Volume 38 Number 22 Produced: Tue Jan 7 5:56:51 US/Eastern 2003 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Censorship and R. Kitov [Shimon Lebowitz] Children & Alcohol - RAMBAM [Paul Ginsburg] Everyone Can become a Gadol [Lisa Halpern] Food Kitchens and Govt [Carl Singer] Put those used Shaitels to good use!! [Freda B Birnbaum] Two new points on the Support-scholar issue [Sammy Finkelman] Tzedakah Standing [Yisrael Medad] Yeshivish [Wendy Baker] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shimon Lebowitz <shimonl@...> Date: Fri, 3 Jan 2003 16:08:32 +0200 Subject: Re: Censorship and R. Kitov > I'm holding in my hand a booklet called Kivs(h)ei D'Rachmana which is the > Hebrew version from which the English chapters on Yom HaAtzmaut and Yom > Yerushalayim in Sefer HaTodaah were translated. The first word of the hebrew title is spelled kaf vet shin yod, and is (usually?) pronounced kavshei (not kivsei - sheep). It is based on the phrase in Brachot 10a "behadei kavshei deRachamana lama lach?" - Why are you meddling in "G-d's affairs", or decisions. (Referring there to Hizkiyahu not wanting to have any children, since he knew his son would turn out to be the evil Menashe). I must admit to not having read the work itself, but I assume the title is meant to imply that the creation of the State of Israel is a decision of G-d, and those who object to it should "mind their own business". Shabbat Shalom, Shimon Lebowitz mailto:<shimonl@...> Jerusalem, Israel PGP: http://www.poboxes.com/shimonpgp ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Paul Ginsburg <GinsburgP@...> Date: Thu, 2 Jan 2003 12:31:01 -0500 Subject: Children & Alcohol - RAMBAM The Rambam in his Hilchos Deos 4:12 suggests that is harmful for a child to drink wine. He also later states that a child does not have to drink the four cups of wine on Pesach. Can one give a child wine for kiddush? ...or for a l'chaim? What does halacha say about children drinking wine/alcohol? Paul W. Ginsburg Rockville, Maryland ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Lisa Halpern <halpern@...> Date: Sat, 4 Jan 2003 22:48:16 -0500 Subject: Re: Everyone Can become a Gadol There have been many posts about this interesting idea concerning whether or not "everyone" can become a gadol. I believe, for most of the discussion, the term gadol has been used primarily to mean "gadol b'Torah", specifically in the context of being a Torah authority for a broad community of Torah-observant Jews. (I do recall at one point someone mentioning Golda Meir in the context of "who can be a gadol", so it is possible I am misinterpreting some posters' intentions with regards to the use of this word.) In Rabbi Chipman's recent post on this matter, he wrote: "But, for argument's sake, to my mind becoming a gadol requires three things: First, broad knowledge of kol hatorah kulah (snip) and in a sense is at least in theory open to everybody. Second, analytic power in understanding Torah and applying it correctly ("oker harim" - "he who uproots mountains"); this can partly be learned, but it also requires a certain inborn intellectual power that is quite rare. Third, what for want of a better term I'd call "charisma" -- the ability to inspire and attract others, for one's words to be listened to and accepted by others. This is important because being a "gadol" is also a social function." I am curious to learn if readers of Mail-Jewish think a gadol b'Torah could potentially be a woman. Have posters been using the term "everyone" to mean "everyone, both men and women" or "all men"? Do Mail-Jewish participants believe that "broad knowledge of kol hatorah kulah ...is at least in theory open to everybody," - with "everybody" meaning women as well as men? And do MJers think that it is possible that in the Torah world a woman might have "the ability to inspire and attract others, for [her] words to be listened to and accepted by others"? Lisa Halpern ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <CARLSINGER@...> (Carl Singer) Date: Sat, 4 Jan 2003 22:42:05 EST Subject: Re: Food Kitchens and Govt Maybe so. But the issue still remains that the government will never be able to provide for these individuals as well as the local institutions can. I claim the last 40 years of history proves this. This is why I am a big supporter of limited faith based initiative programs. The Government monies can be used to allow us to handle the problem. In other words, almost by definition, government programs to solve the problem WILL be inefficient and lacking Chaim Shapiro Not to get into debate mode -- I don't think there are absolutes. In the past 40 years I've seen little effective community (faith?) based programs. Even an active, well financed Jewish community like Cleveland, where I grew up, had a hard time dealing with elderly Jews who had been "left behind" and were still living in former Jewish neighborhoods. My current community has a few effective "in-reach" programs, taking care of their own -- and "their own" has a very limited definition -- but only one synagogue in our town reaches outside it's boundaries to provide food to homeless & homebound (Jewish & non-Jewish) in the general community -- for example, over those holiday weekends when community-agencies are closed and didn't provide "meals on wheels" the Young Israel in town gathered food donations and distributed them to shut-ins. Trying to reach out to other congregations for support has typically been met with a "we should take care of our own" response. Pouring money on the problem -- in this case pouring government money into private coffers will not do much without (a) an effective infrastructure and (b) communities that want to make things happen. Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Freda B Birnbaum <fbb6@...> Subject: Put those used Shaitels to good use!! This notice appeared in Lincoln Square Synagogue's email bulletin, and I've asked the project's initiator for permission to publicize it, which he happily gave as he is interested in getting the word out as widely as possible. Note that the Frisch school is in New Jersey (and LSS is in New York), but the U. S. Mail operates nationwide... CHESED OPPORTUNITIES David Narotsky, a student at Frisch, is collecting gently used wigs for cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy who cannot afford to buy their own wigs. Volunteers from the American Cancer Society or participating hairstylists fit and style the wigs for recipients. If anyone has a wig (sheitel) to donate or if anyone is in need of a wig, David may be contacted at <Davnar315@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Sammy Finkelman <sammy.finkelman@...> Date: Sun, 26 Dec 02 11:11:00 -0400 Subject: Re: Two new points on the Support-scholar issue -> From: Russell J Hendel <rjhendel@...> -> Let me try and add 2 new points that have not been brought up before. -> -> First: Rambam is not telling us to abstain from giving Scholars -> money. Rather Rambam is requiring that money not be given as gifts -> but rather in the form of business preferences. eg If I need a -> computer No, he is not saying that either. His complaint is, I believe, against the whole idea of using the Torah as a spade to dig with (which is where in Pirkei Avos his comment is attached to - Perek 4, Mishnah 5) Getting advantages in business is ALSO making it a tool to dig with, nor is it the type of examples and precedents he cites. Also, the Vilna Gaon (or was it the Chofetz Chaim?) didn't want this and would close his shop when he thought people were giving him too much business. The Rambam himself did not take advantage of any business propositions and if he wanted them, they would have come to him, and he couldn't see people as much as they wanted to see him. Earlier, he had been a partner in a business but the person supporting him was his brother and his brother would have done it for him even if he was not as a Talmud Chachum and that is why it was okay with him. He was adamant about not taking advantage of his Torah learning for money, and that the thrust of his comments in Pirkei Avos where he felt complelled to repeat this. The only thing he ever said about helping someone in business was that that was the highest level of Tzedakah. It is also true that one of the justifications for paying Rabbanim - there are two of them, I believe - is that you are giving Tzedakah. The Vilna Gaon (if I am right as to who this was) pitied himself for having to live on Tzedakah and wouldn't consider his situation any other way. I think some people did try to help him in business, but the trading efforts some people made hima partner in failed. The other justification is that when someone is paid, he is being paid for the income he forgoes. There is another issue also that is somewhat related to this: the issue of paying someone for what he does on Shabbos and that is why it is customary for the Rosh Hashonah to also say Selichos so at least some of it was on weekdays. (A Chazan isn't really paid for Torah, but it is more of a skill, and the same thing is true of a Sofer or Ba'al Koreh.) It is NOT a good thing that Rabbonim are paid or paid so much. Many years ago, Rabbi Moshe Soled ZT'L who died in 1992, tried to do something about getting Jewish education for children for free. (Shifra Hiffman was working for him at the time - this was prior to 1971, when he was in the Bronx) The truth is, if teaching Torah was a more amateur activity, theer would be a lot more of it going on, and now we have taken a path where it costs way too much. Perhaps people in Kollel could do this, or do this for a year or two after they finish and between sessions. Then no one would have to say everybody who learns is being supported because there is the possibility of him becoming a Gadol. Somewhere (I think in Pirkei Avos) someone who learns and tecahes is considered much greater than someone who simply learns - in fact that is the main reason, but nowadays, nobiody considers Gemorah Halachah at all, and the justification for learning fulltime is simply fulfilling the Mitzvah of "V'dartah bum" - in other words, preoccupying yourself and talking of Torah. Teaching Torah used to be paid very little, as seen in the Silbermann translation to the Rashi of Bereishis 49:7 - the Brochah [blessing?] that Yacov gave Shimon and Levi. He said he would scatter them among the Jews and the Rashi translation they have there has "for you will find the very poor - the Scribes and elementary teachers - were all of the tribe of Simeon". This was written in 1935 and reflects the thinking or situation of some 50 years before let's say. All people here will admit that at that time, when the teachers were paid little, the education in Torah was the greatest. I said the translation of Rashi and not rashi himself because I think that in this place Rosenbaum and Silbermann must be mistranslating Rashi, simply because the idea seemed so natural to them. The way I read Rashi, poor people, scribes and elementary school teachers were three separate categories, and what they had in common was that these people had to wander from place to place but Silbermann seems to have it Rashi writes poor people and then explains himself by adding that members of the tribe of Shimon were scribes and what we would call today elementary school teachers. Silbermann seems to indicate that the original source of this Rashi comment is Tanchuma and Bereishis Rabbah 98 and maybe somebody can look there and see what it says. This, by the way is a Dovor acher - another interpretation of some wortds in the Posuk (the alternative being that the two tribes would be separated from each other) Anyway, at a minimum though we see, that somebody associates low money with Malamdim, at least for the period of 100 years ago and more if not for the time of Rashi and the time of Bereishis Rabbah - abd Berishis Rabbah would see it as pertaining to the first days after Yoshua (if Silbermann is right about the Rasghi and what bereishis Rabbah contains) This idea of accustoming scholars to get money is actually destructive to Torah learning - if you want Torah ti be known to more than an elite. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Sun, 05 Jan 2003 01:23:20 +0200 Subject: Tzedakah Standing Joel Rich wrote in Volume 38 Number 16: 1. The minhag for giving tzedakah at that point IIRC is brought down by the magen avraham based on the arizal(I'll check when I have sfarim available) several months ago I brought down all the versions of giving tzedakah during that pasuk according to the Kabbalah so it should be on file. [Vol 36 no. 77. Mod.] Yisrael Medad ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Wendy Baker <wbaker@...> Subject: Re: Yeshivish On Sat, 5 Jan 2003, Steven White wrote: > In MJ 38:11, Tzadik Vanderhoof <tzadikv@...> writes: > > The one thing I CAN'T STAND about Yeshivish is when people use the > > pronoun "by" for just about every other pronoun ("at", "with", "for", > > etc.)! They even do it to non-Jews causing very puzzled reactions. > > > Since Yeshivish (adj. form of proper noun?) is based on English, I think > most Yeshivish speakers think they are saying or hearing "by." However, > I think the word they are actually saying is "bei," a German word via > Yiddish to Yeshivish. "Bei" doesn't translate all that well into > English; it means about the same as French "chez," which means something > close to, but not quite, "at," "with," or "for." Or perhaps, "according to" as in "bie mir is du sheyn" Wendy Baker ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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