Volume 39 Number 88 Produced: Tue Jun 24 8:05:05 US/Eastern 2003 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Ancient Matrilineal/Patrilineal Family Structure (2) [Leah S. Gordon, Michael Kahn] Baruch Hu U'voroch Shemo [Yisrael Medad] Beit Din in Moav [Janet Rosenbaum] Chasash Mechallel Shabbos and Shilach Tzibur [Yehuda Landy] Hebrew/secular calendar [David Prins] Lights and security systems on shabbat [Seth Ness] Midrash and Torah Text [David Farkas] Modern Orthodoxy: definition (Chumras) [Sam Saal] Not blowing out candles [Zev Sero] Shalosh Megilot with a berakha? [Yehuda Landy] Weekday vs Sabbath Blessings for shma [Ben Z. Katz] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Leah S. Gordon <leah@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 03:29:53 -0700 Subject: Ancient Matrilineal/Patrilineal Family Structure Ms. Batya Medad wrote: >ancient times. I'm certainly no expert, but it's hard to think of a >single case wherein the husband joins the wife's family and accepts the >wife's religion, tribe affiliation etc. (Ishmael went with Haggar Ms. Medad may not be aware that in nearly the entire southern hemisphere (South America, Africa, Australia, some parts of Asia), the traditional family structure is/was matriarchal. Thus one's primary ties of kinship would have been to the mother and her brothers, and marriages were exactly "the husband joins the wife's family...". (This is not to say that there was any kind of gender equity, and men were still given almost all of the power. However, family/tribal affiliations were matriarchal in many indigenous ancient peoples.) --Leah (Reingold) Gordon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Kahn <mi_kahn@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 11:03:16 -0400 Subject: Re: Ancient Matrilineal/Patrilineal Family Structure >Today the child is the religion of the mother, but things weren't so >clear in Biblical times In college, I've learned otherwise. We were taught that matrilineal descent regarding legal status has traditionally been the norm because you always know who a baby's mother is but don't necessarily know who the father is. Thus, for example, in slavery, I think it was the mother's status that determined the status of the baby. What's interesting is that it is a machlokes (rishonim?, I don't have sources in front of me, but see the Sifsay Chachomim in Parshas Emor on the incident of the mvarach Hashem/Shlomis bas Divri incident.) if a persons Jewish status went by his father or mother BEFORE matan torah. Reb Dovid Cohen once joked in a drasha that according to those who hold that before Matan Torah jewish status followed the father, the Reform who follow patrilineal descent have a mkor in hallacha- except the Reform are still holding kodem matan Torah. >There are some rabbis who are experts in Tanach and consider it >important to take into account what the anthropologists know about >ancient times. Could you give an example of such a rabbi? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Wed, 18 Jun 2003 20:10:27 +0200 Subject: Baruch Hu U'voroch Shemo Yisroel Alexander Kerdman wrote about the practice of not saying "Boruch Hu uvoruch Shemo" in the beginning of Birkas Me'ein Sheva right after Tefilah on Friday night. I think we did this about a year and a half ago as my custom, learned from Rav Pynchas Brener, currently Chief Ashkenazi Rabbi of Venezuela, but previously at Holliswood (then Center and now) Young Israel in Queens, is also not to "interrupt" the bracha. If I recall, Rose Landowne mentioned that as it is considered a blessing "on behalf" on the congregation, then one shouldn't intervene but just answer "amen". Yisrael Medad ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Janet Rosenbaum <jerosenb@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 10:01:48 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Beit Din in Moav <Yisyis@...> writes: > Given the information in Sefer Shoftim, it is hard to visualize a > society equipped to transfer the wealth of torah knowledge needed to > educate 3 millenia of G-d fearing Jews. Perhaps anticipating your question, there is a midrash that during the time of Devorah, even small children knew the laws of tuma in great detail. I have been unable to find the cite. Janet ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <nzion@...> (Yehuda Landy) Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 10:15:37 +0300 Subject: Re: Chasash Mechallel Shabbos and Shilach Tzibur > Couple of things as they relate to the here and now. Where in halacha > does it say that a person must be Shomer Shabos to be Shiliach Tzibur? See hilchos shl'i'ach tzibur OC 53:4-5. > There is a difference in halacha as to whether a person is Mechallel > Shabos in a public or non-public manner. As people do not see him > driving, it would seem that if he is , he is doing so in a matter that > is non-public. There is definitely a major difference, but in the case of a shli'ach tzibur even a bad rumor circulating about him disqualifies him (see source mantioned above). Doesn't such a case qualify as a bad rumor? Yehuda Landy ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Prins <dprins@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 15:45:59 +1000 Subject: Hebrew/secular calendar Reuben Rudman wrote (v39i85): > On another aspect of "astronomical" observations - we are now in the > middle of a two-month sequence wherein the numerical values of the Jewish > and secular months are the same for two consecutive months. I got to > wondering how often this occurs and did some checking. It can only occur > when the secular month has 30 days and coincides with a Jewish month of > 30 days, i.e., a full month ending with two days Rosh Chodesh. There are > only 4 secular months with 30 days and September cannot meet this > condition as Tishrei never starts as early as Sept. 1 and Elul has only > 29 days. So we are left with the following pairs: > > April/May coinciding with Nissan/Iyar > June/July with Sivan/Tammuz and > November/December with Cheshvan/Kislev > > The last set is very rare as both these Hebrew months can be 29 or 30 > days. In fact between 1900 and 2050 it occurs only 3 times: 1902, 1978 > and 2027. > > April/May occurs 4 times in this time period: 1919, 1976, 1995 and 2014. > > The current sequence June/July with Sivan /Tammuz occurs 5 times: from > 1900 to 1964 it did not occur; since then we find: 1965, 1973, 1984, > 2003, 2049. Another possibility is that the secular months could be February/March, in a secular leap-year where February has 29 days and the first of the two corresponding Hebrew months also has 29 days. In our current (Gregorian) secular calendar, this cannot occur. This is because for 1 February to correspond to the start of a Hebrew month it has to be Shevat, or Adar I in a Hebrew calendar leap year, and both those Hebrew months have 30 (not 29) days. Interestingly, in the previous (Julian) secular calendar, 1 February could correspond to 1 Adar in a Hebrew calendar non-leap year, when Adar has 29 days. Thus, with acknowledgement to Kaluach, I can add to Mr Rudman's finding by reporting that February/March 1576 apparently coincided with Adar/Nissan 5336. David Prins ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Seth Ness <seth.ness@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 13:22:05 -0400 Subject: Lights and security systems on shabbat hi, We have just bought our first house and I have to deal with setting up a timer system for the lights on shabbat, and modifying the security system so it can work on shabbat. The options for lights include an X10 home automation system, mechanical or electronic timers at the main circuit board, or digital timers at each light switch. Options for the security system include shunts, bypasses, and delays of various types. Can anyone offer opinions or suggestions on all these, or other, options (including halachic problems? Details or references on precisely how to implement, and where to find, any of these solutions would also be apprciated. thanks Seth L. Ness M.D., Ph.D Fellow in Human Genetics, Department of Human Genetics, Mount Sinai School of Medicine Phone:212-241-6947, Fax:212-860-3316 <sln8@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Farkas <DavidF@...> Date: Wed, 18 Jun 2003 12:43:09 -0400 Subject: Midrash and Torah Text Our Moderator writes as follows: "While I do not agree with Ben's characterization of this being a "rampant problem in Orthodox Judaism today", and understand, especially in adult discussion that it is awkard to try and constantly identify what is textual and what is midrashic overlay, I do think this is a major problem in the education of children in Tanach, where there is no distinction made. I believe it is very important to know what is in the text, and what is a midrashic statement." R. Avi seems to tie the last two sentences together, as if it was a problem that children are unaware what is in the text and what isn't. I disagree. If children are to be captivated at all by Torah, and if they are to love Torah and think and dream about Torah as only a child can, they must be taught the Midrashim as Jews have traditionally been taught them for hundreds of years. Thus, Og was indeed a giant thousands of feet tall, Adam was indeed folded by God to fit into his grave, Yakov was indeed surrounded by quarrelling rocks that merged into one to support his head. If we wish to hook the child when he is young, as we must, he must be encouraged to see the Biblical figures as larger than life, and imagine his ancestors in this light. For pedagogic purposes, it is important that our forefathers be seen as more than ordinary men. Certainly it is important to comprehend the difference between pshat and drash. But that should be done when the child is holder, and more sophisticated, and better able to grasp the significance of drash. Lest one say that all the child's illusions will be shattered, and he will reject his upbringing as being based upon lies, I will tell you that generations of parents continue to teach their kids about the tooth fairy or Santa Claus, with no signs that their children reject ALL parental teachings as subsequently tainted, following their realization that these people don't exist. Many of the readers of this list serve were taught midrash as though it were real when they were young, and are still good Jews today, having learned that what they were taught as youngsters was not necessarily historical truth. ( I speak carefully, as we don't always know which midrashim are allegorical and which are meant as historical, another problem). Future generations should not be denied the opportunity to dream about Torah as most of us did. I conclude with one observation. The ability to see clearly the difference between pshat and drash is not for everybody. It seems to me that in schools where Tanach is taught to children with a determined push to emphasize drash, the dropout level from religious life, upon reaching college age, is much higher than the old fashioned schools that teach it the old fashioned way. Surely there are other factors that contribute to this, assuming I am right. But this IS one of the factors. Not everybody is such an intellectual that he can appreciate these distinctions( pshat /drash), and schools should not be organized under the principle that the pupils are the intellectuals the organizers are. This is no way impacts upon the high standards a school can expect - intellectualism and intelligence are two different things. David Farkas Cleveland, Ohio ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Sam Saal <ssaal@...> Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 09:16:59 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Re: Modern Orthodoxy: definition (Chumras) Allen Gerstl wrote about a particular type of chumra a used an interesting term: > ... I believe that the latter view is based upon speculation that > there is a (Platonic-style) absolute halacha. I wonder if the Chief Rabbi of England's lecture (advertised in mail.jewish some time ago) are relevant. See http://www.chiefrabbi.org/ft-index.html I found them fascinating. Sam Saal <ssaal@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Zev Sero <zsero@...> Date: Wed, 18 Jun 2003 14:02:11 -0400 Subject: Not blowing out candles I was taught that this custom arose in the days of tallow candles, and the reason was to avoid the possibility of inhaling drops or vapour. (Chelev is an issur karet, much worse than ordinary treif.) Zev Sero <zsero@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <nzion@...> (Yehuda Landy) Date: Thu, 19 Jun 2003 10:15:37 +0300 Subject: Re: Shalosh Megilot with a berakha? See Shulchan Oruch OC 490:8, and the Mishnah Berurah 19. In a nutshell, it is a machalokes between the Taz and Mogen Avraham, while the Mishnah Berurah concudes that if one recites a brocha while lainging from a parchment megilah, we do not protest. The general ashkenaz custom in Eretz Yisroel is to recite a brocha when laining from parchment. In chutz lo'oretz it is different. Yehuda Landy ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ben Z. Katz <bkatz@...> Date: Wed, 18 Jun 2003 23:05:33 -0500 Subject: Re: Weekday vs Sabbath Blessings for shma >From: Leah Aharoni <leah25@...> >Ben Katz wrote: > >> There are at least 2 berachot which are almost universally said with >> shem and malchut that are post-Talmudic: lehadlik ner shel shabat >> (geonic) and sheasani kirtzono (according to abudraham [14th cent.] >> "recently introduced"). > >"Almost universally" excludes the overwhelming majority of Sephardi >women who say "sheasani kertzono" WITHOUT shem umalchut. I meant among ashkenazim. i apologize. (one ashkenazi exception i am aware of is that of jacob emden - in his sidur [newly available with an english translation] he says to leave out shem and malchut. Ben Z. Katz, M.D. Children's Memorial Hospital, Division of Infectious Diseases 2300 Children's Plaza, Box # 20, Chicago, IL 60614 Ph 773-880-4187, Fax 773-880-8226 ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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