Volume 33 Number 32 Produced: Wed Aug 30 6:00:11 US/Eastern 2000 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Aiyan Hora and 3 month Pregnancy [Chaim Shapiro] Blasphemous thought [Mark Symons] Halachic wills (2) [Ezriel Krumbein, Lee David Medinets] Hat for Davening [Chaim Mateh] the Sea of Solomon [Stan Tenen] Sea of Solomon and 'Pi' [Micha Berger] The Talmud did NOT believe that PI=3 [Russell Hendel] Waiting time after eating chicken [Mike Gerver] Women and Tzitit [Shaya Potter] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Shapiro <Dagoobster@...> Date: Sun, 27 Aug 2000 23:57:17 EDT Subject: Aiyan Hora and 3 month Pregnancy A couple of years ago we had a discussion on Mail Jewish about the concept of the Evil Eye (Aiyan Hora) I do feel that the discussion died down over a six month Mail Jewish interlude, without full resolution. Recently I have heard that a couple should not tell of a pregnancy until the 3rd month because of Aiyan Hora. While there may be a makor (source) for not telling prematurely, I have trouble understanding what Aiyan Hora has to do with it. When I asked about the 3 month rule, I was told by several people (none of whom were a Rav) if one tells prematurely, Aiyan Hora takes effect and the Mother may miscarry (G-d Forbid). This brings several question to the for. How can there be this other power outside of G-d that can decide life and death issues? Even if we grant that something will happen to the baby if the news is announced, why is 3 months different from 6 months; or 8 for that matter? Logically speaking, I would say that people do not want to announce before the pregnancy is apparent to those on the outside just by looking. Yet the entire concept of Aiyan Horah still baffles me. I cannot understand why some things are considered Aiyan Horahs and others not. One reply two years ago was that jealous people questing the fortune of others can cause a reassessment in the Heavenly court. But, if that is the case, one could never announce any simcha. A birth can cause extreme jealousy in they eyes of those who cannot have children. Same is true of a wedding or a new job, etc. Why are people not concerned with the Aiyan Hora effect whenever anything positive happens? Chaim Shapiro ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Symons <msymons@...> Date: Sat, 26 Aug 2000 21:18:01 +1000 Subject: Blasphemous thought Does anyone know of a halachic source that could reassure a patient with diagnosed Obsessive Compulsive Disorder who has a blasphemous thought (and which is considered by their treating psychiatrist to be a symptom of their disorder), that this thought is not regarded as an "averah"? Mark Symons ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ezriel Krumbein <ezsurf@...> Date: Sun, 27 Aug 2000 21:50:41 -0700 Subject: Re: Halachic wills >From: Stephen Colman <stephen.colman@...> >Can anybody help me with information about writing wills according to >Halocho. I am looking in particular for a pre-printed legal form with >guide lines - if one exists. Preferably written in English - otherwise >hebrew. I have been told about a kuntras written by a Rabbi Faivel >Cohen called Kuntras MiDor LeDor, but apparently this is out of print. In volume 2 number 1 of Journal of Halachah and Contemporary Society dated spring 1982 Judah Dick mentions a sample will that he has prepared which he was will to mail out upn request. His address is 1331 55th St Brooklyn NY 11219. In A Restatement of Rabbinic Civil Law : Laws of Lost and Found Objects, Laws of Inheritance, Laws of the Unpaid Bailee by Emanuel Quint there is also a sample will. This book is available via the internet. Kol Tov Ezriel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Lee David Medinets <LDMLaw@...> Date: Fri, 25 Aug 2000 18:03:07 -0400 Subject: Re: Halachic wills Yes, Steven, I think I can. As I understand the issue, the problem with a conventional will is that it is essentially a shtar sh'chal acher missah, that is, a contract that does not take effect until after the death of the party who wrote it. In Halacha, that makes it void. Since it is void, anyone who takes something pursuant to the will may be guilty of ganeiva, theft. There are arguments against this, however. It is a very great mitzvah to do what the deceased person has asked (mekayim divrey hamais). Therefore, it is extremely likely that the person who would have inherited the property under Jewish law, if there had been no will, would accept the transfer of the property to the beneficiary under the will. Particularly, if he makes no complaint, his consent might be assumed. Moreover, there is always the principal of dina demalchusa dina: the law of the land is the law. In this case, since a will is competent under secular law to transfer good title to property, there is a strong argument to say that the beneficiary under the will has perfectly good title, and that there is no question of theft at all, even though such a document would not be effective in Israel under Jewish law. Nevertheless, in order to be as careful as possible, it has been suggested that the best practice is to draft a document that is separate from the will. In fact, in order to be effective, it must be separate from the will. That document creates a contingent liability, payable from the estate. The condition is this: if the heirs under Torah law abide by the terms of the will, then there is not debt. But if they contest the will, then the debt is payable from the share of the decedent's estate that would have gone to that contesting heirs. This removes any possibility of profit from contesting the will, and therefore, the consent of the heirs may be conclusively presumed. The document must be carefully drafted to agree with the laws concerning contingencies, in the formula used by Moses in the case of the tribes of Gad and Reuven. I have a form that I use, but I do not think this is the correct forum to publish it. I would be happy to forward a copy to interested parties. However, even though I use it, I really don't know if it is necessary. That decision needs bigger shoulders than mine. Dovid Medinets ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Chaim Mateh <chaimm@...> Date: Sat, 26 Aug 2000 23:44:30 +0300 Subject: Hat for Davening In vol 33#23, Andy Goldfinger <Andy.Goldfinger@...> wrote: <<In our day, the custom of wearing a hat outdoors has gone away. >> By whom has the custom of wearing hats outdoors, gone away? By the goyim? By the Jews? By _all_ the Jews? By the "man in the street", or by the Talmedei Chachomim? In Bnei Brak and Yerushalayim there are lots of men who wear hats outdoors. I haven't been to Boro Park lately, but my memory tells me that there too there are lots of men who wear hats outdoors. So too in Crown Heights. And Whilliamsburg. <<Indeed, people do meet important people without hats.>> Who is an "important" person? Non-Jewish VIPs or Jewish VIPs? Would not most/all religious Jews wear a hat were they to have a meeting with Rav Pam and other Gedolim? To which "important" people was the MB referring? <<Therefore, would the MB say that in our day we no longer have to wear hats to doven or bentsch?>> My guess is that he would still say we should wear hats for davening and bentching. Kol Tuv, Chaim ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Stan Tenen <meru1@...> Date: Fri, 25 Aug 2000 12:22:08 -0400 Subject: Re: the Sea of Solomon ><<Hi, In a famous paragraph in Eruvin 14a the Gmara uses the verse in I >Kings 7, 23 about the "sea of Solomon" to prove\establish that the ratio >between the diameter and circumference of a circle is 3. I wanted to >ask if there are other similar examples in the Talmudic literature in >which verses (or midrash on verses) are used to "find" or establish >facts in mathematics or empirical sciences, that could have been found >using analysis, measurement or experimentation. TIA Avi >> While the above is essentially correct, there's another explanation that's often overlooked. The Kabbalistic geometric form defined at the beginning of B'reshit has a round form, and 3 major "lobes". This is one reason why "the Sea of Solomon" sometimes seems to imply that pi=3. Another reference which is almost always overlooked is the opening line of Mishna Ain Dorshin in Hagigah. The 3 referred to here, usually taken to be 3 persons, also refers to the three-fold nature of the circle-sphere defined at the beginning of B'reshit. (It's related to the Pardes meditation, and that's why the story of Rabbi Akiba also appears in the Gemara for Ain Dorshin.) Best, Stan Meru Foundation http://www.meru.org <meru1@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Micha Berger <micha@...> Date: Fri, 25 Aug 2000 12:30:50 -0500 Subject: Re: Sea of Solomon and 'Pi' In v33n23, Daniel M Wells quotes Avi Levi and writes: :> In a famous paragraph in Eruvin 14a the Gmara uses the verse in I Kings 7, :> 23 about the "sea of Solomon" to prove\establish that the ratio between the :> diameter and circumference of a circle is 3. : Just out of interest the posuk states the circumference was 30 and the : 'kav' - diameter was 10. Kav in the posuk is spelled Koof Vav Heh which is : 111 in gematria. Next to it is written that the 'Kri'- the pronunciation : should be Koof Vav without the Heh and thus 106 in gematria. Sir Isaac Newton commented on this tidbit. I've asked in other internet fora if anyone knows an earlier source. As I have yet to get an answer, please feel free to send me any citations. As to the Gemara's point, pi is irrational. Some approximation is going to have to be considered "good enough" for halachic purposes -- it's impossible to be exact. The gemara could be understood as saying that we only need one digit of accuracy; IOW, that it establishes the halachic definition of "close enough to pi" not pi itself. Micha Berger When you come to a place of darkness, <micha@...> you do not chase out the darkness with a broom. http://www.aishdas.org You light a candle. (973) 916-0287 - R' Yekusiel Halbserstam of Klausenberg zt"l ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Russell Hendel <rhendel@...> Date: Mon, 21 Aug 2000 20:43:01 -0400 (EDT) Subject: The Talmud did NOT believe that PI=3 Avi Levi (v33n16) asks, regarding the gmaras derivation from 1Kings7:23 that the ratio of the circumference and diameter of a circle is 3, whether there are similar derivations in the Talmud of empirical facts from verses. I just wanted to clarify a misconception about this "pi=3" gmarra. As tosafot points out no one in the Talmud really believed that pi=3 (See tosafot succah 8 on the talmudic statement that the square root of 2 is 7/5). Rather, the talmudic statement "pi=3" means that in an ***unspecified** sale of a circular plot of land (ie "I sell you a circular plot of land with A diameter of 200 ft at $10.00 a square foot"), in such a sale, we are **allowed** to **approximate** pi as 3 in computing prices. Thus in the cited example if nothing else was stated in the sales contract then I would be allowed to pay for the circular plot of land with radius 100', 3*100*100*$10=$300,000 (and I could not be sued for the extra $14,159). On the other hand (as in all of commercial law) if I stipulate in the contract "sell...at $10.00 a square foot ACCORDING TO THE EXACT AREA OF THE CIRCULAR PLOT") then I would be obligated to use the official value of pi=3.141592 and pay $314159. To answer Avis statement about "other such derivations" the most famous is the Sinaitic tradition that the exact average lunar month is 29 days 12 793/1080 hours. As Prof. Rabbi Sholomo Sternberg points out in his book on Celestial mechanics this is correct to the nearest 1080th of an hour. The Talmud based on a verse in Chronicles, praises the tribe of Yissachar as "excelling in Astronomy". Russell Jay Hendel; Phd ASA Dept of Math; Towson Univ; <Rhendel@...> Moderator Rashi is Simple http://www.RashiYomi.Com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mike Gerver <Mike.Gerver@...> Date: Sun, 27 Aug 2000 09:52:43 +0200 Subject: Waiting time after eating chicken My wife and I were visiting her cousin in Haifa recently, and she told us that her mother (who came from a shtetl in Grodno guberniya) told her that when she was growing up, her family always waited six hours between beef and milk, but only four hours between chicken and milk. I had never heard of this, and expressed surprise. We then asked a dati neighbor of hers (who did not hear the original conversation) how long he waited after eating meat, and he replied, "Six hours, but only four hours for chicken." When I expressed surprise at this, he told me that he thought it was in the Shulchan Aruch, but I couldn't find it there. Is there a written source for this practice? How widespread is it? Is it found mostly in certain places, or among Jews who originally came from certain places? Mike Gerver Raanana, Israel ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shaya Potter <spotter@...> Date: Fri, 25 Aug 2000 14:53:24 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Re: Women and Tzitit Replying to myself: >In order to understand this issue, one must look at Shulchan Aruch 17 >quoting: "Women and servants are exempt [from tzitit] b/c it is a >mitzvah aseh shehazman gramah. 'in any case if they want to war them >say a blessing over them they are permitted to do so, just like any >other mitzvah aseh shehazman grama, ach mechzi k'yihara, v'lechen ain >lahen lilbosh tzitit'" [But it appears as yihara - showing off / vain >and therefore they should not wear tzitzit. Mod] I'm not 100% sure wh This also fits in with what I was taught in yeshiva why I shouldn't wear a talit when I daven, even though it is a mitzva. Because in todays day and age it would appear vain. so unless you are known as someone who does it (i.e. a person of german descent...) it would be an act of gaiva to do it, while you are single. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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