Volume 32 Number 80 Produced: Mon Jul 3 21:13:56 US/Eastern 2000 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Mazal Tov: It's a girl [Michael, Bonnie and Ora Rogovin] Bnei Banim [Rabbi Y. H. Henkin] Burial on Yom Tov [I. Harvey Poch] Essay on Mitzvoh Gedola Lihiyos Bisimcha Tomid [<Mhayehudi@...>] Halakhically Legitimate Heterim --- Why Not? [Eliezer Kwass] Kiddush for Girls [Shlomo Pick] Tikun Sofrim [Ben Z. Katz] Tzitzit Question [Rabbi Yisroel Finman] Whatever Happened to Derech Eretz (32:71) [Kenneth H. Ryesky, Esq.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael, Bonnie and Ora Rogovin <rogovin@...> Date: Sun, 02 Jul 2000 08:34:16 -0400 Subject: Mazal Tov: It's a girl B"H With thanks and praise to God for all the abundant blessings bestowed upon us, we announce with great simcha (joy) the birth of our daughter and sister Adina Shira bat Moshe Yisrael HaCohen v'Bluma Devora. Adina was born on Friday 27 Sivan (June 30) at 12:13 pm at Long Island Jewish Hospital. She weighed in at 7 lbs 10 oz (3.47kg) and is 20.25 in (51.44 cm) long. Mother and baby are doing fine and are expected home on Tuesday; Bonnie's phone # at LIJ is 718-470-5524. Y'gadla l'torah u'mitzvot , l'chupa, u'l'ma'asim tovim May she grow to a life of Torah and mitzvot, to be wed and raise a Jewish family and perform many good deeds throughout her life. Adina=noble, delicate, gracious Shira=poetry, song, music We hope to post pictures within a week or so at http://home1.gte.net/rogovin Michael, Bonnie and Ora Rogovin 76-40 173rd Street Fresh Meadows, New York 11366 718.380.8016 <rogovin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Y. H. Henkin <henkin@...> Date: Sun, 2 Jul 2000 15:17:48 +0300 Subject: Bnei Banim Shalom, I am pleased to report that vol. 1 of Shu"t Bnei Banim has been reprinted, after having been unavailable for a number of years. A limited number of sets of vols. 1-3 should be available in sefarim stores in a few months, or they can be gotten through me. Cost of the set is $50, including sea mail. For air mail, add $10 US. Individual volumes 1, 2, or 3 are $20 each, including sea mail. For air mail, add $5 per volume. With Torah blessings, Rabbi Yehuda Henkin 1/11 Nurock Street 96109 Jerusalem, Israel P.S. "Equality Lost: Essays in Torah Commentary, Halacha, and Jewish Thought (Urim Publishers, 1999) should be available now in the stores , or from me for $22 including air mail. A New Form of Plagiarism This consists of writing an article or a book and citing a teshuva or ma'amar, but only in reference to some specific point, while not mentioning that the teshuvah is in fact the source of many of the writer's references and arguments. For instance, Bnei Banim I, 35 on mixed or separate seating at weddings is closely paralleled by an article in a recent annual. The writer does cites some of my conclusions, but only on page 169. On page 164, on the other hand, he quotes a certain gaonic work at length, and writes: "This Gaonic response is not discussed by the rishonim, and not mentioned by the poskim." It is discussed at length in Bnei Banim. Another central observation, that the Bach in commenting on a certain minhag in Cracow did so only to explain the minhag but did not make it into a general prohibition, is also in Bnei Banim. I have seen similar very partial attributions in articles and books on women's issues such as women's megillah readings. No one would attempt this with, say, the Igrot Moshe, it being too widely known. It is my hope that the re-availability of Bnei Banim will help minimize it here as well. [In addition, I have placed on the web site a translation of an unpublished teshuva by Rabbi Y. H. Henkin on Women and Birkat Hagomel. It can be found at: http://mail-jewish.org/New_Articles.htm#Gomel Iy"h it will appear next year in a volume of translations. It was written after the third volume of shut Bnei Banim. Mod.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: I. Harvey Poch <harvpoch@...> Date: Mon, 03 Jul 2000 11:14:45 -0400 Subject: Burial on Yom Tov I am just now catching up on a couple of weeks of postings, and have followed this thread with great interest. I live a few doors away from a Jewish cemetery, and have once been asked to attend a kevuroh on the second day of a Yom Tov - an event which had not occurred here for twenty years previously. The funeral home is not far away (10-15 minutes walk). A non-Jew drove the hearse, and the Chevra Kadisha forbade anyone from handling the shovels who had not participated in the Taharoh, even though we 'minyan-men' are also Chevra Kadisha members. Except for one grandson of the niftar, who had walked up on behalf of the family, the family did not attend the burial. In fact, the Chevra Kadisha is allowed to be driven to *and from* the kevuroh (as one poster mentioned re: the Breuers' CK). The reason is that, if they could not be driven back, they would decline to go in the first place, and the kevuroh could not take place. Once they are allowed to drive, they can go any distance - it is not necessary to go to the nearest cemetery (the niftar may not have burial rights there) - so going from NYC to Upstate was not unreasonable (although it was unnecessary - they could have waited another day). In the case I referred to before, the Rov whose father was niftar told me during the shiva that he would never have permitted the Yom Tov activity if he hadn't been convinced that there would be no chilul Yom Tov. I didn't have the heart to tell him what had really happened - it is almost impossible to perform the necessary work in our technological society without chilul Yom Tov (and I speak as a professional funeral director), unless there is a person standing by as a referee who knows both the customs of the funeral process (rechitzoh, taharoh, halboshoh, levoyoh, kevuroh) as well as the halochos of Yom Tov in depth. With one Yom Tov burial in 20 years, it's unlikely to find such a person. If Satmar does this on a regular basis, they would be much more familiar with the do's and don'ts. Meanwhile, our two Jewish funeral homes are (officially, anyway) closed on Yom Tov. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Mhayehudi@...> Date: Mon, 3 Jul 2000 12:34:37 EDT Subject: Essay on Mitzvoh Gedola Lihiyos Bisimcha Tomid BS"D I have watched with interest as the saying (and concept) 'mitzvoh gedola lihiyos bisimcha tomid' (it is a great mitzvoh to be happy constantly) has spread and surged in popularity in recent years (in part due to it being [part of] the lyrics to popular songs and perhaps also because of the increased focus on inner thoughts and emotions with the increased dispersion of psychological terms and concepts among the population at large). Many people seem to have taken it as axiomatic that there is a mitzvah (commandment) to be constantly bisimcha (to be happy) in Judaism. Interestingly however, the saying 'mitzvoh gedola lihiyos bisimcha tomid' seems to be actually of recent origin (approximately 200 years old) and not stated in older sources such as the Talmud or halachic codes, to my knowledge. I have given the matter much thought and recorded some of my thoughts and research on the subject, as I attempted to ascertain whether this is, in fact, as some might have it, an indisputable fact accepted by all Torah authorities / sources. I hope people will enjoy it as food for thought and perhaps it will bring happiness to people as well (as Torah has the power to do). Thanks to the moderator for providing the forum for this exploration. I would be interested to hear if readers can shed additional light on the matter. Mordechai [Article is on the mail-jewish web page and can be found at: http://mail-jewish.org/New_Articles.htm#Simcha Mod.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eliezer Kwass <kwass@...> Date: Sun, 2 Jul 2000 14:21:21 +0200 Subject: Halakhically Legitimate Heterim --- Why Not? Shalom -- concerning the recent string about chumrot and legitimate heteirim: An article by Rav Shaya Karlinsky (building on an piece by Rav Wolbe) helps put the issue of chumrot into perspective. The key issue with chumrot is how they become part of our avodat (= service of) Hashem. While clearly valuing the role of chumrot, he encourages us to question our motives: We must question our motives. Why do we want to avoid relying on (possibly lenient) opinions that served the Jewish community well for decades? Is it because we want to be "frummer" than our grandparents? Or is it because we realize that G-d has given us greater resources than in generations past, and as such the level of our ability and responsibility to serve Him have also increased? If it is truly the latter (as I would like to hope) then how hard are we working to identify, to clarify, to understand the scope of those responsibilities? How careful are we about discharging all of them, not just the relatively easy or highly visible ones? Is there a consistency in our level of chumrot? Inconsistent chumrot can leave us with an artificial feeling of piety. Rav Volbe makes the point very sharply: Chumrot, stringencies, are not a "risk free" endeavor. A chumra in one area of our observance has the very strong potential to enable us to rationalize laxity in another area. That is not true service. The article is at: http://www.darchenoam.org/articles/web/CHUMROT.html kol tuv Eliezer Kwass ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shlomo Pick <picksh@...> Date: Sun, 02 Jul 2000 13:31:18 +0200 Subject: Kiddush for Girls shalom, Sorry to be late with this, but I have been involved in the simcha of marrying off my daughter and so this is a bit late. Recently I wrote concerning a kiddush for a daughter: <<The "rebbe" in question re: kiddush for a daughter, was R. Ya'akov Yisrael Kanyevsky, the Steipler, zt"l. Lema'aseh, the question arose concerning one of my daughters if I had to make a kiddush (she was a preemie and it was after a ceasarian) and I heard the story in Bnei Brak. So I asked, the Steipler's grand-nephew, who said the story "lo hayah ve-lo nivra1" (never was nor ever created). and that's that!>> to that the following reply was sent: >I heard the story from Rabbi Elchonon Halpern Shlita from London, who >heard it first hand from the person who had the story with the Steipler!! >How can one say that it NEVER happened just because HE didn't think it >did! Does he know for a SURE? It doesn't matter if he is the Steipler's >nephew! i took up the challenge and and went back to the nephew, who re-reported that he had personally asked the steipler's son - rav chayim kanyevski - about the story. Rav Chayim dismissed it as "narishkeit" - foolishness. not to be taken lightly, i then went to Rav Chayim's son, Rav Shlomo Kanyevski, Rosh Yeshiva of Tiferet Zion in Bnei Brak. He confirmed that there was no family tradition to this. moreover, he reminded that he had not made a single kiddush for any daughter who had been born - afilu pa'am achat! again he dismissed the story as narishkeit and suggested that his family tradition is the emesdic (truthful) one! respectively yours shlomo pick ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ben Z. Katz <bkatz@...> Date: Sun, 02 Jul 2000 23:49:58 -0500 Subject: Re: Tikun Sofrim >From: Barry Best <barry.h.best@...> >There was some talk recently about the hypothetical case of unearthing >an ancient sefer torah. In a similar vein, but more practical, with all >of the manuscripts that are being recovered and printed in our >generation, have there been instances where we have found halachic >decisions of Rishonim that were previously unknown and contradict >accepted rulings of Acharonim? Is there an accepted way of handling >such a circumstance? I will ask a better question - what about responsa that were misprinted from the original manuscripts, or that were censored when they were printed? There are many such examples. One is dealt with in an article I cited in a previous posting by SZ Lieman. A second that I am aware of deals with the Rambam's characterization of the messiah. In manuscripts of the Yad Hachazakah the Rambam states that if the purported messiah dies, he cannot have been the messiah. Because of the obvious reference to jesus, when the Yad was printed in Christian countries, this was left out. Ben Z. Katz, M.D. Children's Memorial Hospital, Division of Infectious Diseases 2300 Children's Plaza, Box # 20, Chicago, IL 60614 Ph 773-880-4187 Fax 773-880-8226 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Yisroel Finman <NISHMAT@...> Date: Mon, 3 Jul 2000 19:25:48 EDT Subject: Re: Tzitzit Question << From: <EngineerEd@...> The fact that this Parsha covers the Mitzvah of Tzitzit gets me thinking about a problem that I had this year. Does a vinyl rain poncho that has four corners need fringes? I know that while cloth items need fringes, leather does not. So what is the halacha on plastic clothing items? >> Halacha asks concerning whether or not a leather poncho type of covering requires tzitzis. The conclusion is that in order to be required to have tzitzis attached, the material used in fabricating the garment must be woven, A garment made of solid pieces of leather does not require tzitzis. If the leather were cut into strips and woven or interlaced, then it would require tzitzts. The same criteria would hold true for other materials, like plastics. Rabbi Yisroel Finman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Kenneth H. Ryesky, Esq. <khresq@...> Date: Fri, 30 Jun 2000 13:29:32 -0400 Subject: Whatever Happened to Derech Eretz (32:71) The anonymous posting "Whatever Happened to Derech Eretz" in Issue 32:71 elicits the broader issue of accountability of tax-exempt charitable organizations, Jewish-oriented and otherwise. Spurred to action by certain well-publicized improprieties by various tax-exempts from across the entire spectrum, Congress and the Internal Revenue Service are stepping up their regulations and scrutinies of the non-profits. New York State and other states have likewise paid increasing attention to their non-profits. Without going into the intricacies of the Internal Revenue Code (I am a former IRS attorney), most tax-exempt organizations are required to provide certain information regarding their operations to the public. In my humble opinion, if more would-be donors would exercise their rights to know, then we would have less improprieties in the tax-exempt world. Kenneth H. Ryesky, Esq. P.O. Box 926, East Northport, NY 11731, USA 631/266-5854 (vox), 631/266-3198 (fax) E-mail: <khresq@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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