Volume 6 Number 80 Subjects Discussed In This Issue: A Musar Message For Nissan [Yisrael Medad] Changing Chazzan before Yishtabach [Howie Pielet] Disposal of "Messianic Jewish" literature [Victor S. Miller] Education of Young Children [Morris Podolak] Question from Haggodoh [Danny Farkas] Source against Obesity [Naomi G. Cohen] T'anat Bechorim - Fast of the First Born (2) [Henry Abramson, Ari Z. Zivotofsky] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: OZER_BLUM%<YARDEN.DECNET@...> (Yisrael Medad) Date: Thu, 1 Apr 93 05:10:40 -0500 Subject: A Musar Message For Nissan Yesterday I attended the dedication ceremony of the synagogue in the former Jerusalem Central Prison in memory of Rav Aryeh Levin and wish to pass along a mussar vort his grandson, Rabbi Benji Levine a graduate of YU, spoke of as relevant to his grandfather and the month of Geula (Reemption) which is Nissan: Two people, a father and son, came before the local Rav. Each one claimed the same coat, the father because he was old and cold, the son because he was the one going out to work. The Rav asked them to come back the next day but to argue the other's case which they did. The Rav then gave them an extra coat he had. The were perplexed, after all the coat was there in the closet the previous day. He replied that whereas they had each demanded the coat for themselves, he also demanded the extra coat for himself. But today when each asked that the other receive the coat, so he too became less self-centered and decided to give up the coat. I'm sure each will read into this story their own parameters and that not only our learning but our behavior edge us along the path to Geula. Yisrael Medad OZER_BLUM%<CARMEL.DECNET@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <pielet@...> (Howie Pielet) Date: Wed, 31 Mar 93 11:49:30 CST Subject: Changing Chazzan before Yishtabach bs'd Why does the chazzan for shacharis 'take over' _before_ Yishtabach? Would we make any other hafsakah (interruption) there? Howie Pielet Internet: <pielet@...> (East Chicago, Indiana, USA) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Victor S. Miller <victor@...> Date: Wed, 31 Mar 1993 10:27:50 -0500 Subject: Disposal of "Messianic Jewish" literature In going through my (incredibly messy) desk, I came across a flyer that someone handed to me on Ben-Yehuda street in Yerushalaim last year. At the time, I just stuffed in my pocket, and didn't really look at it. Upon looking at it (my reading knowledge of Hebrew is not as good as I would like), it became apparent that it was from "Messianic Jews" (though that's not too clear until the next to last page). My question is, can I just throw it away, or must I send it to a Genizah -- it contains an excerpt from Yeshiyahu containing the 4 letter name Hashem (a few times)? Victor Miller ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Morris Podolak <morris@...> Date: Wed, 31 Mar 93 09:17:26 -0500 Subject: Re: Education of Young Children With regard to the postings on the education of young children, I must agree very strongly with Ben Svetitsky's view. My six year old has no problem in dealing with an omnicient being. I suppose his concept is rather different from the RAMBAM's, but it is pretty good nontheless. When my younger daughter was about five, she too was asking questions that all the classic philosphers ask. Children are capable of quite alot. The difficulty is with the parents. We can't always answer their questions properly. With regard to this I would like to relate a story about the late Rabbi A.H. Lapin z"l, a man whose understanding of the spirit of the Torah always impressed me. One day when he overheard me struggling to find an answer to a five year old's question about the infinite, he asked me what I did when I didn't know an answer. I told him that I generally admitted it. He agreed that it is important to tell a child the truth. He mentioned that a one time he heard a collegue giving a child an answer that was clearly wrong. Rav Lapin afterwards asked how he could give such an answer. The man replied that he knew it was wrong, but a child has to get some sort of answer. Rav Lapin felt that a true answer was preferred, even if it was only "I don't know". It might be useful to combine the "I don't know" with "lets see if we can find someone who does". Any good question should have an answer, if not, it represents a difficulty of Judaism. Moshe ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Danny Farkas <cs922177@...> Date: Thu, 1 Apr 93 02:29:23 -0500 Subject: Question from Haggodoh A friend of mine asked me this question on the haggadah. I haven't really put that much effort into finding an answer, and the few I've heard haven't been that great. I'd appreciate a good answer.... In "Ha Lachma Anya" we say 'This is the bread of affliction that our fathers ate in Egypt.' According to legend, the origin for matzoh is that when b'nei yisroel left Egypt, there was no time for the bread to leaven, so they took it while it was unleavened. According to this, they wouldn't have eaten matzoh until *after* they left Egypt. So what do we mean by saying that they ate 'this bread of affliction in Egypt'? Danny ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Naomi G. Cohen <RVOLF01@...> Date: Tue, 30 Mar 93 21:47:48 IST Subject: Re: Source against Obesity Respecting the question seeking a source against obesity. How about the following which I translate - as transliterating is too tedious: And eating is like with a h>Ner<h (= an oil candle): When one plies on oil it burns; without oil it becomes extinguished. But it is more harmful to put in too much oil than too little; Not to mention that this comes in the way of concentration upon one's Torah study. Unfortunately I don't recall the exact words; and I'm not entirely sure that it is from R. Yehiel the nephew of the Rosh - and this in spite of the fact that I copied it out nicely and hung it up in my kitchen for an entire year. PS Bli neder, after Pessach I'll try to remember to look it up and relay the exact quote. DR. NAOMI G. COHEN SENIOR RESEARCH ASSOCIATE WOLFSON CHAIR OF JEWISH THOUGHT HAIFA UNIVERSITY ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Henry Abramson <abramson@...> Date: Wed, 31 Mar 93 18:02:23 -0500 Subject: T'anat Bechorim - Fast of the First Born Just checked the Mishna Berurah -- something I should have done long ago, really, and found the following regarding the fast of the first born: 1) Although there are several leniencies regarding the nature of the fast (and some stringent opinions, like first-born daughters should also fast, etc) neither the Mehaber (Shulkhan Arukh) nor the Baal Haga (R. Moshe Isserles, for Ashkenazi practice) mention the idea of avoiding the fast _except_ when if falls on Shabat. 2) The only reference here to the reasons for avoiding the fast is in the text of the Mishnah Berurah, where the Hafetz Haim (yud, halfway through) mentions that it depends on the custom of the individual community (minhag ha-mekomot), and he lists several, in the following order: a) there are places which are stringent in this , and therefore if one wishes to eat at a _pidyon ha-ben_ (redemption of the first born) or _brit milah_ (circumcision), one requires permission (hatrah) to do so -- only the father (or sandek, etc.) are allowed to eat without specific permission. Those who get permission to eat must make up the fast after Pesah. b) there are places which are lenient and allow first-born to eat at a seudat mitsvah "even the completion of a tractate"..."even if the first-born did not themselves participate in the learning of the tractate". It seems to me that while it is good to follow in the minhag of the community, my sense of the phraseology of the Hafetz Haim is that fasting is nevertheless the preferred option. Note however that there are many leniencies if one finds the fast too difficult, or if it will ruin the Seder. All references from Mishnah Berurah Taf Ayin, esp. s. Yud. Henry Abramson University of Toronto <abramson@...> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- From: <azz@...> (Ari Z. Zivotofsky) Date: Wed, 31 Mar 93 18:02:29 -0500 Subject: Re: T'anat Bechorim - Fast of the First Born There is an excellent summary of the sources regarding this fast in a (rather lengthy) footnote on P. 120-122 in Minhagei Yisrael Vol 2 by Daniel Sperber. Two comments regarding some issues raised: 1) it is ludicrous to say that one is REQUIRED to find some way not to fast since it is forbidden to fast in Nissan, as someone suggested. The source for both those laws is one and the same. Sofrim 21:1 states: "One does not fast until Nissan has passed, except for the first borns who fast on Erev Pesach." It is therefore clear that this fast is not in violation of the prohibition to fast in Nissan. 2) Sperber points out that there are many who feels that the Yerushalmi (Pesachim, beginning ch. 10) argues on this law. In addition, it was not universally accepted even in the time of the Meiri (Pesachim, P230) who says it was only observed in parts of Germany and France and is not required. In addition many Chassidic Rebbes, even post-Shulchan Orach rejected this fast. These points, plus a number of Shoots he quotes, may be, he postulates the source for being lenient with regards this fast. Ari ----------------------------------------------------------------------
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