Volume 58 Number 53 Produced: Fri, 06 Aug 2010 10:20:50 EDT Subjects Discussed In This Issue: "Egalitarian Orthodox" (Partnership) Minyanim (4) [Orrin Tilevitz I. Balbin Meir Shinnar Janice Gelb] Certification of Scotch Whisky [Elazar M. Teitz] Conservative Judaism (2) [Ben Katz Martin Stern] Rabbinical headcovering? [Hillel Raymon] Tikkun on a Yahrzeit [Rose Landowne] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> Date: Thu, Aug 5,2010 at 06:01 PM Subject: "Egalitarian Orthodox" (Partnership) Minyanim Michael Rogovin (MJ 58#52) wrote: > I disagree with this test. If that were true then sermons would be > unorthodox, certainly in the vernacular. So would Bat Mitzvah celebrations. > Carlebach-type services. Kabbalat Shabbat itself. Singing Yedid Nefesh. I am > sure there are more examples. I don't have the time to address each of these, but the practice of sermons being delivered in the vernacular is about 2000 years old. Pick up any volume of the Talmud and see for yourself. While the tunes are different, Yemenite kabbalat shabbat services are effectively Carlebach-type -- everybody sings the entire thing, together, to what seems to me to be the same tune. Kabbalat shabbat is part of long tradition of adding pieces to the services -- look at piyutim. And I'm not saying "chadash assur min hatorah". I am saying that in Orthodoxy innovation requires more than "I don't like the status quo." ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: I. Balbin <Isaac.Balbin@...> Date: Thu, Aug 5,2010 at 08:01 PM Subject: "Egalitarian Orthodox" (Partnership) Minyanim In Volume 58 Number 52, M. Shinnar wrote: > With respect to whom one allows to have kibbudim in their shul > - each shul has their own standards - (personally, I would be happier with a > standard that focused on ethical issues, but that is a different > issue) In the case at hand, there is no evidence to suggest that the Rabbi who barred the MJ protagonist from certain kibudim would not equally do so for someone who was ethicially questionable. Knowing that Rabbi, I am pretty sure that he would, and that his focus on ethical issues would be considered with at least the same halachic probity that this issue has evoked. > - and given that I suspect that public policy issue is a big > factor in this decision, this is a way of enforcing public policy. Public policy is also the HALACHIK domain of a Rabbi and his community. Do you have evidence for it being outside the pale of Halachic consideration of a Posek? > That is a quite different issue than a personal attack - that the > person is not Orthodox - rather than that the person follows an > opinion that the community rav disagrees with and thinks is dangerous. I am not aware that the Rabbi in this case has been concerned with the CATEGORY one ascribes to the MJ protagonist who leads services at Shira Chadasha. My understanding is that the consideration is of defining those who ARE eligible to lead services in his own congregation and receive certain kibudim. The Rabbi has determined that a certain leader of Shira Chadasha is not one of those. That is not a personal attack in anyone's language. The Rabbi in question would do so, in my opinion, and I know him quite well, even if the RCV or ORA had no view on the issue. > With respect to motivations - yes, it sometimes has a role in halachic > discussions. However, a psak based on an analysis of motivations will be > questioned when people who have more first hand knowledge of the people > involved (to use the tshuva of Rav Moshe cited , I would not presume to > criticize the halachic reasoning - but can (and many have) criticize > the metziut (reality) described..), You are implicitly short selling the Rabbi of the Shule who doesn't accept the protagonist. Why would you assume that he isn't aware of his motives of the protagonist? He may indeed be 100% certain that the protagonist is sincere in thinking that it is halachically justified to lead Shira Chadasha services. However, the Rabbi is 100% certain that such actions contravene Halacha. You may not agree, but so what? I am not sure how the protagonist can be helped by asking questions of MJ. > Furthermore, if you read Rav Sperber's article, much of it is > detailing the spiritual and religious motivations behind the Shira > Chadasha movement. One may not accept his halachic arguments - but he > has far more first hand knowledge of the people involved than the > critics It would be folly to assume that others who have analysed and criticised Prof Sperber's opinions are less aware of the sensitivities and the motivation behind such groups. One could name Poskim, such as Rav Henkin, who the orthodox right would disavow! I don't believe that Rabbi's Frimer could ever be accused of not being across this issue either. You really have no evidence to suggest that Prof Sperber has the only mortgage on understanding this phenomenon. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Meir Shinnar <chidekel@...> Date: Thu, Aug 5,2010 at 09:01 PM Subject: "Egalitarian Orthodox" (Partnership) Minyanim Stuart Wise (MJ 58#51) wrote: > I don't know, I may be old fashioned but it occurs to me that our > matriarchs didn't have concerns, at least that we know of, their place > in Torah observance. Through centuries, frum women accepted their role--not > as inferior or as if they were being deprived of something -- but as what > halachah assigns to them. One of the main issues for Orthodoxy has been the changing social circumstances - and public role of women. The question is what the proper response should be. Clearly, it is not always the status quo - as evinced by the burgeoning Torah studies for women - because sometimes doing the same thing under different circumstances means that one is doing something different (you can't go home again..). Just as the fact that women now receive a secular education means that they should receive a Jewish education - so too, the fact that women are very much in the public sphere means that their public role needs some form of Jewish expression. The issue of how far and what changes are legitimate is a (the?) major issue - with multiple responses - but no matter what one accepts as the right model - including not changing any ritual - one will end up with a different model from our matriarchs..(I doubt that your wife and daughters read Tzena Urena regularly, and if they do, it has a different meaning for them than for their great great grandmothers). The question therefore, is the extent to which halacha should have meaning for the spiritual lives of women living a modern life - and therefore what changes are legitimate within halacha. This is not an all purpose, everything is permitted, clause - the question is what are the limits - but not realizing that a response is necessary is in itself highly problematic - and renders one's judgement on the issue suspect Meir Shinnar ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Janice Gelb <j_gelb@...> Date: Fri, Aug 6,2010 at 01:01 AM Subject: "Egalitarian Orthodox" (Partnership) Minyanim David I. Cohen <bdcohen613@...> wrote: > > What I feel that our discussion has lacked is the question > of, does the entire zeitgeist behind the "Partnership" idea > or the movements typified by JOFA etc. include the > voluntarily assuming obligations, or is it just being > used as a to express spirituality when you want to, or > "when the spirit moves me"? > > Let me see if I can explain: I am currently in the midst of > the year of aveilut for my father. This not only entails being > at a minyan twice a day (something which I did regularly > anyway) but also, at least in our congegation the "chiyuv" > (obligation) to lead the davening usually for all 3 > services daily. Frankly, although I know it is certainly a > huge zechut for my father's neshama, after a while it is > too much, and I find myself being a bit thankful when > there is someone else to take over for a service. > > So I wonder, have those who so enthusiastically support > and participate in "Partnership" also taken upon them- > selves to be a regular at shul every morning or evening? > I realize they they may have no obligation to do so, but > so what? If it is all about finding ways to come closer to > God, and, since we believe that public prayer is the best > path to do so, where is everyone? Friday night they are at > Partnership, but nowhere near any kind of minyan > on Wednesday? > > I cannot look into anothers mind and see motivation. All I > can judge by is actions. And what I see in the Partnership > service is a method by which a person gets to fulfill a > personal desire without any corresponding voluntary > acceptance of obligations and responsibility. Jewish > spirituality is not just what I can do, it is also what I must do. > First of all, this seems like a rather odd argument from someone supporting the gender-based status quo. Most women in Orthodox communities have child- rearing responsibilities that mean that it is impractical for them to attend daily services even if they should fervently wish to do so. Secondly, it seems rather small-minded to insist that if women cannot attend weekday services that they therefore are not entitled to try to get more meaning out of the services that they *can* attend. Regarding obligation, it might interest you to know that this was the crux of the debate on ordaining women in the Conservative movement. The Conservative seminary requires women candidates "to accept equality of obligation for the mitzvot from which women have been traditionally exempted, including tallit, tefillin and tefillah." I would be very curious to know whether you hold men who get honors in your synagogue to the same standard of responsibility that you mention here. Finally, not that it really has any bearing on the general principle but just as a data point, when I was in aveilut for my mother, I attended mincha/ ma'ariv every night of the 11 months. (And, btw, due to my chiyuv, I also led davening about 90% of the time :-> ) -- Janice ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Elazar M. Teitz <remt@...> Date: Fri, Aug 6,2010 at 03:01 AM Subject: Certification of Scotch Whisky At the time the correspondence between my father and RMFeinstein, zichronam livracha, on the matter of whisky, I was in my early teens, and away from home attending yeshiva, so I was not too familiar with the details. However, to the best of my recollection, my father's objection was not to the aging of liquor in sherry casks, since that would have applied to blended and unblended whiskies alike, and his objection was only to the blended. As I recall it, he had discovered, in discussions with a local distiller, that a wine- or grape-derived pectin was used as a binder for the blend, making it a davar hama'amid [an agent for holding together], which cannot be nullified. I know that he convinced the distiller to make a kosher blended, and when the time came for adding the wine-based ingredient, my father arranged for a crew of shomrei Shabbos to come to the distillery and be the only ones to open the containers and handle the problematic ingredient. EMT ____________________________________________________________ Penny Stock Jumping 2000% Sign up to the #1 voted penny stock newsletter for free today! http://thirdpartyoffers.juno.com/TGL3141/4c5baf143c55062ba46st02vuc ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ben Katz <BKatz@...> Date: Fri, Aug 6,2010 at 03:01 AM Subject: Conservative Judaism In reponse to Orrin Tilevitz (MJ 58#51) and Frank Silbermann (MJ 58#49), I would suggest that their statements are a bit glib. The Conservative movement believes in halachic evolution - that the process of halachic innovation should not be frozen in time. See the discussion in Emet Ve-Emunah: Statement of Principles of Conservative Judaism,JTS, 1988, "Halachah", pp. 21-25. Of course many of us disagree with the extent to which the C. movement has used this principle, but we must conceded that the Modern Orthodox have accepted a bit of this philosophy in adopting practices such as not saying Tachanun on Yom Ha-atzmaut, just like we don't say Tachanun on Chanukah. Ben Katz <bkatz@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> Date: Fri, Aug 6,2010 at 10:01 AM Subject: Conservative Judaism Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> wrote (MJ 58#51): > Janice Gelb (MJ 58#49) wrote: > >> I think it insults the many Conservative rabbis and Jews whom I know >> who are observant of Shabbat, kashrut, and taharat hamishpacha. >> And the movement itself calls for such observance. He then went on to list examples of each of these where the official position of Conservative Judaism deviated significantly from even the most "liberal" version of Orthodoxy: (1) driving to shul on Shabbat and carrying objects on private property that is not surrounded by a fence (2) drinking stam yeinam [unboiled wine handled by a non-Jew], eating fish in a non-kosher restaurant, permitting any hard cheese, and sturgeon as a "kosher" fish; (3) allowing a woman to go to the mikveh and resume marital relations after she stops bleeding without counting seven clean days. While these deviations may have been instituted, I think there is an underlying philosophy that needs to be examined, rather than only such specifics. I have read through "A Guide to Jewish Religious Practice" by the late Isaac Klein, one of the more conservative leaders of the Conservative movement, and come to the conclusion that its "halachah" works on the following principles: (1) the primary objective is to justify, wherever possible, whatever the membership wishes to do in practice, (2) as a first line, they look for a meikil (lenient) opinion among current or recent poskim [decisors], (3) where this fails, they search the earlier literature and base themselves on a daat yechidi [isolated opinion] that has long been rejected by the consensus of rabbinic opinion e.g. permitting sturgeon as a "kosher" fish based on the questionable ruling of the Noda Biyehudah, (4) if Orrin's third example is correct, though Isaac Klein's work does not mention such a ruling, it would appear that they even go back to pre-Talmudic times. (The practice they allow is based on Biblical law onto which women added the chumra of seven clean days after sensing even a drop of blood the size of a mustard seed, i.e. conflating the niddah and zivah laws, which was later accepted by Rav Zeira) (5) where none of these produces the desired result, they have recourse to arguing that changed social conditions necessitate a change in practice e.g. allowing driving to shul on Shabbat since most members live too far away to be able to walk. While even Chareidi, let alone Modern Orthodox, poskim might use approach (2) in situations of great need, it is the later stages that mark a significant divergence from the traditional halachic process. As regards (4), though the latter might "turn a blind eye" to infringements of halachic practice by individuals on the principle that admonishing them might be counterproductive and only drive them further away, they would never give a formal hetter [permit] for something clearly forbidden, like driving to shul on Shabbat. Martin Stern> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Hillel Raymon <raymhill@...> Date: Thu, Aug 5,2010 at 03:01 PM Subject: Rabbinical headcovering? In MJ Volume 58 number 45, Shoshana Ziskind asks: > I've seen so many pictures of Rav Moshe Feinstein, zt"l, with what I > always assumed to be a traditional rabbinical kippah and to my surprise, > in a couple of pictures one of my alter zeides is wearing what looks to > be the same type of kippah. My question is, can I assume he had a rabbinic > background or is that not enough to be able to make that assumption. The pillbox-shaped kippah in question was not uncommon among lay Eastern European men (or at least Litvaks) of Rav Moshe's generation. The shamashim and several of the other European-born older men in the shuls I attended in New Brunswick, New Jersey while growing up in the late 1950's and early 1960's wore similar kippot. In fact, a disposable paper version was sometimes available in the entrance hallway for those who arrived in shul without a kippah (of course, in those years, they did not arrive bare-headed; in the street almost all men, Jewish or non-Jewish, wore hats). Those who regularly wore the pillbox kippot in America were not necessarily more learned or pious than other men of their generation--they were simply continuing a fashion they had grown up with in the "old country", where even young children had worn such kippot. Hillel Raymon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rose Landowne <Roselandow@...> Date: Thu, Aug 5,2010 at 08:01 PM Subject: Tikkun on a Yahrzeit On Aug 5, 2010, at 4:57 PM, Gershon Dubin wrote: > Hence the wish that soul be elevated at the time of the yahrtzeit which, > I believe, is one of the points at which an assessment of his good influences > is made. Perhaps one indication of the good influences of the deceased is to have brought up children properly. An example of that would be their showing hakarat hatov for what the community did for them in their time of need, by bringing food and drink to the community on the yartzeit. Rose Landowne ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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