Volume 40 Number 08 Produced: Sun Jul 13 10:34:00 US/Eastern 2003 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Beracha on dessert [Gershon Dubin] Big Mitzvah (2) [David Charlap, Gershon Dubin] Blessings [Eli Turkel] Buying Minhagei Yisrael [Eli Turkel] Conversion [Joel Rich] Disagreement and ciriticism [Carl Singer] Eating before Davening [Dov Teichman] English Translation of Rabbi Sperber's Article [Shaun Jackson] King David's wives war captives [Elazar M Teitz] Moabite Converts [Batya Medad] Steipler Rebbe and Automobiles [Akiva Wolff] A Third approach to teaching Homily (Midrash) [David I. Cohen] Top Ten Gedolim [Jeffrey Blumstein] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 18:15:53 GMT Subject: Beracha on dessert > From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> <<We asked our rabbi what the conclusion was. He said, "I cited a number of sources supporting my position and he cited a number of sources supporting his position. It's an honest makhlokhis.">> Could you get hold of some of those citations? I am not aware that for most desserts (with the exception of cake/pie, etc) anyone disagrees with the halacha of making a separate beracha. Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Charlap <shamino@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 09:55:22 -0400 Subject: Re: Big Mitzvah Bernard Raab wrote: > > I realize that this mitzvah is hard to reconcile with the aveira of > tsa'ar ba'alei chayim but that does not give us license to ignore the > clear pshat of the Torah text. The full text reads: "If you happen upon > a bird's nest on the road or in any tree or on the earth, and the mother > is sitting on the chicks or the eggs, do not take the mother with the > offspring (according to Rashi and the Targum). Send away (Shaleach > t'shalach) the mother and take the offspring for yourself, that it shall > be good with you and your days prolonged." (D'varim 22/6,7) It does NOT > say: "If you desire the eggs or chicks...", and a moment's reflection > will reveal that such a clause would render the entire mitzvah trivial > and hardly deserving of such a lofty and rare reward. Is it even > possible to take the eggs or the chicks from a nest without first > shooing away the mother bird which is sitting on them? Of course not. So what exactly are you saying here? You seem to be saying that if I happen to walk by a bird's nest, I am obligated to shoo the mother and take the eggs/chicks, even if I don't want them and have no clue what to do with them. Does this make any sense at all? Do you seriously think that God wants us to take possession of eggs/chicks that we have no intention to raise or eat? -- David ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 18:19:31 GMT Subject: Big Mitzvah From: Bernard Raab <beraab@...> <<Honoring one's parents is easy because it is natural. People all over the world do it, even those who never heard of the Torah. Moreover, the gemarah tells us that one can be yotze (fulfill) this mitzvah by seeing to ones parents basic needs for shelter and food in their old age, something which only the most reprobate offspring fail to do.>> There is a Gemara to the effect that this is a very hard mitzva to do properly. I don't have sources with me at work but I believe it related to Abaye who in fact had no parents (his father died while his mother was pregnant and his mother died in childbirth). Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eli Turkel <turkel@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 19:24:16 +0300 (IDT) Subject: Blessings <Why is it that for fruits and vegetables, Jewish law differentiates and has two separate Blessing classes while for the physiologically more complex meat-fish-eggs class Jewish law lumps everything together (shacol).> The more the food needs human intervention the higher the level of beracha needed. So meat, fish & eggs which grow by themselves need the most general beracha of shehakol. Fruits and vegetables which are grown by humans have their own beracha and bread which has the greatest human contribution (and also wine) has the highest level beracha. Rav Soloveitchik discusses this situation which seems counter-intuitive. i.e. a first glance would say that the more human intervention the less need for blessing G-d. Eli Turkel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eli Turkel <turkel@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 19:26:59 +0300 (IDT) Subject: Buying Minhagei Yisrael I bought the most recent volume in the Bar Ilan University bookstore. I don't know if they ship. kol tuv, Eli Turkel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Joelirich@...> (Joel Rich) Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 07:07:39 EDT Subject: Conversion Sources or thoughts on the following question: A non-Jew comes to you and says "I accept the God of Abraham...Moses as the true God. I understand that Judiasm does not seek converts but does not forbid them. Does God prefer me to be a good non-Jew who keeps the 7 mitzvot or would he prefer me to convert to keep 613 or is he ambivalent?" How would we respond? KT Joel Rich ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <csngr@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 21:14:29 -0400 Subject: Disagreement and ciriticism > From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> > We had a rabbi (RCA) who taught us that the Ha'Motzi covers the rest of > the meal. While teaching at the small community Day School, my wife was > criticized (by a Chabad women) for not having the children do a separate > blessing over dessert. As usual, I'm interested in the behavior of one Jew to another. What right does one Jews have to criticize another Jew under these circumstances. One can open up discussion -- "you know I learned that .... " or "My Posek told me that ...." -- we have pluralistic interpretations. But criticism is a questionable, disrepectful response. Reversing the circumstances, could you imagine someone criticsing someone by telling them that making the brocha on dessert a brucha levatolah. BTW -- I'll skip desert -- I've been eating all too well. Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <DTnLA@...> (Dov Teichman) Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 19:52:45 EDT Subject: Re: Eating before Davening The source for the Halacha in Shmirath Shabbath K'Hilchasa i believe is from Shulchan Aruch OH 89:3 where the Biur Halacha says that a weak person should pray first, and then eat, and then go to shul to hear kadish, barchu, kedusha, etc. I never understood this properly because in what case then does the regular halacha that a weak person may eat before davening apply? Unless it applies to an even sicker person who cannot wait at all, not even to pray privately, and must eat immediately. Dov Teichman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shaun Jackson <sshaunj@...> Date: Fri, 11 Jul 2003 14:09:12 +0800 Subject: English Translation of Rabbi Sperber's Article Is there an english translation of Rabbi Sperber's article in the most recent edition of the journal Deot on women in prayer services? Regards Shaun ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Elazar M Teitz <remt@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 09:21:36 -0400 Subject: King David's wives war captives >Were any of King David's wives war captives? The Talmud (Sanhedrin 21a) states that he had 400 sons of war captives. It also states there that Tamar's mother Ma'acha was a war captive, else how could Tamar tell Amnon that King David would not deny her to him? -- if her mother were Jewish, they would be siblings halachically as well as physically. See Tosafos there for a discussion of how this is to be understood according to the opinion that even one act of intercourse is prohibited until after the process outlined in the Torah is completed. [The Talmud in Kiddushin 22a says that the soldier is not permitted to impose himself on her during the war. The commentaries (and, according to Talmud Yerushalmi, the sages Rav and Shmuel) dispute whether the reference is to a second liaison, but once is permitted, or none are permitted until the process of D'varim 22:10-13 is undergone.] [Other list members referencing the same source: Gil Student <gil_student@...> From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Mod.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Wed, 09 Jul 2003 06:53:28 +0200 Subject: Re: Moabite Converts of the SINGULAR and PLURAL. HE shall not convert because THEY did not go out with food and water. Such a contrast of SINGULAR and PLURAL always points to an emphasis...in this case we emphasize that only MALE moabites cant convert (Since the singular is gender attached). Yes, good point. Human nature, some people look for "chumrot" and tried not to accept female Moabite converts. When Ruth and Naomi arrived in Beit Lechem, people were not happy to see them. Many were angry that Naomi and husband and sons had deserted them when times were difficult, and female Moabite converts were not easily accepted. And those holding the family property weren't interested in sharing. Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Akiva Wolff <wolff@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 14:26:19 +0200 Subject: RE: Steipler Rebbe and Automobiles >>From: Akiva Wolff <wolff@...> >>The Steipler Rebbe was reputed to have said that if there were a >>Sanhedrin today, they would forbid the automobile (presumably because of >>the high number of people killed in them). > This being the case, should they not have forbidden cliffs, fire, > childbirth, war, alcohol, knives and other such 'dangerous' things? > Charriots were okay and people could be crushed beneath the wheels or > the horses could get away and trample someone.This line of reasoning > always bothers me. Halaha is not out to assur everything under the sun. > As with all things, the danger is in how they are used. May I suggest that this is not an altogether accurate comparison. Unlike the other items mentioned here (fire, childbirth,... etc.) using an automobile is very much a choice, and in some places, still considered a luxury. Here in Eretz Yisrael, a person can usually choose between using public transportation or owning an automobile. The automobile is (generally) faster, more convenient and more comfortable. On the other hand, the automobile is usually more dangerous, more polluting, more expensive and more of a nuisance - especially for other people who don't share in the benefits - than public transportation. I'm not aware of instances where Rabbanum have considered forbidding "cliffs, fire, childbirth, war, alcohol, or knives" - though perhaps someone can enlighten us here. Akiva ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <bdcohen@...> (David I. Cohen) Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 11:46:03 -0400 Subject: A Third approach to teaching Homily (Midrash) Russell Hendell writes: <<So no, I cant fully agree with Batya or the Barkai method: Midrash is not something for the unclear; it is not something that comes afterward; it is an intrinsic part of the text and life and to deprive a child of these nuances is no different than feeding him fairytales.>> I think that Russell overstates his case. Not every medrash or other homiletic type teaching of Torah (usually referred to as "drash") can be reconciled as the "pshat" or basic meaning of the text. Nechama Leibowitz z"tl repeatedly taught that when it came to the instances when Rashi quotes a medrashic statement, he did not do so for its entertainment value, but because, in that particular circumstance, the particular medrash that Rashi quotes is (In Rashi's opinion) the actual "pshat" of that particular verse. But that does not mean that every medrash is meant to be learned as the actual "pshat". Otherwise, we would be conflating the 4 different methods of Torah exegesis into 3. David I. Cohen ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jeffrey Blumstein <blumsj@...> Date: Thu, 10 Jul 2003 02:50:52 -0400 Subject: Top Ten Gedolim Hi all! While I don't want to be disrespectful to the gedolim [Torah giants] of our generation (or any other generation for that matter), I have been thinking about this question for a while, and since I'm new to the whole frum [observant] thing, I don't know where to look for the answer, but I figure here is a good place to start. The question is, if we wanted to make a "top ten" list of gedolim for this generation, then who would be on it? I'm not necessarily saying to put them in order (with the "greatest" at the top) although that might not be a bad idea, depending on how people will feel if there is a disagreement regarding order. Also, when I say this generation, I should be more specific and limit "our generation" to those gedolim who are alive today (For example, while I don't know if Rav Avigdor Miller zt"l would be in the top ten, I wouldn't list him here since he died recently.) I don't mean to trivialize Torah scholarship by adding it to the list of "top ten lists," but I feel that it's important to know who our leaders are. Also, another equally interesting question, what about the top ten gedolim since around 1945? I suppose that I'm making two assumptions here. First, I'm assuming that a given person could come up with a list of names, and second, that people would agree on at least a partial list. The first assumption doesn't seem too bad, but the second one could be a problem (The whole "Two Jews, three opinions" thing.) Obviously there are tensions in the Torah world today that would prevent people from agreeing on a list, but we can always try. Thanks! -Jeffrey Blumstein [I think it might be interesting to come up with a list of the people that list members look up to as the current Gedolei Torah. I do not think that any attempt to "rank" them will be of value, but the list itself might be of interest. Mod.] ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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