Volume 8 Number 28 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: The Halachic Response to Modernity [Anthony Fiorino] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Anthony Fiorino <fiorino@...> Date: Thu, 8 Jul 93 18:04:56 -0400 Subject: The Halachic Response to Modernity In the discussions that have been taking place around the topic of women's t'filah, I have noticed a somewhat disturbing trend. Many people have expressed in this forum, in one way or another, the basic idea that "anything that we can do to make the modern woman feel more comfortable in Orthodoxy, we should do." Since I have already been designated the honorary villian on the issue of women's t'filah, I figured I might as well tackle this issue too. I should note that what I have to say is not about women's t'filah, and is not addressed at women's t'filah, and I am not engaging in an attempt to relate this posting specifically to women's t'filah (although I believe the general issues discussed here apply to women's t'filah as much as they apply to any challenge of modernity). Rather, this posting is a critique of the general approach contained in the idea "anything we can do to make the modern woman feel more comfortable in Orthodoxy, we should do " There are 2 issues at play here issue here is the notion that one can take an idea, or a social or psychological or political or even religious agenda, and then go searching through the sources until finding a way to permit the activity called for by that agenda. Such a method of determining psak falls outside the bounds of normative halachic decision-making. There are cases in which specific decisions may be made in this manner -- horaat shaah (a decision of th hour) -- but such decisions, when made by rabbinic authorities, are by definition temporary measures, enacted to deal with a pressing crisis. For instance (yoma 69b) -- Ezra pronounced the full shem hashem when reading the Torah to the gathering of Jews returned from exile. It is forbidden to pronounce the Name outside of the beit hamikdash, but it was a horaat shaah. Some modern thinkers (for example, Eliezer Berkovits zt"l) have called for an application of such methodology to solving the problems facing Orthodoxy; in R. Berkovits' words, stretching the halachah to its limits. Yet the poskim, who determine normative practice, have in general rejected such arguments, and it is with the poskim, not the philosophers, with whom we must ultimately stand. The second issue here is more subtle. The very statement "anything we can do to make the modern woman feel comfortable . . ." is based on the assumption that any needs and/or desires of the modern woman, or man, (truly, modernity in general) have an a priori halachic viability. This is not the case at all, and a point which seems to get lost very easily is that it doesn't matter how sincere the need, or how much anguish results from that need going unfulfilled -- the depth of sincerity or anguish or pain does not necessarily correlate with the halachic viability of the need, or more correctly, the halachic viability of any proposed solutions of that need. The intense pain a person engaged to be married might feel upon discovering that he or she is actually a mamzer and may not now get married does not, can not, influence the halachic evaluation of the situation. And this is true no matter how much it might offend our "modern" sensibilities. Very often, in fact, the needs and demands of secular modernity are in striking conflict with the expectations and obligations of halacha. It is the attempt to satisfy the needs and demands of modernity which led to the the establishment of non-halachic varients of Judaism. We all have been influenced, to a greater or lesser extent, by modern secular culture. One of the positive developments of this has been an increased sensitivity and sympathy to the ideas of equality and equal opportunity for women. Personally, I find my natural inclination is to react positively to any issue which furthers this goal. The issue of the woman's position in Judaism was a major concern for me before I converted, given my very strong leanings to the left. Since that time, I have come to see a very clear distinction between the way modern Western society views people, and women in particular, and the way Judaism views these same issues. I have found that I have had to discard some of my previously held ideas, thoroughly modern, secular ideas, because they simply are out of the bounds of the Jewish tradition. One of these ideas that I have had to discard is that equality means identitity of roles and responsibilities, and that the drive to equality is the same as a drive towards identity of roles and responsibilities. Judaism is a religion dependent upon distinctions between the roles and responsibilities of Jews: kohein, levi, yisrael. Parent and child. Jew and non-Jew. And yes, man and woman. I feel that any attempt to deny that there are distinctions between the roles and responsibilities of the sexes is informed not by a Jewish ethic but rather by a secular one. Furthermore, Judaism does not assess the value of a person based upon that person's role -- a kohein is not more "valuable" than a yisrael to hakadosh baruch hu because of the accident of birth, that the father of person X is a kohein, not a yisrael. And if a yisrael has feelings of inferiority because he is not a kohein, then those feelings of inferiority, though very real, do not derive from a distinction in the value that Judaism has for a kohein versus a yisrael. Similarly, any lesser value assigned to the role of women in Judaism derives not from internal Jewish judgements, but rather from the modern Western secular perspective, from the way modern society "reads" the role differences which are an essential feature of Judaism. And I submit that for a woman to feel her role in Judaism is inferior to that of the man is due to such a modern, secular reading of the roles of men and women within Judaism. The feelings are certainly real -- but to find fault with the roles of Judaism because of it puts the blame in the wrong place. So, then, how does one evaluate any particular demand of modernity? How is it that women's learning has become a generally accepted norm, while other demands of modernity, such as the push for removing mechitzot, fall by the wayside? (Meant only to compare women's learning to removing mechitzot in one way -- that both issues arose specifically from the challenges of modernity.) It is an issue I struggle with; I can only make my best attempt to understand the issues. But I have faith in the ability of the talmudei chachamim to clearly evaluate the challenges, and ultimately, the passage of time is the final judge. I have no doubt that I will take an enourmous amount of heat for this, so I will bolster my point. In the mid-seventies, a prominent rav made a statement to the effect that the Talmudic dictum that a woman prefers to be married than alone ("tan do mil'meisiv arma lei") no longer applies. This seems on the surface an innocent remark, probably many of us would agree with it. By our enlightened, modern, secular accounting, a woman should have no more fear of being alone than a man. The Rav, zt"l, felt otherwise, and took exception in rather strong lanuguage. Below are printed excerpts from the remarks he made to the RCA Rabbinic Convention in response to the statement. He describes not only the approach one must take in determining halacha, but also specifically the statement that the chazaka in question no longer applies in our day. I reprint these words with great hesitation, with a fear that they will be misinterpreted or misunderstood, but to me, the ideas that halacha can and should bend to allow us to satisfy any need generated by modernity, and that such needs, simply by virtue of their existence, can be met within halachic bounds, can not be substantiated and represent the encroachment of secular modernity into the halchic process. And so, here are the Rav's words: . . what does kabalas ol malchus shamayim require of the leimud hatorah, the person that studies Torah? First, we must pursue the truth, nothing else but the truth; however, the truth in talmud torah can only be achieved through singular halachic Torah thinking, and Torah understanding. The truth is attained from within, in accord with the methodology given to Moses and passed on from generation to generation. . . Second, we must not yield -- I mean emotionally, it's very important -- we must not feel inferior . . . develop an inferiority complex, and because of that complex yield to the charm -- usually it is a transient and passing charm -- of modern political and ideological sevoros. I say not only not to compromise -- certainly not to compromise -- but even not to yield emotionally. . . . it should never occur to me that it is important if we would cooperate just a little bit with the modern trend or with the secular, modern philosophy. In my opinion, yehadus does not have to apologize either to the modern woman or to the modern representatives of religious subjectivism. There's no need for apology -- we should have pride in our mesorah, in our heritage. And of course, certainly it goes without saying one must not try to compromise with these cultural trends and one must not try to gear the halachic norm to the transient ways of a neurotic society, that's what our society is. . . . . And let me add something -- it's very important -- not only the halachos but also the chazakos which chachmei chazal have introduced are indestructable. We must not tamper, not only with the halachos, but even with the chazakos, for the chazakos which chazal spoke of rest not upon transient psychological behavioral patterns, but upon permanent ontological principles rooted in the very depth of the human personality, in the metaphysical human personality, which is as changeless as the heavens above. Let us take an example -- the chazaka that's what I was told about -- the chazaka tav l'meisiv tan do milmeisiv arma lei -- has absolutely nothing to do with the social and political status of women in antiquity. The chazaka is based not upon sociological factors, but upon a verse in breishis -- harba arba itz'voneich v'heironeich b'etzev teildi vanim v'el isheich t'shukaseich v'hu yimshal bach -- "I will greatly multiply thy pain and thy travail; in pain thou shalt bring forth children, and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." It is a metaphysical curse rooted in the feminine personality -- she suffers incomparably more that the male who is in solitude. Solitude to the male is not as terrible an experience, as horrifying an experience, as is solitude to the woman. And this will never change, mayid shamayim haretz. This is not a psychological fact, it's an existential fact. It's not due to the inferior status of the woman, it's due to the difference, the basic distinction, between the female personality and the male personality. . . And this was true in antiquity, it's still true, and it will be true a thousand years from now. So, to say that tan do mil'meisiv arma lei was due, or is due, to the inferior political or social status of the woman is simply misinterpreting the chazaka tan do mil'meisiv arma lei. And no legislation can alleviate the pain of the single woman, and no legislation can change this role. She was burdened by the Almighty -- after she violated the first [law]. And let me ask you a question -- Ribenu shel olam , G-d Almighty, if you should start modifying and reassesing the chazakos upon which a multitude of halachos rest, you will destroy yehadus. So instead of philosophizing, let us rather light a match and set fire to the beis yisrael, and get rid of our problems. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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