Volume 26 Number 93 Produced: Sun Aug 3 19:05:29 1997 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Bedeken [Joseph Geretz] Brachot on Shofar [Thierry Dana-Picard] Capital Punishment:Chazon Ish [Daniel Eidensohn] Maaser [Elozor Preil] Mezonot/Motzi (originally pizza) [Sarah Watson] Paternity testing and mamzerut [Gilad J. Gevaryahu] Religious Holidays policy [Chana Luntz] Shechechianu on the second day of Rosh Hashana [Daniel Israel] Siyum HaShas [Yosef Gavriel Bechhofer] Tashlomin and a minyan [Tzadik and Sheva Vanderhoof] Women Learning [Carl Singer] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph Geretz <JGeretz@...> Date: Sun, 3 Aug 1997 17:25:40 -0400 Subject: Bedeken Dear Jonathan, > Is anyone aware of the origin of the word "Badekin"? ("Badekin" is the > ritual at a wedding where the groom lifts the veil of the bride to "check" > that he is in fact marrying the correct person). Actually, at the weddings which I have attended, my own included, the Badeken consists of the Chosson actually placing the veil over the face of the Kallah, as opposed to the way you state it that the Kallah is already be-decked and the chosson lifts up the veil to check that this is the right Kallah. Have you actually seen the custom perfomed this way? Anyway, according to the way I have done it and seen it done, the word Badeken describes exactly what is taking place, the chosson is 'be-decking' his Kallah in the veil which she will wear to the chuppa. The fact that it is the Chosson's responsibility to Badeck his Kallah may stem from the fact that it is the Chosson's duty and perogative to ensure that he will meet the right girl at the end of the aisle, as opposed to the way Yaakov Avinu was tricked by Lavan. (In certain communities, some Yekkes for example, the Chosson does not Badeck the Kallah himself. Perhaps someone who has more knowledge of alternative Badeken customs can shed more light.) Kol Tuv, Joseph Geretz (<JGeretz@...>) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Thierry Dana-Picard <dana@...> Date: Fri, 1 Aug 1997 09:26:21 +0300 (IDT) Subject: Brachot on Shofar I must thank Akiva Miller who pointed out my awful mistake, and apologize for my previous posting: there are only two brachot before shofar on the first day of R"H, and for Sefardim only one on the second day. If the first day is a Shabat, then two brachot are said on the second day before shofar. My previous figures were false. I should apply to myself :"'Hakhamim, hizaaru bedivrekhem". Thierry Dana-Picard tel: 972-2-675-12-78 Department of Applied Mathematics fax: 972-642-20-75 Jerusalem College of Technology Havaad Haleumi Street, 21 POB 16031 Jerusalem 91160 Israel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Eidensohn <yadmoshe@...> Date: Fri, 01 Aug 1997 00:05:17 -0700 Subject: Capital Punishment:Chazon Ish >From: Mark Steiner <ms151@...> >On the issue of capital punishment, the opinion of the Hazon Ish is very >instructive. The Talmud states that the death penalty was abolished in >Israel 40 years before the destruction of the temple. The Hazon Ish >comments that the reason for this was the drastic increase in the murder >rate in Israel. In a violent society, he says, the death penalty can >have no educational effect, but only increases the violence. The death >penalty can have an effect only in a society where violence is rare. An >extremely profound comment worthy of its author. Dear Mark, I would appreciate your source for the Chazon Ish. There are a number of Torah Scholars who felt that capital punishment has an effect even in lawless times. The presumption that capital punishment is a deterrent - especially in times when murder is common is cited by the Igros Moshe (Choshen Mishpat II #68) . It might be the position of Rabbi Shimon Ben Gamliel in the Mishna (Makkos 7a) in response to the position of Rabbi Akiva that he would have prevented the Torah punishment of beheadings by use of technicalities. There are a number of commentaries who hold that the dispute between Rabbi Akiva and Rabbi Shimon Ben Gamliel was not whether capital punishment should be prevented. The question is whether the Torah punishment of beheading was more effective than the alternative execution used to deter murder.[Otzair Meforshei HaTalmud Makkos page 278] The Rambam (Hilchos Rotzeah 2 5) states (as translated by Rabbi Bleich) "If the king does not kill them [those who would not be punished normally], and the needs of the time do not demand their death as a preventive measure, the Beis Din is nevertheless obligated to flog them almost to the point of death, to imprison them in a fortress or a prison for may years, and to afflict them with all manner of affliction in order to frighten and terrify other wicked persons, lest such a case become a pitfall and a snare, enticing one to say, "I will arrange to kill my enemy as did So- and So and I will be acquitted." Doros HaRishonim (the most widely accepted religious historian) questioned why the Sanhedrin stopped execution in the lawless period prior to the Destruction of the Temple - since logically it is then more relevant to use capital punishment. He answer that because of the governments protection of many of the criminals - the Sanhedrin's jurisdiction was severely limited to only a fraction of the criminals. This inability to apply the law equally to all elements of the population caused them to stop. (Page 146 in the posthumously published volume (Part I volume IV) In sum, there is clearly a legitimate Torah position - that capital punishment is a deterrent - especially in times of lawlessness. I would appreciate the citation for the Chazon Ish. Daniel Eidensohn ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <empreil@...> (Elozor Preil) Date: Thu, 31 Jul 1997 22:08:35 EDT Subject: Re: Maaser Eric Stieglitz wrote: > As I've read the discussion about whether or not Ma'aser should be > deducted before or after income tax, I'm curious how this could apply to > non-cash benefits. For my benefits package, I'm given health insurance, > life insurance, etc. as well as up to 45 free course credits per year. > 1) This past year I used 12 credits of course benefits. If this had not > been part of my benefits package, I would have needed to pay over $7000. > Is this considered income for purposes of Ma'aser? " First of all, according to most poskim, giving 1/10 of one's earnings is not obligated by the Torah or the Rabbis, but falls under the category of minhag (custom) - see Taz and Pischei Teshuva at the end of YD:331. Secondly, benefits never received as income, IMHO, do not qualify as "revach" (lit., profit) for purposes of maaser. Finally, there are (admittedly minority) opinions that hold that "revach" means what remains *after* basic living expenses are covered - true "profit". I believe the Debritziner Rebbe took this approach. I apologize for being unable to provide sources for this. Kol tuv, Elozor Preil ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Sarah Watson <sarah_watson@...> Date: Wed, 30 Jul 1997 13:25:00 -0400 Subject: RE: Mezonot/Motzi (originally pizza) Yehuda and Rebecca Poch wrote: "He mentioned that if the dough is kneaded in such a way that if you take the total amount of liquid (including eggs) and figure that less than half the liquid is water, then the bracha is mezonos. If half or more is water, then the bracha is hamotzi." Does this apply in general, or only to pizza (which the original post concerned?) Many challah recipes I have seen, contain less than half the liquid as water--especially the more "eggy" ones. Should one be careful to include at least half water? I am not even sure how much water I use. The general "recipe" is two or three eggs, ~1/4c oil, 1/2c I used to proof the yeast). Sarah Watson ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Gevaryahu@...> (Gilad J. Gevaryahu) Date: Wed, 30 Jul 1997 15:54:19 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Paternity testing and mamzerut Chaim Shapiro (mail-jewish Vol. 26 #88) is raising the following question: >Halchickly if a woman is chas vasholom raped when her husband is in >town, and has a child nine months later .... >Two questions. In such a case, should the father utilize the testing >to determine if indeed the child is his? And, second, if the testing >was done, and it is determined that the child could not belong to the >father, does that child gain the status of a mamzer? Throughout history batei-din made great effort not to declare new mamzerim. Nothing good would come out of finding the 99% truth in this case, and therefore I would suggest not to use modern technology to creat more mamzerim. Follow the halacha as you have it. If the husband is in town; the child is his. [However, what would we do if the wife of a white couple was raped by a black person and the son/dtr is black? -- Teiko] Gilad J. Gevaryahu ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chana Luntz <heather@...> Date: Sun, 3 Aug 1997 18:49:38 +0100 Subject: Religious Holidays policy In message <199707270340.XAA11132@...>, Etan Diamond <ediamond@...> writes >The research center that I work for is trying to develop a Religious >Holiday policy that incorporates "Other Religious Holidays." As the >only current employee for whom this applies, I have been charged with >writing the language of this policy. I was wondering, therefore, if any >of you work in places that have defined policies regarding religious >holidays. How are you allowed to make up the time? Is it charged >against your vacation time? Any input would be appreciated. In my current firm, we just have to take it out of our holidays. In my firm in Australia, the policy was that one could choose to take religious holidays either of one's holidays or as unpaid leave (so that on good years, we tended to take the couple of days out of our holidays, and on bad years, some of it was taken unpaid so as to have a bit of a holiday). But I am changing jobs, and in interviewing, I wanted to pass on to you the religious holiday's policy of one of the firms i interviewed at. Their policy is this: - if you take three days out of your holiday for religious reasons - the firm matches it with an extra three days for religious reasons on top. (I don't know who designed this policy, but it has rather amazing consequences - think about it, - if your three day a year Jews take their three days, then they get "free" days to spend on pesach or succas or shavuos as well!). Regards Chana PS when the firm I *am* going to heard about this deal, and how impressed I was by it, they offered me an additional three days for religious holiday reasons as well, to match the offer (although they don't formally have a religious holidays policy). <heather@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Daniel Israel <daniel@...> Date: Thu, 31 Jul 1997 16:51:46 -0700 Subject: Shechechianu on the second day of Rosh Hashana Regarding wearing a new garment to avoid the problem of a safek [doubt] on saying Shechechianu on the second day of RH: wouldn't the obligation on the garment be immediately upon putting it on? The time between putting on the garment and benching licht seems to be a significant hefsik [interuption]. (And kol v'chomer for a ba'al tokeah.) Daniel M. Israel I am not the sort of person that goes to bed <daniel@...> at night thinking, "Gee, I wonder what I can University of Arizona do to make life difficult for systems Tucson, AZ administrators." -Eric Allman, author:sendmail ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <sbechhof@...> (Yosef Gavriel Bechhofer) Date: Sun, 3 Aug 1997 03:22:48 -0500 (CDT) Subject: Re: Siyum HaShas I realize this may fall into the category of idle curiosity, but nevertheless... The Siyum HaShas of the 10th daf Yomi cycle has reached epic proportions here in the U.S., selling out the 'Garden & the 'Colisseum, and involving thousands others throughout the country and Canada. I am therefore somewhat bewildered at not having heard or read of any massuve events planned for Israel. Is anything in the works there? If so, is it on a similar or different scale? BTW, most of my shiur (and I) will be at the Garden. Yosef Gavriel Bechhofer http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Plains/6147 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Tzadik and Sheva Vanderhoof <stvhoof@...> Date: Sat, 5 Jul 1997 22:27:47 +0300 Subject: Re: Tashlomin and a minyan > From: Chaim Shapiro <ucshapir@...> > Let's suppose that a minyan for mariv has 4 people who have > already davened, 5 who have not, and one individual who had davened, but > missed mincha and had not yet said his tashlomin, may he count as the > tenth man? Since the person did not say his tashlumin *immediately* after he davened the amidah of maariv, he can no longer say the tashlumin at all. So the question would be moot. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <CARLSINGER@...> Date: Sun, 3 Aug 97 21:11:28 UT Subject: Women Learning B"H today's young women are learning much more than even their mothers. I spent Shabbos with fine balabtim "out of town" as they say. His daughter and three of her friends from Israel were also visiting. These young ladies are serious about learning -- witness when the father was giving a dvar Torah at the Shabbos tish, he borrowed his DAUGHTER'S Mikros Gedolos (her name was inscribed on the cover) Tell me, did your (or your wife's) generation see a girl with much more than a chumash? And our parents generation -- if more so (or less so) Re: women's tifillah groups -- there seemed to be no interest. On a lighter note, I mentioned that I had recently learned a new acronym (Thanks to the Kashruth Newsletter) YE-FFB (Yeshiva Educated, Frum From Birth) -- I'm not quite sure if this supports or negates the importance of midos learned at home -- in any case, one young lady piped up that she was IB-YE-FFB. Israeli Born, Yeshiva Educated Frum From Birth. I wonder how that compares with BPB-YE-FFB Boro Park Born .... Alas, I was born on a freight train along the Polish-Ukrainian border (I felt it important to be near my dear Mother at the time -- but the acronym is too complicated. Carl Singer <csinger@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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