Volume 8 Number 35 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Making Wills (2) [Bruce Krulwich, Yehoshua Steinberg] The Haredi Shabab (3) [Shaul Wallach, Shaul Wallach, Aryeh A. Frimer] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Bruce Krulwich <krulwich@...> Date: Mon, 19 Jul 93 14:35:50 -0400 Subject: Making Wills Stephen Phillips asked about making wills that are legally bindings and halachically valid. > It would seem, therefore, that if a man made a will leaving his estate to > his wife (very common nowadays) or to both his sons and daughters, then such > a will would be contrary to the Halocho and, whilst it would be valid in > secular law, would be invalid in Jewish law. I heard a tape on this topic by R' Dovid Zucker, Rosh Kollel of the Chicago Community Kollel, in which he discusses a concept called a "shtar chatzi zoche," which was traditionally used to leave a portion of a man's estate to a daughter as a dowry. The basic mechanism is that the man makes a conditional gift of all his money to someone (or some organization), to take effect upon his death, stipulating that the gift is invalid if his heirs at the time of his death agree to abide by his will. Upon his death (after 120), the heirs make the conscious decision to distribute his money according to the will instead of according to the halachic distribution, since it's in their best interests to do so (otherwise their inheritance is all given away retroactively). Since the heirs are all in agreement about distributing the money according to the will, and since they all benefit by doing so, (and perhaps for reasons that I'm forgetting), the will can be executed in accordance with Halacha. (Note that it's a bit more complicated than that, since the gift to the third party should be proportional to the heirs who refuse to abide by the will. CYLOR for details.) I'm told that the shtar chatzi zache is discussed in the Shulchan Aruch, so there should be no shortage of source material. I'm also told that copies of a modern-day document that it valid both halachically and in American Law is available from the Chicago Community Kollel (312-262-9400). Dov (Bruce) Krulwich <krulwich@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yehoshua Steinberg <steinber@...> Date: Mon, 19 Jul 93 15:56:18 -0400 Subject: Re: Making Wills Stephen Phillips <stephenp@...> writes: > It was mentioned in our Shiur (which is given by Rabbi Hool of > Kingsbury) that there may be ways of making lifetime gifts to one's wife > or daughters that would not fall foul of the Halocho. The question is > how might one effect this. It cannot be in the Will itself, because a > Will (at least according to English law) is a document that only has any > legal effect from the moment of death. So any gifts in the Will that are > expressed to be made retroactively to a period before death (even a few > minutes) could not, as far as I can discern, be valid. Dayan I. Grunfeld TZ"L, a dayan on the London Beit Din and an attorney, wrote an excellent work on this subject, _The Jewish Law of Inheritence_. The work is a fairly comprehensive overview of the literature on the subject, and concludes with a sample "document" which he terms a _shtar matnat bari_, a "document concerning the gift of a healthy person." This is truly an area of halacha which is ignored either knowingly or unknowingly by many, many otherwise observant Jews. There are solutions and there is no excuse for transgressing a Torah law -- even from the grave. Yehoshua ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shaul Wallach <f66204@...> Date: Tue, 13 Jul 93 19:03:42 IDT Subject: The Haredi Shabab My dear and respected colleague Aryeh Frimer (may we see him back in Erez Yisrael soon!) has made some very pertinent comments about the "Shababnickim" whom I mentioned recently in passing. First of all, just to explain the word, it is indeed Arabic. Shabb (with a dagesh on the Bet) means "youth" in Arabic and Shabab is the plural. Today the word is used in Israeli newspapers to refer mainly to the unruly Palestinian youths who form the vanguard of the intifada, and hence it is not exactly a term of respect. I'm also not very impressed with the combination of Arabic, Russian and Hebrew all in one word. In dealing with these wayward youths, I lack several important details, such as their number and age group. In Benei Beraq very little is said about them in public. After one of the most recent incidents involving them on Shabbat, one of the Haredi newspapers referred to them very briefly and requested that people who have contact with them bring the matter to the attention of the rabbis. >From what was not printed in the newspapers I assume that it is indeed a matter of concern. Ever since the outbreaks on Shabbat started earlier this year, I have become even more convinced that thorough efforts must be made within the Haredi community to provide gainful employment for all of its young people, including those who are not fit for the standard yeshiva career. The urgency of such a need is heightened at this time, since the collapse of the Reichmann brothers' business has led to a drying up of financial support from abroad and exacerbated the financial crisis now affecting the community. A society that is dependent on the graces of outside philanthropists or support from an increasingly hostile government at home is surely not viable in the long run. Therefore, I believe it is the responsibilty of Haredi leaders to recognize that those youths who cannot study full time are just as deserving of society's approval as the Talmidei Hakhamim. Initiatives should be pursued to encourage development of Haredi businesses and enterprises to provide jobs within the community. The sacred partnership between Yissachar and Zevulun should be nurtured so as to confer equal legitimacy to both partners in the eyes of society. Of course, this course of action would require facing up to the problem of military service which Aryeh brought up. I see no way to maintain the fiction that these working youths are somehow part of a yeshiva and therefore exempt from service. The solution must be to resurrect the Haredi "Nahal" or Hesder arrangement in which these youths would be able to perform their service in completely separate units without being exposed to secular influences that have proved so destructive in the past. Shalom, Shaul Wallach ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shaul Wallach <f66204@...> Date: Tue, 13 Jul 93 19:04:14 IDT Subject: The Haredi Shabab Aryeh Frimer closes his post with the following rationale for requiring the Haredi Shabab to serve in the army: > (I apologize in >advance for the acerbic quality of that last statement, but I have an 18 >year old son entering Yeshivat Hesder and as Chazal say: Mai Hazit >dedamach Samik tfai. What makes the blood of your son the Shababnik >redder than my son the Hesdernik?) While I'm not sure Aryeh really intended this as a rigorous halakhic argument for requiring the Haredim to serve in the army, I have seen the comment made before in this connection. However, I'm not sure what weight these kinds of comments can bring unless they have a sound halakhic basis to them. In our case, from a strictly halakhic point of view I don't think that "Mai Hazit" is relevant to the discussion. Let's look at the Talmud in Yoma 82a-b (for parallels, see Pesahim 25a and Sanhedrin 74a): ... for there is nothing that stands in the way of preserving live except for idol worship, incest and murder ... And murder itself, from where do we know? It stands to reason, for that man who came before Raba, he said to him, "The governor of my city told me, 'Kill so and so, and if not, I will kill you!'" He said to him, "You have to be killed, and must not kill. Mai Hazit ("What do you see") that your blood is redder? Maybe the blood of that man is redder." This passage deals with someone is being told to commit murder, literally, with his own hands. In such an instance he is not to save his own life at the expense of that of his fellow. But if he performs no act by himself, his life comes first. Here is what the Tosafot have to say here (similarly also in Pesahim): ... And a murderer himself who must be killed, this is because of "what do you see that your blood is redder?", etc. And this is where he performs an action. But if he does not perform an action, for example where they want to throw him on a child in order to kill the latter, and if he prevents them they will kill him, and everything of this kind, he is not to be killed, for on the contrary, we will say, "What do you see that his blood is redder? Maybe your blood is redder". And moreover, the analogy is of a verse written which deals with a murderer who kills with his hands: "As a man who stands up over his fellow and murders his soul" (Deut. 22:26). The Tosafot explicitly rule that even when someone else is actually to be killed by one's passive action, he is not to save the life of the other man with his own. But this is not even close to the case of military service, in which no one is being told to be the instrument of the death of anyone else. Even our soldiers who do serve have at least a 99% chance of coming back alive, and the few tragic deaths in action which do occur cannot be attributed even indirectly to either the action or inaction of those who receive exemptions. In summary, while I certainly agree that men who are not bona fide yeshiva students have no valid excuse to avoid the army, I don't think the Talmudic dictum "Mai Hazit" is halakhically relevant to the issue. Shalom, Shaul Wallach ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <frimer@...> (Aryeh A. Frimer) Date: Tue, 13 Jul 93 19:04:35 IDT Subject: The Haredi Shabab I did not mean to use Mai Chazit rigorously. If the grounds Charedim use for an exemption from military service are valid (which I honestly don't believe they are) - then Mai Chazit is irrelevant. Regarding Shababnickim, the argument was used merely for its moral leverage; namely, that the claim that your Shababnick son should not go to the army because it's dangerous is indefensible when you know full well that others will have to do the fighting for you. Thinking about the problem a bit further though, I remember a great deal of discussion in the responsa on the Holocaust in which if a group of children were caught by the Nazis (yemach Shmam) whether you could save your child if you knew full well that someone else would have to take his place. Rav Meisels in his introduction to Responsa Mekadshei Hashem say sit is forbidden because of Mai Chazit. Clearly, to "save" yourself from Army service knowing full well that someone else will have to serve in your place is comparable (though I admit the analogy is not perfect). While the Halachic claim may not be perfect, the moral claim is clearly there. This discussion ignores other relavent issues such as the milkhemet Mitsva issue in defensive wars. We have also not discussed the terrible Hillul Hashem issue - which is an issur deorayta (prohibition of the Torah) and one for which there is no Kapparah (atonement). Certainly, safek de'orayta lechumra (in doubtful cases of the law of the Torah we must be stringent). Why the people who are machmir (stringent) in everything are so maikel (lenient) in Hillul Hashem is beyond me! Aryeh Frimer ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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