Volume 59 Number 80 Produced: Mon, 15 Nov 2010 15:38:20 EST Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Hospital Discharge [Martin Stern] Medical emergencies on Shabbat [Josh Backon] Pikuach nefesh on Shabbat [Jeanette Friedman] Stipends for Torah students (4) [Orrin Tilevitz Rabbi Meir Wise Mordechai Horowitz Michael Rogovin] The frumkeit of our generation (2) [Mark Steiner Yisrael Medad] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 05:01 PM Subject: Hospital Discharge Leah S.R. Gordon <leah@...> wrote (MJ 59#79): > Ok, so we have discussed going to the hospital on shabbat. But what about > being discharged from the hospital on shabbat? Obviously we would like to > avoid this. For a long time, I thought there could be no 'pikuach nefesh' > about *leaving* the hospital. But then I thought of two possibilities: > > 1. You might be clearing a space for the next patient who needs life-saving > treatment This is unlikely as the hospital could transfer you to some other location on site away from the ward. > 2. The longer one stays in the hospital, the greater the risk of various > infections/problems This is also unlikely if you are not being examined/treated. > What might be some of the issues that could mitigate the breaking of shabbat > in terms of signing discharge papers, getting a ride home, paying for care, > etc.? When we got a delivery of a dresser that came on shabbat, I told the > delivery guy that I couldn't sign it and he didn't care that much. I have a > feeling that signing a hospital discharge is taken more seriously.... If you refused to sign what could they do? If the hospital were to insist on discharging you without signing, you could refuse to leave the premises. Most hospitals have waiting rooms where you could stay until after shabbat so there seems to be no urgent reason for doing any melachah. If the hospital were adamant that you depart, though this is highly unlikely, you could tell them that you are unable to make the arrangements and leave it to them to do whatever they want. In that case you would be in the category of oness [acting under compulsion] and this is not chillul [desecration of] shabbat. > And what if the situation is that it's not ok to break shabbat to be > discharged? What would you do in practice? Is it like being stuck in an > airport on shabbat? My only experience of such a situation was a few years ago when I had to go to the eye hospital as an emergency with a suspected detaching retina. As speed was not necessary, I was told that I could use my bus pass and go on public transport and this was preferable to calling a taxi (I put the pass in my shoe so as to carry it with a shinnui [in an unusual manner]). The tests showed that there was no problem in the eye and that the symptoms were probably neurological. As I was discharged about an hour before the end of shabbat, I asked if I could wait in the corridor and they were only too happy to allow me to do so. Martin Stern ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Josh Backon <backon@...> Date: Mon, Nov 15,2010 at 01:01 PM Subject: Medical emergencies on Shabbat THERE ARE 4 CATEGORIES OF ILLNESS WITH REFERENCE TO SHABBAT: 1) Choleh sh'yesh bo sakanat chayim (life threatening condition) Included here is MAKEH SHEL CHALAL (internal injury: bruise or inflammation in internal organs starting from the oral cavity downwards. The halacha also classifies the following as SAKANAH: bruise of hand or foot (top not sole or palm), dog bites, deep laceration by nail or metal object anywhere on the body, any sudden changes in visual field or acuity, sudden increased intraocular pressure, retinal detachment, snake bites, open fractures, skull fractures, any fracture that engenders the possibility of fat embolism or thrombosis, any serious fall even if there doesn't seem to be any outward damage, any possibility of sepsis or serious infection, electrical shocks/burns, dehydration in an infant, gangrene, etc.] Likewise, a woman in childbirth (beginning of labor until 3 days after childbirth is in this category. Shabbat *must* be desecrated (even by a Jew) and even regarding D'Oraita (Toraitic) violations, in order to save the patient. 2) Choleh sh'yesh bo sakanat eyvar (serious situation threatening the vitality of a limb such as an arm or a leg) SAKANAT EYVAR: no threat to loss of life but without treatment the limb will be lost: a gentile can be asked to perform even Biblical violations of Shabbat and a Jew can violate rabbinic violations. [fixing a dislocation or fracture are permissible]. (Detailed explanations are given in SEFER REFUAT HASHABBAT which is meant for rabbis and doctors). 3) Choleh sh'ein bo sakanah (a sick patient who is not in serious condition) CHOLEH SH'EIN BO SAKANAH: a gentile can be asked to *violate* both Biblical and rabbinic prohibitions but a Jew can only violate rabbinic prohibitions if they are done in a *different* manner (SHINUI). If there is no gentile available, even a Biblical prohibition may be violated provided that it is done with a SHINUI (e.g. using left hand if one writes with right) 4) Michushim (mild aches and pains, e.g. headache) Not permitted to take medicine Dr. Josh Backon <backon@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jeanette Friedman <FriedmanJ@...> Date: Mon, Nov 15,2010 at 02:01 PM Subject: Pikuach nefesh on Shabbat I am astounded at the number of people generally who are not knowledgable about pikuach nefesh. People don't seem to get that a good knock on the head, with or without bleeding, is life-threatening at all times, even on Shabbos. Sub-dural hematoma, shaken brains, internal bleeding, and a cracked skull can all lead to death. So can broken ribs, a punch to the heart, a knife in an eye, a broken nose... That is why I can never, ever understand rabbis who absolutely refuse to grant divorces to battered women. I guess if their children would be hit on the head and suffer from any of the above and then expire (chas veshalom or CVS), they might understand that beating your wife and kids is a life- threatening situation and would free women and children who are in such situations. Any good marriage counselor will tell you that the abusers apologize profusely, speak gently, and then strike again when there is a "trigger" event, so that it is never safe for the woman and children. Such knowledge is an inconvenient fact for some rabbis. They don't want to hear it and act as if that reality doesn't exist. As a prominent rabbi once told me in front of 400 people when I pointed this matter out to him at an EDAH conference many years ago, "I ain't Santa Claus, and I ain't giving you cookies just 'cause you asked." I may not have s'micha, but I was taught from the day I became an aware person that pikuach nefesh trumps everything except cold-blooded murder, incest and idolatry. And I don't see those issues involved in giving a get. The only issues are money and power. So what if a woman or child's life is at risk? Tough nuggies, as they used to say in the old 'hood. Not to use a phone on Shabbos when you go into labor, not to use a phone when someone is bleeding profusely or gets a knock to the head, and being occupied with guilt-inducing notions and klotz kashas [absurd questions --Mod.] when your child, you, or someone else is at risk, is patently ridiculous and goes against the basic notion of pikuach nefesh. You should not have to worry about guilt or G-d when you are saving a life. You should thank G-d for giving you the brains to take care of what needs to be done and pray to G-d that the person recovers completely. I've seen others write on this very list in the past that if you see an unconscious person laying in the gutter on Shabbos, and you aren't sure he or she is Jewish, you just let them lay there, you don't break Shabbos and you don't call an ambulance or the cops -- you let someone else take care of it. You don't have to be frum to suffer the bystander effect. Kitty Genovese and countless other examples prove that, but we are supposed to be better people than idle bystanders -- after all, the halacha is clear ... you do not stand idly by your brother's blood, and humans are all the same -- made in G-d's image. Human life and respect for humanity in general, as witnessed by some recent posts, is apparently not paramount on M-J, although Hillel's interpretation of the Torah ("Don't do anything to anyone you don't want done to you") makes clear that THAT is the most important aspect of Torah. Would you like it if it is Shabbos and, CVS, you or a family member was sick or injured, laying in the street, and people ignored you laying there? I somehow doubt that! Disrespect of others is apparently kosher to some listmembers. One proof among many others I can cite is recent -- the attitude, whether you do it or not, that it's ok to tell sexist and racist jokes behind people's backs because it's ok to let off steam like that when the people you are disrespecting can't hear you! Well, IMHO, that's how disrespect for all human life begins. A pregnant woman should not be wracked by guilt for calling the midwife because she used the phone on Shabbos. People should know enough not to go to the mikveh with open wounds -- whether or not that impacts negatively on others' health. We have people stepping around "non-Jewish" bodies on Shabbos because we are going to let someone else eventually come along to save a person who might be dying in front of our eyes. People whose children are bleeding profusely should not be worrying about things like other people in the life- saving business using a telephone or a writing implement on Shabbos while trying to save his child's life. And a good knock on the head is very dangerous and requires immediate medical attention, Shabbos or otherwise. Seems to me that for some people on this list, chumrah trumps saving a life. Rabbi Dov Ber Weissmandl worked with others, including the Nazis, Zionists and Rudolf Kasztner, to save almost 40,000 Jews from Slovakia, Hungary and Poland during the Holocaust. On Shabbos, he wrote and rode, made phone calls, and broke the law over and over again to save lives. How many lives would he have saved if he stuck purely to Halacha? I, for sure, would never have been born, and the Satmar Rebbe would never have made it out of Europe, never mind the tens of thousands of others he managed to save. Think about that. Jeanette Friedman, EIC The Wordsmithy 201-986-0647 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 06:01 PM Subject: Stipends for Torah students David Tzohar wrote (MJ 59#79): > In (MJ 59#78) Jeanett Friedman brought an article which proposed that full time > Torah students support themselves via their own labor. The idea that full time > Torah students who learn 45 hours a week can support themselves with a part > time job is pure demagoguery. > . . . > Is only traditional Torah study unworthy of public support? If the Jewish state > thinks that is important to have Torah scholars it must be willing to help > support them. This discussion sounds like ones I have read and been involved in before, on MJ and elsewhere, on whether kolel members should be exempt from the Israeli military. I have no hard statistics to support any of the following, but my understanding is that in eastern Europe, it was only a small, elite group of individuals who studied Torah full-time. They were to be the scholars, the religious leaders, of the generation. The exemption of kolel guys from the military -- and their support by the state -- was a concession by Israel's founders to preserve the small number of scholars who had survived the Holocaust. This exemption, and public support, has become one for an immense group of professional students who, in the vast majority of cases, are incapable of and have no intention of being leaders or, in many cases, even of receiving rabbinical ordination. While I cannot speak for Jeanette, my belief that the State of Israel should support Torah scholars just as it supports prospective scientists is in no way inconsistent with my belief that the vast majority of professional Torah students should support themselves. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Rabbi Meir Wise <Meirhwise@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 06:01 PM Subject: Stipends for Torah students May I agree with David Zohar's crticism (MJ 59#79) of the article brought to our attention by Jeanette Friedman (MJ 59#78). In the USA, one may get a substantial grant for studying Hottentot literature. In Israel, for Chinese studies amongst other things. It is only Torah study that should not be supported!!! It reminds me of the old criticism of the chalukah system by the Zionists. This was the system whereby landsmen would send money to Israel to support the various kollelim (Poland, Hungary, Lithuania etc) Since 1948 every Zionist government has accepted "chalukah" from the USA and some of them blood money from Germany with which to run the state! Hypocrisy upon hypocrisy as the late, lamented Frankie Howerd used to say. Kol tuv Rabbi Wise ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mordechai Horowitz <mordechai@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 09:01 PM Subject: Stipends for Torah students David asks (MJ 59#79): > Is only traditional Torah study unworthy of public support? If the Jewish > state thinks that is important to have Torah scholars it must be willing > to help support them. Yes the Israeli kollel world is 100% unworthy of support. Not only should the Israeli government they spit on refuse to give them a dime but modern Orthodox Jews in the diaspora should refuse to give them a single dime. 1) Few of these 'students' are scholars. They simply live in a Israeli charedi society that opposes work and refuses to serve in the army. They are not in Kollel to learn but rather to avoid interaction with the adult world. Rambam explicitly prohibits earning a living from Torah because of the Hillul H-shem it causes which is clearly illustrated by this world 2) The Israeli charedi kollel world hates us. Us being anyone who isn't in their world. My wife has friends whose husbands are kollel lifers and when we make aliya we know we can't consider living in their neighborhoods because I will have a job and therefore are "unworthy" of soiling their holy neighborhoods with my family's presence because they say having a job is prohibited by halacha, yet somehow they can benefit from the money I earn doing with this prohibited behavior. 3) They have no emuna as a community. I was learning in yeshiva when the first gulf war came. The kollels in Israel of the charedi community quickly emptied out with black hats streaming to the airport to run to galut for the protection of the gentiles. For all the claims that Torah learning protects Israel and that is why kollel students musn't serve in the army , in time of war they ran from their Talmuds back to America to watch the war on CNN. It seems learning isn't that important and following the "gedolim" optional when the missiles are flying. The Modern Orthodox yeshivot remained full. 4) They can say the rioters who run shabbos desecration aren't real charedim. The thugs who attack women in the "mens section" of the bus aren't real charedim, the thugs who attack women walking on the wrong side of the street aren't real charedim. But has anyone ever heard the real charedim call the police and turn them in. Ever heard of a Rosh Yeshiva walking the police to the thug in question's place in the Beit Medrash and say take him away? I haven't either. There is nothing traditional about the Israeli Kollel world. The traditional way of learning is what I do, go to work and learn afterwords. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Rogovin <mrogovin118@...> Date: Mon, Nov 15,2010 at 12:01 PM Subject: Stipends for Torah students David Tzohar (MJ 59#79) writes in pertinent part: > The protest of the students is the hight of hypocrisy. In a former life I > was a University student and I know that post-graduate students in subjects > such as Talmud are supported by government grants. > > Is only traditional Torah study unworthy of public support? If the Jewish > state thinks that is important to have Torah scholars it must be willing to > help support them. I do not know the specifics of higher ed in Israel. In the US, some areas of graduate study are supported by government grants and private fundraising by universities, mostly in critical areas which themselves bring in grants, such as the sciences. Humanities graduate programs, and career-based graduate programs, generally charge students. There are, of course, grants for graduate study in the humanities as well, but there are fewer of these. Grants, whether government or private, are highly competitive as is admission to programs that are grant supported. Support continues only through a PhD, or in some cases post-doc work. And that is the difference between the current kollel system and universities. If the kollels were to make admission and receipt of grants competitive on the basis of merit (i.e. future potential), then there would be fewer protests. This is what kollels reputedly were in Europe. But when the system lets anyone in and it becomes an excuse for not working or serving in the army, then the system is not only corrupt, it is unsustainable. Chazal worked -- all or nearly all had professions, and they tell us to work (see Mishnah Avot) in addition to study. We must return to a system of supporting the best and brightest, but only these, and even then for only a limited time. The rest can learn on their own time and dollar, once they have fulfilled their obligations to their families. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Steiner <marksa@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 05:01 PM Subject: The frumkeit of our generation In response to Akiva Miller (MJ 59#79), I would like to point out that people here do know exactly who the perpetrator is, and what he did, and don't lose any sleep over the damage he caused to Jews "elsewhere." I do know one case of a shul which refused to sell him a seat for the High Holidays. Obviously the victims of a criminal like this are up in arms. In both cases I deliberately chose criminals who victimized their own community, rather than "ours." Obviously everyone in Monsey is outraged at the nightmare of having eaten non-kosher chickens when they thought they were eating chickens with every humra. I would not call this sensitivity to ethical violations. The indifference to ethical violations increases dramatically when the offence is against "others", whether Jews or Gentiles. Just recently, we read on mail-jewish a story of a mashgiach in a bakery who participated in fraud (ona'ah) by delivering to the Plaza hotel baked goods from another bakery, when the customer had ordered the goods from this specific bakery because of the supervision. The mashgiach, and even the Bet Din that supervises the mashgiach, were totally indifferent to what had been done. Once they had determined that the customer was not that particular personally about what hechsher he eats (after all, he eats at the Plaza), they found it permissible to switch cookies on him. What I emphasize here is not the hechsher but the monetary fraud. In the case of the money laundering accusations against Jews in Deal, New Jersey, the chain of crime travels to Israel and then back to New Jersey. A respected rosh yeshiva here was "interviewed" by the FBI about his possible role in the laundering. I told this not long ago to the guests at a wedding, and nobody batted an eye. On the contrary, some of the guests argued that there is nothing wrong with money laundering, and is not even hillul hashem when a rosh yeshiva does it (if he does). (This is of course ignorance of Torah as well as ethical insensitivity.) I could pad this list with thirty examples, but I do not want to appear to be the "accuser." ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Sun, Nov 14,2010 at 07:01 PM Subject: The frumkeit of our generation Eli Turkel wrote (MJ 59#79) in reference to the two statements in the Talmud I had noted as attesting to what would appear a greater knowledge then than now and adds: > Saying that the tannaim were greater than we are says absolutely nothing about > their generation which may have been 99% illiterate. I think that the content of those two statements belie Eli's suggestion as they, if I recall correctly, relate to the younger of the generation, that school pupils had mastered extremely difficult texts that most Yeshiva students today rarely look at. I recall a visit to the YU Beis Midrash in the early 1980s and being ask to address the issue of entrance into Har Habayit and when I showed up with certain tomes and the hosting Rabbi looked them over, he whispered "go easy on these, the boys haven't the faintest grasp of their contents". Yisrael ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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