Volume 46 Number 31 Produced: Tue Dec 28 7:21:27 EST 2004 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Apollo Magazine (U.K.) - the Blickling Haggadah [Joseph I. Lauer] Cost of Simchas [Tzvi Stein] Late to Shul [Ari Trachtenberg] Lateness to Shul/Dan l'chaf zechus (2) [Chana Luntz, Ira Bauman] Talking in Shul [Samuel P Groner] Turning down an Aliyah [Joel Rich] Withholding aliyot [Anonymous] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph I. Lauer <josephlauer@...> Date: Fri, 24 Dec 2004 11:35:48 -0500 Subject: Apollo Magazine (U.K.) - the Blickling Haggadah The November 2004 edition of "Apollo - The International Magazine of the Arts" contains a very interesting and beautifully illustrated article about the Blickling Haggadah. The article is entitled "'Next year in Jerusalem!': a Haggadah at Blickling Hall". The article's subhead states: "A spectacular Haggadah, written and illuminated by Joseph ben David of Leipnik in 1739-40, is one of the most remarkable treasures in the library at Blickling Hall, Norfolk. Emile Schrijver discusses the importance of this manuscript, previously unknown to scholarship." The writer, "Dr Emile G.L. Schrijver is curator of the Bibliotheca Rosenthaliana, the Jewish special collection at Amsterdam University Library (www.uba.uva.nl/rosenthaliana). He is currently preparing a 'Repertory of decorated Hebrew manuscripts of the eighteenth century' and has published extensively on Jewish manuscripts and printed books." Clicking on the illustrations in the article at the Apollo site will enlarge them (or at least most of them) for better viewing (and it may be possible to print and save the larger versions). The article's URL is http://www.apollo-magazine.com/article.php?issue=current&month=11&year=2004&id=02 Please note that access to the online Apollo articles requires registration (and cookies). A Hebrew-language article concerning the Apollo article may be read at http://www.haaretz.co.il/hasite/pages/ShArtPE.jhtml?itemNo=514362 In case you are interested (or don't have Internet access), I've copied the Apollo article as a Word document and can forward it to anyone requesting it. However, I have rearranged the article in the Word document to have its text run for the first four pages, followed by the illustrations. Thus, the first four pages can be selected to be printed in black and white and the two pages of (non-enlargeable) illustrations can be printed in color (if so advised). Be well! Good Shabbos-Shabbat Shalom! Joseph I. Lauer Brooklyn, New York ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Tzvi Stein <Tzvi.Stein@...> Date: Fri, 24 Dec 2004 11:06:09 -0500 Subject: Re: Cost of Simchas Does it ever bother the conscience of the *kids themselves* who get married that their father has to take on a second job for the next 10 years to pay for their 1 night of "simcha"? I never hear the possibility even reaised of the couple themselves taking some responsibility for all this. It seems to be assumed that the couple themselves are blissfully ignorant. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ari Trachtenberg <trachten@...> Date: Thu, 23 Dec 2004 11:04:00 -0500 Subject: Late to Shul >It is only those who are persistently late, in the absence of specific >crises, at every tefillah -shacharit, minchah, ma'ariv - weekday, >shabbat, yom tov - that make it difficult to find some limmud zekhut >(justification) other than lack of interest in davenning. The difficulty of finding a justification is not an excuse for not doing so ... and, for that matter, why is it your responsibility to judge such a person? (the familiar phrase from Pirkei Avot "don't judge your friend until you have reached his place" comes to mind) In my experience, it is a strong fear of being judged in this way (apparently justified) that keeps less observant Jews from shul and from observance. Ari Trachtenberg, Boston University http://people.bu.edu/trachten mailto:<trachten@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chana Luntz <chana@...> Date: Thu, 23 Dec 2004 22:11:51 +0000 Subject: Re: Lateness to Shul/Dan l'chaf zechus In message <BDE856B5.66B%<md.stern@...>, Martin Stern <md.stern@...> writes >Perhaps I did not make myself clear in my definition of a meizid. Someone >who is driving a seriously ill person to hospital on shabbat is not a meizid >since he is doing the correct thing. The case, as I thought I had described >it, would have been of a person who regularly drives a car on shabbat and, >when his incorrect behaviour is drawn to his attention, says that he knows >that driving on shabbat is forbidden but he does not care and will continue >to do so. > >> So too in the case of these Rabbis. Getting to minyan >> early/on time is a mitzvah, and we might even be able to >> deduce from the mishna in peah that we say every morning and >> from the gemorra above a mitzvah in ben adam l'chavero. >> BUT, other mitzvahs may take precedence - eg, as the mishna >> in peah says at the end talmid torah k'neged kulam [talmid >> torah outweighs them all]. If the Rabbi in question was >> giving shiur and that is why he was repeatedly late for >> minyan, is he a meizid? I would say not, rather, like the >> pikuach nefesh/shabbas case, he is exercising his halachic >> judgement as to which mitzvah is required to take >> precedence. > >Even if the mishnah in Peah states talmud torah k'neged kulam [talmud torah >outweighs them all], the halachah is that one stops learning to perform a >mitsvah that requires immediate attention such as accompanying a dead person >or rejoicing newlyweds. Why is attending shul on time so that there should >be minyan at the beginning of davenning any different? The issue about minyan versus private learning is a complicated one and there are various opinions on the issue. However, to give you a sense of at least one of the positions that is available, I quote the Aruch HaShulchan, Orech Chaim, siman 90:21: "And the reason for this [all the things he lists before] is that tefila b'tzibur even though it is a d'rabanan is a great mitzvah and even besides tephila b'tzibur there is kedusha and kaddish and barachu and it is permitted to free a slave in order to pray with ten as is made clear in Yoreh Deah siman 267, but this is for a person who is not busy in the fixed learning of Torah [osek b'torah b'kvius] but only sets aside times to learn Torah [kovea eitim l'torah] but for a talmid chacham who learns always, talmid torah is greater than all mitzvos and if there is by this a great bittel [nullification] from torah he should pray privately and be osek b'torah, but in any event he should not regularise himself to act in this way because of the ignorant [amei ha'aretz] so it should not be light in their eyes the matter of tefila b'tzibur and thus the talmid chacham should not be osek b'torah at the time the tzibur says slichos and tachnunim and a talmid chacham who is able to gather ten to his house to pray b'tzibur it is better that he does this than go to the beis haknesses because there is by this way a little bittel torah but in the city he should not pray privately even if there is a little bittel torah by this because if he does so he will cause a weakening of the mitzvah in the eyes of the creation". But I gather what is actually being discussed here is not a nullification of tephila b'zibur, or absence of kaddish, kedusha and barachu, but that they happen later because nine (or eight or seven) others have to wait around until these rabbis show up because the rabbis are engaged in the alternative mitzvah of talmid torah. And while (at least according to those who follow the Rema) there is a halacha (Orech Chaim siman 55, si'if 24) that in a place in which there is not always a minyan in a shul they can force one another by way of fines that there comes always a minyan to the shul this is derived from the same source (see choshen mishpat siman 163 si'if 1) as the requirements to build a shul so it is not clear to me that talmidei chachamim are necessarily amongst those that can be forced (see eg si'if 4 and 5 of that siman). >As I remember the original posting the rabbi in question was not giving a >shiur, only learning on his own. In any case, even if the former were the >case, why could he not finish the shiur, and possibly start it, slightly >earlier to be able to be in shul for the beginning of davenning. Of course, >on occasion he might overrun but this should not be the norm. Of course you could ask the same question in reverse, why could the minyan not be scheduled to start a bit later to accommodate the shiur? Especially as this would seem not to have been a well established minyan of the town, but one that had relatively few members And while I would agree that it is not derech eretz to keep people waiting (and maybe that is partly what the Shulchan Aruch means in Orech Chaim siman 90 si'if 11 when it says that if there is a shul in the city and a person does not come to it he is called a bad neighbour), if you tell people that you are not going to be coming at the time specified on a regular basis, because of your talmid torah, you are only keeping them waiting because they have chosen to show up at a certain time, and not at the later time when they know you will be there. And if the reason they do not want to start later is because of their work commitments, then what we have is a conflict between talmid torah of a talmid chacham and the work commitments of a regular participant. And while if such a person is an avel .[mourner] - maybe you can argue that the way we are menachem avel [comfort mourners] is by providing a minyan in which he can say kaddish, and hence you can add the mitzvah of being menachem avel - even so, the conflict is still not really between tefila b'tzibbur or no tefila b'zibbur but between one's talmid torah and another' work. In any event, despite being a great mitzvah, tephila b'zibbur is, as pointed out by the Aruch HaShulchan, a d'rabbanan, and being disrespectful to talmidei chachamim is a d'orisa. So I think we do need to be a little careful in bandying around terms like mezid in respect of people who may well be talmidei chachamim (I agree that having the title rabbi these days is not always an indication that we are dealing with a talmid chacham, but it makes it that bit more likely, and would seem to mean that we need to be that bit more careful in terms of respect and honour). Now I agree that the fact that these rabbis are anonymous operates to make these issues less of concern, but even so, should we not be looking, for the honour of Torah, to understand what their limud is, rather than accusing them of committing an averah. Regards Chana Luntz ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Yisyis@...> (Ira Bauman) Date: Fri, 24 Dec 2004 14:42:29 EST Subject: Re: Lateness to Shul/Dan l'chaf zechus I must express my admiration for Chana and her obvious generosity of spirit. Yes, it is true, as I also pointed out in my posting last month, that one should go out of our way to judge L'chaf Z'chut. However there may be limits to even that wonderful trait. How would a person ever be able to observe the mitzvah of "admonishing your friend" if he was always willing to explain away his friend's consistent malfeasances? Can a Rabbi of a congregation ever try to elevate his flock's level of mitzvah observance, if out of the goodness of his heart he always condones their lack of diligence? At one point, I think we are allowed to become suspicious and be judgemental. Where that point is can be a point of discussion. Ira Bauman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Samuel P Groner <spg28@...> Date: Thu, 23 Dec 2004 15:06:44 -0500 (EST) Subject: Re: Talking in Shul Does anyone know if there is a source in halakhah or aggadah for the chorus in a popular Miami Boy's Choir song, "Don't talk, just daven, so your tefillot can reach Hashem"? If so, that might be a useful source to bring into this discussion; if the prayers of people who talk in shul do not reach G-d, that might be an important mussar message to give to the "talkers." If not, is there a halakhic problem (ie. don't lie) in writing or disseminating a song that says something which is not true, if the motives are obviously good? Sammy Groner ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Joelirich@...> (Joel Rich) Date: Fri, 24 Dec 2004 11:19:37 EST Subject: Re: Turning down an Aliyah << On a related issue, I'm also sometimes very uncomfortable being given an aliyah (sometimes, because I'm a visitor; sometimes, because I'm the Levi in the room) in a more or less forced way. >> AIUI once one is offered an aliya, you can not turn it down-in contradistinction to being asked to daven for the amud where you should turn it down twice (unfortunately it seems that many gabbaim and baalei batim are unaware of the latter) KT Joel Rich ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Anonymous Date: Fri, 24 Dec 2004 10:35:48 Subject: Withholding aliyot > A congregant doesn't pay his dues. The board wants to prohibit him from > receiving aliyot. > > What do you do? What has happened in specific cases? Has anyone > actually received a psak in this matter from the schule Rav? Etc. When I took over as treasurer of our synagogue I found a members who, although they clearly had the means to pay, owed the shule considerable sums (several years of dues, seats, pledges, etc.) -- Since financial standing was considered a private issue, (even) the gabbaim were unaware and certain of these people were given several kibbudim -- aliyot, davening for the amud, etc. I found this incongruous and voiced my objections. The Rabbi approved our not giving EXTRA kibbudim to such individuals. I.e., they would get an aliyah only when they were halachically cheyuv (as in a yahrzeit.) Results were (a) little improvement in collections and (b) lots of bad blood. Sorry -- it was worth a try. private discussions with debtors worked better. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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