Volume 46 Number 44 Produced: Sun Jan 2 10:55:43 EST 2005 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Checking Sifrei Torah [Carl Singer] Coming late to shul -- A Curious Anecdote [Gershon Dubin] Saving Lives [Carl Singer] Smoking [Nathan Lamm] Tsunami discussion [H Goldsmith] Wedding Rings (5) [Steven M.Kapnick, Nathan Lamm, Tzvi Stein, David Riceman, David Charlap] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <casinger@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 10:38:41 -0500 Subject: Checking Sifrei Torah > I think Rav Teitz's point was somewhat different (and if it is not his > point, then it is mine), but is well developed from your explanation > above. Let's assume the method is a trained neural network. As has > been pointed out, there are two issues that can be checked for. One is > missing / extra letters, the other is incorrectly formed letters. In > the ideal case, the training samples and decision weights are chosen > such that with a set of letters that the Posek defines as marginally > acceptable and marginally unacceptable, the neural network returns the > same results. In a more likely real scenario, the details will depend > on whether you are looking for missing / extra letters or incorrectly > formed. Here again, I would suspect that you would want to have the > software first use a relatively inclusive decision weight to err on > accepting incorrectly formed letters, and based on that decision, > report out all missing / extra letters. If any are found, you have a > high likelyhood of having a invalid sefer torah. I would then expect > that you could rerun the logic with a set of tighter decision weights > that would now flag any suspect letters. In this case, the software is > just being used as a tool to find for the checker which letters he > should pay attention to, and then have the checker make the actual > determination of valid / non-valid status. > Avi Feldblum You won't catch me paskening -- but I think the halachically acceptable approach would be to have the computer program screen for possible errors. Clearly a human checking a "document" such as a Sefer Torah may miss finding some errors -- in part because he is likely well versed in the contents and will read past errors without noticing them -- plus the length of the "document" and the great importance of the work make it especially taxing. Using a computer to find "obvious" errors -- say mis-spellings or missing words with even a fairly lax exclusion criteria would be a most helpful AID to the sofer. He could then focus on and reexamine those items culled out as possibly being in error. But again -- the criteria for whether a given letter is properly formed or (as in the case of older Sefrai Torah) broken is fixed in halacha -- this criteria (which I previously characterized as a youthful reader) cannot be readily duplicated by a computer algorithm -- and doing so would be problematic from an halachic - not technical point of view. Compare / contrast this to the discussion re: bugs in the lettuce. The halachic criteria is not absolute -- whether a microscope reveals the presence of a bug is irrelevant. Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 15:11:11 GMT Subject: Coming late to shul -- A Curious Anecdote From: <MJGerver@...> (Mike Gerver) > Years ago, I heard a story about someone having a party, and writing a > different time in each invitation, according to what time each person > had come to the last party he had-- everyone showed up exactly at the > same time In the Syrian Jewish community in Brooklyn, many/most people would not even think of showing up to a wedding or other simcha before about 3-4 hours after it's called for. This is apparently so well rooted that when Ashkenazim are invited as well, often people print different (i.e., much later) times for them so they don't waste hours waiting for the simcha to start. Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <casinger@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 06:21:54 -0500 Subject: Saving Lives Rabbi Lau Calls for Continuing the Search for Survivors on the Sabbath 22:45 Dec 30, '04 / 18 Tevet 5765 (IsraelNN.com <http://IsraelNN.com>) Former Chief Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau called for continued rescue efforts in southeast Asia over the Sabbath, explaining the possibility of saving lives demands the sanctity of the Sabbath be pushed aside in the hope of rescuing survivors. I received the above from the "passaic.jews" email list. I then began to over-analyze it: It's not a chidush or anything that a knowledgeable, observant Jew wouldn't know to do even without this "booster shot." But may be helpful for those who are observant (i.e. keep Shabbos) but are not knowledgeable or sure. Is there now such a thing as a "global psak" -- who should send it. Would it require myriad signatures. What halachic impact does it have. What impact does it have on the local community / local Rabbaim -- clearly there is not an overwhelming Jewish presence in Southeast Asia. Was there any similar statement made after September 11th? (Which was on a Tuesday, btw) What if the message dealt with something controversial (say the "cellphone ban") ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Nathan Lamm <nelamm18@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 08:33:03 -0800 (PST) Subject: Smoking Carl Singer mentions how, in times past, smoking was sometimes held to be a healthy practice. Interestingly, the New York Times recently ran a piece on how the recent rise in obesity can be directly linked to a decrease in smoking. The health experts in the article, however, said that there's no question that the former, while undesirable, isn't nearly as bad as the latter. Of course, there may be some reluctance to issue (or follow) a ban because of a slippery-slope fear. After all, unhealthy practices abound. Will they all have to be formally banned? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <HHgoldsmith@...> (H Goldsmith) Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 10:35:18 EST Subject: Tsunami discussion Instead of discussing back and forth should we or should we not send money to Sri Lanka, let us put our minds and hearts to discerning the message of the calamity. I recently received the following email: Disaster, Redemption and the Tsunami Thursday, December 30, 2004 / 18 Tevet 5765 At least one Kabbalist sage predicted "natural calamities" over two weeks ago. He and others call for an increase in acts of kindness, as they try to place the events in universal context. The venerated Rabbi Yitzchak Kaduri, considered Israel's leading Kabbalist rabbi, was quoted in the Yediot Acharonot newspaper on Dec. 12 as saying: "We are now in the fourth year of what could be the seven-year Redemption period, according to the calculation of the Vilna Gaon. [However.] in the coming three years, uncertainty about the future will hang over our heads, unless we work and strive that the Messiah be revealed. The Messiah is already [here] in Israel. Whatever people are sure will not happen, is liable to happen, and whatever we are certain will happen may disappoint us. But in the end, there will be peace throughout the world. The world is mitmatek mehadinim (lit., becoming sweet from/of strict justice), great tragedies in the world are foreseen, that's the thing of the Jews going to the East. [emphasis added] But our enemies will not prevail over us in the Land of Israel, 'fear and trembling will fall upon them,' in the [merit of the] power of Torah." Rabbi Kaduri said this week, "What can save the world from calamities is real repentance by Jews, who must increase acts of kindness towards one another... The cry of the many poor in Israel and the expulsion of Jews from their homes shakes the world... It's not for naught that this place was hit, where many of our compatriots went to look for this-worldly lusts." Rabbi Kaduri has told his students that the current government will be the last one of the "old era," and that the new government will already have leadership of the Messianic era. Another sage, Rabbi Chaim Kanevsky of Bnei Brak, was quoted in Yediot in the same article as saying that we are verily in the period of the beginning of the Redemption period, and that the Messiah could be revealed at any moment. He called for further outreach "in order to prevent calamities and to bring mercy from the Creator. All Jews must come to the Land of Israel." The Rabbi also called to establish Torah schools in every area, and that "Torah study will prevent calamities - from earthquakes to other natural disasters." The Kipa website, a Hebrew-language forum for religious youth, features a response by Rabbi Uziel Eliyahu, Chief Rabbi of the Misgav Regional Council in the Galilee regarding a Jewish approach to the calamitous events. "First of all," Rabbi Eliyahu wrote, "we should pray and ask G-d to remove His wrath from the word, send a complete recovery to the injured, and help and protect everyone in the world, causing sorrow to depart." Rabbi Eliyahu added that what is happening now was decreed on Rosh HaShanah [the Jewish New Year]: "It was a Divine decree that was issued regarding 'who will be killed by water, and who by fire...'" Our job now, he wrote, is to "pray to G-d, to try harder in studying Torah and fulfilling the Torah and doing acts of kindness and charity. This is an hour of reckoning for the entire world!!!" Rabbi Eliyahu emphasized that G-d has complete control of nature, and that the Jewish People live "amidst great faith, despite questions that remain open. No question mark can break our strength of great and perfect faith in G-d... This does not prevent us from asking and searching for answers and [logical] explanations, but it all takes place on the solid ground of great faith in G-d... The Bible (Zechariah 14) mentions that in the future, when the Messiah comes, the Mt. of Olives will be split in two... The Messiah can come at any minute, even as you read these lines..." ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Steven M.Kapnick <rsmk@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 13:10:35 -0500 Subject: RE: Wedding Rings >From: <DTnLA@...> (Dov Teichman) >Speaking of rings, when and how did the practice of men wearing wedding >rings (bands) catch on in the Orthodox world? (Especially Modern >Orthodox vs. Chareidi) Do we find such a practice in Chazal? As far as I >remember only signet or ornamental rings are mentioned. For that >matter, I was always puzzled about men wearing jewelry too, which in >general is much less common among ashkenazim vs. sefardim and even among >ashkenazim its primarily among modern orthodox rather than chareidi. Can >some explain these phenomena? I have been informed anecdotally through numerous resources that it was a "common" practice in various parts of Europe for even Observant/Orthodox married Jewish men to wear a wedding band on their pinky finger. Can anyone offer any further information on this matter? Shimon Kapnick ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Nathan Lamm <nelamm18@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 08:29:49 -0800 (PST) Subject: Wedding Rings One may, of course, question how the custom of *women* wearing wedding rings, especially the plain bands common today, began. Obviously, it's a much older custom, but possibly also has its origins in non-Jewish practice (or vice versa). I've actually heard that wearing a wedding ring makes life somewhat "easier" for a man who works in a professional setting. Personally, I don't buy it, as this supposes that women throw themselves at unmarried men (and *only* unmarried men), and married men without rings can't control themselves (and those with them can). But this is certainly on the minds of some men, and, likely, their wives, and thus might be an incentive for them to do so. Or it may simply be a harmless and nice gesture from the outside world penetrating the Jewish one. So long as it's not done under the chuppah, where it could create all sorts of issues. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Tzvi Stein <Tzvi.Stein@...> Date: Sat, 1 Jan 2005 23:34:02 -0500 Subject: Re: Wedding Rings I've never worn a wedding ring. Ironically, the only time I had a problem with unwanted opposite-sex attention in the workplace was in Israel. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Riceman <driceman@...> Date: Sun, 2 Jan 2005 10:02:31 -0500 Subject: Re: Wedding Rings > From: <Joelirich@...> (Joel Rich) > When the issue is raised by "more frum" friends, I always > ask them if their wives wear wedding rings. The usual answer is yes. I > then ask them for the source of this practice in chazal. See Tikkunei HaZohar #5 (p. 20b in the edition with biur HaGra), cited in Rama on Even HaEzer 27:1. David Riceman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Charlap <shamino@...> Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2004 11:51:57 -0500 Subject: Re: Wedding Rings Dov Teichman wrote: > Speaking of rings, when and how did the practice of men wearing > wedding rings (bands) catch on in the Orthodox world? I assume it is a fairly recent thing. My father and grandfathers didn't wear wedding rings. > Do we find such a practice in Chazal? As far as I remember only > signet or ornamental rings are mentioned. As far as halacha is concerned a husband's "wedding ring" is purely ornamental. It doesn't play any role in creating the marriage, the way the wife's ring does. (Although, strictly speaking, he could give any object above a certain value for the wedding, not just a ring. If someone would, then her ring (if she has one) would also be purely ornamental.) > I was always puzzled about men wearing jewelry too, which in general > is much less common among ashkenazim vs. sefardim and even among > ashkenazim its primarily among modern orthodox rather than chareidi. > Can some explain these phenomena? I always assumed that, in society (Amercan/European) at large, the wearing of jewelry is considered someone only women do. (With notable exceptions for some celebrities.) As such, for a man to wear jewelry, it would be similar to wearing women's clothing. I would assume that, like the overall concept of defining what is "men's" and "women's" clothing, the halacha here would depend on the time and place in question and not be held to an absolute standad. -- David ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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