Volume 36 Number 08 Produced: Tue Mar 19 5:40:46 US/Eastern 2002 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: 1492 and Tisha b'Av [A. Seinfeld] 2nd day Chag In Isroel for Visitors [Perritz (Alan) Davidson] Birkat ha-Ilanot [Hannah and Daniel Katsman] Birkath Kohanim [Jonathan & Randy Chipman] Cohain Marrying a Women Divorced from Non-Jew [Avram Sacks] Gomel [Chaim Mateh] Making A Minyan With Nine [Noach [Neville] Stern] Unmarried Men not Wearing a Talit Gadol [Binyomin Segal] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: A. Seinfeld <aseinfeld@...> Date: Mon, 18 Mar 2002 04:09:35 -0800 Subject: 1492 and Tisha b'Av Tradition and history tell us several facts: 1. The Expulsion from Spain was on 9 Av 5252 (1492) 2. Columbus had to delay his voyage by 2 days bcs the port was clogged with Jews leaving 3. Columbus set sail on Aug 3, 1492. 3. Our perpetual calendar repeats itself every 19 years. Therefore, the lunar-solar calendar of 5252/1492 should have repeated itself in 19x26 years later, in 5746/1986. 5. However, in that year, 9 Av corresponded to July 25. The closest we came in recent years was 5750/1990, When 9 Av was on July 31. Any ideas how to reconcile these facts? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Perritz (Alan) Davidson <perzvi@...> Date: Sun, 17 Mar 2002 20:52:27 -0500 Subject: 2nd day Chag In Isroel for Visitors The way I was taught the minhag in the yeshive velt is to follow the custom from where you are from which means if you are visiting from chutz la'aretz you observe only 2 days yomtov and there are minyanim to support this in Eretz Yisroel -- and if a visitor from Eretz Yisroel is spending yomtov in Chutz la'aretz they do non-yomtov activities (such as putting on tefillin) in private. Those opinions which hold otherwise (Eg, the Baal HaTanya) hold that 1 day yomtov in Eretz Yisroel has nothing to do with lack of sefekus but has to do with the kedusha of the land -- therefore, regardless of where one is from they should follow the minhag for days of yomtov where they are for yomtov. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Hannah and Daniel Katsman <hannahpt@...> Date: Sat, 16 Mar 2002 22:41:04 +0200 Subject: Birkat ha-Ilanot Last week's issue of Shabbat be-Shabbato (a parasha sheet in Israel) contained a discussion of Birkat ha-Ilanot, which among other things stated that the blessing should not be recited on Shabbat. Does anyone know of a source for this? From my days in Washington Heights, I remember being told that the Breuer's community goes to the park en masse on Shabbat to say the berakha, although I don't believe I ever saw it. Daniel Katsman Petah Tikva ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jonathan & Randy Chipman <yonarand@...> Date: Thu, 14 Mar 2002 08:47:12 +0200 Subject: Re: Birkath Kohanim In v36n05, Akiva Miller comments on Mark Symons question about the phrase "Am K'doshecha Ka'amur" said before Birkat Kohanim, and especially the meaning of the wurd "ka'amur," and Ben Katz' suggested solution based on Rabbenu saadya Gaon. He comments <<I don't see how this text solves anything. The word "ka-amur" is always followed by a quote which supports the idea which had preceded... But when you pluck these words out of context, it loses all meaning. "The Kohanim [of] Your holy people, as it is said!" I don't get it.>> It is anonalous. It seems clear to me that the minhag as it stands, of saying "am kedoshekha ka'amur," is as such a shibush (confused text). Perhaps it became accepted, snce outside of Eretz Yisrael the general minhag is to recite the whole tefillah before dukhaning, and then say "Kohanim" out loud, so as to call them to recite the blessing. It should be noted that the calling of the kohanim by the hazan or whomever is an obligation mentioned by the gemara in Sotah 38a, inferred from the phrase "amor lahem" in Num 6:23. The saying of the remaining words, "am kedoshekha ka'amur," is I assume simply to finish off the standard text. The point that in this context it doesn't make a whole lot of sense is well taken. In Israel, where birkat kohanim is recited everyday or, in some parts of the Gallilee and Tiberias, only on Shabbat and Yom Tov (the Chief Rabbi of Haifa recently issued a pesak bringing that city, and whatever other regions of the North will accept his view, into line with the rest of the country), the practice is for one of the congregation to say "kohanim" and for the kohanim to immedately begin with the Birkat Hamitzvah preceding the Dukhaning; if there is only one kohen, he begins by himself immediately after "ulekha na'eh lehodot... Amen" -- i.e., the end of the previous blessing of the Amidah. Yehonatan Chipman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Avram_Sacks@...> (Avram Sacks) Date: Fri, 15 Mar 2002 12:34:14 -0600 Subject: Cohain Marrying a Women Divorced from Non-Jew The following question recently came to us from a friend who is not within the Orthodox community: What is the status of a cohain in the following situation: Jewish woman marries non-Jew. Jewish woman later divorces non-Jew. Jewish woman falls in love with cohain and decide to get married. Cohain tells Jewish woman, who is not observant, but who knows that a cohain shouldn't marry a divorced woman, that her prior marriage to non-Jew is irrelevant because Jewish law wouldn't recognize the marriage anyway. Relative of Jewish woman now wants to know what would be the status of any children they might have should they proceed with marriage. Orthodox parents of Jewish woman are happy that daughter is marrying a Jew. Marriage is slated to take place in a reform synagogue. My understanding is that although a cohain may not marry a divorced woman, in this case, the woman is not divorced from a Jew, so, from a halachic perspective her marriage and subsequent divorce from a non-Jew is not relevant vis a vis the prohibition against a cohain marrying a divorced woman. However, I have also heard that a cohain may not marry a woman who has had intercourse with a non-Jew. Correct? If so, would the marriage cause him to lose the k'huna? And then, what would be the status of the children? Avram Sacks <achdut@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Mateh <chaim-m@...> Date: Thu, 14 Mar 2002 23:09:35 +0200 Subject: Re: Gomel In vol 36 #04, Hillel Markowitz wrote: << In our shul, sometimes a minyon (exactly) will gather near the ezras nashim and answer the bracha. It does not have to be during the aliyos but could be after minyan. That way the woman is not embarassed and it is easier on the rest of the congregation.>> To which, in vol 36 #06, Jeanette Friedman replied: <<what is there to be embarrassed about, ...>> Perhaps it refers to the woman's embarrassment making the bracha in front of a group of men. This would jive with the Ba'er Heiteiv 219:3:1 who says that the reason why women were not accustomed to make the gomel bracha was "kol kvoda bas melech pnima" which refers to the tzniut of a woman not to be too "public", including making a bracha in front of a group of men. This brings to my mind the famous verse in Micha 6:8, "and what does Hashem demand of you if only to do justice and love chessed and go modestly (hatznei'a lechet) with your G-d". The Metzudas David and Tzion say that this refers to tzniut (modesty): "and to go modestly with your G-d in the ways of His Mitzvot, not with great publicity and to be arrogant". BTW, Rav Shlomo Zalman ZT"L (in Halichot Shlomo 23:4) says that "a new mother (yoledet) makes the Gomel bracha when her relatives (including men presumably) gather in her house". I guess there is less of a tzniut issue making the Gomel in front of men relatives than in front of "strange" men. Kol Tuv, Chaim ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Noach [Neville] Stern <noacheyn@...> Date: Sat, 16 Mar 2002 21:52:05 +1000 Subject: Making A Minyan With Nine In recent years the demographics of my city-based shul have made it difficult to get a minyan for Shabbes Shacharis - let alone a minyan whose majority is composed of Shomrei Shabbat [observant], or (sad to relate) whose Sha'Tz [leader of service] and Ba'al Kor'ei [reader from the Torah] are themselves shomer [observant]. When first I came there, about three years ago, I was taken aback by a local custom as follows below. On several occasions, Shabbat Shacharis would be one person short of a minyan. When the service reached a point where a minyan was required in order to recite (e.g.) Kaddish, Barechu, repetition of Amidah etc, the Rabbi (!) would signal someone to open the Aron ha-Kodesh. The service would thereupon continue as if it had a minyan. One Shabbat the service arrived in this manner at Kriat ha-Torah [Reading of the Torah]. An impasse ensued, accompanied by intense discussion whose Chelm-like logic was as follows. In order to do peticha [open the Ark] to take out the Torah, the Ark had first to be closed. If it were closed, there would no longer be a minyan and therefore peticha could not be done. I felt impelled to shrug my shoulders and say, 'So, nu, no peticha, no kriat haTorah. Everyone take chumashim and read for themselves, and let's move on.' In the absurdity of the moment, it struck me that if we got ourselves around the peticha problem, and there were perhaps only one sefer Torah in the Ark, the act of removing it would itself nullify the putative minyan. The temptation to spin more PurimToyres was almost irresistible. I chipped into the argument with suggestions e.g. that the President or Rabbi might wish to 'keep the sefer's place' in the Aron by sitting in it. However this might mean that at some stage they too would have to be carried around and kissed. I developed a position that we should continue IFF (if and ONLY if) the Torah *itself* were to help us out with peticha and by reading from itself upon the bimah. We could then consider whether to mechavved it also with Musaf. No one besides myself was at all amused. Fortunately the problem on the occasion I described was resolved by the arrival of a tenth. On discussing the issue with friends and teachers elsewhere, another 'minyan of nine' practice came up which I had also never experienced. A Chumash is placed in the hands (or in some accounts next to the heart) of a boy near to bar-mitzvah, provided he could recognise and read words from it. I had been brought up to understand that the purpose of a minyan was to be a minyan. No subterfuges or devices were permitted, necessary or effective to make it, other than of course the familiar strategies of persuading someone human to join it. I also had a vague idea, acquired from times of being chiyyuv to say kaddish, that if one tried sincerely but could not achieve a minyan, HaShem could choose to look with kindness on one's difficulties and accord it 'as if' one had in fact said kaddish in a minyan - ma'aseh k'machsheva (or is it the other way round?) To my mind, this 'as if' was as much as one could hope for. Although the issue has its absurd and funny side (once or twice with nine in shul, and at the Rabbi's signal, I would call out 'Nein! Nein!' to no avail and no one's comprehension or amusement, as before. What could I do? Should I have walked out, leaving my kehilla to search in vain now for *two* Arks to open?) it is in fact quite poignant. As one older congregant said to me, it was a sad fact to be reduced to such practices in order to keep the shul going in its present location. There is much to reflect upon in this statement, including the question whether the shul should close or relocate, something which the present membership and Board of Management do not want to do. One related aspect is the question of how many kaddishim one *really* needs to recite in any given service or on any given day. One elderly congregant - who continues to be upset at the discontinuation of the practice I have described - feels that *every* kaddish is as important as another. To complicate matters, he is forced to break Shabbat (for reasons of age as well as distance from the city) in order recite all of them, from the first kaddish d'rabbanan to the last after the shir shel yom. Ought he to be rebuked and told to console himself with one or two recitations later in the morning when there might be more people? I wonder if other list-discussants have similar experiences. What is the halachah in these circumstances, and how should it be applied? Kol Tuv Noach ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Binyomin Segal <bsegal@...> Date: Thu, 14 Mar 2002 22:05:24 -0600 Subject: Re: Unmarried Men not Wearing a Talit Gadol > From: Louis Finkelman <louis.finkelman@...> > 1) Does anyone on Mail Jewish have more information than I do about the > custom of unmarried men not wearing a talit gadol? The Be'er Haytiv quotes the Maharil, but argues stating that it is inappropriate to sit and not perform the mitzvah from thirteen till marriage. The Mishna Brurah quotes the Be'er Haytiv - seeming to agree that thirteen year olds should war a tallit. I dont know enough history to know if this is fair, but a friend once speculated that the Be'er Haytiv's objection is no longer applicable. He suggested that the the universal custom of a "tallit katan" is fairly recent, many people only performed the mitzva of tzizit with a "talit gadol" and so if they did not wear one, they were not performing the mitzvah at all. Today however we all wear a "tallit katan" and so the prime significance of a talit gadol is as a "beged hamuychad l'tfilah" (garment designated for prayer). In this vein it is interesting to note that the only source I know that specifically discusses the custom of tallit katan and the obligation to keep this custom is Igrot Moshe. hope this helps, binyomin segal Contact me via my NEW address <bsegal@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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