Volume 37 Number 21 Produced: Thu Sep 26 5:59:54 US/Eastern 2002 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Adoption of the Gregorian calendar [Richard Schultz] Artscroll vs. Birnbaum [Jonathan Baker] Buttons on Kittels (7) [Alex Heppenheimer, Ezriel Krumbein, Harry Weiss, Carl Singer, W. Baker, Frank Silbermann, smeth] Eiruv for women and Chilul Hashem [E. Stieglitz] Finding your Tallis [Bernard Merzel] Havdalah Question [.cp.] Michal bat Shaul (2) [Alex Heppenheimer, Chaim Mateh] Socio-Economic Halacha - II [Yisrael and Batya Medad] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Richard Schultz <schultr@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 13:45:39 +0300 Subject: Adoption of the Gregorian calendar In mail-jewish 37/18, Yisrael and Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> write: : I received this reply from Prof. Ely Merzbach of Bar Ilan : In each country the transformation from Julian calendar to : Georgian calendar was done at another time. For example in : France, the Gregorian calendar began in the 16th century. However : in England they pass to the Georgian calendar at the end of the 18 : th century (certainly latter than 1756). In Soviet union, the : Georgian calendar became the official calendar only in the middle : of the 20th century! I am not sure where Prof. Merzbach got his information. As far as I know, most Catholic countries adopted the Gregorian calendar shortly after it was invented in 1582. England adopted the Gregorian calendar in 1752 (anyone with a Unix machine is invited to try "cal 9 1752" and see what happens). The Russian Orthodox church still uses the Julian calendar, which is why Orthodox Christmas and Easter are two weeks later than the dates on which those holidays are celebrated by other Christians. For this reason, the Julian calendar remained the official calendar of Imperial Russia. I was taught that the Soviet government adopted the Gregorian calendar almost as soon as it came into power -- certainly not in the "middle" of the 20th century. (The difference between the Gregorian and Julian calendars is the reason that the "October Revolution" actually took place in November.) Richard Schultz <schultr@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jonathan Baker <jjbaker@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 21:55:51 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Artscroll vs. Birnbaum From: E. Stieglitz <ephraim0@...> > For the Yom Tov Amidah, the Birnbaum siddur starts the last > paragraph of the middle section with > "Elokeinu v'elokei avoteinu [rtzei vmnuchateinu] kadsheinu > bmitzvotekha..." > while the Artscroll has the same paragraph as > "[Elokeinu v'elokei avoteinu rtzei vmnuchateinu] kadsheinu > bmitzvotekha..." > The words within brackets [...] are supposed to be said on > Shabbat only. What is the reason for the difference here? Baer (19th C. German) notes that most siddurim have it the way Artscroll does, while Siddur Yaavetz (18th-century) calls this a typo, and does it the way Birnbaum does. I tend to stick to the Birnbaum nusach, if only because it makes more grammatical sense to me. Without Ev"A, the rest of the paragraph lacks a subject. It's a series of requests without a Requestee. Retzeh bimenuchateinu "accept our rest" should, however, only be said on Shabbat, since the idea of menucha (rest) is particular to Shabbat. Jonathan Baker | Ksivechsimetoiveh! <jjbaker@...> | (It's a contraction, like Shkoiech, or Brshmo) Webpage: <http://www.panix.com/~jjbaker/> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Alex Heppenheimer <aheppenh@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 11:04:14 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Re: Buttons on Kittels In MJ 37:16, Jack Wechsler <wechsler@...> asked: > I wonder if other people have noticed the same as I did this year. > Some kittel's for the yomim norayim have the buttons on the left > and the buttonholes on the right.ie. they buttonup like a female > garment surely there is a reason ? There is a widespread custom, particularly among chassidim, to have _all_ of one's clothes button (or be otherwise fastened) right over left. The reason for this is that the right represents chessed (Divine kindliness) and the left represents gevurah (Divine severity), and so this serves as an unspoken prayer that G-d should treat us with more chessed and less gevurah (as well as a reminder to ourselves to act the same in our interpersonal relationships). [It's likely also related to the laws governing dressing, which stipulate that the right side always comes first due to the importance the Torah attaches to it (Mishnah Berurah 2:4-5).] As a practical matter, it's hard to do this with things such as shirts and pants, which are usually mass-produced for the general public, and in fact I can't think of anyone I know who's bought a shirt and then gotten it redone in this style; but it's common for kapotas, bekeshes, kittels, and other such garments - which are pretty much specifically Jewish items of clothing nowadays, and furthermore are usually tailored to the individual wearer - to be made so that they button right over left. Kol tuv, Alex ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ezriel Krumbein <ezsurf@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 13:40:51 -0700 Subject: RE: Buttons on Kittels I am not sure about this but it probably has to do with chassidishe levush. Chassidim (men) have their clothing button this way. I think it has to do with the right going on top of the left where the right signifies midas haRachamim and the left midas haDin. Kol Tov Ezriel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Harry Weiss <hjweiss@...> Date: Tue, 24 Sep 2002 21:17:25 -0700 Subject: Buttons on Kittels Many (most?) Chassidishe Bekeshes (coats) and many other Chassidishe garment butten with the holes on the right. Maybe the manufacturer was Chassidish or it was made primarily for Chassidishe customers. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <CARLSINGER@...> (Carl Singer) Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 15:43:21 EDT Subject: Buttons on Kittels First a bit of lore: gent's buttons are for right handed men who dress themselves. Women's are "left handed" because an assistant dressed them -- ever try dressing your young child? You might also wish to see which way the buttons (and other design features) go on various kaptehs. The Yom Tov Kittel that my then fiancee made me 25+ years ago has (hidden) snaps instead of buttons -- for aesthetics and practicality. Kol Tuv Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: W. Baker <wbaker@...> Date: Tue, 24 Sep 2002 22:03:27 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Buttons on Kittels I have no idea, but my husband's, which he go from our shul many years ago, not only buttons like a womans, but has a thin layer of lace around the collar. It's kind of cute, but seems a bit silly. We never made a study of it, but many of the ones gotton through the shul are the same. Wendy Baker ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 06:43:13 -0500 (CDT) Subject: Re: Buttons on Kittels I suspect that those kittels that button the opposite way were made for/by chassidim. I know that the kapote worn by Chabad chassidim also has the bottons on the left. As to why the kapote buttons that way, I don't know. Maybe it had something to do with avoiding shatnas -- i.e., if the coat buttons the reverse way, then you know it was made by people who would not mix wool and linen. (They also round one of the corners in the tail by the back vent to ensure that it is not a 4-cornered garment.) Frank Silbermann New Orleans, Louisiana ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: smeth <smeth@...> Subject: RE: Buttons on Kittels Jack Wechsler asks about buttons on kittels. They button (or snap) so that the right side is over the left side, contrary to the Western style of men's shirts and coats. If you notice, that is how chassidishe bekkeshes and kapotes (various kinds of jackets) are buttoned. The "styles" are related, and have nothing to do with fashion. The right is chessed; the left is gevurah/din. When we daven, we want to have the attribute of chessed cover the attribute of din, as it were, to invoke G-d's chessed. This is also why some people, when they daven the amidah, place their left hand on their heart, and their right hand on their left. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: E. Stieglitz <ephraim0@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 14:18:12 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Eiruv for women and Chilul Hashem > From: Allen Gerstl <acgerstl@...> > I don't know anything about the "eruv" to which reference is made above, > but this never-the-less hit a nerve. I was concerned as to whether the > disputed "eruv" was instituted by a talmid chacham and if so whether it > was proper to post a PUBLIC statement that it was "assur" to carry. This is an interesting question, and I'd like to address a larger issue in regards to the way in which this issue is presented to the public. Over the past year, I've seen a number of articles in local secular newspapers which discuss the eruv situation in Brooklyn. Many of these articles have not presented the Brooklyn Jewish communities in a positive light. In fact, they usually tend to highlight ugly internal fights within the community over the issue. One article painted the issue as one where some men in the community wished to keep women with children homebound on Shabbat. Another described how a faction opposed to the eruv would constantly complain to utilities and local community boards that the eruv was technically violating some local law. In the latter case, it was reported that it took the intervention of an Orthodox legislator from Brooklyn to prevent the removal of the eruv. While I live in NY, I am not familiar with the Brooklyn community and cannot comment on the truth of any of these newspaper articles. What I can say is that I have wanted to cringe upon reading every one of them. The sign described above seems to be one symptom of Jews fighting Jews very publically with an obvious lack of respect for the different halachic opinions that we may have. When the issue becomes large enough that it attracts the attention of local and national news reports, it creates a huge Chilul Hashem. Since I'm unfamiliar with the exact halachic issues involved in the Brooklyn eruv, perhaps somebody on the list familiar with the area could explain the different sides to the issue? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <BoJoM@...> (Bernard Merzel) Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 12:17:24 EDT Subject: Re: Finding your Tallis IAndy Goldfinger has a problem: << The only way I could recoginze my previous tallis was by the cholent stain on it. What am I going to do now? >> Name tags can easily be sewn on the back of the collar of a Talis ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: .cp. <chips@...> Date: Tue, 24 Sep 2002 20:42:58 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Havdalah Question My grandfather who had smycha from Europe Teles used milk. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Alex Heppenheimer <aheppenh@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 14:52:03 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Re: Michal bat Shaul In MJ 37:18, Ben Katz <bkatz@...> wrote: > It is indisputable at least in so far as it is in the Talmud. > However, (an I know many will disagree with me for saying this -- > see below) the Talmud is interested in explaining how Michal could > have been given back to King David after being given to another man > in the interim by her father Saul, in clear violation of Torah law. This seems to be incorrect. The discussion concerning Michal's marriage to Palti(el) ben Layish appears in Sanhedrin 19b-20a, and there's no mention of her wearing tefillin there. Conversely, where it mentions that Michal wore tefillin (Eruvin 96a), there's no mention of her marital status. Furthermore, in Sanhedrin, the focus is pretty much exclusively on Palti's heroism in refraining from sinning, not on Michal's piety. (I don't currently have any sources available to research this further, but I would venture to guess that the reason for this is that it _was_ entirely Palti's initiative: as the Talmud explains there, Saul took the view that Michal's marriage to David was based on invalid premises - that was precisely why he felt free to marry her off to someone else without first securing a divorce from David - and Michal might well have followed her father's opinion had Palti not held differently.) Kol tuv, Alex ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Mateh <chaim-m@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 16:07:25 +0200 Subject: Michal bat Shaul The only place in Talmud Bavli that I was able to find that describes Michal's being given as a wife to Palti (Shmuel A 25:44) and having the sword between them, is in Sanhedrin 19b. There is no mention there of Tefillin, on Michal or anyone else. So where _is_ the source for Michal's wearing Tefillin? [See Alex's post just above. Mod.] Kol Tuv, Chaim http://personal.zahav.net.il/personalsite/ch/chaim-m/chatam.htm ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael and Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Wed, 25 Sep 2002 21:51:12 +0200 Subject: Socio-Economic Halacha - II To remind you, I found an instruction of the Mateh Efraim (Rav Efraim Zalman Margolies, Brody, 1761-1828) regarding forcing shechitah on the butcher before Rosh Hashana. Well, I continued reading and found another item on a similar theme: Siman Tav-Reish-Mem-Chet, Para. 8: "...those whose custom it is to purchase Ethrogim in sealed and closed boxes, that sometimes the purchaser will become successful and buy a very nice Ethrog, so that he will be happy but the seller will be sad, and at other times, just the opposite, this situation is full of perturbations and therefore one should distance himself from this matter and davka [sorry, untranslatable by me] he should purchase one that all can see...". Yisrael Medad ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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