Volume 61 Number 51 Produced: Fri, 09 Nov 2012 06:58:58 EST Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Do not Show Them Favour (2) [Frank Silbermann Chana Luntz] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Frank Silbermann <frank_silbermann@...> Date: Thu, Nov 8,2012 at 11:01 AM Subject: Do not Show Them Favour Barak Greenfield wrote (MJ 61#50) in reply to Chana Luntz (MJ 61#47): > But the Ramban in the Mishneh Torah clearly holds that it applies to all ovdei > kochavim, as does the Rashba cited. Tosfos (Avoda Zara 20a, d'amar kra) also > holds that it applies to all ovdei kochavim. And you would then have to > determine (except for the Rashba) whether they meant ovdei kochavim literally, > or all nochrim, and if the former, postulate that Christians today are not > ovdei avoda zara, which is a whole other discussion with opinions on either > side. Yes, this is what we must consider _whenever_ we see something in halacha that refers to ovdei kochavim. >> And in the Beis Yosef (Choshen Mishpat Siman 249) the Shulchan Aruch writes: >> "And that which Tosphos asks ..." > > I'm not sure why you omitted the first part of the Beis Yosef where he explains > that there's a machlokes in the gemara, and he paskens according the opinion > that we may give (gratis) to a ger toshav, but to an akum (implying all other > nochrim) we may only sell (the gemara is talking about meat improperly > slaughtered and hence not consumable by the Yehudi). And since "akum" refers to ovdei kochavim umazalos (thereby indicating worship not only of the stars but _also_ of the constellations), all the more so do we have to determine whether this refers to ovedei kochavim umazalos literally or all nochrim. Perhaps the Beis Yosef is just giving the smooth cases and remaining silent about cases under dispute.) >> Now in the case of giving presents to an individual in a place like America >> - how often does it ever come up that you have a situation that can >> genuinely be considered a case of a gift that does *not* fall within either >> the category of being acquainted with the person in question, or it being a >> situation of darchei shalom. But by not elaborating on these two exceptions >> (even though they are referred to in the piece) a misleading impression is >> given. > > It comes up very frequently -- in the case of anonymous gifts. These don't > benefit the Yehudi in any way, nor do they effectuate darchei shalom. I heard of a talumudic discussion arguing that a Jew who gives tzedakah in the hope that a person will be healed is considered righteous because he would not consider the money wasted even if a healing does not occur, whereas a gentile who gives tzedakah is considered a sinner because he gives _only_ for the sake of a benefit. I wonder how we should relate this concept to the view that we should not give gifts to a gentile -- even if he's not an idol-worshipper -- unless we as individuals or the Jewish people in general receive a benefit. Frank Silbermann Memphis, Tennessee ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chana Luntz <Chana@...> Date: Thu, Nov 8,2012 at 08:01 PM Subject: Do not Show Them Favour Barak Greenfield wrote in MJ 61#50: > Chana Luntz wrote (MJ 61#47), commenting on the Weekly Halacha Discussion > by Rabbi Doniel Neustadt (MJ 61#46): >> To start with the concluding paragraph, since this is the one that >> leaves one with a final impression: ... >> i.e. the start being - it is all due to being overly influenced by the >> wider society, not by halachic norms and different halachic positions. > He didn't start with that thought, he ended with it. He was either melamed > zechus for those who are meikel or was attempting to explain a phenomenon > sociologically. As you say, it was the concluding paragraph; it was not > "the start." I think you are misunderstanding my language here. When I used the language "the start being..." I meant "the position he is starting from" - ie his basic premise which can otherwise be defined as the "assertion or proposition which forms the basis for a work or theory". Maybe it is an American/English thing, but it still seems clear enough to me, especially as I had, as you quote, indicated that this quote came from Rabbi Neustadt's concluding paragraph. Ie to me the concluding paragraph gave the greatest indication of the assertion or proposition which formed the basis of Rabbi Neustadt's theory throughout the piece, the place where, in terms of thinking, he started. But as they say, England and America are two countries divided by a common language (and I am originally an Australian in any event), and it may not have been so clear to others. >>> Possibly, those who are lax follow the opinion of the Rishonim (13) >>> who maintain that this halacha applies only to non-Jews who are >>> active idol worshippers (14). >> Yes indeed, that is one position to bear in mind, for which he quotes >> - (13) Rambam, Sefer Hamitzvos 50; Teshuvos Rashba 1:8; Sefer >> Hachinuch 426; Meiri, Avodah Zarah 20a. He then quotes (14) See Torah >> Temimah, Devorim 7:2, who suggests that these halachos apply only to >> the Gentiles of the Seven Nations. But he does not make it clear that >> it is not only the Torah Temima who says so - but the Hameiri (Avoda >> Zara 20a) and Rabad (Hilchot Avoda Zara 10:6), > But the Ramban in the Mishneh Torah clearly holds that it applies to all > ovdei kochavim, as does the Rashba cited. Tosfos (Avoda Zara 20a, d'amar kra) > also holds that it applies to all ovdei kochavim. I am not disputing that the majority of Rishonim held that it has more general application than the seven nations. What I did not like about this piece was twofold: a) the only source he quotes for holding that it applies only to the seven nations is the Torah Temima - an acharon, and a late one at that (not to mention one that is not frequently quoted as a halachic heavyweight). Whereas it is in fact a machlokus rishonim, as well as being held by numbers of other acharonim, even if it is not the majority opinion. b) the only possible reason he can hold for "being lax" (note the language) is that the people "being lax" hold that it only applies to those non-Jews who are not "active idol worshippers". Whereas there are various possible reasons for acting as people do: a) they rely on the minority of Rishonim that it only applies to the seven nations; b) they hold that it only applies to those non-Jews who are active idol worshippers (not even including to those who are only performing acts of idol worship because it is "minhag avosehem v'yadehem - the custom of their fathers"), this being yet another group of Rishonim, but also a minority opinion; c) they hold that it does not apply to groups of non-Jews who have done more than not be active idol worshippers, they have as a nation or group renounced idol worship; or d) they hold it applies but that the circumstances in which it would apply just never come up in cases where R Neustadt sees it coming up (because the exceptions are wider than he sees them). > And you would then have to determine (except for the Rashba) whether they > meant ovdei kochavim literally, or all nochrim, and if the former, postulate > that Christians today are not ovdei avoda zara, which is a whole other > discussion with opinions on either side. Yes, for c), no for the others. >>> Shulchan Aruch however does not follow this opinion and clearly rules >>> that the laws derived from Lo Sechaneim apply to all non-Jews, including >>> Muslims who are not idol worshippers; the only exception would be a >>> non-Jew who became a ger toshav in the times of the Sanhedrin (15). >> Yes and yet not quite. > Yes, and explicitly so, as you then quote: >> Choshen Mispat siman 249 si'if 2: >> "An oved cochavim who is not a ger toshav, it is forbidden to give him >> a present unless he is acquainted with him or if there is in it a >> matter of darchei shalom." > That's pretty clear, and also obvious that it's referring to any nochri, > even not an active idol worshipper, except a ger toshav. It is pretty clear that the Shulchan Aruch himself ruled against a) and b) in my list which is what I was acknowledging. The reason I gave of "not quite" is because the Shulchan Aruch itself that he quotes gives two exceptions - being acquainted with the relevant non-Jew and darchei shalom. The way it was written it gave the impression that these two did not apply and certainly members of this list understood it that way, one of them even asking does not darchei shalom trump, which of course it does, very explicitly. In my view, and as borne out by the comments, most people reading the piece went away with the impression that these exceptions did not exist, or were so watered down as to be relatively uncommon. It is not at all clear what the Shulchan Aruch held regarding (c), because those who argue for (c) argue that the Shulchan Aruch (in the form of the Kesef Mishna) understands an entire nation which renounces idol worship as being in the category of gerei toshav, and that the halachic requirement for the kabala before beis din (which was discontinued with the Yovel) is only needed for the requirement to support such people, not for their status when taken on as a whole nation. This is a complicated argument, however, and it was not that, but the lack of clear acknowledgement of the two explicit exceptions that made the piece, to my mind, misleading, even though the source quote was correct and there were allusions to these exceptions elsewhere in the piece. >> And in the Beis Yosef (Choshen Mishpat Siman 249) the Shulchan Aruch writes: >> "And that which Tosphos asks ..." > I'm not sure why you omitted the first part of the Beis Yosef where he explains > that there's a machlokes in the gemara, and he paskens according the opinion > that we may give (gratis) to a ger toshav, but to an akum (implying all other > nochrim) we may only sell (the gemara is talking about meat improperly > slaughtered and hence not consumable by the Yehudi). Because that would have made it over long - and I thought I had already made it clear that I agreed with Rav Neustadt that the Shulchan Aruch himself held like those who felt the prohibition was more generally applicable than the seven nations or active idol worshippers, so there was no need to bring the machlokus. What needed further explanation was the two exceptions, so that it could be seen that the Beis Yosef's view of the two exceptions was extremely wide. >> Now in the case of giving presents to an individual in a place like America >> - how often does it ever come up that you have a situation that can >> genuinely be considered a case of a gift that does *not* fall within >> either the category of being acquainted with the person in question, >> or it being a situation of darchei shalom. But by not elaborating on >> these two exceptions (even though they are referred to in the piece) a >> misleading impression is given. > It comes up very frequently -- in the case of anonymous gifts. I don't know about you, but I can't think of any anonymous gifts I have given to anybody (let's talk about Jews for a moment) that would not fall within darchei shalom or being acquainted with the person. Remember we are not talking about gifts to tzedaka, which are clearly permitted even by Rav Neustadt. So where does this occur: let's say there is a custom in your office that everybody draws a name out of a hat and gives a gift to that person anonymously. But while the gift giver may remain anonymous - the gift giver has to at least have some knowledge of the recipient, and also if he or she refuses to take part, there is a darchei shalom problem, and if he is the only one who doesn't actually give after going along with the draw, the finger will get pointed at him eventually, causing darchei shalom problems. Remember according to the Beis Yosef (and this is why I brought the Beis Yosef I did bring), even somebody who happens to accompany a person on a trip, even if one does not know their name and one has never met that person before in their life, falls within the category of being acquainted. So I genuinely struggle to think of a case in which such gifts occur in real life, unless you really read down the exceptions. Can you give a real life example of the kind of gift that is genuinely anonymous (ie you don't know the recipient) and is not tzedaka and that is given on a frequent basis? > These don't benefit the Yehudi in any way, nor do they effectuate darchei > shalom. It is also important to note that Rabbi Neustadt's list of > circumstances in which gift-giving is permissible is quite in sync with > this Beis Yosef -- i.e., if you know the nochri, or if your giving him the > gifts will benefit the Yehudi. This list is quite prominent in the article, > so your criticism for "not elaborating" on them and your statement about a > "misleading impression" are unfair. This is I think where we fundamentally disagree. To my mind Rav Neustadt's list comprises a very narrow understanding of the two exceptions. Once you take such a narrow understanding, that leaves a large area that is not covered for people to be "lax" in and for Rav Neustadt to observe people being lax in. If on the other hand you understand the two exceptions the way I believe they are written, which are rather wide, there are very few circumstances when people will ever fall outside of them, making this mostly an irrelevant question in practice. >> So, how did Rav Kook, Rav Hertzog and all those who support the heter >> mechira (such as Rav Ovadiah Yosef) deal with this question? > They relied on minority opinions in the Rishonim about lo sechoneim > generally, plus heterim that applied specifically to the "no transfer of > land" part of the halacha, such as it being for the benefit of Jews' > settling the land, in order to make a yishuv and/or medinah possible. Do you > find where they say that, in general, a Yehudi can give a nochri a free > (anonymous) gift? No, they rely fundamentally on the idea that a nation that has abandoned idol worship falls within the category of ger toshav - except that we are not obligated to sustain them until they do a formal kabala before beis din, but that the prohibition on selling the land no longer applies. Since I believe that the situation of needing to give a nochri a free anonymous gift virtually never exists in practice, outside of tzedaka, I don't believe it is a real practical halachic question that anybody would need to answer. But at least in theory, if you read Rav Hertzog in Tchuka L'Yisrael al pi HaTorah - he would indeed clearly hold that if it were ever relevant. Rav Kook I agree is less clear. > Rabbi Neustadt didn't talk about the heter mechirah. Your attempt to paint > his article with the brush of "charedi" (as if that were a bad thing) because > it incidentally gives weight to the opinions prohibiting the heter mechira is > improper. There are many arguments for and against the heter mechirah and > the issue of lo sechoneim is just one of them. Yes, that is true. But if you hold by Rabbi Neustadt's understanding of lo sechoneim, then you are perforce against the heter mechira. On the other hand, because there are as you say many arguments for and against the heter mechira you can still be against the heter mechira and not accept Rabbi Neustadt's position. The fact that Rabbi Neustadt's understanding of lo sechoneim pushes anybody who supports the heter mechira (including Rav Kook and Rav Hertzog) into the group of people whose "laxity can be partially attributed to the Great American Melting Pot (multiculturalism in other places} and to the influence of the society and secular media to which we are constantly exposed" ought to give people at least some pause that *maybe* there are halachic positions other than the ones set out in his piece. It is that which I was objecting to - the logical conclusion that anybody who falls within the category of accepting the validity of the heter mechira is in Rabbi Neustadt's words "lax". Not that there are not other great rabbonim who did not support the heter mechira. >> Again, while the relevant sources are quoted, there is a slant here in >> favour of a more "Torah only" view. > What view would you propose to take in a discussion of halacha? I included the term "Torah only" in quotation marks, to show I am referring to the hashkafic [philosophical] position that holds itself up as against the "Torah im derech eretz" or "Torah u'madda" hashkafic position and therefore likes to call itself "Torah only". Rabbi Neustadt is clearly operating out of a particular hashkafic position which consequentially involves taking certain halachic positions in various machlokusim. People with different hashkafic positions to his generally take different halachic positions in relation to various machlokusim. Most people are aware of this use of labels to easily encapsulate these various positions - however your statement appears to suggest that this terminology is unfamiliar to you, so let me rephrase. "Again, while the relevant sources are quoted, there is a slant here in favour of a particular hashkafic view, which then plays itself out as assuming that this reading of the sources is the only legitimate halachic reading of the sources. However there are other halachic positions which form the basis of other hashkafic views, which hashkafic views are only valid halachically if one does not read the sources the way Rav Neustadt does." Clearer now? >> And of course again there has to be another side. Because the Torah im >> derech eretz world in its widest expression, and the philosophy of >> RSRH and those who follow and expand on him involves embracing the >> best of the non-Jewish world. > That's not "another side." Are you suggesting that Rav Hirsch didn't take a > "Torah only" view of halacha, Yes, when you use the term "Torah only" as shorthand for a particular hashkafic viewpoint that disagrees with RSRH (as I did). RSRH understood his hashkafic position as being in consonance with halacha (do you dispute this)? Those with the hashkafic viewpoint I have called in shorthand "Torah only" (because those who hold it usually call it this) hold that RSRH was wrong in halacha, and hence wrong in hashkafa. But if it confuses you too much to use the term with quotation marks to summarise this particular hashkafic position, I will change it and say - "in order for RSRH to hold, as he did, that it is hashkafically OK or even praiseworthy to learn from the nochrim and embrace their culture, he had to learn the halachic sources (and he did) differently from the way that Rabbi Neustadt learns them, otherwise what he was advocating is assur [forbidden]. Many of those who argue against RSRH's path indeed use an explanation of the sources in line with that of Rabbi Neustadt to argue that RSRH's hashkafic path is halachically forbidden." Is that clearer? > Parenthetically, it is ironic that you cited Rav Hirsch as being on the > "other side", knowing that he was opposed to the heter mechirah. I wonder > what "camp" he falls into. The camp whose philosophy is held to be halachically assur or at least lax by Rav Neustadt. The fact that other rabbonim with completely different hashkafos also fall within the group of those who are rendered lax by Rabbi Neustadt does not mean that they necessarily agree with themselves inter-se. >> if you follow the narrow reading advocated by R' Neustadt, Chazal and >> prominent rishonim such as the Rambam violate an issur d'orisa. > These questions have been asked and answered over and over. For example, the > Rambam had high regard for the philosophy espoused by Aristotle, but wasn't > personally praising the individual. Have you ever read Moreh Nevuchim? > To suggest that the plain meaning of the Rambam and Shulchan Aruch has Chazal > (and the Rambam himself!) violating an issur d'oraisa is a bit far-reaching. That is precisely the question with which the Tzitz Eliezer grapples in the quoted teshuva. The question is a real question (that is precisely why these questions have been asked over and over as you state, teshuvos don't generally deal with the blatantly obvious). There are ways of answering the question which result in a very narrow understanding of the exceptions to lo sechoneim and there are ways of answering the question which result in a very wide understanding of the exceptions to lo sechoneim. Rabbi Neustadt take the former. I felt it would have been less problematic if he had made it clearer that indeed those who take the latter exist and are not just "lax". > One wonders if you would have found his accurate article so problematic had > you shared his world view. I hope so, although it is of course very hard to be sure. On another list I have been trying to explain to people the halachic reasoning of those who hold like the Munkatcher that the concept of tinok shenishba [a child captured amongst the nations] does not apply to most of the cases to which it is applied today. That is not a world view I hold, but I do think it important to understand the Beis Shammai's of this world; it is a logically and internally consistent position - even if, in my view, it is not the dominant position today. But similarly if the conversation were reversed, and somebody was arguing solely for the Munkatcher's position on a list like this one, I would find that problematic because it was excluding from the idea of elu v'elu all those who rely upon the Binyon Tzion, and so I would be unhappy if somebody who took the Munkatcher's position insisted that everybody else was just simply "lax". Regards Chana ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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