Volume 42 Number 02 Produced: Fri Jan 30 6:02:02 US/Eastern 2004 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Chanukah Olive Oil [Shimon Lebowitz] Church Entering [Yisrael and Batya Medad] Divine Names in the zemiros [Gil Student] Do potential spouses really have to tell everything (2) [Perets Mett, <FriedmanJ@...>] Eating Contests and Halacha [Mordechai] Just in Time for Daf Yomi (Hulin) [David Glasner] Murder [Naomi Graetz] Order of Selichot [Jack Gross] Praying aloud [Joshua Kay] Praying Loudly [Batya Medad] Swallowing Goldfish [Shimon Lebowitz] Thank G-d for Tupperware [Andy Goldfinger] Third Temple Comes from heaven = built by prophecy [Gil Student] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shimon Lebowitz <shimonl@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 13:20:05 +0200 Subject: Re: Chanukah Olive Oil > I spoke to Rabbi Kuber (who is in charge of the OU kasherus in > Israel) today, and he assured me the the OU did not give any hechsher to > olive oil not fit for human consumption. > > Yehuda Landy On the other hand, quite a few brands in Israel with other "mehudar" hechsherim (such as the Badat"z Eida Chareidit) did say on them "Lo le-maachal" (not to be eaten). Shimon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Yisrael and Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 22:48:09 +0200 Subject: Re: Church Entering Sorry, but I didn't mention anything at all about a surrender. So I didn't "suggest" anything. What I wrote was that Allenby entered Jerusalem on Dec. 11. What could be logically inferred is that if Allenby wasn't in Jerusalem on the 9th, I'm guessing he was still on the outskirts, he didn't participate in a ceremony in Jerusalem on that date which was a Sunday. By the way, the Arab Mayor, El-Husseini caught a cold from waiting in the freezing air for the Private and Sergeant who he first met to return with a senior enough officer to accept his surrender and died three weeks later. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gil Student <gil_student@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 09:54:04 -0500 Subject: RE: Divine Names in the zemiros Mark Steiner wrote: >I am having a hard time with the logic of avoiding reading the >Divine Names in the zemiros. After all, the authors of these >poems included some of the greatest of the rishonim--and >they saw fit to write these Names. Because rishonim disagreed on many issues. Who says that we follow the rishonim who wrote the zemiros? Furthermore, even if it is permissible based on the plain rule, there might be a custom to refrain that developed subsequent to the authorship of these zemiros. Gil Student <gil_student@...> www.aishdas.org/student ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Perets Mett <p.mett@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 19:53:16 +0000 Subject: Re: Do potential spouses really have to tell everything Akiva Miller wrote: > Let's name the spouses A and B. If A is a carrier but B is not, then > each child has a 50% chance of being a carrier. Suppose B wants to > insure that their child is not a carrier? Suppose B wants to insure > that their child never has to be in the position of breaking up a > shidduch because the other party is also a carrier? Isn't is somewhat nonsensical to argue that people should protect themselves against **the possibility** of one of their children carrying a gene --Tay-Sachs-- which is not harmful in any way, but might limit by 0.25% the number of potential spouses? Who says that your children have to be compatible with everyone else in the world? I don't believe that there is any requirement to tell a potential shidduch partner if one is carrying the Tay-Sachs gene unless the other partner is also a carrier (which could have dire consequences if they married). Since the only thing that matters is that two carriers should not meet and marry, once that end has been achieved there is no obligation to reveal that one is a carrier. Once you start suggesting that such information must be revealed, you cannot draw the line anywhere. After all, any piece of information about oneself could potentially have an effect on a future generation in some miniscule way. There are bounds to what one needs to reveal to avoid deception - not everythign qualifies Perets Mett ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <FriedmanJ@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 09:59:17 EST Subject: Re: Do potential spouses really have to tell everything What is your reasoning with regard to the criminal parent? Do you hold that criminality is hereditary? How does the criminal parent affect the marriage or future spouse? And what do you mean by "criminal"? Felony conviction? Misdemeanor? Speeding ticket? I wrote off-line to the writer and said that felony crimes in a parent should 100% be disclosed, as should domestic violence (even misdemeanor domestic violence). After all there are also chromosomal predilictions toward violence. Someone must know the precise research. It's been known for decades. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <Phyllostac@...> (Mordechai) Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 23:17:14 EST Subject: Eating Contests and Halacha The recent discussion with people saying that eating goldfish alive is ossur (prohibited), even though the fish may be kosher, reminded me of a somewhat similar issue which has concerned me in the past. I refer to 'eating contests' using kosher food, where, as with the above case, the food itself is not the problem, rather the way it is consumed is. In recent years, I have read of various Jewish stores (perhaps organizations as well), conducting things like 'matza ball' eating contests, and the like (e.g. hamantashen eating contests). I guess they are modeled after various such contests in the non-Jewish world, like an annual 'hot-dog' eating contest which has taken place for many years at Coney Island, Brooklyn, NYC, for many years on the 4 July holiday in the USA (in which the goal is to eat more of the designated food item during the contest than any other contestant). Anyway, I think such contests should be opposed and not allowed, as they are not in accordance with the Torah view of eating, are not healthy and promote waste ('bal tashchis') and unhealthy and improper attitudes toward food and eating (bizoyon ochlin, etc.). I wonder if any Rabbis have spoken out about this phenomenon or if there are any written responsa about it. If not, perhaps this posting can be the first shot fired against the practice, which I think should be opposed before it spreads further. Perhaps Rabbis who provide kosher supervision for stores can insist that such events not be conducted by establishments under their supervision. Mordechai ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: David Glasner <DGLASNER@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 15:30:24 -0500 Subject: Just in Time for Daf Yomi (Hulin) I would just like to inform all subscribers of Mail-Jewish that my cousin R. Shlomo Klein has (todah la-Ha-Sheim yitbarakh) just published a new edition (with new type set and correction of typograhical errors) of Dor Revi'i on Hulin. The US distributor is R. Yaakov Levitz 718-377-0047 For more information call Rabbi Klein at 718-853-0034 or email him at <rink@...> David Glasner <dglasner@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <graetz@...> (Naomi Graetz) Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 22:37:25 +0530 Subject: Murder Gerald Blidstein discussed the problem of retzach and hariga in his definitive article, "Classical Punishment: The Classical Jewish Discussion," which originally appeared in Judaism, Vol. 14. Naomi Graetz Ben Gurion University of the Negev <graetz@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jack Gross <ibijbgross2@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 11:24:45 -0500 Subject: Re: Order of Selichot > From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> > ... why the Eastern European communities changed the custom but it was > probably because of (unfounded) worries about making insertions in > chazarat hashats. It's a long piece in Beis Yoseph, based on material from rishonim and earlier acharonim. Basically the issues are whether (a) the yachid is limited in the length of what _personal_ requests he/she is permitted to insert "at the end of" each of the intermediate b'rachos (lest the addition outweigh the basic nusach), and (b) if so, whether such a limitation is waived for Tzorchei Tzibbur. The B.Y. is machmir -- voting "yes" on the first and "no" on the second -- and thus favors the alternative minhag of appending rather than inserting the s'lichos. Such is the practice reflected in the siddurim of Edot Hammizrah. I believe it spread to Eastern European "Ashkenazic" (i.e., originating in Germany) communities only under the influence of the Shulchan Aruch. - Yaakov Gross ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joshua Kay <jkay@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 10:19:56 +1100 Subject: Praying aloud <<Hello? where did you get that rule from? No one should daven loudly AT ALL , and especially not at a minyan. OK, what halachic decisor of the past 400 years has ruled in writing that you can?>> None that I know of in writing. However, Rav Herschel Schachter records in Mipninei HaRav that Rav Y.D. Soloveitchik's davened shemoneh esrei so loud that it was audible to others, apparently following the custom of his grandfather, Rav Chaim, who claimed that he could not be sure that he was really saying the words properly unless he raised his voice somewhat. Quite amusingly, Rav Schachter recounts that a talmid once asked Rav Y.D. Soloveitchik if he was required to answer Omen to the Rav's shemoneh esrei brochos, to which he tentatively answered in the negative. I personally find audible shemoneh esrei tefillos (generally excluding chazoras hashatz) to be extremely irritating. Kol tuv, Dov Kay ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Batya Medad <ybmedad@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 21:19:12 +0200 Subject: Re: Praying Loudly There isn't much I can do up in the balcony when I hear sudden loud claps. I jump, lose my train of thought and can't find my kavanah. Over the years I've complained to gabbaim, who are amazed that I expect them to keep things quiet down there. While we're at it, the clapping to "different beats" during the dovening is worse than distracting. It offends my sense of musical unity. It's bad enough to clap, if it's to the tune, but not drowning out, the chazan, but there are people who want to show their musical creativity.... oy vey. Batya ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shimon Lebowitz <shimonl@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 13:10:59 +0200 Subject: Re: Swallowing Goldfish A few posters mentioned that eating a live fish is forbidden, as a trangression of the prohibition "Lo tishaktzu" (commonly called Bal Tishaktzu). Is that a prohibition against doing something that disgusts ME, or that disgusts those who SEE me? (Or both? or either one?) With any of the 4 possibile meanings of the rule, it is possible to have a case where the prohibition would not apply. Particularly, if neither the eater nor the viewer were disgusted, thereby not falling into any of the four cases, would it be permitted to eat a live fish? I was taught by my Zeidy z"l (grandfather, but Zeidy is a proper noun to me, hence I have capitalized it - see other mj thread <g>) to drink raw eggs, as he did in the shtetl in Europe. Many people seem (for no reason that I can fathom) to feel disgusted by the sight. Does that make it a Torah prohibited act for me? Shimon ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Andy Goldfinger <Andy.Goldfinger@...> Date: Tue, 27 Jan 2004 09:39:08 -0500 Subject: Thank G-d for Tupperware For those readers who do not live in the U.S. -- Tupperware is a brand of plastic storage containers, dishes, and whatever that is sold in "Tupperware Parties" by enterprising people (often housewives). (http://order.tupperware.com/coe/app/home) I dislike Tupperware parties, but I am getting to love Tupperware. Here is why ... I have been learning the second perek (chapter) of Chullin (a tractate of the Talmud). We are learning several sugyas (topics) that deal with tuma and tahara (impurity and purity). It is extremenly complicated and non-intuitive. Nowadays, the subject is largely academic, but when the Bais HaMikdosh (temple) is rebuilt these laws will have major practical importance. Our lives are going to change to a geat extent. For example, it will sometimes not be sufficient merely to know that something is tamei (impure), but also to keep track of how it became tamei. Kosher kitchens will be much more difficult to manage. That is where Tupperware comes in. It is made of plastic, and to the best of my understanding, plastic is not mekabel tumah (capable of becoming impure). Tupperware, and other plastic implements and utensils will make our lives much easier. Might Tupperware be a good stock to buy as investment? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Gil Student <gil_student@...> Date: Mon, 26 Jan 2004 14:58:25 -0500 Subject: Re: Third Temple Comes from heaven = built by prophecy Russell J Hendel wrote: >Regarding the long discussion (v41n88) on the 3rd temple >coming down intact from Heaven I would use a symbolic >approach. HEAVEN is symbolic of PROPHECY... How would you explain the sugya in Sukkah 41a and rishonim there? Gil Student <gil_student@...> www.aishdas.org/student ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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