Volume 34 Number 55 Produced: Sun May 20 8:30:48 US/Eastern 2001 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Ashqenazi Qomotz [Mechy Frankel] Barechuni Leshalom [Shmuel Himelstein] Candy in Shul [Batya Medad] Marriage, Divorce and the Abandoned Wife in Jewish Law [Michael J Broyde] Sneezes [William J Scherman] Tefila Question - Phraseology [Bernard Horowitz] Tefilla question - Phraseology [Ben Z. Katz] Throwing Candy [Michael Rogovin] The Weekday Amidah in the Cairo Genizah by Yechezkel Luger [Joseph Tabory] Request: London, England [Mechy Frankel] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mechy Frankel <mechyfrankel@...> Date: Thu, 17 May 2001 18:02:53 -0700 Subject: Ashqenazi Qomotz Shira Hannah Fischer <fischer@...> writes: <For example..While some ashkenazim do not differentiate between kamatzim and pronounce them all as 'o', those who do pronounce kamatz gadol as 'a,'as well as all who use sephardi/Israeli pronunciation, should be very careful with kamatzim ketanim> interesting- never having run across one i am surprised to learn of the existence of anybody articulating an ashqenazic pronunciation of hebrew who consistently differentiates between a qomotz godole and qoton in the above manner. There is indeed a tradition amongst ashqenazim to pronounce a few qomotz'ed words with an "a" sound, but rather than exemplifying some general usage pattern - or even a hyper correction by a crazed (are there any other kind?) diqduq afficionado, it rather represents a living remnant of the "original" ashqenazi pronunciation of the qomotz, which is well known to approximate the current israeli "a".(e.g. see rashi - b'rochos 47a, d"h (omein) chatufoh) thus a number of common words such as yod, dom, yom,.. etc are almost invariably pronounced with an "a" sound in the living oral ashqenazic tradition, despite their pointing with a qomotz, and this should not be deemed a "mistake". Mechy Frankel W: (703) 588-7424 <mechyfrankel@...> H: (301) 593-3949 <michael.frankel@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <himels@...> Date: Fri, 18 May 2001 11:46:13 +0200 Subject: Barechuni Leshalom In the scholarly Selichot edited by Daniel Goldschmidt (Mossad Harav Kook 5725), the editor, in his introduction (Chapter 2 Section C) discusses the different Piyutim which address angels, such as 'Malachei Rachanmim ... Chalu na plei Keil" and "Machnisei Rachamim Hachnisu Rachameinu." Goldschmidt notes three different ways that this problem was dealt with by the rabbis: a) Rambam and others who follow in his footsteps, simply refuse to allow these to be said. b) Other Poskim allow them to be said, provided that the person saying it realizes that he is addressing Hashem, and not any intermediary. c) Finally, there were those who simply modified the text, sometimes, as Goldshmidt notes, making it totally non-understandable. Shmuel Himelstein ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Fri, 18 May 2001 07:39:12 +0300 Subject: Re: Candy in Shul > I have seen in synagogues of Edot Ha Mizrakh in Israel that dignified > platters of candy are passed out amongst the men, women and children. Where/when does the saying of Kiddush come with all this nosherei in shul? The best candy catchers are over the "gil chinuch." Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael J Broyde <mbroyde@...> Date: Thu, 17 May 2001 09:52:17 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Marriage, Divorce and the Abandoned Wife in Jewish Law New Book by Michael Broyde from Ktav Marriage, Divorce and the Abandoned Wife in Jewish Law A conceptual understanding of the Agunah Problems in America Michael J Broyde >From the Forward Essentially, the modern American agunah problem relates to the inability of people to come to an agreement about the terms and conditions for ending their marriage, and thus the marriage does not end....Solving the agunah problem seems to be on everyone's agenda in the Jewish community... Comprehending the agunah problem, however, seems to be an issue that few have worked on, and even fewer have prospered in the work that they have done. The theme of this work is that the contours of the agunah problems are widely misunderstood and that this conceptual misunderstanding vastly exacerbates the difficulty both of determining which problems can be solved and of actually solving them. This work aims to provide some intellectual coherence and order to the issues of defining what a case of an abandoned wife is, such that the Jewish community ought to consider sanction against one who declines to receive or give a get, Chapter Titles Foreword Preface Jewish Marriage: A Conceptual Review Paradigms for Marriage as Grounds for Divorce Dual System and Divorce The Role of the Bet Din The Multitextured Agunah Problem Summary: A Conceptualization of The Agunah Problem Conclusion: What Can Be Done Marriage Divorce and the Abandoned Wife in Jewish Law A Conceptual Understanding of The Agunah Problems in America One of the most vexing problems to confront American Orthodox Jewry is where a wife is abandoned by her husband who refuses to give her a Jewish divorce. This work seeks to explain the agunah problem in the United States. It notes the contemporary agunah problem in America is radically different than that of contemporary Israel and completely different than the talmudic agunah problem. The thesis of this book is that the agunah problem in contemporary America is part of a more general dispute in classical Jewish law as to when marriage should end. Thus, this book surveys how Jewish law seeks to respond to the consent of the other party or without a finding of fault. It concludes by noting that prenuptial agreements can successfully address the agunah problem in the United States since they provide a way for couples to create an image of marriage and divorce by which they can agree to live. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Michael J. Broyde is an Associate Professor of Law at Emory University and the Academic Director of Law and Religion Program at Emory University. He is a member (dayan) in the Beth Din of America and was the director of that Beth Din while on sabbatical from Emory. In addition, he is the founding rabbi of the Young Israel synagogue in Atlanta. Professor Broyde is the author of The Pursuit of Justice in Jewish Law and the co-author of Human Rights in Judaism. Ordering Information Author: Michael J. Broyde Title: Marriage, Divorce and the Abandoned Wife in Jewish Law: A Conceptual Understanding of the Agunah Problems in America ISBN: 0-88125-679-X Cost: $24.95 5.00 UPS Charge All prices are subject to change without notice. KTAV Publishing House 900 Jefferson Street Hoboken, New Jersey 07030 Phone: (201) 963-9524; Fax (201) 963-0102 Email: <orders@...> PLEASE PRINT Name__________________________________________ Address________________________________________ City_________________State________Zip___________ Phone_________________Email____________________ ____ Check Enclosed _____ Charge my VISA/Mastercard Account No. __________________________ Expiration Date________________________ Signature_____________________________ Additional Ordering Information This book can also be ordered from: Emory University School of Law Phone: (404) 727-6504 Law and Religion Program Fax: (404) 727-3374 1301 Clifton Road Email: <ljackson@...> Atlanta, GA 30322-2770 Attention: Louise Jackson This book can also be ordered at www.amazon.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: William J Scherman <zscherman@...> Date: Thu, 17 May 2001 23:43:13 -0400 Subject: Re: Sneezes There is a Midrash --don't ask me where-- that until Yaakov Avinu asked for illness, people died with a sneeze: they'd be otherwise healthy until the fatal moment. This is why we say "bless you" to this day! Z'ev ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Bernard Horowitz <horowitz@...> Date: Thu, 17 May 2001 23:14:03 -0400 (EDT) Subject: Tefila Question - Phraseology Ben Katz and other respondents have raised some interesting points about bad habits that we sometimes develop in the course of our davening. To the extent that this thread heightens our awareness of the meaning of the words we say so regularly - yasher kochachem. I would like to offer two additional examples. After the sefer Torah is romoved the chazan often says "Gadlu lashem itti; u-neromema, shemo yachdav" instead of "u-neromema shemo, yachdav." The second example is when the sefer is being returned. The chazan often says, "Yehallelu et shem Hashem; ki nisgav, shemo levado" instead of "ki nisgav shemo, levado." Bernard Horowitz ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ben Z. Katz <bkatz@...> Date: Fri, 18 May 2001 09:00:08 -0500 Subject: Re: Tefilla question - Phraseology >From: Mark Steiner <marksa@...> Furthermore, he sometimes >takes it upon himself to contradict the shulhan arukh; for example, >R. Yosef Karo emphasizes that the vocalization of the blessing on the >tefillin shel yad is (in Ashkenazic pronunciation) "lehoniax" (kometz, >x for heth) while Avodat Yisrael "rules" that the berakha is >"lehanniax" (patah, nun degusha)--I won't go into the issues here. I for one would love to hear more about this, either on or off list. What was R Yosef Karo's source for the pronounciation in question? Was he, or his source, a linguist? Ben Z. Katz, M.D. Children's Memorial Hospital, Division of Infectious Diseases 2300 Children's Plaza, Box # 20, Chicago, IL 60614 Ph 773-880-4187, Fax 773-880-8226 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Rogovin <rogovin@...> Date: Fri, 18 May 2001 10:00:10 -0400 Subject: Re: Throwing Candy During a recent aufruf, I was sitting a few rows in front of the bimah. One of the hatan's male "friends," sitting in the front row of the synagogue, fancied himself to be a pitcher for the Yankees and threw at full force a bag full of hard candies aimed (so he thought) at the hatan's head. Why one would seek to do so is something I cannot fathom. In any case it never reached the hatan; instead it hit me in the eye, impacting for the most part on the bone just above my eyeball. It was, to say the least extremely painful and I went home with a large purple mark on my eyelid and soreness that lasted all day. Had it impacted a few millimeters lower, I would probably be blind in one eye. I should add that, in general, decorum is not part of the vocabulary of this well known, large, established synagogue. I fear that even if the synagogue were to legislate that only marshmellows could be included in packages and that they must be thrown gently, it would be as effective as the gabbai's shushing. Finally, as a parent of two young children, I add that giving candy to children in the morning only makes them less likely to eat a healthy lunch. The youth group also takes pride in feeding kids soda (often caffinated), cookies, salty snacks and lollipops. This is how young children develop a taste for such snacks in place of more healthy snacks. The messages sent by the youth leaders and adults are: decorum has no place in a synagogue and nutrition is unimportant. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joseph Tabory <taborj@...> Date: Fri, 18 May 2001 08:32:33 +0200 Subject: The Weekday Amidah in the Cairo Genizah by Yechezkel Luger I would like to announce the publication of a new book, The Weekday Amidah in the Cairo Genizah by Yechezkel Luger. This book, a revised and updated version of his doctoral dissertation, is a critical presentation of the text of the amidah based on over 70 genizah mss. It gives a broad picture of the versions of the amidah and the variant readings used by worshippers of the period. Further information may be had by writing to me off-list. Joseph Tabory Department of Talmud, Bar Ilan University, Ramat Gan, 59200 tel. at office: (972) 3-5318593 email: mailto:<taborj@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mechy Frankel <mechyfrankel@...> Date: Thu, 17 May 2001 18:02:53 -0700 Subject: Request: London, England for the past few years when passing through london i have stayed at the croft court in golders green. On my last trip i was told they had dropped their hashgochoh. since i have to go again for june 9 weekend, following query to any locals or US travelers: A. do any of the other hotels have a hasgochoh these days?, B. if so, are they dumps? (croft court at least remodeled recently). Mechy Frankel W: (703) 588-7424 <mechyfrankel@...> H: (301) 593-3949 <michael.frankel@...> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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