Volume 52 Number 61 Produced: Fri Jul 21 10:02:47 EDT 2006 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Criticizing great men (and women) [Akiva Miller] Davening for Amud During Shana [Orrin Tilevitz] Emotional impact of intermarriage [Mark Goldin] More on multiple minhagim [Ira L. Jacobson] Natural Disasters and Rabbinic expalnations (was Rabbi Ovadia Yosef) [Susan D. Kane] Vegetarianism/Veganism and R. Moshe [Mark Goldin] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Akiva Miller <kennethgmiller@...> Date: Thu, 20 Jul 2006 02:37:25 GMT Subject: Re: Criticizing great men (and women) Noyekh Miller wrote: > Shoshana Boubil seems to have the strange notion that there are some > actions or words which, even if they become known, must be regarded as > private and immune from criticism. Thus, if I learn by accident that > the people next door have meetings of the Ku Klux Klan in the > basement, I have no business talking about it to anyone or khos > v'kholile criticizing it. That's not how I understood her words. I understood her as saying that the invited audience understood the style and meaning of the rhetoric which was being spoken there. Outsiders who happen to hear it may *think* they know what was said, but they are wrong, because they mistranslated it. Thus, if I learn by accident that the people next door have meetings which sound like they are of the Ku Klux Klan in the basement, you better make sure that you understand what was REALLY going on before you talk about it to anyone or khos v'kholile criticize it. Consider the possibility, for example, that it was not a *real* Klan meeting, but that the people you heard were students rehearsing something for their Social Studies class. You'll probably complain that you saw that they weren't students. They were adults, speaking in the most vile and bigoted terms. Okay, I will concede your point. But that was before you were educated. Mrs. Boublil has tried to teach us about this time-honored tradition of the Mochiach. The Mochiach talks in an extreme manner, and both he AND THE AUDIENCE understand this. The audience KNOW that they are not to take the mochiach's words literally at face value, but to understand them in the context of mussar and exhortation. I had never heard of this sort of thing until she explained it to us. But now that she has, we should take her seriously. On the other hand, it seems to me that these talks are not nearly as private as she'd like to think they are. She considers the talks priveleged because they appear on a special pay-for-subscription radio station, so no one would be listening unless they want to. Really? I pay for my cable-tv, and there's a lot of stuff that I'd rather not get, but it all comes as a package. Even when one pays for a specific channel, that includes a great variety of shows. Someone could very easily have purchased that radio station, and then stumble upon Rav Yosef's speaking, and not understand the context. If things are as Mrs. Boublil describes, I would hope that there would be some sort of explaantion at the start and end of each show. Akiva Miller ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> Date: Wed, 19 Jul 2006 08:14:35 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Davening for Amud During Shana In response to > searching for heter for a 12 month avel who has been davening Yom > Kippur Mincha for a number of years to do so during his avelus. Need > sources, Aryeh Frimer writes: > The grounds are straightforward. If he has been davening for years he > may continue, if people would notice his absence, because otherwise it > would be aveilut be-farhessya. i.e., "public mourning", which is forbidden on Shabbat and yom tov. While I hesitate to challenge Reb Aryeh, I think his reasoning is suspect. Two simanim in Shulchan Aruch appear to bear on this discussion, Yoreh Deah 376 and 400. In YD 376:4, the Ramo at the end writes that even though it is not forbidden, it is customary that an aveil does not lead prayers on Shabbat and yom tov. The Shach, quoting the Maharil, says that the same is true for yamim nora'm, but add that it is ok for him to daven if there is nobody better than he. Several other sources, including (I recall; I do not have the books at hand) Pitchei Teshuva on Yoreh Deah, a commentary at the back of my edition called Chaim Uvrach Lemishmeret Shalom (at P 42), and the Aruch Hashulchan, say that it is ok for him to daven if he does it regularly. The Aruch Hashulchan mentions sources generally permitting (requiring?) an aveil to daven on Shabbat and yom tov, but notes that the Ramo doesn't bring them down. YD 400 deals with aveilut on Shabbat of the shiva, where aveilut be-farhessya (public mourning) is forbidden. In pertinent part, the siman says that while it is not permissible to call such an aveil to the Torah, if he is called he must go up, because the failure to do so would be public mourning. Neither of these simanim nor any of the sources I have seen (including Kol Bo al Aveilut, which I cited in my first posting) mention public mourning in the context of leading prayers, although of course I cannot prove that no such sources exist. Also, if Reb Aryeh's reasoning were correct, consistent with the logic of YD 400, the rule in YD 376:4 ought to be that one may not ask an aveil to lead the prayers on Shabbat and yom tov, but that if he is asked he must go. The sources do not say that. Alternatively, YD 400 should say that if he gets an aliya every week (e.g., it's a small shul or he's the only kohen), he should be given an aliya on Shabbat of the shiva. It doesn't say that either. As for Ira Jacobson's posting that his shul once hired a chazzan in lieu of the regular baal tefila who was an aveil, I'm not surprised - it's all in the realm of minhag, and the general rule is "mutar lo lehitpalel"--he may daven, not that he must. However, Chaim Uvrach Lemishmeret Shalom, which I cited earlier, quotes an opinion that preventing a regular chazzan from leading prayers because he is an aveil is like taking a mitzvah from him. I have been in two shuls where a regular yamim nora'im baal tefila was an aveil for a parent, and in both he lead the prayers ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Goldin <goldinfamily@...> Date: Wed, 19 Jul 2006 21:15:44 -0700 Subject: Re: Emotional impact of intermarriage From: Joseph Ginzberg <jgbiz120@...> > Re my earlier posting of why marrying "out" carries such a > disproportionate psychic weight: It hit me during last weeks Torah > reading that the radical, immediate, and violent act of Pinchas, done > without so much as asking a "shaila", might be the reason there is > such a visceral recation to this particular sin, more than others. > Perhaps there is some retained kernel of shock at the immediate and > visible result of that sin in our collective memory, such that causes > this reaction. Offhand, I cannot think of another case that provoked > such quick a and terminal punishment. One other: When Matitiyahu ben Yochanan HaCohen slew the Jew who sacrificed to the Greek gods. Mark ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ira L. Jacobson <laser@...> Date: Wed, 19 Jul 2006 18:57:51 +0300 Subject: Re: More on multiple minhagim <casinger@...> (Carl Singer) stated, initially quoting this writer: >> Regarding an established synagogue with no established minhag, I >> still wonder whether there is a halakhic justification. > This Synagogue HAS an established minhag - to follow the shaliach > tizbor's hometown minhag. That is very different than no minhag at > all. WADR, this reminds me of the story of a shul where the congregants were in an uproar about how they did something there--say, whether they recited Tefilat Tal before the shtille 18 or as part of the hazaras hashass. Finally, a newcomer asked the obvious question, "what is the established minhag here?" To which the response was "it is our minhag to argue about this issue every year." But seriously, Harav Shlomo Goren, when discussing Seder Pessah in the IDF, said that there were 17 different minhagim, which is why he chose one of them to be the official minhag for the IDF. In his enumeration of the minhagim, including Ashkenaz, Baladi, Baghdad, and so forth, he neglected to define a minhag called "fielder's choice." What you have defined is what Harav Goren would not have recognized as a minhag, but rather the lack of a minhag. Or perhaps you have some sources for defining what I refer to as "a lack of minhag" as being a true minhag in the halakhic sense of the word. IRA L. JACOBSON mailto:<laser@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Susan D. Kane <suekane@...> Date: Wed, 19 Jul 2006 21:45:56 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Natural Disasters and Rabbinic expalnations (was Rabbi Ovadia Yosef) I haven't found the points below raised yet, so I thought I would offer them. I recently returned from a conference in New Orleans. As those familiar with the city know, the areas of New Orleans famous for "debauchery" were relatively untouched by Katrina. The French Quarter sustained very little damage. And today, other than a labor shortage, the tourist/business district is up and running and ready for the return of drunken college students, even as larger and less-famous parts of the city are still desolate. The areas that were hardest hit by Katrina were very poor New Orleans neighborhoods, as well as the (oft-forgotten) Gulf Coast cities of Mobile, Biloxi, etc. The poorest and most vulnerable people in what are already poor places -- the elderly, the sick, those without transportation, those without insurance -- suffered the most from this disaster. While the hurricane itself was literally an act of G-d, the level of suffering it caused could have been largely mitigated if someone had heeded the many and repeated warnings from environmental scientists that the levees controlling Lake Ponchartrain were insufficient to handle the major hurricane that would eventually hit this area. See: Drowning New Orleans, Scientific American, October 2001 http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?articleID=00060286-CB58-1315-8B5883414B7F0000 Reposted here (I did not investigate the general nature of this blog) http://billtotten.blogspot.com/2005/09/drowning-new-orleans.html Hurricanes hit the Gulf Coast *every* year. Major hurricanes have and will continue to hit the Gulf Coast every few years. This particular hurricane has been expected (though not planned for) for many years. Is it a sign from G-d when the natural world does what it always does? Many have spectulated that New Orleans, with its significant black population and its Democratic leaders, has remained a low priority for the Republican national administration in terms of needed infrastructure. Perhaps the lesson is that, as a nation, we Americans cannot afford to be so short-sighted in our planning and to play partisan politics with people's lives. Trying to connect natural disasters to G-d's will is far more complex than examining one's own life for similar connections. You know the inner workings of your heart and mind. You are, perhaps, best qualified to seek such lessons for yourself. But to find a message from G-d in a distant natural disaster implicitly condemns others -- others in the midst of terrible loss and pain. Such connections must be drawn with extreme sensitivity and care. On Yom Kippur, the kohen gadol prayed that the houses of the people of Sharon would not become their graves. He did not chastize the people of Sharon for their sins. He did not encourage them to move to a safer town. He prayed for them, because they were human beings, precious to G-d, who lived in a dangerous area that regularly experienced natural disaster. Is there some reason not to follow this example? Susan Kane Boston, MA ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Goldin <goldinfamily@...> Date: Tue, 18 Jul 2006 16:57:28 -0700 Subject: Vegetarianism/Veganism and R. Moshe Thank you for your excellent posting. I was not aware of R. Moshe's opinion and would love to read it. I think you are 100% correct. Assuming the horrors of factory farming are real and not imagined (and I believe they are very real) it would seem hard to justify the type of meat & dairy consumption that exists in the Orthodox community. I am coming across more and more Jews that have eliminated meat consumption for ethical reasons but of course they are still in a tiny minority. Not only does factory farming inflict pain and suffering on the animal but it also has a negative impact on the workers, the surrounding communities who have to deal with the smell and the pollution, the environmental damage caused by the huge quantities of waste produced and the drain on resources needed to provide fodder, water and so on. Meat is simply too cheap, and it would seem the lives of the animals are worthless.This is not even starting to talk about the adverse health effects on the individual from excess consumption, growth hormones, salmonella etc etc. As you say, part of the reason this has not been fully addressed by the halachic authorities is that this is a relatively recent phenomenon.Cows and sheep and chickens in the shtetl must have been kept in idyllic circumstances compared with what you would see at an Agriprocessors (and all stages before it), and meat consumption was probably limited to Shabbos for many people. Also, and I don't know this for sure, the US is probably worse than most other countries in this regard, and is certainly behind Europe. The other reason is just lack of awareness. In my experience, very, very few people are aware of the origin of their food, particularly animal products, and have often never heard the term "factory farm" or understand its full import. There are also those that are dimly aware and know that if they were to learn more they would be forced to reconsider their practices and beliefs. There is an amusing video based on "The Matrix" - a movie about people who are unaware of the true nature of their world - at http://www.themeatrix.com/inside/index.html Mark Goldin Los Angeles ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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