sherer asked: > The $64,000 question - what is the origin of the summer bein hazmanim? I seem to recall, and I went to look but alas could not find the correct volume, a comment at the end of one of the commentaries on the Talmud (I vaguely remember it being the Maharam Shif ) that the preceeding commentary was written over the course of the year of study, and that said year was ending. I do not remember if a date was given for resumption of study, but the implication was that a brief vacation was starting. And the year end date was in the summer. I shall continue my search for the citation. Eliyahu ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <GERVER@...> (Mike Gerver) Date: Tue, 1 Aug 1995 2:10:52 -0400 (EDT) Subject: The Toddler and the Light Switch on Shabbat Alan Cooper, in v20n68, says > In one important occurrence of that principle, OH 343, it is followed > by the additional stricture that "it is also forbidden to accustom [a > youngster who is not yet old enough to receive a formal education] to > the profanation of the Shabbat and festivals, even with respect to > those matters that fall under the category of shevut" ... As far as I > know, both halakhists and homilists are unequivocal on this point, > since it impinges on the parental obligation to educate small children > (mitzvat chinnukh) as soon as they are capable of understanding (bar > havanah). Apparently this was not always followed in practice, even among observant Jews, in the early part of this century. My great uncle once told me that when he was growing up in New York, he used to carry his father's tallis to shul, since my grandfather, who was his older brother, was already bar mitzvah and could not carry on Shabbos. Since my grandfather was 5 or 6 years older than he was, he must have been at least 7 or 8 when he did this. This would have been about 1905 or 1906. By all accounts my grandfather's parents were very frum. For what it's worth, my grandfather and all his brothers (except for the oldest who was an adult when he came to America) did not remain shomer shabbos when they grew up, although all of their sisters did. A related story was told to me by my father's cousin, who was born in 1912 and lived in East New York when she was a child. No one in the observant community there cared whether bakeries were shomer shabbos, she told me, and they generally weren't. That tolerant attitude changed when the Hungarians moved in! Mike Gerver, <gerver@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <janiceg@...> (Janice Gelb) Date: Mon, 31 Jul 1995 17:48:32 -0700 Subject: Wedding Photos In Volume 20 Number 75, Hillel E. Markowitz says: > > In the past, people have actually taken formal pictures several weeks > before the wedding. After all, the choson and kallah don't HAVE to take > the pictures together that night. First of all, I think the question was more regarding the family pictures that require both the bride and groom *and* family members, which obviously must be taken at the wedding. Secondly, what do you mean "in the past"? When I was first living in Israel, we saw wedding couples all over the place shlepping around in full formal outfits to the more scenic parts of the country (like the Wall or the balcony at the Dan Hotel in Haifa) to get their wedding pictures taken. -- Janice Janice Gelb | The only connection Sun has with this <janiceg@...> | message is the return address. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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