Volume 28 Number 47 Produced: Tue Feb 16 20:19:40 US/Eastern 1999 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: DNA testing in Halakha [Saul Davis] Faith and Trust [Alan Cooper] Forgiveness in Judaism [Susan Shapiro] Making Kiddush on Friday Night between 6 and 7 [Steve Albert] Response to Intermarried Couple [Shaya Goldmeier] Response to Tragedy [<Phyllostac@...>] Yiddish name Breindel (2) [Stuart Wise, Levkowitz, Ahuva] Yiddish names [Leah Wolf] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Saul Davis <sdavis@...> Date: Sun, 7 Feb 1999 20:04:27 +0200 (IST) Subject: DNA testing in Halakha I agree with Shalom Krischer that DNA can and should be used to verify an agunah's husband's body and NOT used in the case of a mamzer so to avoid a positive parentage test. Recently there was some controversy surrounding the use of DNA in Israel. The IDF Rabbinate does not use DNA testing to confirm the identity of soldiers' corpses before burial. In one very upsetting incident it is alleged that the body parts of one soldier were subsequently buried with a different soldier's corpse. The IDF Rabbinate uses anthropological testing which is based on a visual match of skin colour etc. It is possible that the IDF Rabbinate is not willing to abuse a dead person's corpse by taking samples. It was also alleged that the IDF Rabbinate does not want to lose their monopoly on, and the mitzvah of, the burial of dead soldiers. The outcome was a very traumatic incident for the families involved. Can any shed some halkhic light on this problem? Yishmeranu Hashem Mikol Tsoroh. Beezrath Hashem this should be a theoretical discussion only and all soldiers should return home safely. Saul Davis Beer-Sheva, Israel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Alan Cooper <amcooper@...> Date: Sun, 07 Feb 1999 17:13:55 Subject: Re: Faith and Trust Bill Handley <bhandley@...> wrote: >What is the difference between faith and trust? Bitachon and emuna? >I have heard several explanatios but they don't satisfy me. > >I have been told that where there is knowledge, you can't have faith. This is an important topic in Jewish thought, so as you would expect, it has given rise to many opinions. Asserting a dichotomy between "knowledge" and "faith" is not helpful as a starting point. The opposite view is just as valid: without knowledge, there can be no true faith. It all depends on whom you are citing. The term emuna reflects two underlying concepts: acceptance of religious doctrine, and belief that is confirmed by rational speculation. These two distinct senses of emuna are found, e.g., in Saadia's Emunot ve-De`ot (usually rendered "Beliefs and Opinions," but more accurately "Doctrines and Beliefs," following Professor Altmann). The two senses are expressed by two different Arabic words, both of which are rendered as emuna in the standard Hebrew translation of the work! Saadia would like everyone to progress from the first kind of faith (acceptance of doctrine) to the second (confirmed by reason), and he is followed in this view by many medieval rationalists, perhaps the best known formulation being Maimonides' Guide for the Perplexed, 1.50. Other authorities deny that reason is essential or even necessary for the attainment of "faith." One famous statement to this effect is Albo's Iqqarim ("Principles"), 1.19, which concludes, ". . . emuna applies to things which we have not perceived with our senses at the time of their occurrence, nor proved with our reason, but have only on the authority of continuous tradition." Albo's discussion of emuna here and in the subsequent chapters is essential reading. The relationship between emuna and bittachon ("trust, certainty") is interesting. I immediately thought of the Ninth Gate (simcha="Felicity") of the anonymous ethical treatise Orchot Tsaddiqim, which discusses nine matters in which one must have bittachon in God. After enumerating them, the author declares, "bittachon is impossible without emuna, as it is written, 'those who know your name trust [yivtechu] in you' [Ps 9:11], for only those who know His great name and recognize His might and power, who believe [ma'aminim] wholeheartedly, are able to trust [livtoach] in Him. For bittachon and emuna are partners; if there is no emuna, there is no bittachon." The author goes on to explain that the First Commandment ("I am the Lord your God") is an expression of the belief that is the first principle of Torah [rosh ha-tora]. When he finally gets back to the main topic of his discourse, he asserts: "One who believes [ma'amin] wholeheartedly, and trusts [boteach] in the help of the Rock, has eternal felicity." There is much more to be said on this topic, but I hope that these few remarks will steer you in the right direction. Alan Cooper ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Susan Shapiro <SShap23859@...> Date: Tue, 9 Feb 1999 00:23:33 EST Subject: Forgiveness in Judaism << perhaps it's not wise to unilaterally and automatically be 'mochel' everyone who has sinned against you every night-this is perhaps something that great people might do-but I question prescribing this for all-if people know that they will receive forgiveness automatically,they might not hesitate to do things that are injurious to others >> Not based on any halachic authority, but surely, it is our job to forgive a person, because that is better than bearing a grudge, and that doesn't give the other person PERMISSION to do what they did. Because, if they "hurt" us in any way, they still have an avayra. I don't think the Mechila and the avayra cancel each other out. They have the obligation not to do the avayra and WE have the obligation to FORGIVE. I see it as two separate, non-related entities. Am I wrong? Susan ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Steve Albert <SAlbert@...> Date: Sun, 7 Feb 1999 13:11:15 EST Subject: Re: Re: Making Kiddush on Friday Night between 6 and 7 Rachel Rosencrantz wrote: <<For those of you who would point out that the hours of the day are usually 1/12 of the daylight hours for day time hours and 1/12 of night time for night-time hours, (my husband and I wondered about this), the hours used to determine which the planets rule when are the 60 minute hours, not daylight/dark hours.>> Thanks, I actually had wondered about that. Does anyone know the answer to this related question: Why does our local time matter? Specifically, does one planet rule over the entire world for an hour, or does each rule over 1/24 rotating across the planet? What about daylight savings time, etc. -- it doesn't seem to make sense that the mazolos would be affected by legislation here determining time zones and the period for daylight savings time -- so why does local clock time matter? Steve Albert ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shaya Goldmeier <JGoldmeier@...> Date: Tue, 9 Feb 1999 03:57:48 EST Subject: Re: Response to Intermarried Couple << >>(1) IMHO means absence from the wedding ceremony and reception; it means not addressing the couple as husband and wife, nor Mr. and Mrs.; it means not sending any wedding gift; it means not participating in any way in any anniversaries or any other occasions which recognize the couple as husband and wife. [ mj 28:42 ]<< >> Actually, this is a wonderful idea if you never want to give them a chance to right their wrong. This is a great way to hide behind a halacha that has obviously been misunderstood and allows the poster to avoid confrontation of "Kiruv." The fact is it's easier to be angry and argumentative. As it turns out, I have discussed this with my Rov, and the halacha is that one may not attend the CEREMONY only. The reception, one should or could attend in order to maintain contact with the Jewish side of the couple in order that complete rejection of the Judaism not develop. This is a hard thing to do. It does not mean swallow your tongue and be afraid that that someone will say "It's not PC to disagree." It means debate and argue respectfully and like a mensch all you want. BUT, with the intent of eventual KIRUV, not just anger and frustration. It means saying hello and letting them know that while you disagree and are terribly hurt by their choice, you let them know that they are still human beings deserving of basic respect. If the poster meant to imply this I apologize but it didn't seem so from the post. This issue was raised by me to my Rav, because, we as frum Jews, have this in every family. But if one makes it sound like your hurt and therefore cut them off, That's not halacha, just a bruised ego. Shaya Goldmeier ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Phyllostac@...> Date: Mon, 8 Feb 1999 00:28:44 EST Subject: Re: Response to Tragedy << From: Stuart Wise <swise@...> My question is this: Aside from admonishing us concerning davening, fasting and trying to be a better frum person, is there anyone who has heard any insights as to why such tragedies are occurring? Are the occurrences disproportionate to similar instances in the general community? Have we run out of zechusim? After all, nissim still do occur. What lesson can we be learned? >> Here is my response to something of this type that I was sent- I was sent the following- << SUDDEN DEATH, CANCER, TRAGIC ACCIDENTS It is time for Klal Yisrael to respond! This Sunday, Erev Rosh Chodesh, the eve of the month of Shvat, has been declared a Yom Tefilla by leading Rabbonim and Roshei HaYeshiva due to the overwhelming rate of tragedies in our communities. In order to strengthen everyone in Teshuva and Tefilla, repentance and prayer, many communal gatherings have been arranged. >> My response- Teshuva,tefilla,tzedakkah,etc.,are always good. I do question,though,whether it's correct to say that there is an 'overwhelming rate of tragedies in our commmunities'.Of course,we would like there to be none-and that even one would be too much.But things like sudden death and accidents are not exactly new.Not long ago,there were many cases of mothers dying in childbirth (which thankfully are rare nowadays) and cases of children dying young from certain diseases and even adults dying at relatively young ages.Have we forgotten things like polio,scarlet fever,deadly flu epidemics,rubella,tetanus,typhus,whooping cough,etc.? Also-Is the rate of 'sudden death,cancer and tragic accidents' among the gentiles lower ? The fact seems to be, that nowadays our lives are healthier and longer than those of others in the recent past.Have we given thanks for that?Or are we just complaining when new ailments arise to replace those that 'medicine' has supposedly 'conquered'?Do we give thanks to Hashem sufficiently for every day we are healthy and not in any 'accidents'? I think teshuva and introspection are always called for-not only when a few people die before reaching their 'four score and ten years'. Mordechai ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Stuart Wise <swise@...> Date: Mon, 8 Feb 99 10:29:39 -0400 Subject: Re: Yiddish name Breindel >From: Eliezer Finkelman <Finkelmans@...> >Can anyone at Mail-Jewish help me with information about the derivation and >meaning of the Yiddish name Breindel? When I was looking through books on baby names, I saw in one (the name of which I forget) that Breindel is a yiddishization of Bracha. It is feasible, but I must admit your derviations sound more interesting. I accept the Bracha derivation for the same reason, it makes sense to me that the yddish name Shprintze is derived from the spanish Esperanza, Yente derives from Gentile (jahnteel), etc,. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Levkowitz, Ahuva <Alevkowitz@...> Date: Sun, 7 Feb 1999 16:51:09 +0200 Subject: Yiddish name Breindel "Breindel" in Yiddish means a flame ("Shalhevet" in Hebrew). Perhaps it was first given for a girl who was born on Channuka? I don't know when such names became popular ("Kreindel" is a crown = Atara, "Hinda" is a deer = Ayala, "Freidel" means happiness = Aliza, Gila, Rina, etc.). It may be that these name were Yiddish-ized is Eastern Europe since many of the Hebrew versions remained as such in the Sephardi countries. I actually heard that the Yiddish name "Shprintza" originated from "Esperanza" (sp?) which means Hope ( = Tikva) in Spanish. Something to keep in mind is that very many of these name were 'invented' out of ignorance (people didn't know how to spell, or they gave a name after what a ancestor was *called* rather than what that ancestor was *named*. Other names were purely original at one time. (There is a story about the male name "Shneur" which was given when one grandfather was name Meir, and the other Yair (or maybe Meir as well?), so they gave the name "Shnei-Or" [two lights]). Anyway, this is a subject that I too, would like to get further information on. If anyone can recommend a good book or two which researches the issue of Jewish names, I'd love to receive some leads! Thanks, Ahuva Levkowitz ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Leah Wolf <ldwolf@...> Date: Sun, 7 Feb 99 17:04:41 PST Subject: RE: Yiddish names Since the subject of Yiddish names was brought up, I've got more questions on the subject. Did most Yiddish names derive from Hebrew names or were they original names? For example, was Hinda related to Chana or was it really an "ayala" as is commonly used today? Was the name Hudus really from Yehudit or was it Hadas or neither one? What about Neche? Was it Nechama or was it a separate Yiddish name? Would love to hear from experts on the subject! Thank you! Leah ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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