Volume 40 Number 24 Produced: Mon Jul 28 23:00:03 US/Eastern 2003 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Call for Papers from JOFA: "Women and Men in Partnership" [Freda B Birnbaum] Children not attending Second Marriage [<Danmim@...>] Cities of Refuge (4) [Reuben Rudman, Gershon Dubin, Dov Teichman, Shimon Lebowitz] Cities of Refuge in Machenah Levy [Gershon Dubin] Kosher Cheese [Kobi Ableman] The Rebbe [Yehonatan Chipman] Rebbi vs Rav [Gilad Gevaryahu] the Rov [Shraga Rubin] Shiluach Haken [Ira L. Jacobson] Tzizit [Michael Kahn] Tz'ruya [Batya Medad] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Freda B Birnbaum <fbb6@...> Subject: Call for Papers from JOFA: "Women and Men in Partnership" I've been asked by JOFA to pass this on, and do so with great interest. Freda Birnbaum 15 E.26TH STREET, SUITE #915 NEW YORK, NY 10010 PHONE: (212) 679-8500 FAX: (212) 679-7428 E-MAIL: <JOFA@...> Call for Papers: JOFA (the Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance) invites submissions for its Fifth International Conference on Feminism and Orthodoxy, to be held in New York City Washington's Birthday weekend, Sunday through Monday, February 15-16, 2004. The conference, entitled "Zachar u-Neqevah Bara Otam: Women and Men in Partnership," aims to explore the roles that Jewish ritual, halakha, and culture play in relationships and interactions between women and men, paying particular attention to the implications of changing gender roles in Jewish families, institutions, synagogues and schools. We encourage submissions that explore this topic from a variety of perspectives. Suggested papers and workshop proposals may include an examination of the many ways in which women and men together effect change. Must the initial impetus for change originate from women? For example, if women are not vocal about the need for more inclusion in synagogue ritual practices, should Rabbis be proactive in initiating change? Should we challenge the assumption that male authoritative approval is required for change to take effect? Is it a foregone conclusion that as women gain access to Jewish ritual practice, men must abdicate some control over those practices? Papers can explore the various ways halakha dictates the relationship between women and men. Does halakha mandate traditional gender roles in a marriage? Does it affect the way single people date? How does it affect the way we relate to sex and sexuality within and without the confines of marriage? How do we educate young girls and boys to understand their relationship to gender and gender roles? How early do we need to start? What do our Orthodox day schools do right in this regard and how can they do better? How does our understanding of gender impact our theology? Does it implicate the way we view God and our relationship to God? We invite proposals for individual papers and panel presentations. We especially encourage the submission of topics that lend themselves to interactive discussions and workshops. Please submit a short abstract of your proposed presentation, as well as a brief CV by September 15, 2003. Proposals should be sent via email to: <conference@...> Proposals may also be mailed the JOFA Office, 15 East 26th Street, Suite 915, New York, NY 10010, Attn: Fifth International Conference on Feminism and Orthodoxy. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Danmim@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 10:29:17 EDT Subject: Children not attending Second Marriage do you know of a makor for children not attending the second marriage of a parent? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Reuben Rudman <rudman@...> Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 18:02:55 -0400 Subject: Cities of Refuge V40#19, Question was asked: > Anyone familiar with a commentator(s) saying that Macheneh Levy served > as Orei Miklot ? In Mesechta Zevachim 117a it says that they would find refuge in the Levite camp (Machaneh Leviah); based on a posuk. In the Mechilta on Shmos 21:13 it also says this and gives a logical reason as well as the reason based on the pasuk. Rashi mentions it in Chumash, on Shmos 21:13. Other meforshim also mention it. It is also mentioned by Rashi on Mesechta Makkos 12b, s.v. Makom. This Rashi is quoted twice by Rav Meir Simcha: a. Meshech Chachma, Bamidbar perek 35 pasuk 13 b. Ohr Sameach on Hilchos Shmitta v'Yovel perek 13 halacha 7. Since we are taught (e.g., Rashi in this week's layning) that the laws of Ohrey Miklat (Cities of Refuge) were not in effect until all 6 cities were established, after the conquest of the land, the question arises - was there a Machaneh Leviah in existence during that period (if yes, presumably located near the Mishkan) or were the laws of Ohrey Miklat suspended during the time of the Kivush Ha'aretz or did they become effective in the cities of the Levi'im as they were conquered? The Meshech Chachma does mention that after Bayis Rishon the cities of the Lewvi'im ceased to be a refuge and only the 6 Ohrey Miklat were operational. He does not mention anything about the period during the Kivush Ha'aretz. )There are Halachic differences between finding refuge in an Ir Miklat versus refuge in the Levite city.) So the question remains - during the years of Kivush Ha'aretz was there a place of refuge or not? Any sources on this? I have not found any direct sources but my sense of this is that there was always a place of refuge with the Levi'im. Rashi in Shmos says : af bamidbar..., EVEN in the Midbar..., which would imply that a place of refuge was available from the days of the Midbar and afterwards; and the cities of the Levi'im would be the place to go. Reuben Rudman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 16:16:46 GMT Subject: Cities of Refuge Rambam, Hilchos Rotzei'ach, Chapter 8 Halacha 7. Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <DTnLA@...> (Dov Teichman) Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 14:30:42 EDT Subject: Re: Cities of Refuge The Gemara in Makkos 12b and Zevachim 117a bring a Braisa that expounds a verse in Shmos 21 that the Machane Leviah was the Ir Miklat in the desert. Dov Teichman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shimon Lebowitz <shimonl@...> Date: Fri, 25 Jul 2003 00:24:03 +0200 Subject: Re: Cities of Refuge The gemara in Makkot, 10a, states: " 'and in addition to them (the 6 cities of refuge) you shall give 42 cities' Abbaye said: 'These (the 6) accept (as refuge) knowingly and unknowingly, these (the other 42 cities of Levi'im) accept knowinly, but not unknowingly' " . Bechavod, Shimon Lebowitz mailto:<shimonl@...> Jerusalem, Israel PGP: http://www.poboxes.com/shimonpgp ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gershon Dubin <gershon.dubin@...> Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 23:57:55 -0400 Subject: Re: Cities of Refuge in Machenah Levy <<If it somehow pre-existed 1: , then we have the interesting fact that there were people praying for Aharon Ha'Kohen the one who rodef shalom- to die>> Since the pasuk says that ALL of Israel mourned Aharon, the Meshech Chochma derives from this that in fact (although the laws applied) *nobody* killed beshogeg in the midbar. Gershon <gershon.dubin@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Kobi Ableman <nadkobi@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 18:01:05 +0200 Subject: Kosher Cheese Hi all, This is such a mundane question but I figure this is a good place to ask the question. And no this is not to harangue about Rennet and hashgacha etc. Is it possible to get kosher Halloumi cheese in the United States, specifically Boston area or New Jersey. Certainly if any of you are visiting Israel it is widely available, although not cheap. It is very versatile - you can grill or fry it by itself - so it is a good diet food (well for hi protein diets). Sorry this is not that philosophical. Kobi Ableman Jerusalem ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yehonatan Chipman <yonarand@...> Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 22:08:37 +0300 Subject: re: The Rebbe In MJ v40n19, Mark Symons <msymons@...> wrote: <<On a bit of a tangent to this, why is it that we refer to "The Rambam", "The Ibn Ezra", "The Maharal", whereas Rashi and Ramban, for example, don't get the definite article?>> Strange are the ways of Yeshivish English. Actually, any spoken language has anomalies of this type. In this case, the usage is clearly borrowed from the Yiddish, "Der / Dem Rambam," etc. But "hadar kushya le-dukhtei": the question returns, why is it that way in Yiddish? (By the way, in formal writing, I always use "Rambam" without the article.) If I may stretch the tangent a bit further: Despite living the first 22 years of my life in New York City, I never understood why "the Bronx" always takes the definite article, while we don't speak of "The Manhattan" or "The Brooklyn"? Similarly, some street names take the definte article. Two examples occur to me from London: "The Strand" and "The Grove" (in Golders Green). Any thoughts? Yehonatan Chipman ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Gevaryahu@...> (Gilad Gevaryahu) Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 12:02:23 EDT Subject: Rebbi vs Rav Martin D Stern objects to my statement that title Rav vs. Rebbi change with time and with group. He writes (MJv40n23): <<I fear he has completely missed the point. Rabbenu Hakadosh (as a Tanna and had semikhah) should be referred to as Rabbi Yehudah Hanasi not Rav Yehudah which would be appropriate for an amora who did not have semikhah. Modern terminology is not relevant to this point.>> I am afraid that Mr. Stern did not examine the sources carefully. His source for the saying <<'Gadol meiRav Rabbi, vegadol meiRabbi Rabban, vegadol meiRabban shemo'>> is based Tosefta Eduyot (3:4), "Mi she'yesh lo tamlidim veTalmidav kor'im oto Rabi, nishtakechu talmidav kor'im oto Raban, nishtakchu elu, korim oto biShemo" [* translation below] and the meaning there is not an absolute greatness of titles, that is, simple name is greater than Raban, and Raban is greater than Rebbi and Rebbi is greater than Rav, but rather it is the distance from the person in generations that changed the reference to him. If Mr. Stern does not trust my reading of the text then he can see that the Hatam Sofer understood it that way (Sho"t Hatam Sofer 5-Hashmatot, Siman 205). [* he who has disciples and his disciples call him Rabi, if that group was forgotten {with passage of time} he is called Raban, and if these latter group was forgotten he is called by his name] The problem with the absolute greatness suggested by Mr. Stern is that there are no measurement rods for its use. When and how do you measure the relative greatness? While alive? 100 years later? Today? Another problem is that if the rule is to be understood as an absolute, then how do you explain that it is "Moshe Rabbeinu" but not "Moshe" stam as the rule should have applied? And besides, why isn't it "Rabbeinu Moshe" instead? What do you do with "Rav and Shmuel"? There is some evidence that the Mishnah understood the title as the Tosefat suggests: "Aseh lecha rav" (Avot 1"16) that is a direct relationship. The Talmud generally refers to the Babylonian Amorai'm as Rav, whereas in Israel the general title was Rebbi or Rabbi. "Rabbi Tarfon - Rabban shel kol Israel" (Yerushalmi, Horayot 47:4) But the title issue base on a strict "absolute" rule does not work. There are cases for every exception. See for example "hatam Rebbi kar'u li hacha Rebbi kar'u li" (B"M 84a) [there they calle me Rebbi and here they call me Rebbi] where Rashi says s.v. "Rebbi kar'u li: Raban shel listim" Note Rashi's use of Raban for the chief robber! In short I stand behind my initial suggestion that "Titles change with passage of time and within various groups." then as well as now. Gilad J. Gevaryahu ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <BaalHaIkvei@...> (Shraga Rubin) Date: Thu, 24 Jul 2003 10:42:24 -0400 Subject: the Rov In MJ v40n19 Haim Shalom Snyder wrote > "Please be advised that in Israel, the term "the Rav" is generally a > reference to Rabbi Avraham Yitzhak Hacohen Kook and Americans have to be > careful to stipulate that they're talking about Rav > Soloveichik when they use the term." A good number of Israelis use the term the Rov to refer to the Brisker Rov, Rabbi Yitzchok Ze'ez Halaivi Soloveichik. Shraga Rubin ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ira L. Jacobson <laser@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 18:21:40 +0300 Subject: Re: Shiluach Haken >The views of rishonim take precendence over those of achronim, How does this fit in with the saying "halakha kebasra"? IRA L. JACOBSON mailto:<laser@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Michael Kahn <mi_kahn@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 13:34:47 -0400 Subject: Re: Tzizit >There are only 612 OTHER Commandments (besides Tzitzith). When reading >the verses ...WEAR FRINGES IN ORDER TO REMEMBER ALL THE COMMANDMENTS OF >GOD,then quite simply we only have to remember the >OTHER commandments, >not the fringe commandment itself, and there are only >612 of these >other commandments Interestingly, in the yehi ratzon recited when putting on tzitzis we speak of the 613 (!) mitzvos that are contingent on the mitzva of tzitzis (vtaryag mitzvos hataluim bo). ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2003 21:10:55 +0200 Subject: Re: Tz'ruya We find a similar technique used by Yoav ben Tz'ruya (David's chief-of-staff) and his brothers. According to Divrei HaYamim, Tz'ruya was David's sister. The situation is further intriguing in that nowhere are we told what Yoav's father's name was. I recall hearing that Yoav As the mother of Tzruya Medad Luzon, I've been asked about the name for thirty years already. Yes, there is a pasuk clearly indicating that she was King David's sister. Yoav and his bothers are considered their mother's sons, just like Princess Anne's children are referred to as hers and not what's his names'. Batya ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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