Volume 59 Number 41 Produced: Tue, 21 Sep 2010 16:16:08 EDT Subjects Discussed In This Issue: A Cure for STS (3) [Carl Singer Orrin Tilevitz Frank Silbermann] Certainty in Torah (was Prohibition of entering a church) [Joel Rich] Prohibition of entering a church (4) [Mark Steiner Rabbi Meir Wise Frank Silbermann Akiva Miller] The Electra controversy [Josh Backon] Wheat and chaff [Shmuel Himelstein] Yom Kippur "closing" shofar (2) [Ben Katz Martin Stern] Yom Kippur prayers [Menashe Elyashiv] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <carl.singer@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 08:01 AM Subject: A Cure for STS Stuart Wise (MJ 59 #39) asks >Is there a permanent cure for STS -- that is, Sliding Talis Syndrome? I suffer from the same syndrome when wearing a kittle as the two smooth fabrics slide easily against each other. Stuart notes there are "no slip" options -- some do report success (at a recent STS anonymous meeting, one member proclaimed that he was cured.) There are some who try different ways of wearing / folding their talis -- this has offered relief to some - but is not yet approved by the FDA. (The Frum Dress Arbitrators) Many people have talis clips bought by a well meaning relative who ran out of gift ideas, most people I see have both clips on one side of their talis so as not to get in the way. I remember back in the 1970's when leisure suits were in vogue -- anyone wearing a leisure suit was assigned a chevrusah who sat behind him and picked his talis off of the floor at 2 minute intervals. Seriously - the fabric of the garment worn under the talis as well as the way it is worn. Carl ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 12:01 PM Subject: A Cure for STS Stuart Wise wrote (MJ 59:39) <Is there a permanent cure for STS -- that is, Sliding Talis Syndrome?> It's called a tallis clip. A cable with an alligator clip at each end (these things used to be common in pre-computer days) will do just as well and you can use it as a conversation piece to explain why it's not muktseh. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <frank_silbermann@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 02:01 PM Subject: A Cure for STS Stuart Wise wrote (MJ 53#39): > Is there a permanent cure for STS -- that is, Sliding Talis Syndrome? > For as long as I am married, I have battled with talis after talis, having > to readjust it several times during anytime I wear it. I even bought one > advertised as no-slide, but alas, it too was less than perfect. > > I don't move about a lot while davening, and my shoulders aren't > particularly narrow, but what is there about the woolen talis that cause > slippage and what is the practical solution, short of velcroing it in place? I have often wondered about troublesome garments in halacha. Tephilin also seems to be held on by mere friction. Too loose and it slides down your arm; too tight and it cuts off the circulation. Is there a religious reason? Was the need to constantly adjust what we are wearing planned as an opportunity for us to check ourselves for stray thoughts? Or is it like the ultra-long fingernails of a Chinese lord (and the woollen business suits that many Orthodox men feel obliged to always wear) -- to give us dignity by showing everyone that our activities are sedentary to the utmost? (WRT always wearing a suit for davening, no, I do NOT think I would have worn a suit had I been invited to visit President Bush at his ranch.) Frank Silbermann Memphis, Tennessee ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joel Rich <JRich@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 04:01 PM Subject: Certainty in Torah (was Prohibition of entering a church) In mail-jewish Vol.59 #40, Meir Shinnar said "Given the people who have read the Tosphot differently, I am a bit surprised at this certainty (one is reminded of the Ramban's introduction to his book Milhamot Hashem, where he talks about how halachic reasoning never achieves mathematical certainty..)" I find the Ramban's comments of great interest - after saying pretty much what R'MS quotes, he then goes on to say (in the context of the original comment which was his taking issue with the Baal Hamaor on many issues) that his interpretation will be clearly the logically correct interpretation of the sugyot. What I always took away from this is that one develops a "halachic heart" and then (consciously or subconsciously) begins to see clarity in what would otherwise seem to be many grey areas (by minimizing those elements which do not clearly cohere with his approach to the halacha at hand). GT Joel Rich ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Steiner <marksa@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 09:01 AM Subject: Prohibition of entering a church I will make one more attempt before Yom Tov to explain a very simple point. I will try to be brief because I believe that some of the main points get lost in the welter of sources. Let's ask the question: is the Christian mass an act of avoda zara for the Gentile as well as for the Jew? This is not the direct question posed by the Tosafot in Sanhedrin, which is in the first instance discussing entering into a business deal with a Gentile, when we know that the Jew might force the Gentile to swear in a court of law on his, i.e. the Gentile's, saints or whatever -- and Tosafot there says that such an oath is permitted for the Gentile, and that, therefore a Jew need not refrain from entering into a partnership with a Gentile. The Christian mass itself is not there in question. But there are sources which raise and answer this question about actual Christian worship. I will now review a number of sources, already quoted, which prove that participating in a Christian worship service is forbidden to a Gentile. I had originally pointed out that Tosafot in Avoda Zara 14b states that it is forbidden to sell wax to an idolator on his holy day because of creating a stumbling block (lifnei iver), namely the Jew facilitates a forbidden act of avoda zara worship. The Tosafot is obviously talking (among others) about Christians -- for example, the same Tosafot makes reference to "seforim pesulim," i.e. Christian liturgical manuscripts, which are also forbidden to sell where there is a problem of lifnei iver. The fact that the Christians may have adopted the votive candles from the pagans is irrelevant to the question: whom is Tosfat in AZ 14b talking about? The answer to anyone who reads this text is clear: Tosafot is talking about their contemporaries, they are deciding a contemporary shayle (query). The conclusion is, that Tosafot holds that the Christians themselves are in violation of a cardinal prohibition of idol worship. I ask my readers to get out the sefer and read it in Hebrew. In her reply to me, Chana I believe overlooked one of my sources, Piskei Harosh 1:15. There the Rosh rules that TODAY (i.e. the Middle Ages) it is FORBIDDEN TO SELL WAX TO A PRIEST SO AS NOT TO CREATE A STUMBLING BLOCK BEFORE THE BLIND. Thus the Tosafot Avoda Zara 14b reflects a widespread consensus which is codifed by the Rosh in his code of law. Namely, that Christian forms of worship are just as forbidden to the Gentile as to the Jew, and a Jew is not allowed to facilitate this form of worship. I also assembled a number of other sources from just about all the Rishonim, every one of whom is talking about contemporary Christians (and, again, the origin of their pagan customs or haircuts is not relevant here, or rather it makes Christianity worse from the point of view of the Rishonim) that lighting a wax candle in the context of Christian worship (the Rashba, the Ritva, the RID, even the Meiri) causes the wax to be forbidden to use -- unless it undergoes "bitul" (whatever that may be here). THIS PROVES THAT WHEN THE CHRISTIAN, NOT ONLY THE JEW, LIGHTS THIS CANDLE, HE IS VIOLATING A CARDINAL SIN OF AVODA ZARA, WHICH IS THUS FORBIDDEN TO HIM. Otherwise the wax would not become forbidden. This is the end of my argument, whose conclusion seems to me unavoidable. If this still is not clear, I accept the decision of the public, and will not inflict any more postings on the readership on this subject (for a while). For those who want to read further, I will comment on Chana's references from Tosafot 2a. The Mishnah says that a Jew is not permitted to do business with idolators at least ON their holy days. The Talmud states that the reason is that we are fearful that the idolator will run to the temple and thank his god. Is that lifnei iver? No. Thanking a foreign god is not in itself an act of official worship, so this is not lifnei iver, as the Talmud later makes clear. It is not a cardinal violation of the mitzvot of Bnei Noach. What is it? Another violation: a JEW is not allowed to cause anyone to mention the name of an avoda zara, "lo yishama al pikha." The Jew is not allowed to cause the spread the name of avoda zara, even if the Gentile who does this is not in violation. In a famous Tosafot there, 2a, in fact the first Tosafot in the Tractate, Tosafot says that this prohibition does not apply to today's Gentiles, because we know that they don't worship avoda zara. What this means is not that the Christian mass is not avoda zara, but that the medieval Christian is not so "frum" as to run to the cathedral and light a candle on the holy day, or participate in the Eucharist ceremony, or even thank the Son, just because he made a business deal with a Jew. It is for this reason that the Piskei Harosh (not the Tosafot Harosh) that I cited before makes a clear difference between selling wax to a priest ('NOWADAYS", i.e. in the Middle Ages, not 300 CE) and selling wax to the laity. Priests DO worship avoda zara all the time. Tosafot 2a is perfectly consistent with the view on 12b that Chrisitianity is avoda zara, by which I mean the mode of worship is avoda zara, for all humanity. My claim here then, is that the sources I cited state exactly what I say. I can't do any better than this. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Meir Wise <Meirhwise@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 02:01 PM Subject: Prohibition of entering a church I think that if Chana Luntz (MJ 59#40) checks her source (shemos 23:12) she will find that it is yishoma not shoma (sic). This is important as it is the very use of the indirect causative that underlies the opposition of Tosefos and other Rishonim to calling Christians into court to take an oath even to recover debts. From this we can see that Tosefos and others (the Or Zarua, Maharam Mirottenberg, Raviyah etc etc) viewed the Christian god to be other gods and hence idolatry. Apart from the fact that they (the Xtians) had no hesitation to lie under oath so nothing much has changed there! At least not in the UK. Chag sameach Rabbi Wise ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <frank_silbermann@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 02:01 PM Subject: Prohibition of entering a church Chana Luntz wrote (MJ 59#40): > On the other hand, the mimetic tradition and local custom in Ashkenaz > was to choose martyrdom rather than convert to Christianity. > If Christianity is not really idol worship, then what were people > giving up their lives for? For the sake of Kiddush HaShem. It is one thing if a gentile king demands that you taste his tref dinner to prove it has not been poisoned. It is quite another matter if the gentiles are demanding that you violate any part of our tradition solely for the sake of the violation. In the latter case, the Rambam says we should rather die than comply -- even if their demand is something as insignificant as wearing shoelaces of red instead of black. (Because Sephardi Jews did have permission to falsely and temporarily convert to Islam as a means of escaping fanatics, I guess the Rambam distinguished between "should" and "must.") For a practical consideration, had the Jews of one Askenazi community submitted to conversion then the mob would have demanded that all Jewish communities convert. Because the Jews of the first communities instead chose death, the gentile princes who depended upon Jews of other communities knew they had to make good on their promises of protection lest they lose the Jews' services permanently. Therefore, Jews of neighboring communities honored and supported (e.g. via desirable marriages) any of the martyrs' surviving relatives who might have fortuitiously relocated before the pogrom. Frank Silbermann Memphis, Tennessee ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Akiva Miller <kennethgmiller@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 02:01 PM Subject: Prohibition of entering a church Chana Luntz (MJ 59#40) wrote: > On the other hand, the mimetic tradition and local custom in > Ashkenaz was also to choose martyrdom rather than convert to > Christianity. If Christianity is not really idol worship, then > what were people giving up their lives for? I'm wondering if this thread has been using the words "church" and "Christianity" too loosely, and perhaps some of what is being written about Christianity might only apply to Roman Catholicism and similar versions of Christianity, but not to others. >From what I've picked up over the years, the theologies of the many Christian religions are spread out over a very broad spectrum. At (or near) one end is Roman Catholicism, which sees little or no difference between the three parts of their trinity, and which practices a great deal of praying directly towards certain other humans as well (Mary in particular, but also many other of their saints). At (or near) the other extreme might be Unitarianism, which (if I understand correctly) rejects the trinity entirely, and considers Jesus to be a regular human. In the middle are a wide range of approaches regarding the concept of the "trinity". (The debates Jews have about the nature of the song/prayer "Shalom Aleichem" are minor compared to the debates Christians have about the trinity.) If the above is even partially correct, then I think it is wrong to state in general terms that "Christianity is idol worship" or any similar things. And if so, then the halacha for entering a Catholic church could be very different than the halacha of entering a Anglican or Lutheran church. More directly to the point of Chana's post, my (admittedly limited) knowledge of European history suggests that the Roman Catholics were responsible for most or all of the Crusades and whatever other things might have pushed Jews to choose between martyrdom and conversion. If so, then her question -- "If Christianity is not really idol worship, then what were people giving up their lives for?" -- could have a simple answer. Namely, that we gave up our lives only for the most idolatrous forms of Christianity, but no major precedent has yet been set regarding the less idolatrous forms. Akiva Miller ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Josh Backon <backon@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 08:01 AM Subject: The Electra controversy R. Shmuel Himelstein wrote (MJ 59 #39): > For those unfamiliar with it, there is a "ban" among many Haredim in Israel > against buying Electra brand products (air conditioners, etc.). This is > because another company of the parent company is involved in excavating and > building in an area where it is claimed there are graves. One sees > spray-painted notices on many stone walls in the area of Meah Shearim stating > "One does not buy Electra." Based on a gemara in Sanhedrin 47b, the Mechaber (Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 364:5) explicitly rules that a grave *hamazik et ha'rabbim* can be moved. And here, we're referring to Jewish graves. What a subsidiary company of Electra is doing (Tel Aviv/Jaffa ??) is excavating a building site where there MIGHT be graves (which are virtually certain not only to be gentile but PAGAN Philistine idol worshipers). It's quite comical since most of the charedi Jerusalem neighborhoods of Sanhedria and Meah Shearim are built on top of JEWISH graves. You don't hear anyone screaming "Kevaros!!" :-) It reminds me of the old Jewish joke about the chassid on shabbat who runs in to the rebbe's house and says, "A cow is drowning in the lake ! We have to save it!". The rebbe says, "Shabbes !! ISSUR CHAMUR" (a major prohibition). Two seconds later another chassid runs in, "Rebbe, a cow is drowning in the lake; we have to save it!" and the rebbe says, "Shabbes ! ISSUR D'ORAISA" (a Toraitic prohibition). Two seconds later a third chassid runs in and says, "Rebbe, **YOUR COW** is drowning in the lake !". The rebbe looks up and says, "TZAAR BA'ALEI CHAYIM !!" (cruelty to animals) :-) >a) What is the Jewish law involving a secondary boycott? (Here, the >"offender" is not Electra but its parent company). There might be an analogy with dealing (e.g. stock ownership) of a gentile company who side-line is selling nonkosher food. According to the Pitchei Tshuva YD 117 #6 there is no problem. According to the Tzofnat Paneach I 184 a corporation is not even an entity. See also the Maharam Schick #158. So in my opinion, even if the Jewish company (Electra) were violating Jewish law (and they are not !), I can't fathom causing them damage by a boycott. Chag Sameach Josh Backon <backon@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <himels@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 08:01 AM Subject: Wheat and chaff Eitan Fiorino writes (MJ 59#39) that " there is nothing like politics to get people to focus on chaff and ignore the wheat . . ." That reminds me of the saying that "it is the job of a newspaper editor to separate the wheat from the chaff and to print the chaff ..." Shmuel Himelstein ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ben Katz <BKatz@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 01:01 PM Subject: Yom Kippur "closing" shofar Martin Stern <md.stern@...> wrote (59#36): > Carl Singer <carl.singer@...> wrote (MJ 59#34): >> In contrast, some congregations finish Neilah a bit earlier, thus allowing >> for a more benign Ma'ariv and the shofer is blown (at the correct time) AFTER >> Ma'ariv. > The correct time for blowing the shofar is after Ne'ilah and before Ma'ariv. > However it was noticed that some people, who thought it meant everything was > over, would rush out once they heard it and simply not bother to daven > Ma'ariv at all. So some congregations decided to leave it until after > Ma'ariv to avoid this mistake. I have always felt that Maariv after YK is an anomaly. First, all religious protestations aside, for the vast majority if not all Jews, selah lanu (Forgiove us) in the Amidah is close to being a beracha levatalah (a blessing in vain). Second, since we are still fasting, why don't we say Baruch shem kevod malchuto leolam vaed (Blessed be the Name of His glorious Kingdom forever and ever) in a loud voice? Third, I think it is unfair to postpone shofar blowing, as some shuls did when I was a kid, esp. for women who have no chiyuv (obligation) and who wish to get home to begin preparing the break-fast, or for (older) people with a long walk home. And I don't know where Mr Stern davened, but when I was a kid "some people" was nearly the entire shul. There was barely a minyan (quorum) for Maariv (night time service). ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 04:01 PM Subject: Yom Kippur "closing" shofar Dr. William Gewirtz <wgewirtz@...> wrote (MJ 59#38): > Two assumptions appear to be common to a number of the comments made in the > last few posts: > .... > > 2) you cannot sound the shofar until after the point of nightfall This cannot be true since blowing a shofar does not involve any forbidden work, as the Gemara puts it is "chochmah ve'eino melachah" [a skill rather than labour]. Martin Stern ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Menashe Elyashiv <Menashe.Elyashiv@...> Date: Tue, Sep 21,2010 at 04:01 AM Subject: Yom Kippur prayers Some posters have commented on YK prayers. Aleinu was deleted after Musaf & Minha because in the past, YK services lasted all day in Europe. However, some Poskim hold that if there is a recess , Aleinu should be said. The Sefaradi minhag is to say Aleinu after Minha even though Neela follows, because Minha always has Aleinu The Aruch Hashulhan asks why the Eastern Europeans do not say Selihot on YK day, even though the geonim stated that 13 midot are said 26 times on YK, 5 times at night & morning, 7 times in Musaf, 6 in Minha, 3 at Neela. His answer is that the hazzanim prefered the piyuttim, leaving no time for selihot In Israel, it is almost dark at 20 minutes after sunset, although the Hazon Eesh held that it is 40 minutes. Therefore, the shofar can be blown then. However, it is still YK until 32 or 33 minutes after sunset. The Tur wrote that the shofar is blown after Arvit, and that is the Yemenite minhag. And my father did that when he was Rabbi in places where the majority would leave after the shofar. Birkat Kohanim after sunset - can be done, but should be before sunset. What is the correct time for Neela? Maran in the SA says that when the sun is on top of the trees. This is 30 minutes before sunset. On the other hand, he says that one should finish the reportition at sunset. This is possible only if one does not add piyyutim or selihot. The Sefaradi way is to say selihot for some 20 minutes after sunset. In Europe, most places did not have birkat kohanim at Neela, so they had no problem finishing at nightfall. However, the GRA followers that came here followed his opinon that it should be done daily. So they started Neela at plag haminha, which is about 45 minutes before the . . sun is above the trees, leaving too much time between sunset and shofar time ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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