Volume 22 Number 83 Produced: Sun Jan 14 9:43:02 1996 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Charedi poverty [Shmuel Himelstein] Kushner's book [Shalom Carmy] Paucity of great leaders [Yaacov-Dovid Shulman] Pinchas/Zimri and Matityahu situations [Chana Luntz] When Bad Things Happen to Good People [Jerome Parness] When Bad Things Happen... [Perry Zamek] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <himelstein@...> Date: Wed, 10 Jan 1996 09:11:59 +0200 (IST) Subject: Charedi poverty As far as I understand it, the bases for Charedi poverty in Israel are a confluence of factors, among others: a) The fact that many males are engaged in Torah study exclusively until a relatively advanced age, where the amount they receive in any given Kollel cannot possibly be commensurate with what a person in similar circumstances would earn on the open market. b) The high birth rate, which makes the income *per family member* that much lower. Typical families often have 6-8 children, with higher numbers not at all uncommon. c) The fact that rental housing is almost non-existent, which means that parents must find ways to finance the buying of apartments for their children when these marry. d) What added to this was the fact that until the present government changed the law, the family allowance granted per month for children under 18 had two separate scales: one for those who had completed army service and one for those (generally Charedim and Arabs) who had not, with a very marked differences in the scale once people had three children or more. The law has since been changed, so that all families now receive the higher amount. Now, given the tremendous gap between income and needs, the Charedi population was - and still is - aided by tremendous help from Jews abroad, especially the United States. However this source is becoming less of a factor for a basic reason (and I say this in very crude terms, not in scientifically quantifiable terms): while the help from abroad has been inceasing arithmetically, the high birthrate of Charedim has caused the Charedi population to increase geometrically. Simply put, there just isn't that much money available PER COUPLE to pay for all the needs of newlyweds, etc. (One can note in passing that this had had another major sociological effect in the Charedi world, with Charedi women entering fields of endeavor that would have been unthinkable a generation or two ago, including, for example, computer programming or even something like telephone receptionists). Another factor, I believe, in the Charedi population explosion as compared to the population growth in the rest of the country is the fact that Charedim generally marry very early, often at ages 17 or 18. This means that by age 19 many Charedi women have their first children, whereas for the general population is it is much later. This would effectively mean - in very broad terms - that in the time that it would take for four generations in the non-Charedi population, the Charedi population might have five generations. As to the poverty of the city of Bnei Brak, recent newspaper accounts have pointed out that Bnei Brak has the highest percentage of buildings and individuals which have been exempted from property tax. While this includes Yeshivot and Shuls, it evidently also includes various commercial enterprises, such as catering halls, which are nominally affiliated with this or that religious institution. Shmuel Himelstein <himelstein@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shalom Carmy <carmy@...> Date: Fri, 12 Jan 1996 00:59:49 -0500 (EST) Subject: Kushner's book It is sad testimony to the lack of intelligent resources of our own that Harold Kushner's "When Bad Things Happen..." turns up on the tables of observant Jews. His conclusions are surely incompatible with normative religious doctrine, and the mode of argumentation is implausible, to put it mildly. When the book first appeared, I was editing Tradition and felt the need to obtain a review in the light of its popularity. The many reviews that we received were of two types: The first was so respectful to Kushner (partly out of sympathy for the tragedy in his own life) that the reviewer was incapable of cogent criticism. The second group was more aggressive and frummer, but invariably these authors directed such wild shots at Kushner that they ended up condemning positions held by most of the Rishonim. The review we finally ran (circa 1985) concentrated on presenting Kushner in his own words, letting the reader draw his or her own conclusions. [You ask about Orthodox thinkers who are serious philosophers. Those I approached didn't want to waste their time attacking something that flimsy. Rabbi Wurzburger did debate Kushner and his fans at the 92nd St Y and I believe that a text is available.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <YacovDovid@...> (Yaacov-Dovid Shulman) Date: Thu, 11 Jan 1996 23:08:21 -0500 Subject: Paucity of great leaders In the latest issue of Jewish Action, Rabbi Jacobowitz, chief rabbi of England, writes about the current paucity of great Jewish leaders, and places the blame on a yeshiva system that produces graduates according to a Procrustean (or Sodomite) bed, rather than supporting individuals to flourish. I would like to conceptualize this problem according to the formulation of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov, who stated that a leader must be a man of rachamim: compassion or empathy. A leader acknowledges problems, empathizes with those involved, and seeks to help them. Over the last few years, the impression that a number of rabbinic authorities have given is of having to be drawn against their will to acknowledge and address themselves to people's problems. I am thinking particularly of such phenomena as abusive marital or parental relationships. So many people have experienced, or have a close friend who has experienced, a hard time at the hands of "noted rabbis" who proved to be insensitive, incompetent and damaging. Even those who do attempt to address such issues often appear primitive in their formulation of issues. Exalted essays about the glorious values of our Jewish yesteryears can only excite readers so far. And simplistic approaches to psychological quandaries can temporarily quell but not solve psychological dilemmas. For instance, that same issue of Jewish Action featured an article on the importance of not expressing one's anger. There was no mention of such possibilities as expressing that one is anger without using abusive language, unravelling the causes of one's anger, and the like. In my view, this approach can create a repressed anger that is cathartically released against a Jew whom it is considered legitimate to hate: "sinat chinam." Perhaps this is one cause of the examples of petty-mindedness cited in a recent posting by Carl Sherer. The traditional method of learning Torah produces a person trained in making judgements. Such a person is liable to be judgmental about people rather than empathetic. This method of learning Torah trains a person to construct hierarchies. Such a person is liable to compare people who come before him, rather than seeing each as intrinsically important. Faced with a choice, is a rabbi's loyalty to his perhaps- mistaken understanding of the Torah's judgements, or to the reality of the Jew who seeks help? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chana Luntz <heather@...> Date: Sat, 13 Jan 1996 19:19:22 GMT Subject: Re: Pinchas/Zimri and Matityahu situations Avraham Husarsky wrote: > the mishna on sanhedrin 73a that discusses rodeif specifically excludes > one who is attempting to worship avoda zara. however, from the > juxtaposition it is clear that chazal certainly entertained the > possibility that such a person falls into the category of rodeif who can > be killed by an individual during the course of his/her action. The fact that Chazal may have a hav'amina that perhaps this could have been the halacha, does not mean that they ever seriously entertained the possibility in a real life situation. To take an example at random (and I am sure that people on this list can come up with a dozen even more apt ones), the fact that the gemorra in Shevuos 30a raises the possibility that women may be forbidden from being litigants in a court case does not mean that the halacha in this matter was unsettled until the time of the gemorra (there are lots of references to women litigants in Tanach) or that bringing this suggestion meant that the gemorra entertained it as having anything to do with halacha l'ma'ase. The examination of possible alternatives to the way the halacha actually is, is an extremely valuable learning exercise, but should not be confused with how they would posken in a practical situation (halacha l'ma'ase) such as that which occurred with Matitiyahu. > for that matter on 74a, the gemara brings down the opinion of rabbi > shimon bar yochai who holds that oved avoda zara matzilin b'nafsho, > i.e. is considered a rodeif. the gemara has similar discussions > regarding aishet ish. Actually, I think the similar discussion is actually with regard to shabbat, where Rabbi Elazar holds like his father. Eishet ish initiates the discussion (since we learn the whole matter out from the forcing of a nayara ham'orasa) and it is accepted by everybody that if some tries to force an eishet ish they can be rescued even if it means killing the aggressor - a matter that can be deduced from a pasuk. > mattityahu predated the above sages, so it is highly likely that this > argument in halacha had not been settled during his time, and he > followed the opinion of rashbi. thus it is not necessary to bring in > horaat shaa, or the possibility that he was av beit din. Well, even were it possible that you were right, I still would have put it the opposite way ie it is not necessary to bring in the concept of rodef, meaning that Mattityahu has to hold like like a minority opinion in the gemorra when you can explain his action according to all opinions. But the reason this cannot be right is because Rashbi and the Rabbanan who were disputing in our gemorra knew about Mattityahu at least as well as we do. If the matter had been poskened halacha l'ma'ase in his day, then the Rabbanan could not have held the position they did, there could be no stam mishna and the matter would have been settled. Take, for example, the halacha that we do know was unsettled in the time of Mattityahu, namely that of fighting on shabbas. Originally it was thought that one could not fight on shabbas, because this problem had never cropped up in practice before, and people were killed before it was poskened by Mattiyahu and his beis din that fighting on shabbas was permissible. After this decision, there could be no machlokas between Rashbi and the Rabbanan on the subject. Similarly here, if Mattityahu had poskened rodef then Rashbi would have had a cast iron proof against the Rabbanan. Since not only did he not bring it, but it is clear we posken against him, then Mattityahu could not have based his decision on this concept. (BTW there are various references to the beis din of the Hashmonaim in the gemorra and their gezeros - see eg Avodah zara 36b, Sanhedrin 82a) > it is important not to be anachronistic regarding halacha. what was > decided by a rov during a certain period of chazal, may not have been > the way it was practiced by everyone prior to that. an example is the > opinion that holds that the currect practices of shofar blowing combine > a number of different variants that were extant within the land of > israel at that time. There is a difference between the halacha actually being unsettled, with different variants in different places and the gadol ha'dor within a centralised halachic system poskening halacha l'ma'ase. For later generations of Rabbis to come along and rule the other way they need to be greater in number and in wisdom, and it is certainly something that would require comment when the matter is discussed in the gemorra. Regards Chana ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jerome Parness <parness@...> Date: Fri, 12 Jan 1996 11:35:02 EST Subject: When Bad Things Happen to Good People Rabbi Lawrence Kushner's book expresses ideas that are indeed beyond the pale of normative halachic thinking when it comes to the role of G-d in man's everyday affairs. He does express the notion that G-d is not in control of everyday events in our lives. If G-d is not in control, then it follows that it is foolish to be angry with G-d. A recently published book that deals with the problem of the Holocaust and 'Tzadik V'Ra Lo..." is a book by R. Shmuel Boteach entitled, Wrestling With The Divine: A Jewish Response To Suffering, published by Aronson Press, 1995. R. Boteach is the Rav of the L'Chayim Society, at Oxford University, in the UK, is an unabashed Lubavitcher, and an absolutely fearless writer. I may take issue with some of what he writes, but his approach to the moral problem of the difficulties of human existence in the light of a presumed benevolent higher power is simply to be admired for its adherence to a particular genre of halachic approach, and his fearlessness in asking the questions appropriately. I highly recommend this book to all who have suffered tragic loss, and all those who would who would suffer along with them. Jerry Parness ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <menachem@...> (Perry Zamek) Date: Sat, 13 Jan 1996 22:06:02 +0200 Subject: When Bad Things Happen... >I have seen this book by Harold Kushner recommended or mentioned a >couple of times by people here on MJ. I have not read the book, but >have heard that it is beyond the pale of normative Othodox Judaism (to >put it mildly) because it either implies or states that G-d is not >omniscient or omnipotent. I certainly would not mind being corrected if >my information is inaccurate, but, assuming that my information is >accurate, extreme discretion must be exercised in making use of the >book in question. (and others in v22n79) I was lent the abovementioned book at a difficult period in my life some years ago. While I disagreed (even then) with the author's conclusion, I found the way that he raised the questions was itself a comfort. (Ask yourselves: When was the last time you cried, literally cried, over Akedat Yitzhak, even though you *Know* the end of the story -- I cried when I read this book.) More generally, I feel that sometimes we, as Orthodox Jews, tend to reject the *questions* if asked by the "wrong" kind of Jews, instead of only rejecting the *answers* that don't fit with our world-view, while seeking the answers that do make sense in our world-view. Is there, within the spectrum of "normative Orthodox Judaism" any *question* (other than those with the intent of scoffing) that is not acceptable? Perry Zamek (on Menachem Kuchar's account) ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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