Volume 36 Number 28 Produced: Tue Apr 30 20:36:56 US/Eastern 2002 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Comforting Mourners [Gershon Dubin] Dishes ok next Pesach? [Batya Medad] First Night of Sefirat ha'Omer in Chu"l [David E Cohen] Holocaust & Children Afterwards [Yisrael and Batya Medad] Interruption to the Beracha [Ira L. Jacobson] Is this water bottle straw muktzah? (2) [Janet Rosenbaum, Andrew Klafter M.D.] Probability [Eli Turkel] Rashi [Eli Turkel] Shomea K'oneh [Mark Steiner] Tal Umatar [SBA] Women and keri'at haTorah [Prof. Aryeh A. Frimer] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2002 23:00:47 -0400 Subject: Comforting Mourners From: Janet Rosenbaum <jerosenb@...> <<It seems like, although someone is a mourner for a full 11 months, there is a time after which approaching them and reminding them of it by giving your sympathies might be worse than not. Is this reflected at all in the halacha? Or maybe I'm totally wrong on the psychology.>> Ashkenazi practice is for the full 12 (not 11) months. I have heard of Sefaradim that desist after sheloshim (first 30 days). There is *always* room for sensitivity in deciding whether or not to. Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 07:08:13 +0200 Subject: Re: Dishes ok next Pesach? 1- If I'm not mistaken, there's no bitul b'shishim of chometz. 2- The permitted use of the Pesach dishes the following year, after eating less stringently on the 8th day is because what was eaten is ok according to law, just not according to some customs or chumras. The following of different customs (like our soon to be Tunisian daughter, b'ezrat hashem) will not make her Pesach dishes chametz for us. We will just have to choose our food accroding to their kitniyot content, or lack of. Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David E Cohen <ddcohen@...> Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2002 11:26:17 -0400 Subject: Re: First Night of Sefirat ha'Omer in Chu"l Perets Mett <p.mett@...> wrote: > The rationale (whether you accept it or not) given is that it is > contradictory to perform a seider after counting sefiro, a mitsvo > which relates specifically to 16th Nison which is after the date of > of the mitsvos of the seider. > > Other opinions disagree and specifically advise counting at the first > opportunity in order to fulfil the requirement of 'Temimos' (that the > omer counting should be complete) It seems to me that this is analogous to the issue of sitting in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeret in chu"l. In both cases, due to a "sfeika deyoma" -- a doubt (that existed when the practice of yom tov sheini was first established) as to what day it really is -- we have to treat the day as though maybe it is yom tov and maybe it is yom chol (actually chol hamo'eid). Of course, we fully observe the yom tov. In both of these cases, the particular day of chol that we are concerned that it might be has a particular observance associated with it. In both cases, the "mainstream" practice is to do the chol observance in its normal, preferred fashion. But we also see a custom, particularly among chasidim, to make some change in the manner in which the yom chol observance is performed in order not to denigrate the sanctity of the yom tov. Is there, in fact, a correlation between these two customs? Do those people who don't eat in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeret also wait to start sefirat ha'omer until after the second seder? Although I have read a number of justifications for the former custom's departure from the gemara's apparent conclusion, is there any particular aspect of chassidic philosophy that would motivate this approach (of being very concerned for the dignity of yom tov, even at the expense of something else) in both of these cases? --David Cohen <ddcohen@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael and Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2002 00:21:50 +0200 Subject: Holocaust & Children Afterwards At 21:14 28/04/02 +0000, Aliza Berger <alizadov@...> wrote: BTW, the hesped introduces another interesting question: Are there any recommendations by authorities to have many children because you suspect that one or more will be killed in war? I would doubt that this is a Halachic question but rather one's own personal attitude. Why stop at war? Traffic accidents; earthquakes; deprivation of sustenance due to poverty are other good enough reasons. Yisrael Medad ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ira L. Jacobson <laser@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 10:05:45 +0300 Subject: Re: Interruption to the Beracha Yisrael Medad wrote: >I myself am always jolted when davening in Sefaradi minyanim, notably >the Zoharei Chama across from Machaneh Yehuda, when the Shmoneh Asreh is >being repeated and there are numerous, 4-5, responses by the >congregation to certain parts of the T'filah like when mentioning the >Three Avot, or other parts, to say "bivracha" or such. Actually, the response to the names of the three avot is "`alehem hashalom," while the comment on mashiv haru'ah umorid hageshem (or on morid hatal) is "livrakha." And the response to umatzmi'ah yeshu`a is "beqarov." I find these last two so compelling that I have adopted the practice of reciting them myself (b'li neder), although this practice of mine has been known to attract stares from people who don't know me. Of course, those Ashkenazim with whom I daven and who have the minhag of talking during hazarat hashatz don't really notice <g>. IRA L. JACOBSON mailto:<laser@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Janet Rosenbaum <jerosenb@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 07:58:35 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Is this water bottle straw muktzah? Aliza N. Fischman <fisch.chips@...> writes: > identify this whistle though. I went in to see what was going on. It > was the straw from the water bottle! My daughter was playing with the > (seemingly non-muktzah) straw and blowing into it. It was making the > whistling noise I described above. My question is, when separated from > the water bottle, is the straw muktzah? No. Separated from the water bottle, the straw can be used as a straw and so it is not muktza. Even something totally not muktza like food utensils (which you're allowed to fiddle with purposelessly) can be used to violate shabbat (e.g., banging a spoon on a water glass), and yet aren't muktza. By contrast, something like a rock which is totally muktza (no uses at all) has a permitted use when used as a paperweight. Likewise sissors are muktza since their main use is melacha, but you can use them to cut food on shabbat. Janet ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Andrew Klafter M.D. <andrew.klafter@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 11:31:38 -0400 Subject: RE: Is this water bottle straw muktzah? No, it is not Muktza. The straw is a Kli SheMelachto L'Heter (a device which is generally used for an activity which is permitted on Shabbos.) Your daughter is not allowed to make such noises with it on Shabbos, but her doing so does not render the object muktza. This is discussed very clearly in Shmiras Shabbas K'Hilkhata by Rabbi Newirth at the beginning of the Chapter on Mutktza. According the the Halakha, she would be allowed to play with the straw even when she is not using it as a straw. She simply shouldn't use it as a whistle. May you succeed in raising happy, healthy b'nos u'bnei Torah! -Nachum Klafter ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eli Turkel <turkel@...> Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2002 09:07:04 GMT Subject: Probability Moshe Koppel writes <Around 1920 there was a great deal of work done on foundations of probability. The underlying issue was that probabilistic statements seemed to come in two flavors: those which meant something like "the .... What is interesting is that at just about that time Rav Elchonon (Kovetz Shiurim, Baba Basra, #83) defines the difference between Ruba D'Issa Kaman and Ruba D'Leisa Kaman almost precisely as the difference between the two types of probability statements. > Other people have noted similarities between Brisker Torah and Kantian philosophy. In both cases it is unlikely that the rabbis heard directly of the secular theories. Either the time was ripe for such theories or else the secular theories were brought to the bet medrash by people knowledgable in secular studies and slowly were accepted without realizing the origin of the ideas. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eli Turkel <turkel@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 16:25:53 GMT Subject: Rashi >AFAIK, the argument between Rashi Hakadosh and Rabbeinu Tam >is a repeat of the argument between the Babylonian Talmud and >Jerusalemite Talmud; i.e., Rashi Hakadosh decides like the TB >Rabbeinu Tam decides like the TY. Why is Rashi called haKadosh and Rabbenu Tam is not ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Steiner <marksa@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 07:44:12 +0300 Subject: Re: Shomea K'oneh The principle of shomea k'oneh appears in the Talmud, tractate Sukkah. It was the practice that Hallel was not said by the worshipers (who for various reasons could not), but by a reader (makre). However, the worshipers would respond to the reader periodically. The Mishnah says they responded with "halleluy-ah". Others say they would respond by repeating the first verse of the chapter. This is the source for our repeating "Hodu Lashem..." after the first four verses of the last chapter of the Hallel. Responding is called in Hebrew "oneh." The Talmud then argues that "shomea-ke-oneh", meaning that if a person just listened to the reader it is equivalent to responding to him by "halleluy'ah" or "hodu lashem". From this alone it would not follow that somebody who listened to the reader is considered as though he himself were the reader! However, the Talmud argues that shomea ke-oneh from a case mentioned in the Bible, in which the people listening to the Torah reading were considered as though they themselves had read the Torah. You might say that the principle that he who listens is as though he said the words himself is a stronger principle than shomea ke-oneh, but this principle seems to be accepted, to the extent that whether you are permitted to stop in the middle of the amida prayer to hear kedusha is actually a dispute among the rishonim, some saying that listening to kedush is like interrupting your prayer with speech! And then, by abuse of language, even the stronger principle is called (in the rishonim) "shomea ke-oneh" which is what, in my opinion, causes the confusion about terminology. According to my analysis, it would seem to follow that someone who is "oneh" WITHOUT "listening" would also fulfil his obligation. In Alexandria, the shul was so big that they had to wave flags to tell the people when to answer "amen." According to my analysis those who answered "amen" without hearing the blessings were accounted as having fulfilled their obligation to pray. Nevertheless, there are many commentators who would not agree with this conclusion, saying that you can't prove anything from Alexandria since the people who couldn't hear had no option to hear and the best they could do was to answer "amen" on schedule, and therefore the matter remains tentative. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: SBA <sba@...> Date: Mon, 29 Apr 2002 14:32:38 +1000 Subject: Tal Umatar From: Mark Symons <msymons@...> > Why are the references to dew and rain in G'vurot (Morid HaTal and > Mashiv Haruach U'Morid HaGeshem) said at different times of the year, > whereas in Birkat HaShanim (V'Ten Tal U'Matar) they come together? Ie > why not say VeTen Tal when you say Morid HaTal and VeTen Matar when you > say Mashiv Haruach UMorid HaGeshem? See the first mishna in Mesechteh Taanis where some of these points are discussed. SBA ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Prof. Aryeh A. Frimer <frimea@...> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2002 10:54:32 +0300 Subject: Women and keri'at haTorah Any attempt to suggest that women are obligated in keriat haTorah based on the minority view of the Magen Avraham, O.H. sec. 282, no. 6 (See also R. Masud Hai Rokei'ah, Ma'ase Rokei'ah, Hilkhot Tefilla 12:17; Mishna Berura, sec. 282, no. 12; Birkei Yosef, sec. 282, no. 7; R. Jacob Meshullam Ornstein, Yeshu'ot Ya'akov, sec. 282, no. 4; R. Zvi Hirsh Grodzinsky, Mikra'ei Kodesh, sec. 4, no. 1, Sha'arei Kedusha note 1; R. Hillel Posek, Resp. Hillel Omer, sec. 187) flies in the face of the vast majority of Rishonim and Aharonim who rule that women are freed from such an obligation. See: Tosafot, Rosh haShana 33a, s.v. "Ha"; Rosh, Kiddushin 31a; Meiri and Ran on Rif, Megilla 23a, s.v. "haKol Olim"; Sefer Avudraham, Sha'ar haShelishi, s.v. "Katav haRambam zal"; Sefer haBatim, Beit Tefilla, Sha'arei Keriat haTorah 2:6; Beit Yosef, O.H. sec. 28, s.v. "haKol" and Derisha ad loc.; Alim LiTrufa, supra, note 85; Resp. Orah laTsadik 3; R. Shalom Mordechai haKohen Shvadron, Resp. Maharsham, I, sec. 158; Resp. Mate Yehuda, sec. 282, no. 7; R. Hayyim Joseph David Azulai, Kisei Rahamim (complete edition, Jerusalem: 1959), Masekhet Soferim 14:14 Tosafot s.v. "sheMitsvah" and 18:4, Tosafot s.v. "she-haNashim"; R. Jacob Emden, Mor uKetsiah, O.H., sec. 417; Arukh haShulhan, O.H. sec. 282, no. 11; Resp. Yabia Omer, VII, O.H., sec. 17, no. 4 and VIII, O.H., sec. 54, no. 7; Resp. Yehave Da'at, IV, sec. 23, note 1; Yalkut Yosef, II, Hiyyuv Keriat haTorah veTiltul haSefer Torah, sec. 9 and footnotes 6 and 11; R. Isaac Yosef, Kitsur Shulhan Arukh Yalkut Yosef, O.H. sec. 135, no. 9; R. Moses Stern (the Debriciner Rov), Resp. Be'er Moshe, VIII, sec. 85; R. Efrayyim Greenblatt, Resp. Rivevot Ephrayyim, VI, sec. 153, no. 21; R. Yisroel Taplin, Orah Yisrael, sec. 2, no. 8; R. Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, cited by R. Yisroel Taplin, Ta'arikh Yisrael, sec. 17, no. 3, note 5*; Rabbi Jacob Ariel, Alon Shir haMa'alot, Parashat Bereshit 5761, Olah keHilkhata ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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