Volume 55 Number 99 Produced: Mon Dec 17 5:58:54 EST 2007 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Beit Din [Mordechai Horowitz] Chatan not going to Shul [Daniel Geretz] Frum Network (2) [SBA, Mordechai Horowitz] The Frum Network [Chaim Shapiro] Is it Motzei or Mezonos [Tal Benschar] Keviat sedua [Eitan Fiorino] Selichos Nusach [SBA] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mordechai Horowitz <mordechai@...> Date: Wed, 05 Dec 2007 09:50:50 -0500 Subject: Beit Din > From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> > Perhaps I omitted to mention that this cabal managed to get a new rabbi > appointed to further their plans without making clear to the membership > in advance what these were and what the rabbi intended to do to > implement them. This rabbi has acted hand in glove with them and is > therefore one of the defendants in the current Din Torah. I hope you chose your Beit Din very carefully and are represented by a very knowledgeable Rabbi. A typical Beit Din is made of shul Rabbis, who will have a vested interest in making sure dissident shul members cannot fire or remove an existing shul Rabbi. It's one of the major problems with the existing Beit Din system is that if the issue affects another Rabbi in the community, the Rabbi's on a Beit Din have a reason to try and make him happy in their rulings because he could be the Rabbi on a Beit Din involving their shul members or donors. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Geretz <danny@...> Date: Thu, 6 Dec 2007 10:02:44 -0500 Subject: Chatan not going to Shul Perhaps the rationale for a chatan not going to shul is as follows: According to those who say the Chatan is patur from tefilla all seven days, they might hold as well that the Chatan cannot be counted towards a minyan (since he does not have the same level of obligation as others; the same rationale under which women and children do not count toward a minyan.) Under this reasoning, there is no purpose at all for the Chatan to go to shul (not obligated to daven, can't count toward a minyan) and therefore it is obvious that the Chatan is only going to shul so that people can "get out" of saying tachanun. As a matter of fact, according to this opinion, it may even be a violation of "simchat chatan v'kallah" to have the Chatan go to shul merely as a convenience for others. This is different from an aveil or ba'alei simcha at a brit milah, who are obligated in tefilla and therefore count for a minyan. Even in a case where they [the ba'alei simcha] have davened already and do not have to fulfill their own obligation, they still can count for a minyan and therefore there is some "purpose" to their being there. Thus, one does not necessarily reach the same obvious conclusion as above. Although not Chassidic, that part of me which is consistent with my Chassidic ancestors is of course screaming about the above rationale and missed opportunities to skip tachanun. The lengths that Chassidim go to in order to avoid saying tachanun reminds me of the story of a Chassidic shteible where the Rav went out of his way, every day, to find a reason not to say tachanun. This went on for years, and finally, one day, try as he might, the Rav was unable to find a reason to skip tachanun. When the congregation got to tachanun, all eyes turned expectantly to the Rav, who said "I found out that there's a very honored guest in town today. His name is "tachanun," and in honor of this important guest, we are going to skip tachanun." Danny Geretz ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: SBA <sba@...> Date: Thu, 6 Dec 2007 23:55:42 +1100 Subject: Frum Network From: Aliza Berger-Cooper <alizadov@...> > Chaim Shapiro wrote about supporting frum businesses via his LinkedIn > Frum Network. I don't understand - why should one support a frum > business over a non-frum Jewish business? "Vechay achicha imach" - which, AFAIK, refers to a shomer Torah uMitzvos > wouldn't there be opportunities to be mekarev non-religious people > through getting to know them by doing business with them? I suppose if you feel that you can achieve something - then sure, go ahead. SBA ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mordechai Horowitz <mordechai@...> Date: Thu, 06 Dec 2007 09:24:39 -0500 Subject: Re: Frum Network Many times Shabbos observant businesses and employees are discriminated against because of their religion. This is more true when dealing with non religious Jews than gentiles. Non religious Jews often see it as very important to prove they aren't Orthodox and do so by demeaning, insulting and discriminating against religious Jews. The bigger question you have is is there a legal problem in countries like the US which have strong anti discrimination laws in participating in such a group. Morally I see nothing wrong with it, but I am not a lawyer so I will leave the legal question to someone else. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <ChaimShapiro@...> (Chaim Shapiro) Date: Thu, 6 Dec 2007 08:32:36 EST Subject: The Frum Network Dr. Berger-Cooper raised an appropriate question about my FrumNetwork, a Frum LinkedIn Networking Group dedicated to connecting Frum Professionals. I would like to clarify my position. As my initial post mentioned, my goal is to implement a Frum First policy in the Frum community. I maintain that whenever possible, Frum professionals should utilize the services of other Frum professionals before seeking those services elsewhere. I believe affording that consideration to other Frum professionals is an incredible act of Chessed that has the potential to increase and keep more revenue in the Frum community. Such an increase in revenue is also likely to have a multi tiered impact and also increase the amount of Tzedkah given to our organizations, etc. The reason I recommend a Frum FIRST as opposed to Frum ONLY policy is because there are, without question, very legitimate and appropriate reasons for using the services of professionals from outside of the Frum community. I will let the list discuss, if it is so inclined, IF Kiruv would qualify as one of those reasons as Dr. Berger-Cooper sugests, but the point remains; the economic advantages a Frum First professional policy would bring to our communities and our organizations must not be underestimated. If you would like to join the Frum Network, please sign up here http://www.linkedin.com/e/gis/42561/2626F017E6FC Chaim Shapiro ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Tal Benschar <tbenschar@...> Date: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 13:34:51 -0500 Subject: Is it Motzei or Mezonos Carl Singer writes: > In a shiur a few months ago I heard of someone who has a "recipe" for > making French Toast in a manner that makes it motzei rather than > mezonos. (Apparently, cutting the bread up prior to the preparation, > the bread loses it identity as motzei .... I don't know all the > details) AFAIK, the basic halakha is that it depends upon whether the resulting foods retains "tsuras ha pas" -- the appearance of bread. The standard French Toast recipe I know of basically takes a slice of bread, dips it into a mixture of eggs and milk, then fries it. The result looks like a slice of bread. You would wash and recite hamotzi on that. Now if you ground the bread up into crumbs, combined it with some liquid or fat, and then cooked it, the result would probably lack "tsuras ha pas" and the berachah would be mezonos. Think of matzo balls -- matzo, which is hamotzi, is ground up, combined with eggs and oil, and then boiled. You would recite mezonos on those. Matzo brei is somewhat in between and I always have an issue with that. The pieces are usually recognizably matzo, so it seems that hamotzi would be in order. I usually take a piece of matzo and recite hamotzi on that. Carl Singer further writes: > My overriding concern is that it seems to me that the bracha to be > made over food should ideally be taken at face value. That is without > knowing the provenance of the food and without taking out my > microscope or going to a laboratory, I should know what the > appropriate (bracha) category is for the food that I am about to > consume. I don't see how you can avoid this. You have to know what something is made of in order to recite the correct beracha. For example, around Pesach time it is very common to see cookies and cakes made out of potato flour. Since they are not made out of the "five grains," their beracha is shehakol, not mezonos. I don't think you need a microscope or a degree in food chemistry, but basic knowledge of what the food is made out of and how it was made seems a pre-requisite to determining the correct beracha. (Of course, in practice people just assume the foods they eat are the same as they have always eaten with the same beracha. I see a cookie, I make mezonos. It is only when something novel or unusual is served that issues arise.) Since we are on the topic, a related and interesting topic is how one determines what the custom of the country is with regards to how foods are eaten. The halakha is that vegetables that are eaten in their normal way receive ha'adama, but if eaten abnormally, one recites shehakol. Thus if a certain vegetable is always eaten cooked, and you decide to eat it raw, then you recite shehakol. (Think of eating a raw onion. I mean straight up, like an apple, without any sugar or vinegar added.) Now this raises interesting issues. Apparently, in Europe the custom was to eat carrots only cooked, never raw. Raw carrots were simply unheard of. I have heard of numerous European born rabbonim in America paskening that one recites shehakol on a raw carrot. (If I am not mistaken, there is a teshuva in the Iggeros Moshe to this effect.) However, those of us who were raised in America know that it is quite common to eat raw carrots -- think of carrot sticks, not to mention Bugs Bunny. What are we to make of such psakim? Tal Benschar ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Eitan Fiorino <AFiorino@...> Date: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 07:45:16 -0500 Subject: Keviat sedua After describing the preparation of a yerushalmi kugel, Menashe Elyashiv <elyashm@...> wrote: > It seems that this kugal is not mezonot for keveat seuda, altho > someone told me that even so, it could be. There have been a few posting suggesting at least a theoretical obligation in birkat hamazon after consuming pasta. I just don't understand this. The only thing that can create a chiuv of birkat hamazon is pat (bread), or safek pat. Pasta in no circumstance can be considered pat or safek pat. Thus is seems to me that there is no limit to the amount of pasta one could consume without obigating oneself in birkat hamazon. Can someone explain to me the havaamina here? Eitan ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: SBA <sba@...> Date: Fri, 7 Dec 2007 00:04:27 +1100 Subject: Selichos Nusach [Note: My apologies for an out of order posting, this posting should have been the first in the series with the other two on this topic in the previous issue. Mod] >From: David Ziants > Thus I went around Me'ah She'arim looking for a "Nusach Ashkenaz" > Selichot and was getting very frustrated because all they could offer > me was the more common Polin (Polish), or Lita (Lithuanian) with a > strange look as if to say "do you really want Lita because not many > places use it". There is a selichos Nusach Ungarn (Hungary) - which AFAIK is also used by Yekkes. Weingarten the publisher of Selichos Hamevo'or (Nusach Ashkenaz, ie Lita and Polin) published a new edition a few years back. Before that the only available edition was by Sinai Tel Aviv - which had hundreds of errors. 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