Volume 32 Number 58 Produced: Sun Jun 18 22:19:03 US/Eastern 2000 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Bulmos (5) [Gilad J. Gevaryahu, David and Toby Curwin, Yisrael Medad, Robert Israel, Rabbi Tzvi Liker] Buying Chometz After Pesach [Danny Skaist] Candle caused fires, rachmuneh L'tzlan (4) [Jeanette Friedman, Aliza Fischman, Yisrael Medad, Joseph Gilboa] Gas ovens [Aliza Fischman] Kiddush for Daughter [Moish Gluck] Moled this month [Chaim Shapiro] Napster [Eliezer Kwass] Request for software information [Shmuel Himelstein] Weekday Weddings [Carl Singer] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gilad J. Gevaryahu <Gevaryahu@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 09:52:41 EDT Subject: Bulmos Andy Goldfinger asks (v32n53) <<The Mishnah in tractate "Yoma" speaks of a physical condition called "bulmos" in which a person has extreme hunger. Does anyone know if this is etymologically related to the word "bulimia" (perhaps through a Greek root)?>> Bulimia [L.; Gr. 'bous' =ox + 'limos' =hunger]. Abnormal increase in the sensation of hunger. (Dorland's Illustrated Medical Dictionary, 23rd edition, 1957, p. 209). The same etymology also in Stedman's Medical Dictionary, 25th edition, 1990, p. 218. The Aramaic 'mos' ending is closer to the Gr. 'mos' ending than the English ending without the 's', and the 's' disapperance in English is common. Jastrow traces the word to Gr. boulimos (bulimus) with the same meaning (p. 146). So indeed these two words are related - they are the same word, the same meaning, with slighly different spelling. Gilad J. Gevaryahu ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David and Toby Curwin <curwin@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 18:22:36 +0300 Subject: Bulmos According to Rabbi Klein in A Comprehensive Etymological Dictionary of the Hebrew Language, bulmus literally means bulimia, or ravenous hunger. It comes from the Greek "boulimos", (literally "ox hunger") from "bous"=ox and "limos" = hunger. David Curwin Kvutzat Yavne, Israel <curwin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <isrmedia@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 20:38:18 +0300 Subject: Bulmos Jastrow thinks so. It also has an extended meaning of ravenous sexual appetite: Breishit Rabbah, 51:11,: Amar Rabi Nahman bar Chanin 'kol mi sh'hu lahut acher bulmos shel arayot...'. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Robert Israel <israel@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 13:14:15 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Re: Bulmos I would suspect it is the same word. "Bulimia" comes from the Greek bou (meaning ox) + limoi (hunger), and originally described a morbid hunger (not necessarily the disease called bulimia today). Thus the first English reference quoted in the Oxford English Dictionary, from 1398: Bolismus is inmoderate and vnmesurable as it were an houndes appetyte. Robert Israel <israel@...> Department of Mathematics http://www.math.ubc.ca/~israel University of British Columbia Vancouver, BC, Canada V6T 1Z2 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Tzvi Liker <liker@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 13:14:04 +2 Subject: Re: Bulmos Rav Steinzaltz in his g'mara Yoma and the Jastrow dictinary both state that bulmos is indeed from the Greek "bulimus", and is connected to "bulimia" (the opposite of anorexia, which is starving onessself). Tzvi Liker <liker@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Danny Skaist <danny@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 13:57:06 +0200 Subject: RE: Buying Chometz After Pesach <<Carl M. Sherer Probably not helpful in a lot of other places, but in Yerushalayim it is possible to get bread products during the first couple of weeks after Pesach that carry a special hashgacha that the wheat was ground after Pesach. That solves an awful lot of problems. >> I've wondered about that. Is the wheat shmurah [watched from the time of cutting] or could it have become hametz, and not sold. Or do they sell the wheat anyway. danny ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jeanette Friedman <FriedmanJ@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 09:37:17 EDT Subject: Re: Candle caused fires, rachmuneh L'tzlan Dear Carl: I appreciate your thoughts, since it was my cousins who were nifter in that tragic Yom Tov fire in Williamsburgh. She lit 16 candles in the kitchen. I cannot understand why 16 candles had to be lit. They were on a counter, UNDER the cabinets. In addition to a fire extinguisher, I was thinking that perhaps a fire safety course should have been given. I have seen shabbos candles drip and melt in the summer. When candles are improperly arranged, and there are many of them, the candles can melt each other. I learned this when I was a child, and my mother did that--b"h, we caught it when only the dining room table was on fire, and not before it had spread to the whole room. [I can fully appreciate how frightening it can be. We only light about 5 candles, although I think there may have been 7 that shabbat as we had a guest for shabbat, and with the overhead fan, it tends to cause the wax to melt quickly. Somehow the melted wax that was on the base that all the candles were placed on caught on fire. Very scary. Baruch Hashem, easily put out and no one was hurt, but it was scary. Mod.] There is also possibly oil in glass that can be used. But fire safety rules should be at the top of the list. You can't light candles UNDER cabinets. Especially in such numbers. Jeanette Friedman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Aliza Fischman <fisch.chips@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 10:43:54 -0400 Subject: Re: Candle caused fires, rachmuneh L'tzlan >From: Carl Singer <CARLSINGER@...> <<We periodically hear of tragic fires caused by candles (Shabbos, Yom Tov or Hanukah) associated with mitzvahs. No amount of afterthought and "if only's" will help the grieving families. But I have an idea -- perhaps someone with a more appropriate engineering background might make it reality -- It is, to me, inappropriate to exploit this for commercial gain (i.e., I don't want to get rich with this idea) but would just like to see it widely used with positive consequences.>> They now make these great candles that come in little glass cups. The cups fit directly into the candlesticks. They fit so well that they will not tip over. The candles are smaller than normal Shabbat candles, but they don't just melt the wax. The wax melts to liquid, and then the liquid wax is consumed. After Shabbat all you have left is the little metal disk from the bottom of the candle. This is much easier to clean up than regular candles. Occasionally, the wick leans against the glass and turns it black, but I have never, in 5 1/2 years of wonderful marriage, had one break or even have a thought of starting a fire. You can just clean it with some dish soap and water. Hoping that none of us, our friends, or family ever have to deal with such a tragedy, Aliza (Novogroder) Fischman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <yisraelm@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 20:31:52 +0300 Subject: Candle caused fires, rachmuneh L'tzlan <Fire Safety issue same as Jeanette's posting, deleted. Mod.> One Israeli paper had the burial of the Satmar victims on the Chag. Was that true? [From a conversation in shul today, my understanding is that Satmar is one of the few groups that paskin that Kavod Hames takes precedence and requires kevurah even on Yom Tov. Anyone with further information is encouraged to elaborate. Mod.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph Gilboa <bfgilboa@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 15:06:18 +0300 Subject: Re: Candle caused fires, rachmuneh L'tzlan Another good reason to use the clever windproof "Yerushalmi" candelabra. These are specially designed for hanukka candles that many yerushalmim place outside their doors. They can also be used for Shabbat candles and, because the candles are enclosed, the danger of conflagration is greatly minimized. Yosef Gilboa Rehovot ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Aliza Fischman <fisch.chips@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 10:32:17 -0400 Subject: Gas ovens One Shabbat recently, my husband and I ran into an interesting predicament. We have a gas powered stove and oven. The oven has it's own pilot light. On the stove, the two left burners share one pilot light, and the two right burners share a pilot light. When any of the three flames go out, gas leaks, and you can smell the gas. On a recent Shabbat the left burners' pilot light went out. As we saw it, we had a few options: 1. Relight the pilot with a tranfered fire (light the match from the right burner). 2. Relight it with a new flame (strike the match). 3. Try to move the oven and shut the gas valve. (But the stove is very hard to move). 4. Try to block the gas leak and then relight it after Shabbat. My husband came up with the last one. I was a little bit worried about that one with a 20 month old in the house, aside from the two of us. I was nervous that it would just block the smell and lower the amount of gas leaked, but that it might build up and explode when we tried to relight it. As it happens, we went with that option (#4) anyway, and it worked. In your opinions, what should we do if it happens again? Tizku L'Mitzvot, Aliza (Novogroder) Fischman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Moish Gluck <moish@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 03:02:59 -0400 Subject: Kiddush for Daughter <<From: Shlomo Pick <picksh@...> <<The "rebbe" in question re: kiddush for a daughter, was R. Ya'akov Yisrael Kanyevsky, the Steipler, zt"l. Lema'aseh, the question arose concerning one of my daughters if I had to make a kiddush (she was a preemie and it was after a ceasarian) and I heard the story in Bnei Brak. So I asked, the Steipler's grand-nephew, who said the story "lo hayah ve-lo nivra1" (never was nor ever created). and that's that!>> I heard the story from Rabbi Elchonon Halpern Shlita from London, who heard it first hand from the person who had the story with the Steipler!! How can one say that it NEVER happened just because HE didn't think it did! Does he know for a SURE? It doesn't matter if he is the Steipler's nephew! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Shapiro <Dagoobster@...> Date: Fri, 16 Jun 2000 14:32:17 EDT Subject: Moled this month What was the point of announcing the moled in shul this month (Sivan), when in fact, the moled for the month had already passed? Is it because the announcement is still the minhag (custom)? Chaim Shapiro ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eliezer Kwass <kwass@...> Date: Tue, 13 Jun 2000 13:32:26 +0200 Subject: Napster Shalom For a discussion of copyright and halakha, please have a look at http://www.darchenoam.org/ethics/copyright/copyright.htm on the Darche Noam website. You'll find a number of articles on halakha's perpective on copyright protection, as well as a couple of links to get to the basic secular material. About Napster: What makes Napster a special case of the standard copyright moral/halakhic issue? The illegality or immorality of copying software, media, or books does not seem to change when it is done to individual copyrighted mp3s using Napster technology. However -- A. Napster's technology makes illegally copying mp3s so easy. Even though it is not a new moral issue, it poses a new moral challenge. In the privacy of one's home, at the touch of a button, acheiving an equal quality reproduction with such ease for free -- it makes it so simple to infringe on copyright. B. Napster (the company) itself is not illegally copying mp3s, but has set up a system that makes it so easy for so many others to. Let's say, for example that the accusation is correct, and that most people use Napster for copyright infringement. Can Napster hide behind the legal uses of the software or is their enterprise one big lifnei iveir? What about marketing some weapon that is primarily used for gang fights and only sometimes used for self defense? Also: 1. Similar software has been developed (pointera) that allows sharing but filters out copyright protected material. 2. One of the editorials on Napster saw it as a message to the recording industry that they are not marketing properly. The industry should learn that people want to be able to create their own personalized music collections, not have them dictated by what is stuck together on an album. This is an important business point but seems to be irrelevant to the ethical question. Just because something is unavailable the way we want it does not justify obtaining it illegally. We must wait until the market comes up with a legal alternative. be well Eliezer Kwass Darche Noam website ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <shmuelh@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 12:12:16 +0300 Subject: Request for software information Is anyone aware of (or has anyone written) software for the PC that can keep track of Aliyot, etc., in Shul - i.e., a Gabbai's tool of some kind? I'd be interested in any such software that can help any aspect of Shul management. Shmuel Himelstein ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <CARLSINGER@...> Date: Wed, 14 Jun 2000 08:26:10 EDT Subject: Re: Weekday Weddings The duration and ending time of weekday weddings seems problematic. 1) somehow my system tells me that it's not too healthy to eat a slab of prime rib or a plate of chicken at 10:30 or 11PM. 2) I find that many people (myself included) "skip out" before the group benching / shevah brochas -- all sorts of informal mizumins take place as people bench helter-skelter, etc. Does anyone have any suggestions for dealing with this -- other than the generic make things shorter and stick to a schedule. We (my wife and I) are now frequently go to the schmorg (usally arriving late) and the chupah but forgo the seudah -- for some weddings. It lets us get home by 10 or 11PM, bright eyed and bushytailed for work the next day. Also - on a partly related topic -- In Edison several years ago, we pushed partly by example, and partly in discussion with others for smaller Bar Mitzvahs. A very touch subject, especially in more affluent communities. I'm wondering if other communities have found creative approaches. [I don't think it worked to well in Edison / Highland Park. I was part of the group that put together the proposal that was given to the Vaad. I have not heard much about it in the last few years, and I do not think it is being effectively pushed by the Vaad. Mod.] Carl Singer ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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