Volume 36 Number 88 Produced: Sun Aug 4 12:44:24 US/Eastern 2002 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Avoiding Resume Gaps (8) [Pudell, Steven J., Rachel Swirsky, chihal, Gil Student, Binyomin Segal, Bernard Raab, Michael Kahn, Carl Singer] English translation of Ramban's Iggerss Hakodesh [Eliezer Wenger] Geosynchronous Orbits and Shabbat [Akiva Miller] Munax Mahpach-Special Tune [Russell J Hendel] Seating for men only [Chaim Wasserman] Shir Hashirim [Gershon Dubin] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Pudell, Steven J. <Spudell@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 09:19:22 -0400 Subject: Avoiding Resume Gaps I wont address the "ethical concern" but as a practical matter I think unless you are applying for a teaching job -- you may be better off characterizing your kollel/yeshiva studies as just that or Advanced Talmudic Reseach (or the like). If you were conceivably in a Smicha Track program -- mentioning that you were studying towards ordination may be good. On my resume, I think, i had my year of learning after college as advanced talmudic studies. ALSO, I should note that i also have a Real Gap, where I stayed home with my kids for a year. There was a story behind it of course (of what events led to that decisions), but I did stay home while my wife worked and i dont account for it on my resume. If they look closely at my resume they have noticed it. By the way, it has always appeared to have helped my chances at getting the job. Hatzlacha. Steve ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rachel Swirsky <swirskyr@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 10:36:37 -0400 Subject: Avoiding Resume Gaps There is never anything wrong with saying that one spent some time in an advanced institution for higher learning. If they ask, you can explain. Rachel Swirsky ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: chihal <chihal@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 09:46:07 -0500 Subject: Re: Avoiding Resume Gaps Shalom, All: Tzadik Vanderhoof raises the ethical question of how to avoid having large "gaps" in your resume and still account for <<the thorny problem of yeshiva and kollel study.... How does one account for this time on a resume? One novel approach I've heard is that if you have participated in a "chabura" during that time, you can record it on your resume as "teaching". >> Why not call it post graduate study in ethics, philosophy and theology? (Just be sure to have thought out an answer to anyone who subsequently asks, "So what do your situational ethics tell you about XYZ??) Come to think of it, you can truthfully also say your post-grad studies included logic, law, agriculture, history, sociology etc., as all these are encountered in study of Torah, Gemara, Nach and other traditional areas. Charles Chi (Yeshaya) Halevi <chihal@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <gil.student@...> (Gil Student) Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 15:59:26 -0400 Subject: Re: Avoiding Resume Gaps >Then comes the thorny problem of yeshiva and kollel study. How does one >account for this time on a resume? One novel approach I've heard is that if >you have participated in a "chabura" during that time, you can record it on >your resume as "teaching". What do y'all think about that, ethically? That doesn't seem 100% honest to me. If you are in kollel then you can call it a fellowship. Otherwise, you are pursuing advanced studies. That's what I have on my resume and, while I've gotten questions on it, I b"h haven't had any problems. Gil Student ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Binyomin Segal <bsegal@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 14:42:44 -0500 Subject: Re: Avoiding Resume Gaps Tzadik Vanderhoof asked: > Then comes the thorny problem of yeshiva and kollel study. > How does one account for this time on a resume? Don't have an opinion about the chabura/teaching suggestion you mentioned. On my resume, yeshiva study is undergraduate study in Jewish studies. My Kollel time is referred to as graduate work in Jewish studies. When I was paid for kollel, I refer to it as a fellowship in Jewish studies. This puts all my yeshiva time in with my education, rather than my work experience. And gives the (I think accurate) impression that I spent a lot of time in school doing advanced academics. For some, there might be an advantage to make yeshiva time look like work time rather than education time. I would certainly think that someone who gave shiurim on a regular basis (as a rosh chabura, or classes to the public in a community kollel setting) could accurately choose to portray it in that way. Hope this helps. binyomin Contact me via my NEW address <bsegal@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Bernard Raab <beraab@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 22:24:16 -0400 Subject: Re: Avoiding Resume Gaps Halachah dictates honesty here, as everywhere. This time can simply be listed as "Advanced Seminary Studies". And be prepared to discuss it in a straightforward nonapologetic and unembarassed way. Done properly, it will emphasize your serious and reliable nature and can give you a real leg up on the competition. Plus, it will not come as a complete surprise, then, when you request time off for various strange religious holidays. Also, when you become friendly with coworkers, you will not need to be constantly on your guard lest you say something which might contradict your resume. Good luck! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Kahn <mi_kahn@...> Date: Mon, 29 Jul 2002 00:44:20 -0400 Subject: Re: Avoiding Resume Gaps I thought I'd tell a related story. While in yeshiva, I once had to visit a ireligous relative who would have never heard of "sitting and learning" and would not understand it. I asked someone what to do. He told me, "Just say your studying law - don't say Talmudic law." This idea made me really uncomfortable so when I came to my relative I actually told her how I didn't know how to explain what I do as I was afraid she might not understand it. I added that someone adviced me to say I was studying law but that was to deceiving to me. Needless to say, she was very impressed with my honesty and said that learning Torah was wonderfull... This from an elderly Reform Jew. with regard to a resume, why not say pursuing a P.H.D in Jewish law. Many yeshivahs are actually acredited and their credits are transferable to other colleges. This way your telling the truth. I think it's wrong to say teaching as it implies teaching and presentation experience when this is not true. Also, if you are asked to prove that you taught your in trouble. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <CARLSINGER@...> (Carl Singer) Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 09:03:08 EDT Subject: Avoiding Resume Gaps I guess the question is when is a lie not a lie. (The answer is never.) Many years ago when I received a resume from someone who was one year out of a Wharton MBA and bemoaning the fact that he had been unable to secure a job in that year. I still think this may have been a trick letter sent by someone trying to "study" whether negative letters go unanswered. I said to myself that for practical purposes this person would have done much better to say they had been "travelling in Europe" to explain the gap. But beyond the ethical of a lie is the practical -- in my various management classes I relay a lesson learned from many business sources -- don't lie. The "given" reason is that lies will always get caught. Interviewing you for a job and trying to get to know you better you may well be asked: "Teaching?" --- "Where, what subjects did you teach?" --- "What ages?" Will you then continue to fabricate a deeper and more complex fiction. If you spent a year at a Yeshiva, say so -- in plain English. If that somehow turns off your would-be employer, so be it. Do you want to work with someone who doesn't respect who you are -- or do you want to live a lie at work hiding your real self? Another point is that a lie on your resume is grounds for dismissal in many companies -- consider the vulnerability. I recently got a resume from a neighbor's son-in-law that included the following: 19xx B.M.G. Institute, Lakewood Graduate Talmudic Diploma 19xx B.M.G. Institute, Lakewood N.J.Masters Degree, R.T.S. Advanced Analytical Thinking 20xx B.M.G. Institute, Lakewood N.J.Bachelors Degree, R.T.S. Advanced Analytical Thinking This is a wonderful young man now leaving Yeshiva and trying to make a parnoseh for his wife and children. Will these degrees on his resume help? Yes, because, among other things, they fill in gaps and let me follow his chronology. Kol Tov Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eliezer Wenger <ewenger@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 08:42:54 -0400 Subject: English translation of Ramban's Iggerss Hakodesh In response to Avrohom's query in V36 N80: If I am not mistaken, Artscroll has published an english translation of the Ramban's Iggeres. Eliezer Wenger ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <kennethgmiller@...> (Akiva Miller) Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 22:09:11 -0400 Subject: re: Geosynchronous Orbits and Shabbat In MJ 36:81, Daniel M Wells wrote <<< One of the basic principles of the Jewish Calendar is that the Jewish day is 24 hours ... IMHO, if an astronaut sees sunrise sunset sunrise within less than 24 hours, then the second sunrise is really the same day as the first sunrise. >>> I have to disagree. If the issue were as clear-cut as you are making it out to be, then what about this situation: A person travels from the US to Israel on Tisha B'Av by normal airline flight. He has therefore seen sunset sunrise sunset in far less than 24 or even 18 hours. Does this mean that the second sunset is the same day as the first sunset, so that he may not eat until 24 hours have passed? From what I've seen, all poskim hold that he can eat when the people around him are eating (i.e., when the local time is after Tisha B'Av). So too, it seems very reasonable (though admittedly not very practical) that an astronaut observes the same Tisha B'Av (and Shabbos) as the people below him -- even if that means starting and stopping these observances many time in a short period. We have to define our terms better. A day is twenty-four hours? Only for each spot on Earth individually. Wherever the Halachic Internatitional Date Line might be, the point just to its west is the first spot on Earth to experience Shabbos each week. 24 hours later, the point just to the *east* of the date line will *begin* Shabbos, and the point to the west will end it. Finally, another 24 hours after that, the point to the east will be ending Shabbos. So what we have is that each week, there is a **48**-hour period during which some point on Earth is experiencing Shabbos, and only one moment when the *whole* Earth is experiencing Shabbos. (Obviously, I have ignored the status of twilight to keep it simple.) A day is 24 hours, but only for each location. And if one's location changes, so can Shabbos. Akiva Miller ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Russell J Hendel <rjhendel@...> Date: Wed, 24 Jul 2002 14:24:51 -0400 Subject: RE: Munax Mahpach-Special Tune Alfred Silberman in v36n79 asks about the custom of changing the special tune of a munach before a mahpach (My brother, the Honorable Neal Hendel of Beer Sheva once pointed out that the tune resembles a Mayrchah Kefulah--everyone I have spoken to agrees with this but I have not seen it explicitly in any book) Alfred correctly asks that the change makes a CONNECTIVE cantillation sound PAUSAL. I have also been raised in this tradition. In v36n79 I gave other examples of cantillation customs which I would like to change (but dont because I have no backup from sources). However in this instance I have changed my custom (And now lein all MUNAX the same way). What authority did I have to change what I was taught? Because the leining rules are very very clear and explicit that there are two types of cantillations--connective and pausal. This affects many items (like bgd kft, dagesh etc). Consequently it would violate the known classification to read a munax in an elongated manner. Of course I have the precedent that most other munax are read this way. The way I see it I have to chose between 2 contradictory customs: a) The way I was taught to lein it b) The explicit laws which require that these words sound CONNECTIVE and not pausal. I would be interested (Beside an answers to Als question) on halachic comments on my analysis. Russell Jay Hendel; http://www.RashiYOmi.com/ ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Chaimwass@...> (Chaim Wasserman) Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 16:40:39 EDT Subject: Re: Seating for men only Shmuel Himmelstein's < "Seating for men only." > experience in Meah Shearim sounds like the situation is ripe for an Israeli version of a Rosa Parks demostration which changed American history in the 60s. Sounds like a group of assertive women demonstrating daily in front of the store could create a real huff-and-a-puff. I, too, passed that store several times in since July 1 and wait until I get to center town to have my falalfel-less and chipless falafel on King George and Agrippas. Its Mehadrin for men and women. Chaim Wasserman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 18:09:05 GMT Subject: Shir Hashirim From: Bernard Raab <beraab@...> > Just another example of unintended and unwelcome consequences of > "righteous" action. Just another case of someone knowing why someone else did something. Is the stated purpose, the idea of "kodesh kodoshim" so impossible to believe that we need believe that they are acting as censors of the writings of Shelomo Hamelech? Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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