Volume 45 Number 49 Produced: Sun Nov 7 14:47:50 EST 2004 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Aliyot origins [Andrew Marks] Alzheimer's / Halacha [Shmuel Carit] Biblical personality [Brandon Raff] clop for "U'lchaparat Pasha" [Shimon Lebowitz] Haftarah [Yisrael Dubitsky] Kabbalat Shabbat (2) [Martin Stern, Martin Stern] Kiddush/women [Joel Rich] Lecha Dodi [<SPOOCH81@...>] Mirrors and Tefillin [Mark H. Goldenberg] MO/tzniut [Batya Medad] Names for HaShem [David Curwin] Names of HaShem [Tzi Briks] Question on Parshat Vayera [Harry Schick] Sarah in Hevron [Shlomo Spiro] Sarah/Satan/medrish [Batya Medad] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Andrew Marks <machmir@...> Date: Wed, 3 Nov 2004 11:00:22 -0500 Subject: Re: Aliyot origins The Vilna Gaon has a different set of alliyas for monday and thursday. He gives each alliya exactly three pesukim, regardless of the lenght of the (shabbos) kohen alliyah. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Carit <cshmuel@...> Date: Tue, 02 Nov 2004 11:07:06 +0000 Subject: Alzheimer's / Halacha My mother-in-law has Alzheimer's and lives with us and my wife is her primary caregiver. Our questions of a halachik nature we don't feel are earth shattering and more often than not we answer them ourselves. Isn't there such a thing as halchik "intuitive sense?" In the realm of right and wrong; what's better and what's worse, don't we sometimes allow the stoic halacha to bend towards deracheha darcheiu noam and kavod habriyot, rather than towards the strict? Stuart ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Brandon Raff <Brandon@...> Date: Tue, 02 Nov 2004 23:13:41 +0200 Subject: Biblical personality Does any one know which Biblical personality had the name Irit or Neurit? Thanks Brandon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shimon Lebowitz <shimonl@...> Date: Tue, 02 Nov 2004 21:55:53 +0200 Subject: Re: clop for "U'lchaparat Pasha" I followed this thread thru the various statements of > When I hear banging it throws me totally "out of kavana" > I find nothing more annoying than someone blurting out > I don't know what the halacha is ... but I ... found it very distracting. etc etc I know I don't have Rav Metanya's excuse of being totally immersed in learning Torah, but I *appreciate* every reminder I get to make appropriate changes/additions in tefilah. I *like* the rosh chodesh 'klops' to remind me to say yaaleh veyavo, and I *like* the re-reminders of hearing people actually saying it a bit louder when they get there. I have more than once remembered yaaleh veyavo at the beginning, but not at retzei! :-( Just wanted to add my 2 cents/agorot. :) Shimon P.S. The Rav Metanya I mentioned is quoted in TY Brachot (17b, 2:4) as saying "I am grateful to my head, which bows of itself at Modim" (the Pnei Moshe explains that he was preoccupied with his learning). Finding a ref for this statement delayed my post till now. Shimon Lebowitz mailto:<shimonl@...> Jerusalem, Israel PGP: http://www.poboxes.com/shimonpgp ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Dubitsky <Yidubitsky@...> Date: Tue, 02 Nov 2004 13:42:13 -0500 Subject: Haftarah What is the halakhic distinction vis a vis obligation between keri'at ha-Torah and Haftarah? Is there a level of difference [viz., is it Scriptural? rabbinic? less?], either from the reader's perspective or from the congregation's? I am not interested in the historical circumstances that brought about the requirement of reading a haftarah. Once it has been made part of the synagogue service, does it carry the same weight as the requirement to hear Torah reading? (and please cite sources) Why do some (Hasidic?) shuls have the reader of the Haftarah say the berakhot alone out loud but the entire haftarah is then read silently (or not so silently; oftentimes the cacophony that ensues can be construed as disrespectful of all thing sacred) by all in shul? If the reason is that once shuls do not use klaf [parchment] the congregation cannot fulfill its obligation by hearing the reader read from a printed book, then why dont all shuls [not just hasidic shteiblach) follow that practice? In fact, why dont all shuls [or at least the wealthiest?] have the requirement to purchase klaf for haftarot? And, furthermore, why should the reader alone recite the blessing -- all should then be required to say it as well [why should we assume to fulfill the requirement of hearing the blessing from another, when we are perfectly capable of saying it ourselves]? Regarding correcting misread (mispronounced) words: why is there a much stronger and heated tendency to correct words in Torah but not in Haftarah? (For those shuls that in fact do correct misread words, is the type of mistaken reading the same or different than that required/practiced in re Torah?) Inasmuch as most shuls read the haftarah from a printed book and therefore assume the haftarah reader does not need preparation to read it (which is certainly not the case re Torah reading), many people with minimal reading (I wont even mention leining) skills are being given the responsibility of reading on behalf of all present. If my reading standards are higher than that of the baal haftarah, how can I be yotse [fulfill my halakhic obligation] with his reading? And yet mistaken readings in haftarah are very commonplace. If the halakhic obligation is as strong as for Torah, why are there so few corrections (in some cases: none) being called out during the reading? And how can we knowingly allow such readers to get up there in the first place? (At least in shuls that read from a klaf, the baal haftarah knows in advance and must prepare). Might synagogues not be required to test their potential readers prior to being called up, to see that they are "up to snuff" (many do this with re Torah readers)? And what does this say of the reading/pronouncing abilities of our kehillot and their educational systems (viz., yeshivot, where reading ability apparently takes a back seat to talmud study, etc [and I do not intend herewith to denigrate talmud study; but it seems to me that Hebrew reading ability should be a first hurdle to *perfect* before moving on to higher level study]). I assume in most cases if there are no corrections, the people either arent paying attention to haftarah or assume the reading was correct, when in fact it wasnt. What does it say of our priorities when shuls stop Torah reading to have the congregation "quiet down," but dont do the same when the haftarah is being read (and more importantly: why)? While I do not mean to imply that these observations/practices are found *everywhere*, I have noticed these phenomena in various and many different synagogues, both in the US and Israel. I would appreciate any and all answers and opinions on the subject. Many thanks, Yisrael Dubitsky ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> Date: Wed, 03 Nov 2004 08:53:27 +0000 Subject: Re: Kabbalat Shabbat on 3/11/04 4:22 am, Gil Student <gil_student@...> wrote: > The Rema, in Darkhei Moshe, OC 261:3, writes that the custom in his > region was not to recite any mizmorim before Shabbos (i.e. Kabbolas > Shabbos). Not surprising since the whole custom of Kabbalat Shabbat was introduced by the mekubbalim of Tsfat and would not have reached Poland in the times of the Rema. As far as I know the first written reference to the custom in Europe is by the Yosef Omets, dayan in Frankfurt at the beginning of the 17th century, a generation after the Rema, who writes (588) that it was then a very recent innovation. Martin Stern ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> Date: Wed, 03 Nov 2004 16:53:52 +0000 Subject: Kabbalat Shabbat on 3/11/04 10:02 am, Nathan Lamm <nelamm18@...> wrote: > Martin Stern mentions a practice of the chazan only going to the bimah > for Lecha Dodi, and back for Barekhu. What about Mizmor Shir and Hashem > Malach? I am sorry if it was not clear from my posting that the chazan does not go back for these but says them also from the bimah. Incidentally their recital predates the kabbalistic custom of Kabbalat Shabbat but, even so, it would be a tirkha detsibbura for the chazan to go back and forth. For those German Jews who follow Minhag Polen, Kabbalat Shabbat is omitted when Yom Tov or Chol haMoed fall on Shabbat or Friday, and these psalms are then recited at the amud immediately followed by Barekhu with no Kaddish between. Martin Stern ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Joelirich@...> (Joel Rich) Date: Wed, 3 Nov 2004 05:16:38 EST Subject: Kiddush/women For those who are interested, this is a sub-issue of the general chiyuv of kiddush. Go to WWW.YUTORAH.ORG and follow the links to Rabbi Y. Sacks 3 part audio on the topic of kiddush for all the detail you'll ever need KT Joel Rich ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <SPOOCH81@...> Subject: Lecha Dodi The minhag to turn around and face backwards at boee v'shalom during lecha dodi, should we really be facing the entrance of the shul as to symbolize the welcoming of shabbos or is there a reason to simply turn backwards? A.M. [This was discussed in volume 37, issues 73,74 and 79. Basically, you should be turning West, not necessarily back or towards entrance. See details there. Mod.] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <GOLDDDS@...> (Mark H. Goldenberg) Date: Wed, 3 Nov 2004 10:38:37 EST Subject: Mirrors and Tefillin More and more, I am noticing people using mirrors to check the position of their Tefillin Shel Rosh. This morning, the person next to me kept looking in his mirror every five minutes througout davening. Is that proper and what should be done? I can't ever recall seeing my Rabbeim or Roshei Yeshiva looking in the mirror to check their tefillin. Any comments? Mark H. Goldenberg DDS ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Wed, 03 Nov 2004 07:04:42 +0200 Subject: MO/tzniut In some places women wearing stockings is the defining sign between dati and chardal/chareidi. Batya http://shilohmusings.blogspot.com/ http://me-ander.blogspot.com/ ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Curwin <tobyndave@...> Date: Wed, 3 Nov 2004 08:49:42 +0200 Subject: RE: Names for HaShem From: Andy Goldfinger <Andy.Goldfinger@...>: >I know that we use the term Scheninah, which is feminine, >to refer to HaShem's presence. However, I can't recall >ever using the image of HaShem as our mother. What about: "My soul is like a weaned child at his mother's side" (Tehillim 131:2)? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Brikspartzuf@...> (Tzi Briks) Date: Wed, 3 Nov 2004 00:42:00 EST Subject: Re: Names of HaShem Dear Andy Goldfinger, One of the attributes, or more precisely Partzufim, of Hashem is that of Ima Elyona, the Supernal Mother. This is reflected in the concept of Ima Mesachechet Al Baneha, the Holy Mother that protects her children. When the Benei Yisrael left Mitzrayim, Hashem was referred to as an Eagle that hovers above and protects her brood. Even the concept of the Succah surrounding and protecting Klal Yisrael in its midst is that of the protective Mother. This concept of Ima Elyona is also referred to as the Upper Shechina on which the lower Schechina is modeled after. Let us pray that Ima Elyonah protect our Souls from all our enemies. Dr. Tzvi Briks ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Harry459@...> (Harry Schick) Date: Mon, 1 Nov 2004 21:46:16 EST Subject: Question on Parshat Vayera In Vayera at the Akida, Hashen tells Avraham, "now I know you fear Elokim"-which implies that prior to this, Avraham did not have fear of Elokim. How then is it possible that when Avimelech asks Avraham why he told him that Sarah was his sister and didn't trust them to say she was his wife, he says that there was no fear of Elokim in this place. If he himself didn't have it, how could he be sure to recognize its lack in others? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shlomo Spiro <spiro@...> Date: Wed, 03 Nov 2004 19:22:23 +0200 Subject: Sarah in Hevron On the question what was Sarah doing in Hevron when she lived with Avraham in Beer Sheva Avrahm took Yitzhok to the akedah from Beer Sheva ( to which he returns after the event). He did not tell Sarah about it ( as is mentioned in midrashim). When she discovered that he husband was not home, she naturally went to his covenantal ally ( ba'al berit) Mamre to ask him if he knew the whereabouts of her husband. It was there at Hevron that the Satan told her that Avraham had taken Yitzhah to the akedah and almost killed him and she died. Avraham in the meantime had returned to Beer Sheva from the akedah, and he learned that Sarah died. He then went to Hevron to bury and mourn her. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Wed, 03 Nov 2004 07:04:42 +0200 Subject: Sarah/Satan/medrish There are all sorts of medrashim, contradictory, on this issue, so don't take it too literally, seriously. According to the pshat, Avraham was in a rush "got up early in the morning" so he didn't stop by. Makes more sense that Sara knew she was dying and wanted to make sure that she was by the ma'arah in Chevron to be buried there, before Hagar. Batya http://shilohmusings.blogspot.com/ http://me-ander.blogspot.com/ ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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