Volume 38 Number 97 Produced: Mon Mar 31 5:44:23 US/Eastern 2003 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Chareidi and Dati Leumi [Batya Medad] Gemara b'tzin'ah (in private) [Binyomin Segal] Gemara for women [David Charlap] Modern Orthodoxy: definition [Binyomin Segal] My Approach to Prohibitions on Learning Talmud [Russell J Hendel] Say "cheese!" [Janet Rosenbaum] Women and learning (2) [Batya Medad, Art Sapper] Women learning Gemmara [Gilad J. Gevaryahu] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 20:21:45 +0200 Subject: Re: Chareidi and Dati Leumi The Israeli terms: "Hareidi" and "Dati Leumi" have clear interpretations relating to political parties and to the timing, extent, and/or permissibility of army service. Party politics and army service are not It's not just politics. Our kids got a "mamlachti dati" education, but we've never supported Mafdal. Also there's another term, chard"al, a combination of dati leumi and chareidi. It's hard to define, since the followers don't agree. In one yeshuv they wanted to open a special "torani" class for the chard"al, but they couldn't agree whose kids could go. Those without tv's or those whose wives and daughters always wear stockings--they frequently weren't the same. I'm serious. And don't forget, crocheted (not knitted--you can't knit that shape) kippot are sometimes much larger than the black cloth ones. Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Binyomin Segal <bsegal@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 11:47:25 -0600 Subject: Re: Gemara b'tzin'ah (in private) On Sunday, March 30, 2003, at 09:09 AM, Shayna Kravetz wrote: > Surely this is not a process of which we are ashamed. I recognize that > there are many things of which we are not ashamed but which should > still be kept private. (I still shudder when I remember reading an > activist slogan for some movement that read "Privacy = Guilt".) But > gemara study is not a solitary process for men for good reasons. Why > should it be so for women? A good question I admit. Essentially, a woman learning gemara is a chumra. We have always required personal chumrot to be practiced in private (for fear of yuharah - conceit - becoming the motivation for chumrot rather than devotion). When the practice becomes wide spread enough that it no longer ellicits comment than it naturally moves to the public arena. I admit that gemara study in private is particularly difficult. But that does not remove the need to clarify the intent of the devotion. Hope that helps - binyomin ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Charlap <shamino@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 12:35:40 -0500 Subject: Re: Gemara for women I'm sure I must have mentioned this in the past at some previous time when this subject has come up, but... I went to high school at Frisch - an orthodox school in New Jersey that has co-ed classes in all subjects, including gemara. One time while I was attending, a famous rosh yeshiva (I'm sorry that I don't remember who) was visiting and spoke before the school. His yeshiva is one that does not teach co-ed classes of any kind. After his lecture, one student asked "what is your opinion on boys and girls learning gemara together?". His response was very simple: "I'm much more concerned about what else boys and girls do together." Now maybe he was just being political, so as not to embarras Frisch. But I think there is a lot of wisdom in that statement. In this day and age, when boys and girls do all kinds of things together that the orthodox community objects to (including going on unsupervised dates, kissing, sexual relationships, eating non-kosher food, drugs, smoking, etc.) it seems a bit silly to get bent out of shape over them learning gemara together. It seems to me that one of the best things that could happen in our generation would be if all of our children (boys and girls alike) would choose to sit and learn gemara with a rabbi. At least this way maybe they'll learn enough yirat shamayim (fear of heaven) to behave morally when they're not in front of the rabbi - which would be a lot better than the situation today. -- David ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Binyomin Segal <bsegal@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 11:25:31 -0600 Subject: Re: Modern Orthodoxy: definition Allen Gerstl writes: > I suggest the addition of: > 5. Chumras (halacha stringencies)(I shall resist the temptation to > write about chumras as the MJ search engine indicates numerous entries > on this topic and I am sure that Avi would prefer to spare the > bandwith) While I believe Allen is pointing correctly to a sociological reality, I am not sure it is a clear philosophical difference. The concept of chumra (with both positive and negative aspects) is defined pretty clearly in traditional sources (halachik and philosophic - see for example the Shach's rules for psak). So while I admit that in practice there seems to be a difference, I am not sure the difference isn't just a projection of other differences. As an example - when deciding whether to accept an eruv as kosher or not, a number of factors come into play. One might be the ability of women (who even in the MO camp are still generally the primary care givers for small children) to come to shul. This factor is perhaps more important to a MO rabbi then to a Charedi one. So while the issue of chumra/kula is the same, the factors that contribute line up differently. binyomin ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Russell J Hendel <rjhendel@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 14:26:14 -0500 Subject: My Approach to Prohibitions on Learning Talmud There has been much discussion on why/whether women should learn Talmud (eg Ben Katz, Joel Rich, Daniel Wells Shayna, Leah Gordon in v38n91, v38n89 v38n87 and v38n88). The approaches have been presented that WOMEN HAVE LIGHT (KALOTH) ATTITUDES or that women have different responsibilities. I have previously discussed these issues on both Mail Jewish and Torah Forum. Basically I show that the SAME standards apply to BOTH men and women and indeed many men should not be learning Talmud. WHile this approach may be controversial it does solve problems by making reasons for not-learning intrinsic and not based on gender characteristics. First allow me to point out that the statement WOMEN ARE LIGHT HEADED does NOT refer to a propensity to interpret matters sexually. Indeed, the idea that single individuals are trusted in declarations of status (eg this piece of meat is trayf/kosher) is derived from Lv15-28 which EXPLICITLY states that women are trusted in sexual matters. Next: Let me give a simple example (See the URL below on the Rashi website for complete details). There are exactly 5 Biblical commandments which state "FEAR YOUR GOD I AM GOD". The obvious question is why just these 5. Let me use this question to illustrate 2 approaches to inferring reasons. The first approach uses only a few (actually one example). The prohibition of taking interest ends with the phrase FEAR GOD. Hence if we only use this one example we could infer that the reason is because it involves money--since people lust after money God warned us against following the lust and said FEAR GOD The second approach would use ALL EXAMPLES---if we look at these examples (a) prohibition of teasing people (b) obligation of standing before the elderly etc we would see that not all examples involve money. Rather the correct generalization is that these 5 commandments involve subjective factors..they are not like theft---you cannot PROVE a person violated it since the Commandments require INTENTION. So eg if my teasing was constructive I have not teased and the difference between teasing and constructive criticism is one of intention. Similarly I can always claim I did not see the elderly person and therefore did not get up. Or, I can lend my money to a non-jew knowing that he will lend it out on interest for me. In short...FEAR GOD is mentioned on those commandments where it is easy to subterfuge. Note the two methods of interpretation---one method was LIGHT on the examples while the other method was HEAVY and used all examples. Let us now return to Learning Talmud. Learning talmud requires analyzing examples and generalizing. A person should only do this if they use a HEAVY appraoch. A LIGHT APPROACH is not welcome in Talmudic circles (it is to easy to come to the wrong conclusion). Hence any person who does not have the time to do heavy analysis should be discouraged from learning: This includes women who raise children, businessmen on the go, people who dont have the intellectual stamina to do research etc. The reason for the prohibition has NOTHING to do with personality but rather has to do with the fact that the research method will give rise to improper conclusions. Of course, these people are all encouraged to learn Bible, Agaddah, Musar, Jewish Law (SA) etc. The prohibition only applies to heavy analysis. Russell Jay Hendel; Http://www.RashiYomi.com/ JOB -- http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RashiYomi_JOB ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Janet Rosenbaum <jerosenb@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 12:38:34 -0500 (EST) Subject: Re: Say "cheese!" I appreciate the thorough response. I have a few more cheesey questions. Wrt requiring a s"s Jew to add the rennet, does this requirement extend to the Jew actually seeing the rennet being made so that they can verify that the rennet's origin is as claimed? If not, what is the difference between needing to trust the rennet manufacturer about the rennet's origins and trusting the cheese manufacturer? Is USDA regulation such that anyone has made an argument about rennet hacompanies or givinat hacompanies? Practically, how much more extensive is the role for a mashgiach in making cheese than for other foods? Is it comparable to the involvement of a mashgiach in pas yisroel (Jewish bread) products? I have seen a few non-Jewish brands of bread and cookie-products which are pas yisroel --- these are products that I've only seen in mainstream supermarkets, and not in kosher groceries --- apparently these companies felt it was worth the additional involvement of the mashgiach to be pas yisroel rather than just getting the normal heksher, despite not marketing themselves to pas yisroel customers. Is the additional role of the mashgiach why the cheese factories only do kosher runs, rather than just converting entirely to kosher cheese? The Tillanook website mentioned that only one of their cheeses is kosher, in spite of all the other cheeses (save one) using the same kosher rennet. Wrt unfair competition, the non-Jewish companies would presumably use chalav hacompanies while World Cheese Co only uses chalav yisrael, so this does segment the market and may diminish the concern. Conversely, providing more kosher cheese brands in mainstream supermarkets would convince more people to eat kosher cheese, though I can't quantify that. Shavua tov, Janet ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 20:11:34 +0200 Subject: Women and learning One of the reasons some women begin learning Gemara is that they need to help their sons. That's right. Even when the father is a learned rabbi, he's not always home the right time to help with homework. That's why one of my friends took it up, and it's not a rare occurrence. There's certainly no intelligent reason why females shouldn't learn Gemara. Many males have difficulties with it, and it's the reason some leave yeshiva and even religion. Yeshiva learning should be enriched and balanced with more Tanach, and the women's schools should enrich their learning with Gemara. Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <asapper@...> (Art Sapper) Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 13:12:41 -0500 Subject: Re: Women and learning In Vol. 38 #92, Binyomin Segal asks: "Why must innovation in Torah (that can be defended on its merits) only be accepted if the innovator is properly motivated?" This is an excellent question, to which I lack enough familiarity with the sources to even begin to answer. I offer this morsel as, admittedly, no more than a starting point. In Pirkei Avoth 5:20 (Artscroll compilation), it is said: "Any dispute that is for the sake of Heaven will have a constructive outcome; but one that is not for the sake of Heaven will not have a constructive outcome." The contrast is then drawn between the debate between Hillel and Shamai, on the one hand, and Korach and Moshe, on the other hand. The lesson seems to be that ill-motivated or wrongly-motivated positions will, in the end, be destructive, no matter what their instrinsic "merits." The problem, in my personal experience, is that there are those who consider the mere proposal of an "innovation" to be evidence of ill motivation itself. They do not even begin to consider whether a proposed "innovation" has intrinsic merit because the mere act of proposing an "innovation" means that it is not proposed for the sake of Heaven. This is knee-jerk conservatism run amok and, worse, violates another teaching of the Avot (4:1), "Who is wise? He who learns from all men." Art Sapper <asapper@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Gevaryahu@...> (Gilad J. Gevaryahu) Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2003 13:57:35 EST Subject: Women learning Gemmara Moshe Pessin (v38n95) continues: <<allow me to clarify my points. ....most of the feminist women are being decieved.>> Do you have statistics to vouch for this "most" statement? I bet you do not. Gilad J. Gevaryahu ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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