Volume 31 Number 60 Produced: Wed Feb 16 5:53:38 US/Eastern 2000 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Bar Mitzvah before becoming a bar mitzvah (3) [Danny Bateman, Shlomo Pick, Rose Landowne] Boruch Shepatrani [Yossie Abramson] Chazak Chazak Vinitchazek - a different slant [Daniel Katsman] Children's Encyclopedia Question (2) [Jonathan Rabson, Carl Singer] Collect call game [Sammy Finkelman] Invisibility Behind the Mechitza [Yisrael Medad] Masada and Suicide [Shelli and Dov Frimer] Microphones [David Charlap] Rambam yomi [Eric Simon] Siddur and Tallis Bag [Kenneth G Miller] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Danny Bateman <danny.bateman@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 07:43:26 +0200 (IST) Subject: re: Bar Mitzvah before becoming a bar mitzvah Ezra Tepper wrote: > One of the son's of Rabbi Ovadia Joseph gave an interesting halachic > decision this afternoon on a "call the rabbi" broacast in Jerusalem. > > He said that there is no particular day for celebrating a bar mitzvah. > And even a month (or a year) before his 13th birthday, the boy can > accept the commandments, be called up to, bless over, and chant the > Torah reading (not just the haftorah) before the congregation. He would > also regularly put on tallis and tefilin and observe all the other laws. > There is no problem with any of this. The boy, though, as the rabbi said > could not be counted in a minyan or, as I imagine, could not marry until > he reached 13. > > Has anybody heard of this or attended such an early bar mitzvah. Note > that despite the rabbi being a Sefardi, he said that there no difference > between Ashkenizim and Sefardim in this matter. I have seen Yemenite children as young as first or second grade get an aliya, say the brachot, and read from the Torah. I believe this has nothing to do with "accepting the mitzvot" as a bar-mitzvah, and the child would not be counted in the minyan, for example. Danny Bateman (<Danny.Bateman@...>) Meridian Field Support Team Leader, Telrad Networks Ltd. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shlomo Pick <picksh@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 09:47:30 +0200 Subject: Bar Mitzvah before becoming a bar mitzvah Ezra L. Tepper asked: >Has anybody heard of this or attended such an early bar mitzvah. Note >that despite the rabbi being a Sefardi, he said that there no difference >between Ashkenizim and Sefardim in this matter. As a gabai in bnei brak (as a fulfillment of being a tail to lions and not a head of foxes [_Abot_ 4,15]) i have come across various customs of which there appear to be two major ones. The Lithuanian one has the bar-mitzva the shabbat BEFORE the 13th birthday, the boy is called to maftir, and does NOT read the torah, but reads the haftora (from a klaf [parchment]) and that's that - except that on his birthday or the following week, i will call him up again as one of the 7 kre'uim (people for the 7 "real" aliyot). on that note, the ba'al kriya is the son of R. Haym Kanyevski (and therefore the grandson of the late Stypler Rav) and he used to read the haftora for his father/grandfather from the klaf weekly as a katan (before his bar-mitzva) as mandated by the mishna in tractate megillah (BT Megillah 24a). The Yekke (German) custom is the boy to have his barmitzva the shabbat AFTER his 13th birthday and therefore he will also reading the torah reading ranging from the maftir alone to the entire parsha. the aliya he gets is also maftir, but then he may be called again for shleeshee (3rd aliya) at the mincha service (gimel kru'im) and if not, during the week or next shabbat. in any case, there is never a barmitzva boy for parshat zachor which is d'oraita and requires a 100% gadol (grown man) with years and seemanim (signs of puberty). as far as parshat parah is concerned which is a controversy whether it's d'oraita or not, so far i never ran into that problem. respectfully yours with bikhot hatorah shlomo pick ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rose Landowne <ROSELANDOW@...> Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2000 21:40:29 EST Subject: Re: Bar Mitzvah before becoming a bar mitzvah My husband's bar mitzva, 39 years ago, was held at Bachurei Chemed in Long Beach, NY, two days before the actual date he turned thirteen. The spiritual leader of the congregation, Simon Solomon, a very learned man even though he did not have smicha, approved it. Rose Landowne ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yossie Abramson <yossie@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 13:57:04 -0500 Subject: Boruch Shepatrani > From: Felise P. Katz <felise.katz@...> > I have 2 sons who will be Bar Mitzvah a''h shortly and am interested > in finding sources where this Brocha is discussed. Additionally, has > there ever been a discussion regarding the mother and why this would or > would not apply to her as well. Thanks! Felise The reason that a father says the brocho is that at the time of the child's bar mitzvah, his job is done. The mitzvah of Chinuch, Parnassah and responsibility now fall onto the boy. The reason that a mother doesn't say any brocho is as I'm sure you know: A mother's job is never done. I heard that answer at a bar mitzvah I attended, I'm not sure it's a halachik answer, but it sounds right. Yossie ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Katsman <hannah@...> Date: Sat, 12 Feb 2000 23:16:32 +0200 Subject: Re: Chazak Chazak Vinitchazek - a different slant Perets Mett wrote: >BTW, Jonathan is right to parenthesise the expression (Baal Kriah?). >There is no such thing. The correct Hebrew form, Korei, is found in the >Shulchan Orukh. The same person is properly known in Yiddish as a 'bal >koyre' Do you have a source for this in the Shulhan Arukh? It doesn't seem to be proper gramatically. Daniel Katsman Petah Tikva ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jonathan Rabson <JRabson@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 12:25:20 -0000 Subject: RE: Children's Encyclopedia Question > From: Carl M. Sherer <cmsherer@...> > I understood that what was under discussion was a children's > encyclopedia. I found the reason behind Jonathan Rabson's question > to be obvious. Children's encyclopedias published by secular publishers > do not necessarily present every topic to the children in a way that is > acceptable to the fruhm world. Therefore, the Beis Yaakov in London > feels the need to closely supervise their use, and Jonathan was seeking > an encyclopedia with which Beis Yaakov would not feel obligated to > exercise such close supervision. > > ...Among the > topics that a secular children's encyclopedia would treat differently > than what we would want our children to hear, I would include anything > having to do with sex and sexual orientation, anything having to do with > evolution, and anything having to do with how the world was created. And > that's just off the top of my head.... Thank you, Carl, for highlighting some of the issues involved in using secular enyclopedias in Beis Yaakov elementary schools. These concerns have been voiced by the school's Va'ad Ha'chinuch (educational advisory board) who are seeking a CD-based (Jewish?) encyclopedia appropriate for unsupervised use by charedi children without the need for worrying about where the links might lead. Any suggestions out there? Thanks Jonathan ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <CARLSINGER@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 09:19:32 EST Subject: Re: Children's Encyclopedia Question << I think she is mistaken. Among the topics that a secular children's encyclopedia would treat differently than what we would want our children to hear, I would include anything having to do with sex and sexual orientation, anything having to do with evolution, and anything having to do with how the world was created. And that's just off the top of my head.... >> My wife reads lots of children's books (no she's not a slow learner -- she's a school principal) She has to pre-screen everything that goes into her school -- and she's not alone. The other day she got a call from a Rabbi / principal at an out of town Yeshiva asking her what she knew about the plony books. It's a tough call, different schools have different standards. Some seemingly benign books (with good literary value for reading comprehension, vocabulary, etc.) may have a tiny slip -- for example, in one a single reference to someone who, it could be inferred, had a child out of wedlock. Or boys and girls holding hands, etc. I remember some years ago a detailed discussion of whether teenagers in a certain "black hat" Yeshiva should read newspapers. It was argued that the Wall Street Journal might be a try -- it doesn't have lots of violence, etc., few pictures, etc. -- the reason for newspapers in the first place is that these children should grow up to realize that there is a (biased) media out there and they should learn to read with a grain of salt. Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Sammy Finkelman <sammy.finkelman@...> Date: Sun, 11 Feb 00 17:01:00 -0400 Subject: Re: Collect call game Well at least in New york City, the MTA openly advertises that one can use a Metrocard on a bus one way and on a subway the other.However the police go after people who use student cards and LIRR-subway passes can't be used by anyone other than the cardholder. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <isrmedia@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 07:01:52 +0200 Subject: Invisibility Behind the Mechitza At our schule in Shiloh, when the Rav speaks or Havdala is said or when we dance on Simchat Torah, the mechitza curtain is lifted up and the women are definitely not invisible even though they are behind and above us. And I don't think that they consider themselves invisible. Yisrael Medad Shiloh ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shelli and Dov Frimer <greenj94@...> Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2000 01:10:36 +0200 Subject: Masada and Suicide From: Chaim Shapiro <Dagoobster@...> << I have never fully understood why the people at Masada felt it necessary to commit mass suicide. Philosophically speaking, although we do not rely on G-d's miracles, we should not despair them, as a person can be saved even from the worst circumstances at the very last minute. Why did the Masada leadership feel it better to take matters into their hands, rather then allow G-d's plan to take its course? While I shudder to ask this (and Avi if you think it is too controversial please omit it [while difficult to discuss, I think valid to ask. Avi]), how did their situation differ from individuals about to be shipped off to W.W.II Concentration Camps? >> I have discussed the entire issue of the halakhic permissibility of the suicide at Masada in my piece " Masada - In Light of the Halakha" which appeared in Tradition 12:1 (Summer 1971), pp. 27 - 43. In summary, I demonstrate that the majority - although not all - of the poskim would have proscribed the suicide at Masada. The issue raised by Chaim Shapiro is a real one and is one of the critical points which the decisors factor in.(Note however that King Saul commited suicide and did not simply "allow G-d's plan to take its course." Needless to add, the rabbinic authorities discuss this as well). Many of the Holocaust responsa regarding suicide refer to the same body of literature and it is not at all clear that the cases are distinguishable. Dov I. Frimer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Charlap <shamino@...> Date: Mon, 14 Feb 2000 06:19:10 +0000 Subject: Microphones Robert Rubinoff wrote: > > It's not really the same as speaking into a microphone. If you are > silent in front of a microphone, nothing happens...no signal is > generated in the wires. Actually, this isn't necessarily the case, either. There are many different kinds of microphones. If you can think of a method for converting sound to electricity, chances are that there exists a product that uses that method. Some generate current in the presence of sound. Some generate miniscule amounts of current, which is internally amplified. Some even use vacuum tubes for this internal amplifier. Some continually process the signals from the actual microphone element via an internal computer. A few new models even go so far as to digitize the sound into a data stream, sending it over fiber optics. Furthermore, most microphones are more sensitive than human hearing. It is nearly impossible for a room to be so silent that absolutely no signal is emitted. (An empty anechoic chamber, such as the kinds used for testing microphones is the only example I can think of, and even then, some mics may emit a small signal.) Miniscule background noises - such as from heating and air-conditioning systems - are picked up even if you don't provide enough amplification to make them audible. IMO. the issues around a microphone are just as complex, if not more so, than for a video camera. -- David ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eric Simon <erics@...> Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2000 12:13:49 -0500 Subject: Rambam yomi Shlomo Pick <picksh@...> writes: > On the one hand that is why Rav Shach vehemently opposed the lubavitch >campaign for the rambam yomi - because one would pasken like the rambam >and not the shulkan aruch Really? Can you (or anyone) explain this further? I mean, don't you think the Lubavitch would follow the Shulchan Arukh HaRav, and posken according to that (or at least start with that)? -- Eric ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Kenneth G Miller <kennethgmiller@...> Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2000 23:50:37 EST Subject: re: Siddur and Tallis Bag Carl Sherer worte in MJ 31:53: <<< The prohibition against sitting on a bench with a siddur on it derives from the prohibition against sitting on a bench with a Torah scroll on it. The latter prohibition is brought in Gemara Menachos somewhere around Daf 25 (sorry, I do not recall the exact daf), and the Rishonim there extend the prohibition to sitting on a bench or chair that has any kind of sefer on it. >>> My question concerns the phrase "any kind of sefer". Has anyone ever seen any place where these "seforim" are clearly defined? I have heard people say that this prohibition concerns only "seforim" such as scrolls of the various books of Tanach, because only when HaShem's Name has been handwritten by a scribe for the sake of the holiness of that Name, only then does the book have enough holiness to forbid sitting on a bench where the book also sits. According to this idea, our printed siddurim and chumashim are not included in this *prohibition*, although there is certainly a *minhag* (custom) to avoid sitting on a bench where these books are placed. Does anyone know of a source which clearly says that this *prohibition* includes our printed books? Akiva Miller ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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