Volume 34 Number 45 Produced: Sat May 12 21:36:16 US/Eastern 2001 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: 8th Day on a Lighter Note [Saul Davis] Alarm Systems [Carl Singer] Aufrug "bavarfing" [Chaim Twerski] Bishul Akum for Sefardim [Stephen Phillips] Call to translate Degel Machaneh Ephraim into English [Paul Ginsburg] Death of the Infant of Dovid Hamelech (3) [Rabbi Howard Alpert, Frank Silbermann, Zev Sero] Dry roasted salted wheat kernels [Ephraim Dardashti] Ibn Ezra [Saul Davis] Middle letter of the Torah in Kiddushin, etc [Eli Lansey] Rabanon overriding D'orisa [Chaim G Steinmetz] Shalom Alechem [Rose Landowne] Source for how to tie tzitzis (2) [Sid Gordon, Shmuel Himelstein] Request: Help finding a classmate [Daniel Geretz] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Saul Davis <sdavis@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 16:59:12 +0300 Subject: 8th Day on a Lighter Note Bob Werman wrote: "I was born on the 8th of Pesah [22 Nisan]. Since coming on aliya 34 years ago, I have had no birthdays and remain just as young as I was when I came." My problem is much more serious. I was born on 28 Adar 1 5727. If I only have a birthday in Adar 1 then I am just 12 years old. My barmitsvah year was a non leap year, friends who were born in Adar 2 (and are thus younger than me) had there barmitsvah before me! Saul Davis Beer-Sheva, Israel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <CARLSINGER@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 14:40:43 EDT Subject: Alarm Systems This may address only part of the situation - but in a previous home which had motion sensors, we "defeated" them by placing a post-it (r) note over the sensor. Gut Shabbos Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Twerski <chaimtw@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 12:20:50 -0500 Subject: Aufrug "bavarfing" > And throwing hard, wrapped candy...does that mean you can hit > someone in the noggin? I remember when there were aufrufs in the Agudah > in Crown Heights, they would throw the stuff hard and aim for the head, > especially on Simchas Torah. Never did like that idea very much.... The common practice of emplying this minhag has long distressed me. The original concept was to shower the young chassan with sweets to symbolize that his new life should be wonderful and good, a beautiful display of friendship and good will. It has deteriorated, how unfortunately, to a point that the aufrufen more resembles a kiyum of "urgomuhu kol anshei iro .....". [and all the people of the town shall stone him - Mod.] It motivates the baser instincts in many people, and for a few minutes the shul or bais medrash begins to resemble an unruly elementary classroom after the teacher has left the classroom. How degrading! The first time there was a chassan in my bais medrash I announced to the members of the shul that I would insist that the manner to "bavarf" the chassan must be in line with the meaning of the custom. I then instituded three takanos. 1) only the women may throw the candy bags (this by itself is enough to take care of the problem, the women are never aggressive-it is a male problem only), 2) the throwing must be in an underhand motion, 3) once a bag has hit the floor it become property of the shul and becomes the property of the children only, no one may pick up a bag that has landed to toss it at the chassan. It worked. The aufruf was back in its proper place. Had these takanot not worked, my next takana would be that only marshmellows, popcorn and raisins would be permitted to be placed in the candy bags. Chaim Twerski ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Stephen Phillips <stephenp@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 13:55 +0100 (BST) Subject: Bishul Akum for Sefardim Boruch Hashem, my daughter has just got engaged to a young man from Yershalyim. He is a Sefardi (his family are from Iran) and he used to own a restaurant in Yershalyim. He mentioned to me something that gives me pause for thought and perhaps should other's also, especially Sefardim. He drew my attention to the Shulchan Aruch Yoreh De'ah Siman 113:7. There the Mechaber (the author, Rav Yosef Karo, whom the Sefardim follow) states that to avoid food being considered "Bishul Akum" (food cooked by a non-Jew, which is generally prohibited to a Jew) it is not sufficient for the Jew merely to light the stove, but the Jew must take some other part in the cooking process (like placing the pot on the stove). The Remo (Rav Moshe Isserlis, whom the Ashkenazim follow) states that is our (i.e. the Ashkenazim's) custom to be lenient and permit the food if the Jew only lit the stove. Up until now, I was under the impression that all caterers, hotels and restaurants who employ non-Jewish cooking staff have the Shomer (the Rabbinical supervisor) light the stove and then let the non-Jewish staff get on with it. The question arises, therefore, can a Sefardi eat in a hotel, etc. which is under the supervision of an Ashkenazi Kashrus authority? Might the food not be considered Bishul Akum for them? Stephen Phillips. <stephenp@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Paul Ginsburg <GinsburgP@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 11:32:41 -0400 Subject: Call to translate Degel Machaneh Ephraim into English Yesterday (17 Iyar) was the 201st yahrzeit of the Rabbi Moshe Chaim Ephraim of Sudilkov, grandson of the Baal Shem Tov, and author of the sefer Degel Machaneh Ephraim. Degel Machaneh Ephraim is one of the classic works of Chassidism since it is one of the few seforim which include teachings directly from the Baal Shem Tov. He received these teaching directly from his grandfather! Degel Machaneh Ephraim has never been translated into English!! Certainly there must be someone to undertake this project! (I would do this myself, however my Hebrew is not sufficient for the task). The Baal Shem Tov said that Moshiach will come when the Baal Shem Tov's teachings are disseminated. Degel Machaneh Ephraim contains these teachings. For over 200 year these teaching remain inaccessible to the English-speaking world. It is now time!! If not now, when? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Howard Alpert <howarda@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 09:03:27 -0400 Subject: Re: Death of the Infant of Dovid Hamelech Len Mansky writes: >The Torah makes clear that children shall not be punished for sins of >the parents; in Ezekiel Ch. 18, Jeremiah 31:29, 2 Kings 14:6, 2 >Chron. 25:4. >After David's sin with Bathsheva and Uziah he is forgiven (2 >Sam. 12:13). Yet hs infant, born to Bathsheva, dies as punishment >(ibid., 12:14). >Can someone please explain the conflicts? The principle that a child is not punished for the sins of the parent is limited to adult children. Children younger than Bar/Bat Mitzvah are subject to divine punishment for the sins of their parents. This informs one of two explanations found in classical sources for the Bracha, "Baruch ShePatrani MiShel Zu", which is said when one's child reaches Bar/Bat Mitzvah. The Bracha is understood as being said in thankfulness at being relieved of the responsibility of having one's child punished for one's own sins. Howard Alpert ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 09:29:26 -0500 (CDT) Subject: Re: Death of the Infant of Dovid Hamelech (Also, I believe a Torah passage refers to G-d blessing the children of the righteous for a thousand generations, but visiting the sins of the parents upon the children up to the third of forth generation of those who hate Him.) That G-d punishes children for this sins of the parents should be obvious to anyone who observes society. I always assumed that the prohibition of punishing children for the sins of the parents applied only to human courts. It is not necessarily unjust for G-d to punish innocent children, because G-d is capable of bestowing unlimited compensation to such children either in this world or in the World to Come. You and I lack the ability to compensate unfairly punished children in the World to Come, so for us to punish parents through their children would be unjust. Frank Silbermann New Orleans, Louisiana <fs@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Zev Sero <Zev@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 14:12:14 -0400 Subject: Re: Death of the Infant of Dovid Hamelech It shows the importance of learning chumash with Rashi. Rashi makes it clear that this applies only to adults and not to children. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ephraim Dardashti <EDardashti@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 09:12:01 EDT Subject: Re: Dry roasted salted wheat kernels As an aside I want to note that dry roasted salted wheat kernels are consumed in Iran as a snack even today. The wheat is mixed with roasted marijuana seeds and is consumed by all. The roasted mixture is famous for its flavor. This is not an every day snack. Ephraim Dardashti ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Saul Davis <sdavis@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 17:26:49 +0300 Subject: Ibn Ezra I inherited a set of Humashim from my late, great-uncle, Eli Cashdan zts"l, who was a talmid hakham and a bibliophile. The Humash is in 5 volumes and every page has 7 sections including the Torah text, Onqeles and Rash"i. The interesting parts are 2 commentaries on Ibn Ezra - Yahel Or and Qarney Or - together these 2 are called Mehoqeqey Yehuda. (There is also something called Meqorey Rash"i). All I know is that the Mehoqeqey Yehuda was written by Yehuda Liv (ben Yitshaq) Qarinsqy from Minsk. The Humash was published by Metz in Vilna in 5688 (=1928). Does anyone know anything about this Humash? Has anyone seen or heard of this perush (commentary) on Ibn Ezra. Is there a modern printing of the Mehoqeqey Yehuda? Who was Yehuda Liv Qarinsqy (logic dictates that he would have died in the Shoah)? BTW if anyone has difficulty with an Ibn Ezra tell me, I can see what the Mehoqeqey Yehuda says and fax the appropriate page. Saul Davis Beer-Sheva, Israel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eli Lansey <elansey@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 10:11:37 -0400 Subject: Re: Middle letter of the Torah in Kiddushin, etc I seem to remember this topic having been discussed a while ago but anyway: First of all, it is interesting that the counts of letters that I have seen show that there is a 4834 letter discrepancy versus the 4829 letter discrepancy that is mentioned in the document quoted. Anyway, one of my rabei'im at school gave a shiur on the letter discrepancy. According to his count there are 304,805 letters in the Torah. The middle letter should therefor be 157,237. The 'vav' is letter 152,403 causing a 4834 letter discrepancy, nowhere even close to the middle. He then pointed out that the 'vav' in gachon is enlarged. He compiled a list of all the larged and small letters in the Torah. The vav in gachon is the middle one. As for the other problems involving counts of words, etc, he said that they are also the middle of something other than the straight counting of the words, etc. Eli Lansey. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim G Steinmetz <cgsteinmetz@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 09:32:18 -0400 Subject: Re: Rabanon overriding D'orisa See Encyclopedia Talmudis v7 p. 101 - 104 (Divrei Sofrim section 6) for many examples and references. Gut Shabbos Chaim G. Steinmetz <cgsteinmetz@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rose Landowne <ROSELANDOW@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 18:58:47 EDT Subject: Re: Shalom Alechem I once heard that it was to make up for the 12 fewer brachot of the shabbat amidah , and that Ein Kelokenu serves the same purpose shabbat morning. (I don't know what you do about mincha). Rose Landowne << From: <icaspi@...> The discussion re: Shalom Alechem reminds me that I have been seeking an explanation for the custom of repeating each verse 3 times. To date, other than a shrug of the shoulders, the only suggestion has been that it is somehow related to the concept of the 2 malachim who accompany a Jew to his home from shul on Friday nights. This would seem to explain 2 repetitions (one for each malach) but not 3 repetitions). >> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Sid Gordon <sid.gordon@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 19:00:58 +0200 Subject: Source for how to tie tzitzis An easy-to-use reference is the original Jewish Catalog (Vol. 1, page 51) -- a good reference for a lot of Jewish how-to's (how to choose an etrog, how to make a gragger, how to blow a shofar, etc.) I don't know if it's still in print (it's very 1970's) but the original publisher was The Jewish Publication Society, and the authors are Richard Siegel, Michael Strassfield and Sharon Strassfield. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <himels@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 17:42:58 +0200 Subject: Source for how to tie tzitzis Robert Klein asks for a diagrammatic source for how to tie Tzitzit. The closest I know (with 2 diagrams - pp. 167-8) is Kitzur Shulchan Aruch Mevu'ar Ume'tzuyar by HaRav David Feldman, who at the time of publication (1951) was the Av Beit Din of Mahzikei HaDas in Manchester. It lists the place of publication as Manchester and New York, but no publisher. It has an excellent diagrammatic section ( pp.172-185) on how to tie Tefillin knots, although I have a sneaking suspicion that this was aimed at righties and not at lefties such as I. Shmuel Himelstein ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Geretz <DGeretz@...> Date: Fri, 11 May 2001 09:08:20 EDT Subject: Request: Help finding a classmate I'd like to enlist your help in tracking down a member of my high school class with whom we have lost touch. We are attempting to organize a "virtual reunion". The individual is: Nelson Moskowitz originally from: Cleveland, Ohio last known whereabouts: New York (Long Island or Rockland County, don't recall) about 10 years ago Graduated HTC ("Skokie") Yeshiva High School in 1981. If you know how I might be able to contact Nelson, please drop me an e-mail as <dgeretz@...> Thank you, Daniel Geretz Atlantic Advisors, Inc. <dgeretz@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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