Volume 55 Number 94 Produced: Tue Dec 4 5:57:36 EST 2007 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: Cos B'racha (2) [Menashe Elyashiv, Avi Feldblum] Kiddush [Menashe Elyashiv] Kugel Preparation [Leah S. R. Gordon] No Tachanun at a Bet Knesset in the case of a Brit [Joel Rich] Preservation of Minhag Ashkenaz [Hillel (Sabba) Markowitz] Questions regarding the division of the parshiyot [Simcha MacIntyre] Status of Non Jewesses having affairs with Jews [Russell Jay Hendel] Zemanim [Dr. William Gewirtz] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Menashe Elyashiv <elyashm@...> Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 20:02:31 +0200 (IST) Subject: Cos B'racha There are some who hold that the cup of wine used for zimun belongs to the meal. Therefore, the mezamen should drink it, even if it is after sunset. This is true also for seuda shlishit of Shabbat Hazon, the wine can be used. (I mezamen almost every week and drink the wine). ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Avi Feldblum <feldblum@...> Date: Tue, 4 Dec 2007 Subject: Cos B'racha If I understand the issue correctly, I think Menashe touches on the main point above. Basically, the Cos of Birchat Hamazon (cup of wine used as part of bentching) is logically tied to the Birchat Hamazon and therefore should be drunk, even if it is after shekia, just as you can continue eating Seudah Shelishit after sunset on Shabbat afternoon / evening. The custom and issue of doing this is tied to whether we habitually are mezamen on a Cos (make the birchat hamazon using a cup of wine). The basic halacha seems to be pretty clear that whenever three people eat together they are mezamen, and part of that is that they make the birchat hamazon with a Cos. For various historical reasons, most likely related to the inavailability or cost of wine in Europe during the last century or so, this halacha fell into lack of being done. Once that happened, that caused the halachic link between the Cos and previous meal to be weakened / broken. As a result, authorities ruled that since ast the time you were eating, you did not assume that you would make the birchat hamazon with a Cos, it is considered as drinking after the meal, not as part of the meal. Given the availability of wine today, we should encourage the resumption of the original halacha and should always make our zimun with a Cos. Once this becomes common, then once again the Cos will be drunk even on Seudah Shelishit that ends after sunset / tzais. Avi Feldblum ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Menashe Elyashiv <elyashm@...> Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 20:15:30 +0200 (IST) Subject: Kiddush I try to avoid mass kidushim, just say mazal tov and get home by 10:15 for seuda. However, a early kidush is usually more civilized. BTW, there are 2 types of noodel kugel, the well known one, and the yerushalmi one. Yerushalmi is a mix of burnt sugar, salt and pepper, oil, noodels. Put in a large pot, it is cooked on the stove. A pot has 100 pre cutted portions. Before serving, it is carefully overturned on a surface, and it is very hot! It is always served with a slice of pickle (no bracha on the pickle because it is tafel). It seems that this kugal is not mezonot for keveat seuda, altho someone told me that even so, it could be. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <leah@...> (Leah S. R. Gordon) Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 05:13:31 -0800 (PST) Subject: Kugel Preparation Regarding kugel being "mezonot" or not, one cannot assume that the noodles are boiled prior to being baked. For example, a common way to make lasagna with store-bought [standard, dry] pasta is to put enough liquid into the sauce that you can skip the boiling step, seal it with foil, and bake it a bit longer, at a lower temperature. Then you finish it uncovered for the crispy top. I have not tried this method for noodle kugel, but I see no reason that it would not work. Specifically I think it might work with egg noodles or potato noodles, because those cook so quickly in just a little bit of liquid. --Leah S. R. Gordon P.s. To the other Leahs - please use your full name since now there are more of us! (I think I was the only posting Leah for a very long time on this list.) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Joel Rich <JRich@...> Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 08:33:40 -0500 Subject: No Tachanun at a Bet Knesset in the case of a Brit > AFAIK it is specifically the presence of one of these three > individuals that exempts the congregation from saying tachanun. In > some communities they endeavour to daven in different shuls in order > to 'spread' the simchah to as many people as possible. This is quite > distinct from the custom in certain groups of looking for any excuse > to avoid tachanun. > Martin Stern How does this compare to the chatan who is advised to skip tfila btzibbur in order to not keep the minyan from saying tachanun? KT Joel Rich ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Hillel (Sabba) Markowitz <sabba.hillel@...> Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 13:04:32 -0800 (PST) Subject: Re: Preservation of Minhag Ashkenaz From: Martin Stern <md.stern@...> > This is a heartening contrast to the situation at the similarly named > congregation in Manchester, England, where a small cabal has taken over > and set about wrecking its minhagim by intimidating their opponents and, > where this has not resulted in their leaving, physically barring their > entrance to the premises. At present this matter is subject to a Din > Torah so I cannot elaborate but any suggestions as to how to counter > this Gleichschaltung would be welcome. As Edmund Burke is reported to > have said "All that is needed for evil to triumph is for good people to > do nothing". This *should* be a matter for the Rav to handle. In Baltimore, the Glen Avenue Shul (which had been led by Rav Schwab) continued as an Ashkenazi shul under Rabbi Feldman. While Rabbi Feldman was himself a Chasid, he made sure that the shul continued with all the minhagim that were appropriate. Any shul should follow the psak of its Rav, no matter what "cabal" might try to take over. Any Rav should be strong enough to maintain the proper behavior in the shul and keep the members from causing a chilul Hashem. Hillel (Sabba) Markowitz | Said the fox to the fish, "Join me ashore" <Sabba.Hillel@...> | The fish are the Jews, Torah is our water http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7637/544/640/SabbaHillel.jpg ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Simcha MacIntyre <simcha.macintyre@...> Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2007 10:55:20 -0800 (PST) Subject: Questions regarding the division of the parshiyot I was recently looking throught the Abudraham, and would appreciate any information regarding the following. Near the end he lays down the rules governing which parshiyot are read when, and the circumstances in which paired parshiyot are either split or combined. I note a few differences from our contemporary practice: (i) he says that vaetchanan is always read on the shabbat before tisha b'av [We always read this parsha on the week following the fast. Also, to have nitzavim before rosh hashana he must have had an extra parsha in sefer devarim] (ii) he lists shlach and qorach as being paired parshiyot which can be split or combined [We never combine these parshiyot. He doesn't desribe chuqat and balak as being paired parshiyot] (iii) in certain leap years he says that in some places mishpatim is split, and in others ki tisa. Two things are immediately clear from this: firstly, that the scheme of division of the parshiyot in his time was different. Secondly, a further implication from (iii) is that in his time there were different customs. Does anyone know the full details of the convention he followed? In other words, how did he divide up the Torah into weekly parshiyot? When was the scheme we use today finalized? Many thanks, Simcha ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Russell Jay Hendel <rjhendel@...> Date: Sun, 2 Dec 2007 17:27:42 GMT Subject: RE: Status of Non Jewesses having affairs with Jews In a recent posting I mentioned the view of the Rambam (Laws of Forbidden intercourse) that non-jewesses having affairs with Jews may be executed. Someone expressed surprise since the non-jewesses intentions may be non-hostile and have been admiration of Jewish qualities To understand the Rambam we have to go to his source. The source was the war on Moab discussed in Nu24-Nu32. Moses was commanded to declare a retalitory war on Moab. But what was the retaliation for? Moab never used agression against Israel. Its crime was seduction! Women including daughers high up in the Moabite Government had affairs with Jewish men. The men consented (They were not forced). This resulted in Gods anger against the Jewish people. The loss of life from God's anger on the consented-to seduction was 8 times greater than the loss of life for worshiping the golden calf. The Moabite women were not necessarily malicious (Though their leaders might be). We have to emphasize that the Jewish men consented. Nevertheless God considered this an act of war which justified a military retaliation. So much for Moab. What about today. As can be seen from the above the arguments "The women like the men, no one is malicious, there is admiration of qualities" these arguments IN AND OF THEMSELVES do not remove the "military nature" of the seductive act. They dont remove it since the Moabite women had identical attributes. The main distinguishing feature between Moabite and say American women is that the Moabite government actively pursued this with the expectation that God would punish the Jews. Such an intent and perception is absent from the American government. Nevertheless, there are serious positions taken by secular modern authors on the American scene that assimilation is costing more Jews to America than physical anti-semitism in many European countries. It is not clear how the Rambam would rule on such a situation where the people think it OK but the government is not advocating it. But the consequences are devastating to the Jewish people. Here is an analogy: I know a certain friend gets freightened by cats. Wouldnt it be ethically wrong for me to bring cats to him. Can I argue "His fears are his problem." Would it matter if I am Jewish or non-Jewish? Can I argue "It is not one of the 7 noachide laws." The point of the analogy is that American non Jewish women are aware of the impact of what they do on the Jewish people. My analogy above argues for "responsibility" but not for a death penalty. As I indicated, a distinguishing characteristic between America and Moab is lack of government involvment by America. However one point that can be inferred from the above is that in any perspective the non-jewess cannot be perceived as "an innocent bystander." There are ethical obligations to be aware of consequences of actions. In light of the fact that many modern authors have decried the rapid assimilation rate perhaps it would be worthwhile to discuss the legal aspects of non-jewish obligations towards jews (not to mention our own obligations towards ourselves). Russell Jay Hendel; http://www.RashiYomi.com/ ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <wgewirtz@...> (Dr. William Gewirtz) Date: Mon, 03 Dec 2007 14:14:04 +0000 Subject: Zemanim Rabbi Alexander Seinfeld writes: > The Kitsur Shulchan Aruch admonishes one to wait in the summer "until > all light is gone from the sky". This is more stringent than most people > practice today. > > But I have indeed noticed that in North America, from San Francisco and > northward (all the moreso in Seattle, where I visit each summer) there > can be light in the NW sky up to 100 minutes or more after shkiah > (sunset). > > I have never observed such a phenomenon in the winter. First some halakhic background: Looking for no light in the western sky, is akin to the position of Rabbeinu Tam. If one were to take 'no light in the western sky' strictly, then you would arrive at the personal chumrah of the Rav ztl, that is not followed even by most of his closest Talmidim. I do not know for certain the position of the R. Ganzfried, but I suspect that is not what he meant by the phrase; I suspect he was slightly more lenient in defining 'no light.' Overwhelmingly, we follow the geonim (or a fixed 72 minutes, touched on before and well beyond a post for discussion). For those follow ing th e geonim, there is always (significant) 'light in the western sky' when Shabbat is over. Stated in terms of depression angles, Shabbat is over when the sun is 7.5 ^Ö 8.5 (our practice) degrees below the horizon, 'light is no longer present' anywhere from 11 to 18 degrees, depending on exactly what is meant. I suspect, but do not know, that the Rav waited till 20 degrees. Second, some geography. Disregarding elevation (2nd degree impact), Jerusalem is about 30 degrees, NY 40, and London 50 north of the equator. SF is a bit south of NY and Seattle is a bit south of London and both are close in latitude to Frankfurt and Pressburg, and other cities for which we have a rich amount of halakhic practice from major poskim of the last centuries. Next some mathematics. The impact of latitude and season is non-linear. That roughly means that the further from the equator you go, the impact of season becomes more pronounced. In the limit, as you approach the poles, it is always light in the summer. If you examine a calendar based on say 8.5 degrees, then you would see the number of minutes after sunset you wait in the summer is greater than the winter and both are greater than spring and fall. If you then compare how divergent the times are, you would find, Seattle about 15 minutes, NY about 10 minutes and SF somewhat less than NY. In Jerusalem the difference is about 5 minutes and London more than 20. If you do the same exercise with 'no light', particulary with stricter definitions, the differences are much more pronounced. At the other extreme, if you do the calculation with 3 degrees, the difference is slighter. And permitting some humor: Rabbinic observation in the winter may be less accurate since it is difficult to stay out in the cold. VehaMaivin Yavin. dr. william gewirtz ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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