Volume 20 Number 66 Produced: Mon Jul 24 23:47:37 1995 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Avraham and Sarah [Elozor Preil] Kosher Cleaning Products (2) [Warren Burstein, Warren Burstein] Male violence in schools [Freda B Birnbaum] Miracle Thaw!! [Keith Bierman] Pinhas and Clinic Murders [Yeshaya Halevi] Surrender to Evil [Kenneth Posy] Violence in Yeshivos: Not! [Kenneth Posy] When Did Hair Washing Become Common? [Keith Bierman] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <EMPreil@...> (Elozor Preil) Date: Mon, 24 Jul 1995 02:10:49 -0400 Subject: Re: Avraham and Sarah Joseph Steinberg writes: >If so, Avraham would have been putting himself in a situation in which >he would become eternally forbiddedn to Sara. As he would have divorced >her, Avimelech would have taken her, making him forbidden to her as his >'remarried-divorced wife'. I have problems with your explanation... The first time Avraham used the "my wife is my sister" routine was earlier, in parshas Lech Lecha, when they go to Mitzrayim (Egypt). Sifsei Chachomim asks: How could Avraham mislead Pharoah into thinking that Sarah was his unmarried sister - after all, the Egyptians as b'nei Noach are also enjoined from committing adultery! If Avraham's plan succeeded and the Egyptians did NOT kill him, he would be leading Pharoah into a grave, capital crime! Sifsei Chachomim answers: Avraham actually told Pharoah: Sarah is my MARRIED sister, and her husband ran off. I am accompanying her to find him and convince him to divorce her, or to ascertain that he in fact is dead. Therefore, Pharoah, it is in YOUR interest to let me live that I may continue to help her search for her missing husband, after which she will become permitted to you. This is how Sifsei explains the verse: V'choysoh nafshi BIGLALECH - Pharoah will keep me alive ON YOUR BEHALF, i.e., to help you continue the search. This would solve the problem vis-a-vis Avimelech, as well. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <warren@...> (Warren Burstein) Date: Mon, 24 Jul 1995 16:00:56 GMT Subject: Re: Kosher Cleaning Products >I have always assumed that pigskin _would_ present a problem because of the >Torah prohibition on touching the flesh of a dead pig. I have never learned that this prohibition applies to anyone today (nor that it applied to everyone when the Temple exists). |warren@ / nysernet.org ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <warren@...> (Warren Burstein) Date: Fri, 21 Jul 1995 18:25:50 GMT Subject: Re: Kosher Cleaning Products Treif is assur beachila and mutar behanaah - you may not eat it, you may derive other benefit from it. I have yet to understand why clearly inedible cleaning products require hashgacha. Yes, it gets into your dishes, but what's the problem with that if it's not food? If someone knows the answer to this puzzle please post it. |warren@ / nysernet.org ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Freda B Birnbaum <fbb6@...> Date: Sun, 23 Jul 1995 13:45:24 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Male violence in schools In v20n61, M. Linetsky responds re some comments about violence in schools: > The students in schools that have violence like this I can gaurantee you > are no less refined than in those where everyone sits in their corners or > paint their nails. And Freda, it is Rabbis that come out of these types of > schools that are most sensible and able at their jobs. The first sentence quoted above makes no sense at all. As to the second, can you or anyone else give me one good reason why I should ask shailas of, or even have any respect for, rabbis who acted like that as boys? Burden of proof is on them that they've grown up. Freda Birnbaum, <fbb6@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Keith.Bierman@...> (Keith Bierman) Date: Mon, 24 Jul 95 10:01:25 PDT Subject: re: Miracle Thaw!! I examined one this weekend. It appears to be a single cast piece of metal, very similar to the material commonly used in the heat sinks attached to many expensive (and hot) computer chips. Some other shops had more complex devices, which employed both a metal part and ceramic/glass covering. I imagine the intent is to keep insects away from the defrosting food. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <CHIHAL@...> (Yeshaya Halevi) Date: Mon, 24 Jul 1995 19:31:08 -0400 Subject: Pinhas and Clinic Murders The Torah portion concerning Pinhas (Phineas) is mega-super relevant to American life today. Remember the people who picketed in _support_ of the nut who murdered people in Massachusets abortion clinics? The newspaper pictures in the following days showed people carrying picket signs, and those signs quoted the verses about Pinhas' (Phineas') actions. They cite Pinhas and this Torah portion as justification for gunning down doctors and anybody who gets in their way within 10 yards of an abortion clinic. If it hasn't been (you should pardon the expression) done to death already, I'd be interested in hearing people's reactions to this topic. Can Jews and/or non-Jews cite Pinhas' action as cause for "justifiable homicide?" If so, under what circumstances? <Chihal@...> (Yeshaya Halevi) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Kenneth Posy <kpposy@...> Date: Mon, 24 Jul 1995 15:21:11 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Surrender to Evil Mr. Zaitchick writes: "Remember back in the 60's when Rabbi Yitzchak Greenberg was castigated (and that's putting it mildly!) for suggesting that single women who were going to have sex anyway should go to the mikvah? I still don't see what was so wrong about that suggestion, although I can understand why he would be attacked for making it publicly." IMHO, what is wrong with this statement, in addition to the venue it was made in, was the implicit acceptence of the phenomenon "single women who were going to have sex anyway". I thought that our religion had a fundimentally different approach to sin. I didn't know that we change the rules because "people weren't going to follow them anyway"? Why not do away with the issur of electricity on shabbos? The torah does not clearly prohibit this, either! What is wrong with this statement is the surrender to something that, even if it is not "explicitly forbidden l'culei alma (by all opinions)", is fundimentally wrong. For while there may be no lav, there is definately a bittul assei of kedoshim t'hiyu, and that is something we should take seriously. I know that there is a concept of "dibra torah k'neged yezer hara"(the torah addresses the evil inclination(?)) and "takanah sh'ei hakahal yachol la'amod bah"(a decree that the people cannot endure) but to say that this is such a situation is motzei la'as on b'nos yisrael (slander against jewish women) Furthermore: would Greenberg's solution work? I thought that it was not merely forbidden for a single woman to go to the mikvah, but that there was a rabbinical injunction that invalidated the action and allow the torah prohibition of nidah to stay in effect. (My offhand reference for this is beis halevy, siman 3, who discusses the issue as a side point; I have never learned niddah). If that is indeed the case, to change that would require a beis din superior "b'middah ub'minyan" (in number and wisdom(?)) and I don't think that we have one of those. Betzalel Posy <kpposy@...> <kposy@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Kenneth Posy <kpposy@...> Date: Mon, 24 Jul 1995 14:40:37 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Violence in Yeshivos: Not! Mr. Linetsky states: "His statement therefore misses the mark| Zvi also thinks that because he never commited violent acts, that it does not exist anywhere else and the school I attended is a deviant. Sorry to say, he has not been to too many schools| I do not know how old he is, but school systems have changed." I would like to reiterate what I asserted in a previous post: This is false. I went to a basically mainstream yeshiva high school, and have many freinds and relatives who went to other ones. I would say that I have visited or have close aquaintances from every major yeshiva high school in America, and probably in Israel as well. I have never, ever seen a concerted effort or premeditated mass mutilation of a school, as he described in his original post. I am not saying we were angels, and we many time misbehaved in ways that might cause a chilul hashem, but rarely was it intentional, and we always did our best to make amends as soon as we realized. I cannot imagine that Mr. Linetsky's discription can be applied to the premier yeshivos: Philidelphia, Baltimore, Scranton, Telshe, Long Beach, etc... I would be "dan l'cav zechus" (presumption of innocence" and say that his experience is unique even for his school, and if not, I am absolutely certain that it is almost unheard of in the major yeshivos. [I agree fully with Betzalel from my knowledge of Philadelphia Yeshiva in the 1970's. We were not perfect, and Shimshi Sherer and I shared a room in the dorm and the Mashgiach made sure that it was right across from his office so he could keep an eye on us, but what has been described in previous postings is far outside what any of us would have done. Mod.] Furthermore: My class left high school in '92. I learn in the high school beis medrash every night with many current students, and my brother is in tenth grade. Has the school system changed since last night? I can't stand "yeshiva bashing", a sport that seems to be in vogue in certain segments of even the frum community. This is no way to resolve our differences and bring greater achdus (unity) to c'lal yisroel. We should have great respect and admmiration for those who spend their time and efforts on intensive limud torah, even as we have our critisisms and disagreements with how they do it. Obviously, every one can use advice and improvement (eizehu chacham, halomeid m'col addam), but those who offer constructive critisism (as I assume Mr. Linetsky is doing) only impeach their own credibility by such overstatements. I think that the problem addressed by Mr. Halevi, of intra peer violence, is much more pronouced, and requires more serious attention. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Keith.Bierman@...> (Keith Bierman) Date: Mon, 24 Jul 95 10:15:14 PDT Subject: When Did Hair Washing Become Common? During a lunchtime mishna study session, we stumbled across the following question: When did hair washing become common? Was soap used?? The text which sparked the question is Nazir Perek Vav Mishna Gimmel. The discussion is about what a Nazir can do to his hair, and Rabbi Yismael teaches that the Nazir cannot rub dirt into the hair (and that this can cause some hair to fall out). Which made us speculate about why one would choose to rub dirt in the hair (some recalling that this can be used to clean the hair of excess oil, others recalling the action of products like Nair thought it might have been viewed as a way to "cut" the hair w/o transgressing). Curiously absent in this discussion was simple washing with soap (we aren't concerned with the halacha in this matter, per se. We'd just check other sources for that ;>). But we are curious about the custom/habits of the time. Was hair-washing common in that era?? Thanks in advance for your insights. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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