Volume 47 Number 62 Produced: Wed Apr 13 5:43:15 EDT 2005 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: ADD/LD issues [Carolynn Feldblum] Artscroll Siddur (2) [Ira L. Jacobson, Ira L. Jacobson] Geshem/gashem [Mark Steiner] Israel Zoller - Zolli - Apostate [Shmuel Himelstein] Jewish source for phrase [Jack Stroh] Mashiv Haruach Umorid Hagashem/Hageshem [Orrin Tilevitz] Megilah - male reader and all-female audience [Aliza Berger] Pronounciation / Siddurs [Carl Singer] Teacher Training -- was ADHD and day schools/yeshivot [Anonymous_2] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <KrauseyF@...> (Carolynn Feldblum) Date: Tue, 12 Apr 2005 07:26:30 EDT Subject: ADD/LD issues The whole realm of ADD is often misunderstood in the yeshiva world today. My first response to the poster with the 10 yr. old stepson is: has this child been evaluated by an OT for sensory integration, Audiologist for Central Auditory Processing issues, an Optometrist for visual issues as well as been evaluated by an education psychologist for cognitive issues. Also, food allergy testing should be administered if there is a suspicion or a family history because allergies can mimic some of these neurological disorders. One has to rule out everything in order to understand a child who may exhibit bad behavior as well as having struggles learning. Today, many people throw all of these issues into the huge melting pot of ADD and the tide is slowing turning back that the diagnosis of ADD does not cover all of these things. Giving medication to our children is an easy out and we need to learn that many of these neurological issues intertwine with one another, meaning that the child could have one or more of these issues occuring at the same time. Unless addressed, these could wreak havoc with the child's educational process as well as his behavior and self esteem. Part B is your question about having frum people deal with an ADD. In an ideal world, yes it would be nice that all yeshivas understood these issues but realistically most of the staff in these schools lack knowledge in these areas and appear uninterested in being educated to help the child. This can be very damaging to the child and the family. I have found the yeshiva system to be way behind in this department and unfortunately, there appears to be a rise in all of these neurological issues. Yes, there are a handful of yeshivas that address these issues but you have to search hard to find them and it may mean relocating your family in order to find a school that will accomodate and understand your child. I have found the non-jewish world who is educated to deal with these issues easier to deal with and more open to try different techniques. My experiences in the frum world have not been positive to say the least. My parting words to you and other parents is once your child has been evaluated across the board; its your responsibility to be the child's advocate especially if in a Jewish setting where these issues are not understood. The child is not capable of doing it on their own nor is the school. Its an uphill battle but at the end the child's self esteem will be intact and learning will not be as difficult. If necessary, find a better learning environment if the one your child is in is not working. This in itself can make a huge difference for your child. And lastly, never give in if your gut tells you that the advice you are receiving is wrong. Keep researching and speaking to professionals who are knowlegable in these areas to have a better grasp on your child's behavior and learning styles. Remember there is not a one fit mold in educating a child. All the best, carolynn feldblum ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ira L. Jacobson <laser@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 19:04:01 +0300 Subject: Re: Artscroll Siddur Allen Gerstl <acgerstl@...> stated the following on Thu, 07 Apr 2005 15:35:37 -0400 IIRC "gashem" is the pausal form of "geshem" and pausal forms are only found in Biblical Hebrew but not in Mishnaic Hebrew ("Lashon Chazal"). Thus if what is intended is a reference to a biblical verse then the use of biblical Hebrew grammar would be appropriate but otherwise the language of the siddur is generally, I understand, Mishanaic Hebrew. The proof of the use of the pausal form is that in morid hatal the tet is qemutza (the pausal form). IRA L. JACOBSON mailto:<laser@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Ira L. Jacobson <laser@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 19:19:27 +0300 Subject: Re: Artscroll Siddur Eli Turkel <eliturkel@...> stated the following on Sat, 26 Mar 2005 22:39:22 +0200 To defend Artscroll they have to choose a version. No one wants a siddur that gives you choices for each phrase. In the siddur Rinat Yisrael which is very popular in Israel they use "Uvinimah kedoshah, kulom" Actually, Rinat Yisrael has both versions: one in Nusah Ashkenaz and the other in Nusah Sefarad. That's called hedging your bets. IRA L. JACOBSON mailto:<laser@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Mark Steiner <marksa@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 18:40:14 +0300 Subject: Geshem/gashem > IIRC "gashem" is the pausal form of "geshem" and pausal forms are only > found in Biblical Hebrew but not in Mishnaic Hebrew ("Lashon Chazal"). > Thus if what is intended is a reference to a biblical verse then the > use of biblical Hebrew grammar would be appropriate but otherwise the > language of the siddur is generally, I understand, Mishanaic Hebrew. I think this remark is a bull's eye, every word is right. If you look at the Kaufmann Codex (an ancient vocalized Mishnah) you will find the blessing, "boreh pri hagefen" (not "gofen"), the same phenomenon. What seems to have happened is that in all pre-Enlightenment siddurim (as in my favorite one, Frankfurt 1691, which I have referenced already twice)the vocalization is geshem. The "vaye`tar yitzhak" siddur "Biblicized" this to gashem, and Baer followed him. I'm not sure how gashem spread to East Europe. Recently, there was a ludicrous flap in the haredi world, where a certain Rabbi Krausz published a tract stating that anybody who says "gashem" is regarded as a maskil unless proven otherwise. He demonstrated this by revealing the bad traits of the editor of vaye`etar yitzhak as a maskil (which he probably was). Others protested in the name of "tradition"--they were used to saying gashem, and gedolim in the past praised siddurim that had gashem. However, Krausz was able to line up an impressive list of rabbonim to his side. R. Moshe, z"l, who was also asked about this, spoiled the consensus by coming out for gashem, forcing Krausz to explain away R. Moshe's opinion as not based on all the data, etc. A remark about the sefaradim (or "Mizrahi" Jews). Often what look like discrepancies between their siddur and the Ashkenaz are actually the result of the European Jewish Enlightenment (haskalah)--the Sefaradi siddurim did not undergo Biblicization. Hence, they have "geshem," "gefen," even at the end of a sentence. There are many other examples, such as the phrase "mevarkhin, umeshabhin, umefa'arin, umaqdishin, umamlikhin..." which is Mishnaic Hebrew. If you take a look at "my" Frankfurt pre-haskalah siddur, you will see EXACTLY the same forms... Mark Steiner ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Shmuel Himelstein <himels@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 19:05:33 +0200 Subject: Israel Zoller - Zolli - Apostate While an article in Judaism Magazine of a few decades ago carries the entire story of how the Chief Rabbi of Rome, Israel Zolli, converted to Catholicism, a short version of the account can be found in the Encyclopedia Judaica. Simply put, when the Jews of Rome were endangered by the entry of the Germans into the city in September 1943, Zolli abandoned the community and took refuge in the Vatican. After the end of hostilities, he reemerged and attempted to reclaim his position. Not surprisingly, the community felt he had abandoned it at its hours of greatest danger, and totally spurned him. On February 14, 1945 he converted to Catholicism and returned to the Vatican. He died in 1956. The Judaism article also noted that but days before he converted he sat on a bet din regarding some Halachic issue. Interestingly, in 1968 a Catholic publishing house published his translation of Tractate Berachot. Shmuel Himelstein ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Jack Stroh <jackstroh@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 11:18:02 -0400 Subject: Jewish source for phrase A question for my father-in-law. There is a custom not to overly praise ovdei kochavim for doing good things, but rather to try to find Jewish sources which may predate the event and praise this. His question is- he admires the saying of Shakespeare "To thine own self be true." Not wanting to praise the author of The Merchant of Venice, he is looking for a Rabbinic saying which expresses the idea that first one must be honest with one's self. Anybody have an idea about this? Thanks. Jack Stroh ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Orrin Tilevitz <tilevitzo@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 14:22:18 -0700 (PDT) Subject: Mashiv Haruach Umorid Hagashem/Hageshem Eliyahu Gerstl correctly points out that "gashem" is the pausal form. But while the phrase is certainly printed separately in siddurim, is there supposed to be a pause at all, of the type that would would require an etnachta were it in a biblical verse? It seems to me that the passage beginning "ata gibor" and ending "umatsmiach yeshua" can be read as a continuous list of the KBH's attributes. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Aliza Berger <alizadov@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 15:58:23 +0200 Subject: Megilah - male reader and all-female audience There! I hope the subject line is clarified now. My mother's and late father's synagogue, the Young Israel of Flatbush (Brooklyn, NY) had while I was growing up, and I believe still has, a 10 AM megillah reading with no associated tefilah. The audience would be 98% female. (My mother [who reads mail-jewish] would never be there since she would go to the 6 AM reading and then go to work, but that is beside the point.) The reader would be male and there was no gabbai. I always wondered how there could be a reading with no gabbai...Maybe because the audience was "only" women, who wouldn't know the difference anyway if a mistake was made!!!??? Bad as this sounds, I have to reluctantly admit that it's better than the "olden days" when women only went to megillah reading at night. If anyone has more up-to-date information about such readings, it would be interesting to hear it. Sincerely, Aliza Berger-Cooper, PhD English Editing: www.editing-proofreading.com Statistics Consulting: www.statistics-help.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Carl Singer <casinger@...> Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 11:39:10 -0400 Subject: Pronounciation / Siddurs I used to kid about the assumptions one could make from the way someone pronounced the word "Torah" To-rah, Toi-re, To-rahhh, etc. -- No siddur in my collection has any variant on the spelling of the first two words of kaddish -- nonetheless it seems quite common for people to pronounce those words with a long "a" -- Yis-ka-dale v' Yis-ka-daysh -- any insights? Carl Singer ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Anonymous_2 Date: Sun, 10 Apr 2005 11:56:11 Subject: Teacher Training -- was ADHD and day schools/yeshivot One must sympathize with anonymous re: the care or lack thereof re: his ADHD grandchild. Generally, one finds the following: 1 - that few teachers (and administrators, etc.) in the day schools / yeshivot are trained to deal with special needs children -- even to recognize same. 2 - that many teachers (and administrators, etc.) in day schools / yeshivot (especially those in limudei kodesh) have NO teacher training whatsoever. 3 - that most teachers (and administrators, etc. AND parents ) cannot relate to anything beyond physical clues -- that is a child in a wheelchair must be special -- a child who "looks normal" must be normal or a behavior problem. 4 - so-called consultants seem to be chocked full of catch phrases in lieu of professional training. For example, a recent advertisement from a local day school boasts that Rabbi Plony will now be consulting to them. Rabbi Plony has no professional degrees in education and only two years lifetime experience in a classroom -- but he has a black hat, beard and a great patter. For "the people of the book" -- we make too few demands on our day schools / yeshivot -- but if we are willing to pay only $30,000 / year for a teacher, we get what we deserve. My suggestion to anonymous (more specifically to the parents) is to seek out government mandated programs for your child -- he is entitled to evaluation / diagnosis and special services. In some larger communities this might be within a Jewish context, otherwise not. ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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