Volume 26 Number 46 Produced: Mon May 12 23:28:41 1997 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: "Tradition" magazine [Akiva Miller] 2 More reasons for day mikva [Menashe Elyashiv] Avodah Zarah - Gold [Eli Pollock] Concentration in Prayer [Russell Hendel] Jewish Marriage [Asher Breatross] Repeating Words in Tefillah [Joseph Geretz] Requirement of Hashgacha [Binyomin Segal] Source of Sedar for Pesach [Rose Landowne] St. Louis [Eric W. Mack] Teaching Toddlers Torah [S.H. Schwartz] Which Direction to Daven [Avi Rabinowitz] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Akiva Miller <kgmiller@...> Date: Mon, 12 May 1997 10:49:44 -0500 Subject: "Tradition" magazine Recently, I have noticed several references to articles published in Tradition magazine. Can anyone let me know if back issues are available, and if so, how to obtain them? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Menashe Elyashiv <elyashm@...> Date: Sun, 11 May 1997 07:50:21 +0300 (WET) Subject: 2 More reasons for day mikva Here are 2 more reasons for day mikva - 1] Lel Shabbat & Lel Yom Tov can be a problem. Husband is in the synagogue so how does wife leave the home? What should she do with her small children, what does she explain to her big girls,guests etc.? 2]It is not that simple to use a hot mikva on Shabbat. Althougth most do use it, after learning the Poskim one can see that it is a problem. The older Minhag (Sefaradim) was to tovel (immerse) on Fridays at twilight (ben hashimashot) because not washing in hot water is a Rabbincal decree & does not apply during twilight. For our posters that celebrate Yom HaAsmaout - have a happy day! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <elip@...> (Eli Pollock) Date: Mon, 12 May 1997 11:35:40 EDT Subject: Avodah Zarah - Gold Gold does not need to be melted down . As stated in the gemara in avodah zarah - scraping off a part of the image ( i.e. the nose) in sufficient. This was observed and i believe reported on by yigal yadin in the book "bar kochba". the jews then had stolen dishes from the romans. these copper plates(pictured in the book) had images of greek mythology on them. in each instance part of the facial image was scrapped off in keeping with the halacha. Eli Pollock Baltimore ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <rhendel@...> (Russell Hendel) Date: Wed, 7 May 1997 22:39:03 -0400 Subject: RE: Concentration in Prayer In a recent posting I suggested prayer involves * an awareness of one's helplessness * ...before G-d. Since an Alzheimer's patient makes me aware of my helplessness(indeed, I may one day be like him) he is not to be considered as disturbing prayer but rather as helping it. In a rejoinder, Vol26n37, Zvi asks for sources and disputes 4 specific items in my posting. Paradoxically, the sharpness of his rejoinder allows me to crystallize the exact difference between us. I will first state the precise disagreement between us, then apply it to the four examples, and finally give sources. The discussion should enhance peoples appreciation of prayer. In a nutshell I equate "DISRUPTION" with anything that intefers with my awareness of helplessness while Zvi equates "DISRUPTION" with anything that (re)directs ones attention to something other than what they were doing(in psychology we refer to this as a "startle complex"). We can now understand that * A wicked person does NOT cause "redirection of attention" while a noise making Alzheimer does. Hence according to Zvi one is disruptive and one isn't. On the other hand, both the wicked and Alzheimer person enhance my capacity for seeing my potential helplessness(I could become wicked and I could become sick: hence I need G-ds help). (The fact that one redirects my attention by making noises is irrelevant to me.) Thus neither of these people is disruptive towards prayer. * Holding money during prayer would contradict my feeling of helplessness since money gives people power. Also people tend to think of money and money would redirect my attention. Thus according to both Zvi and myself coins would be a DISRUPTION. * My point about music was that music depicting grandeur(standard Christian music) contradicts "helplessness" while music depicting "petition"(standard Jewish music) is consistent with "helplessness". Zvi's point was that neither of them distracts or redirects attention. * Finally Zvi and I explain the "decorum" laws of prayer differently. According to Zvi improper decorum "redirects ones attention" and hence decorum is required. However my position (see the top of this posting) is that decorum is needed not for concentration but because prayer also requires "..before G-d". Thus e.g. if I was wearing torn clothing, Zvi would say I will be redirecting my thoughts to the clothing and hence this is prohibited while I would say that even if I am aware of my helplessness I am not aware that I am before G-d(because you wouldn't stand before a king in torn clothing) and therefore I prohibit it. I now give sources: Rambam, Learning 3:13 citing Songs Rabbah emphasizes that the best learning takes place at night, because there are no distractions (in the sense of redirection of attention). Thus for learning we do equate distraction with redirection of attention(I also mentioned the Succah law that intensive learning need not take place in the Succah). The clearest source for my suggested "helplessness" definition of Prayer occurs in Rambam, Prayer 1:2--"...Prayer basically means asking for grace, praising G-ds (kingship) and asking ones needs(=helplessness)..." As I indicated the 13 requirements for prayer mentioned in Chapters 4,5 of Prayer emanate from the "before King" requirement of prayer. Russell Jay Hendel; Ph.d.; ASA; rhendel @ mcs drexel edu ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ash@...> (Asher Breatross) Date: Sun, 11 May 1997 16:04:33 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Jewish Marriage An excellent book on the above subject is: Beyond Bashert: A Guide to Dating and Marriage Enrichment by Lisa Aiken. It is published by Jason Aronson (1996). ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph Geretz <JGeretz@...> Date: Sun, 11 May 1997 19:58:06 -0400 Subject: Repeating Words in Tefillah From: <keller@...> (Irwin Keller) > On the second night of Seder, the ba'al ha'Seder did not allow my > children to 'sing' the song, Dayeinu, as he said "assur lekapel otiyot'= > 'one is not allowed to repeat letters' in the Tefilah. I think I > remembera 'string' of discussions regarding repetition of words in the > tefilah in general. First of all, it is probably erroneous to extrapolate from the laws of Tefila since the Hagaddah is not, as far as I can see, bound by any of the laws of tefillah I am familiar with. 1. The format of the Hagaddah, at least the portion containing the Dayeinu, is V'higadeta Levincha (and you shall relate to your son). Obviously this type of format does NOT conform with any standard for prayer. 2. Most sedorim which I have attended have involved extensive discussion between the father and sons between sentences and paragraphs. This is completely consistent with the principle of V'higadeta Levincha as well as the concept of Harei Zeh Meshubach (i.e. the more one discusses the Exodus, the more praiseworthy he is considered). However, this would contradict the standard for Tefillah which is generally not to interrupt at all while one is praying. 3. The concept of Harei Zeh Meshubach (i.e. the more one discusses the Exodus, the more praiseworthy he is considered) is itself contradictory to what we know about Tefillah. In general, it is considered improper to deviate or add to the prescribed format of Tefillah. See tractate Berachot, page 33 side B for R' Chanina's castigation of an individual who added on words to the prescribed formula for tefilla. Yet for the mitzvah of Hagadda it is clear that one who adds additional discussion is praiseworthy. It seems clear that Hagaddah is not bound by the laws for Tefillah so it does not seem correct to apply the restriction of assur lekapel otiyot '= one is not allowed to repeat letters' to the Haggadah, even if you admit that it does apply to Tefillah. Kol Tuv, Yossi Geretz (<JGeretz@...>) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <bsegal@...> (Binyomin Segal) Date: Sun, 11 May 1997 14:52:12 -0500 Subject: Requirement of Hashgacha Andy Goldfinger asks: *My question concerns a meta-issue: just why do we need mashgichim on a *halachic basis? *... *is there in general any HALACHIC reason to require hashgacha? IF there is a safek (doubt) about the kosher status of a food one is required to have supervision. There are then 2 basic questions: 1 what raises a doubt and 2 what is sufficient supervision. 1 What raises a doubt: any 1 of a number of things is sufficient to raise a doubt. the rabbis legislated that we treat a number of foods as if they were in doubt (though not always to the same degree). examples include - to varying degrees - meat, milk, and cheese. also anything which because of standard production has a real doubt - past examples include anything that was made with vinegar (often wine) - but today includes almost anything processed commercially. 2 what is sufficient supervision: any 1 adult religious jew (m/f ger whatever) is sufficient supervision even if they are financially involved. the principle is "eid echad neeman bissurim" (one witness is sufficient in matters of prohibition - as opposed to monetarey and capital cases) the gemara explicitly includes women in this category. and rashi points out that this principle is what allows us to eat in another person's home. based on this it is clear that from a strictly halachik perspective any religious jew is sufficient hashgacha on his/her home AND BUSINESS. the issue of forbidding a woman or ger to be a mashgiach is not directly related to the issue of kashrus, but rather related to the "public position of authority" issue.about which i will not comment. another related issue to supervision is "bishul akum" (the cooking of non-jews) under specific circumstances something cooked by a non-jew is forbidden EVEN IF ALL THE INGREDIENTS WERE KOSHER. this then requires not just supervision but participation by the "supervising" jew. hope this all helps binyomin <bsegal@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ROSELANDOW@...> (Rose Landowne) Date: Mon, 12 May 1997 10:14:31 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Source of Sedar for Pesach >The most obvious literary source is actually part of today's Haggadah. This is the paragraph said after the meal: 'Chasal SIDDUR pesach kehilchaso..ka'asher zachinu leSADER oto ken nizkeh la'asoto. This derives from a 'piyut', a piece of medieval prose dating back to around the 11th century. It would appear from this difficult piyut, that the author intends the phrases 'siddur' and 'lesader' to refer to our current symbolic fulfilment of the night's mitzvos, which we pray will be eventually replaced by their proper fulfilment, when the Temple will be rebuilt.. LeShanah Habaah beYrushalayim ! > I always thought of it that way too, but this year I heard that the piyut was recited on Shabbat hagadol, and refers to the hope that now that they've learned it through, they hope to be zocheh to do the seder correctly on Pesach night. Rose Landowne ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ce157@...> (Eric W. Mack) Date: Sun, 11 May 1997 20:11:24 -0400 (EDT) Subject: St. Louis Cheryl & I are attending the Washington University reunion this week (May 16-18). Anybody else on this list going to be there? Eric Mack <ce157@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: S.H. Schwartz <schwartz@...> Date: Tue, 06 May 1997 09:17:14 -0400 Subject: Teaching Toddlers Torah > From: <yoss@...> (J Gold) > Subject: Upsheren > There are many sources for this Minhag - In Shalos U'tshuvos Arugas > Habosem #210 it is explained that there is a Medrash that states that > when the Torah states "Shalosh Shonim Arelim" - For three years you > shall not touch the fruit - it is referring to a child whose hair should > not be cut until he reaches his 3rd. birthday. He should also not be > taught any Torah until that period. Would someone please elaborate on the last sentence above? I understand that a toddler might have insufficient da'as to comprehend that there is a haShem, that a blessing on food makes haShem's "property" permitted to us, etc. But is teaching Torah actually prohibited? Should a (properly behaving!) 1-2 year-old *not* be brought to his parent's shiur? Surely we don't chava"sh avoid speaking divrei Torah at the Shabbat table! What about Torah-oriented children's stories? Steven (Shimon) Schwartz http://www.access.digex.net/~shimmy/ With Rebecca, Forest Hills, NY: <schwartz@...> Computer Associates, Islandia, NY: <schwartz@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Avi Rabinowitz <avirab@...> Date: Sat, 26 Apr 1997 01:24:37 +0300 (IDT) Subject: Re: Which Direction to Daven I'm responding to something for a shinui. Whichever direction you face, the direction in front of your heart is off into space (shamayim), unless the tfilot are affected by the gravity of the earth and curve around to Yerushalayim, or if they are beamed off satelites etc. Best is to daven while doing pushups, so that you are facing Yerushalayim directly ahead of you, and also shukkeling at the same time (shukkeling was the last topic I responded to I think) A table of the correct angle of the pushups for different locations on this planet can be compiled by computer and made available to all MJ-ers.(Note: In orbit, or on the moon, the direction and angle would change radically during long shmoneh-esrei's) ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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