Volume 50 Number 78 Produced: Tue Dec 27 6:17:50 EST 2005 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Frum and ...unconventional [Frank Silbermann] Mattityahu = Kohen Gadol? [Shimon] Minhag Eretz Yisrael [Shimon] Question not about homophobia [Paul Azous] Reality, Halachic Reality, and Bugs (2) [Daniel Nachman, Avi Feldblum] The shtrayml--again [Frank Silbermann] Shtreimel [Saul Davis] Tuxedos [Nathan Lamm] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> Date: Mon, 26 Dec 2005 18:40:32 -0600 (CST) Subject: Re: Frum and ...unconventional Lisa Liel <lisa@...> V50 N74; > I hear that a lot. "Fine, but do you have to *flaunt* it?" > > Here's the thing, though. Frum Jews are invasive. I'm sure many > communities are, but the frum community is the only one I really know. > It's not in a bad way. It's in a caring way. People ask questions, > because they want to know about other people, and that's simply a sign > of Ahavat Yisrael. > > But it puts us in a situation where we need to either lie or evade or > tell the truth. I guess an example evasion might be to say, "I'm not married now, and due to a medical problem which I do not wish to discuss, I cannot marry. The same is true of my friend, so to avoid loneliness and to help me raise my daughter we've established a joint household." Frank Silbermann Memphis, Tennessee ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <shimonl@...> (Shimon) Date: Mon, 26 Dec 2005 18:56:23 +0200 Subject: Re: Mattityahu = Kohen Gadol? >> However, in the Al HaNisim prayer we say that Mattityahu was a kohen >> gadol. How does that fit in with our historical understanding of the >> time? > Al HaNissim doesn't say that Mattitiyahu was a Kohen Gadol. It does say > that he was the son of a Kohen Gadol. It can actually be read either > way, but I don't believe there's any source that says Mattitiyahu was a > Kohen Gadol. Interesting! To tie the two together (`al hanisim and the historical shiur), was Matityahu's father the (in)famous Yochanan Kohen Gadol who... became a tzduki? (and was he only elevated to that post *because* he did so?) Shimon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <shimonl@...> (Shimon) Date: Mon, 26 Dec 2005 13:07:55 +0200 Subject: Re: Minhag Eretz Yisrael Mark Steiner <marksa@...> wrote: > For example, it is considered minhag EY to add the word 'kadisha" in > the kaddish derabbanan ("atra kadisha haden"), yet I heard this > formula among Jews of North African origin while visiting France. I don't understand why anyone would call France an "atra kadisha". ;-) On the other hand, I have often heard Sefardim here in EY say "oraita kadishta, di vechol atar ve-atar". In other words, the adj. kadish(t)a applying to the Torah, not the place. Chanukah sameach, Shimon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Paul Azous <azous@...> Date: Tue, 27 Dec 2005 03:45:30 +0000 Subject: Re: Question not about homophobia In regards to what Ira wrote about sex change operations: Off hand I do not remember the exact volume, but in Tradition (I think in the late 1970's) an article was written on parts of this topic, namely sex changes. There are several points the author makes, one that is interesting for this discussion, and the only one I slightly remember. There is a machloket between Rashi and Rambam regarding someone who either has an intentional sex change, or for who lost his private parts in battle. The machloket revolves around the beracha in Birkot Hashacar regarding "Shelo Asani Isha", or "Sheasani Bitzalmo". If a sex change takes place which beracha does the person now recite in the morning? Rashi is of the opinion (and I am summarizing) that you are what you are that day. If you were a man on Monday and you woke up a woman on Tuesday, you would say "Sheasani Betzalmo." Rambam maintains that your human status is decided at birth and can never be changed; hence even if one had a sex change, whether intentional or not, he would make a "Shelo Asani Isha". Possibly, your final questions can be answered, at least according to Rashi and Rambam, by their view. Hence, one who had a sex change and then entered into a relationship with a man possibly could be viewed as a homoxexual union by Rambam, yet by Rashi (and I am just conjecturing), it may be permitted. Follow the same criteria for your subsequent questions. Paul <azous@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Nachman <lhavdil@...> Date: Tues, 27 Dec 2005 Subject: Re: Reality, Halachic Reality, and Bugs On 12/23/05, Avi Feldblum <mljewish@...> > wrote: I would not put Daniel's example into this same catagory. The status of issur due to a mixture in itself not a measureable physical reality. If the halacha is that when two items of certain characteristics mix, they create a new status of issur, and that under the conditions that one of the items is "rancid (notein ta'am lifgam)" the status of issur does not take effect, I do not see that as an issue of physical vs halachic reality. I think the theme of this thread so far has been looking at instances where, halachically, bugs might not considered bugs and blood might not considered blood. That is to say, there is a seeming discrepancy between the halachic din and the objective, scientific reality. If I understand the halacha of "notain ta'am lifgam" correctly, it seems like an analogous case, where bacon is not considered bacon. That is to say, not only is the mixture that tastes like bacon permitted, any bacon itself in the mixture that cannot be removed is (theoretically) permitted. Scientifically, the bacon is there, but because of the ta'am lifgam (the spoiled flavor), we say it's not bacon anymore. This holds b'rov, so even if the mixture is 49% actual treifus, we still say (theoretically) it's permitted, as long as the food cannot be separated from the mixture and it adversely affects the taste of the food. One could argue (as I think you are proposing, if I understand your objection) that rather than saying "it's not bacon," we say "it is bacon, but because of the circumstances of the mixture its status has changed from issur to heter." In other words, this is just an issue of halachic status rather than a question about reality. That's fair enough, but I'd suggest that the same line of reasoning also holds for the other examples mentioned in this thread (bugs and blood). Do we say, "it's not blood," or do we say, "it's blood, but it's permitted"? That ambiguity applies to all the examples brought in so far. channukah sameach, D. Nachman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Avi Feldblum <avi@...> Date: Sun, 25 Dec 2005 22:10:26 -0600 Subject: Re: Reality, Halachic Reality, and Bugs I went back to Andy's original article, and first found that Andy had already listed my example as a prime example of what he was asking about. To me, there is a fundimental difference between Andy and my example on one hand, and the issue of nosein ta'am lifgam on the other. As far as the case of blood is concerned, I was trying to get a clarification from Elozor on his submission to understand what his position was. Let me try and clarify what I see as Andy's question. Andy is free to clarify his position, at most this will then become my position. There are items that are clearly purely Halachic reality only. The status of Tomeh / Tahor, Issur / Heter etc are purely halachic concepts. The idea that a mixture of milk and meat become a item of issur is clearly a halachic reality. As part of determining halachic reality, Chazal determined certain rules. At times, at least, it appears that these rules are based on physical reality. The challange to me is to understand the cases where these two appear to contradict. Let's start with the concept of mixture. If there is a mixture of Issur and Heter (or milk and meat), then under certain conditions, the admixure of issur into a pot of heter causes the pot of heter to take on the status of issur. Two of the halachic parameters regarding this mixture is that the issur impart a flavor on the heter, and that the flavor imparted is not a 'nosen ta'am lifgam'. This is simply, to me, the axioms of the halachic structure and have no "connection" at this point with "physical reality". The connection comes as we try to determine what physical acts result in "imparting a flavor". This, to me, implies something that should be able to be measured by physical instrumentation. The halacha early on decides that we do not purely determine this by tasting the resulting mixture and seeing if the flavor has been imparted, but determine based on how much of the issue has been transferred to the heter, using a 1 in 60 ratio for what imparts flavor. Here is where I have some difficulties / need better understanding of a case where halacha says it imparts a flavor, yet modern physical science can show that this is not possibly "true". In terms of nosen ta'am lifgam, I'll need to review your cases, but I do not see any similar issue there. Andy's case is somewhat different, but related. It has to do with how do we view statistical information within a Halachic context. I've run out of time this morning, but hope to get back within the next day or two to continue. Avi ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <fs@...> Date: Mon, 26 Dec 2005 18:34:48 -0600 (CST) Subject: The shtrayml--again > Yossi Ginzberg writes: > > there was an emphasis on dressing differently from the non-Jews, > making it unlikely that they would copy a totally gentile style > of dress, noble or not. Particularly if you consider that > Chassidus stresses so much it's adherence to old style, it is > hard to believe that a voluntary adaptation of such a style > could occur. It would be akin to a Rebbe of today starting to > wear a tuxedo, something that presumably cannot happen. Most NON-Chassidic rabbis today dress much as did the upper-class Europeans and Americans of the middle-20th century -- i.e., suits, ties and fedoras. Fedoras have already gone out of fashion among gentiles, and the wearing of suits-and-ties seems to be in decline, yet this style of dress seems to be more and more a standard among non-chassidic frum Jews. If this population were to grow increasingly separated (psychologically) from the general population, I could well imagine this becoming known as "the distinctive traditional frum garb." Rabbis might even write homilies about the spiritual symbolism of the fedora. "With its brim down in front and up in back, it symbolizes the goal of the Jew to raise the spiritual level of every part of the world he passes by." I suspect that the same kind of process occured during the early days of hassidism. The hassidic movement did its heaviest recruiting among frum non-hassidic Jews during the first half of the 19th century. Assuming that these Jews were like frum non-hasidic Jews today, they probably tended to dress much the upper-class gentiles around them, albeit in a very conservative, i.e. somewhat old-fashioned way. I don't think it was a case of Chassidic rabbis getting a sudden inspiration to imitate the clothes of Polish nobility. I think they simply decided not to change their way of dress when upper-class gentile fashions changed. Frank Silbermann Memphis, Tennessee ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Saul Davis <saul.davis@...> Date: Sun, 25 Dec 2005 22:44:34 +0200 Subject: Shtreimel As far as I am concerned the shtreimel (and bekeshe, spodik, kapota etc.) is a non issue. People can wear what ever they want. Do not suggest that there is something innately Jewish or religious about shtreimelech. I have even heard that wearing a shtreimel in the summer is mesiroth nefesh, when it can, and should, be simply be removed from the head when the weather is too hot! The passage of the shtreimel from the (often anti-Semitic) Eastern European upper-class to poor hasiddim is obscure but has examples in other places. Jews have copied the headgear of the local upper-classes and kept it even centuries later. Until quite recently in many frum shuls in the British Commonwealth rabbis and gabbayim wore top-hats and I saw in a Sefardi shul in Nice, France, the shamash wearing a tricorn (like Napoleon wore)! People of the same tribe/sect/gang/regiment etc. often wear a uniform and this might account for the long-standing popularity of the hassidik and other haredi Shabbath clothes. Jews do tend to be very conservative about clothes, especially hats; it doesn't make anyone any frumer. Once hasiduth was an almost revolutionary, renewal movement in Judaism - sadly no more. Hasiddim are often the most reactionary of all Jews and as a movement (with the usual exception of Habad) have not made any new contribution to Judaism in recent years (about a century). Eg today the hassidik yeshiva is hardly any different from the litvishe yeshiva and the roots of the movement, outreach to the simple Jewish masses, is all but lost. Saul Davis ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Nathan Lamm <nelamm18@...> Date: Sun, 25 Dec 2005 16:21:12 -0800 (PST) Subject: Tuxedos Noyekh Miller writes: "And it's true that I never saw an O rov in a tuxedo." At Kehillath Jeshurun, on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, the Rav, his assistants, and officers of the shul (at least them, maybe others as they desire) wear formal morning clothes (cutaway, ascot, top hat, etc.) on Shabbos, and tuxedos on yom tov. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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