Volume 26 Number 86 Produced: Tue Jul 29 22:53:32 1997 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: 25th Anniversary Celebration [Andrea Penkower Rosen] Bicycles on Shabbos [Akiva Miller] Electronic Locks on Shabbat [Jordan Lee Wagner] Getting in to your hotel room on Shabbat [Bert L. Kahn] Getting into your hotel room on Shabbat [Seth Gordon] Getting into your hotel room on shabbat [Rachel Rosencrantz] Key-Cards at Hotels [Kenneth H. Ryesky] Kol isha [Daniel Eidensohn] Mikva [Linda Katz] odd trops in Parshat Masei [Art Werschulz] Platonic Relationships [Elana Fine] Shalom Alecheim [Benklifa, Michael] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Andrea Penkower Rosen <apr@...> Date: Mon, 28 Jul 1997 09:40:19 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: 25th Anniversary Celebration In response to Eleanor Pearlman's request about a gift for a 25th anniversary celebration for people who are strongly Jewish and Zionist would not find a "silver" commemoration particularly meaningful I have two suggestions: 1 - All guests be requested to make contributions to their favorite Jewish/Zionist charities in honor of the celebrants or to make a contribution to the celebrants favorite Jewish/Zionist charity. The children of the celebrants could make a donation to their parents favorite charity. 2 - The children give their parents a religious object like a seder plate, kiddush cup, or special art book edition of the Haggadah or Shir Hashirim. The choices are endless, only limited by economics. For those with great resources: a trip to Israel or the dedication of a Torah. Or the creation of a Torah mantle (cover) with an inscription indicating its donation in honor of the anniversary which could be seen every shabbat if they are shul-goers. Happy Anniversary! Andrea Penkower Rosen <apr@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Akiva Miller <kgmiller@...> Date: Tue, 8 Jul 1997 13:25:58 -0500 Subject: Bicycles on Shabbos Just two points I'd like to add to this discussion: 1) If a bicycle is muktza at all, I imagine it would be in the category of kli she'melachto l'issur (things normally used for prohibited purpose), and we are allowed to use such items on Shabbos for a *permissible* purpose if no non-muktza item is available. The classic example is using a hammer for cracking nuts when no nutcracker is available. Now, since I cannot imagine any non-muktza item which would be an effective substitute for a bicycle (with the possible exception of roller skates) one would not violate muktza by using the bicycle on Shabbos, even if it *is* muktza. 2) As regards the comments about how frequently one needs to repair the bicycle nowadays, or how tempting it is to ride the bike past the 2000-amah limit, I'd like to ask whether such statistics are relevant. Please note that the reason we do not take the lulav on Shabbos of Sukkos is because of the chance that someone may carry it outside where there is no eruv. Are there any statistics available as to how frequently that occured prior to the enactment that we should skip that mitzva on Shabbos? This is but one example of the many "protective" laws legislated by Chazal. Are such statistics available for *any* of them? (I vaguely recall several which were instituted after only one mishap, but that may have been where the law was to protect the public's life and limb (such as where the kohanim were racing up the ramp to the mizbayach), and *perhaps* a more frequent occurence is needed for legislation which *merely* protects against violations of more serious mitzvos.) Akiva Miller ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <JordanleeW@...> (Jordan Lee Wagner) Date: Mon, 28 Jul 1997 00:25:36 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Electronic Locks on Shabbat See "Shabbat and Electricity", by Rabbi L. Y. Halperin, chapter 13 entitled "Electronic Locks on Shabbat", published by Feldheim. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <bilk1@...> (Bert L. Kahn) Date: Mon, 28 Jul 1997 23:47:48 -0500 (CDT) Subject: Getting in to your hotel room on Shabbat In issue 26/83 Jay Rovner states that the only Shabbat problem with electronic hotel door locks is the small light; that otherwise the lock was mechanical. Even if that is so, you still have to deal with "that small light." My solution, though it entails some risk, is to place one of the hotel door cards or a similar object (even a thickish piece of paper) over the hole in the door frame. Then carefully slide tdhe lock bolt over the card so that the card is caught and does not fall to the floor. (If it does try again) The problems are the door is not locked and secondly if security is tight they will detect the open door and lock it. At our Pesach hotel last year it was announced by the acting Rabbi that the door card was not muktza and if the hotel person who was supposed to be on each floor did not offer to open the door (as they were supposed to do ) you could ask them to. This approach was like using hotel Shabbas elevators;fine in theory only. So, with a little risk... ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Seth Gordon <sethg@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 97 18:36:38 -0400 Subject: Re: Getting into your hotel room on Shabbat In January, I was at a science-fiction convention at a hotel that used such key cards. I dealt with the problem by taping the latch on my room door open (with a few layers of masking tape), using the dead-bolt to lock my door when I was sleeping inside, and leaving all my valuables in the hotel safe over Shabbat. // seth gordon // <sethg@...> // bu deaf ed program // standard disclaimer // ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rachel Rosencrantz <rachelr@...> Date: Tue, 29 Jul 1997 12:42:14 -0400 Subject: Getting into your hotel room on shabbat >>From: <jarovner@...> (Jay Rovner) > Query. In travelling, we have been finding that hotels use key >cards. I guess that the mechanism works mechanically, but there is >usually a small light that goes on or changes color when the card is >inserted in the lock. (One can leave the key card at the desk before >going out, but getting back in is a problem, especially where ID must be >shown to get the card.) As far as the lock goes, > >1. How does one unlock the door without violating shabbat prohibitions? >(I understand that one could always ask a staff member to open the door, >but that is not always practical since there may not be someone who is >free to help, and it is not always clear that they are not jewish.) Some doors can be made to use a manual key as well as the card key. I would recommend calling ahead to check this option out. The card key often is not at all manual, but does a lookup to a computer downstairs, so it is more than just disabling a light. >2. Should one take anything other than the light into consideration in >terms of shabbat prohibitions? Often hotels have electric (automatic) doors which you will have to navigate around. Call ahead. It may take a lot of figuring out to do so it is best to let them have a chance to work out the problem first. Automatic lights and cameras may be a problem too depending on how you hold RE: security cameras and if the hotel has them where you may be walking. -Rachel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <KHRESQ@...> (Kenneth H. Ryesky) Date: Sun, 27 Jul 1997 02:31:38 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Key-Cards at Hotels Re: Jay Rovner's query regarding key-cards at hotels (mail-jewish 26:83) and shabbat prohibitions: Directly asking a goy to do work for you on Shabbat is prohibited. One can, however, hint (remez) that one would like a given task to be performed. I had an experience regarding this matter. Some time ago, I was compelled to be out of town on Shabbat, and in fact stayed at the Clarion Hotel in Edison, New Jersey. I realized that the hotel used plastic "punch-card" type keys. Prior to Shabbat, I explained my situation to the clerk at the desk, who called her manager. I explained the situation to the manager, who assured me that someone would facilitate the opening of the door for me. When I returned on Shabbat, I recounted to desk clerk then on duty my prior discussions with the manager. The desk clerk, as it turned out, had been apprised of my situation, was prepared for me, and cheerfully sent an assistant to help me open the door to my room using a "master" key card. The whole process was quite problem-free. In my case, the person who helped me was obviously not Jewish, but there always remains the possible problem of asking a Jew to do work for you. I do not know of an ironclad way to get around it in all cases. One must assess one's situation and take the appropriate measures. There seem to be three types of keys for hotel rooms, listed below in order from least problematic to most problematic:: 1. Conventional metal keys. 2. Plastic "punch card" keys which have holes punched according to a certain code. 3. Paper "card" keys with a magnetic strip, upon which is encoded the code to open the door. It is obvious that the electric apparatus in the lock can cause problems for key types 2 and 3 above. I am not entirely sure about key type Number 3 with regard to whether it is muktzeh. Perhaps someone else is knowledgeable in that regard. Kenneth H. Ryesky P.O. Box 200 East Northport, NY 11731 <khresq@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Eidensohn <yadmoshe@...> Date: Mon, 09 Jun 1997 01:41:25 -0700 Subject: Kol isha >From: Ben Rothke <BRothke@...> >Does anyone have a source as to at what age the issur of kol isha >(listening to a womens singing voice) commences? Look at the Igros Moshe Orech Chaim I #26 page 68. This is a discussion concerning a school event in which the parents insist on attending. The question is what is the age of the issue of kol isha? Reb Moshe concludes, "The questioner states he can not be doing anything other than the [absolute minimum] requirments of the law rather than what is appropriate because it will cause a serious dispute. In such a case it is possible to permit girls not more than 11 years old....However without absolute need it is not permitted at all because in these matters the strict path is that of holiness." The Mishna Berura 75 (17) also discusses this issue. He mentions that the question of Kol Isha is primarily related to the state of Niddah. But if there is any possibility of someone being physically attracted to the girl - than any age is prohibited. Reb Moshe also discusses the Mishna Berura. Bottom line:According to both sources, it is not desirable for girls of any age to sing before men. The actual prohibition is related to the nature of the audience and to the possibility of the girl being a Nidah. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <MSGraphics@...> (Linda Katz) Date: Wed, 9 Jul 1997 00:03:56 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Mikva To add to what Rachel says- there's also the huge issue of a woman missing the days she is most likely to be fertile- and the issue of the couple missing out on the special mitzva of being together (when possible) on Lail Shabbos. I learned from my taharas hamishpacha teacher that it is a very special thing for mikva night to coinside with Shabbos- and that it's worth it to put in extra effort to get there. And if the level of mitzva observance (in regards to Shabbos) of these women is a concern here- all the more reason to preclude possible violations of the niddah laws as well! Why make it any more difficult? With all due respect, I can't see any halachic justification for closing up a mikva on Shabbos and Yom Tov in anticipation of people desecrating those days- and I have to hope that if a Rav actually paskened this that there's some other extenuating circumstance we haven't heard about yet... A possible compromise might be suspending regular mikva hours on Shabbos/YT and instead, making special accomodations- like having a key available- for the women who don't mind going to a little extra trouble to do this most important mitzva on time. Linda Katz ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Art Werschulz <agw@...> Date: Tue, 29 Jul 1997 09:25:10 -0400 (EDT) Subject: odd trops in Parshat Masei Hi. In Bamidbar 35:5 we have, the phrase "alpayim ba-amah". The ta-amim on these words are "yareach ben yomo" and "karnei farah", respectively. This is the only place where these trop occur in Chumash. They also appear in Megillat Esther. AFAIK, they don't appear in any other segment that is leyned in shul. (1) What is the significance of using these trop at these particular locations in Bamdibar and in Megillat Esther? (2) The name "karnei farah" is understandable, since the trop symbol does look somewhat like a pair of cow's horns. (OK, I know, cows don't have horns.) But, why the name "yareach ben yomo"? It sounds something like "month, son of its day". Thanks. Art Werschulz (8-{)} "Metaphors be with you." -- bumper sticker Internet: <agw@...><a href="http://www.cs.columbia.edu/~agw/">WWW</a> ATTnet: Columbia U. (212) 939-7061, Fordham U. (212) 636-6325 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Elana Fine <ef91@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 1997 20:50:33 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Platonic Relationships Two years ago Rabbi Orlafsky, from Ohr David (?) gave a speech at Sharfmans titled Platonic Friendships. This tape has become really popular in the post high school age group. Recently I heard that he also gave a shiur on this to guys. My question is if anybody knows where I can get a copy of that version, which is supposedly much different than the one given to girls. Thank you. Elana Fine ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Benklifa, Michael <Michael.Benklifa@...> Date: Mon, 28 Jul 1997 15:38:33 +0200 Subject: Shalom Alecheim I've read that we sing Shalom Alecheim on Shabbot because of the angels that accompany us. I've been asking around and noone seems to know why we say Shalom Alecheim in the plural when we greet one another. The good and bad angels that accompany us on Shabbot have to do specifically with the mitzvoth surrounding Shabbot. Even if there were angels accompanying us on a regular basis, what purpose do they serve and why do they do it? Or is there another unrelated reason we say Shalom Alecheim in the plural to individuals? Shalom Alecheim, Michael Benklifa ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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